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“”No face pic No reply””

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By *reetimeguy OP   Man
21 weeks ago

Wirral

So, to those profiles that carry this kind of line - but don’t have a face pic, and/or not Photo Verid - is this fair approach across the Fab world…?

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By *ittall2020Man
21 weeks ago

Norwich

I tend to think if it's a new profile it's quite possibly someone trying to track down a cheating partner

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By *tephenAndHisPicklenicMan
21 weeks ago

Ends

Not photo verified then don’t message them

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By *herrybakewellCouple
21 weeks ago

Staffordshire

They exist in couples quite alot.

We would ignore their account.

Even more so, those accounts that say they will only show face pics when they feel comfortable.

This isn't blind date, let's not waste each other's time.

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By *issYeuxBleusWoman
21 weeks ago

My boudoir - S Wales

I think everyone should have to be photo verified before being able to have a profile.

But not having public face pics I’d say it’s fair. Process of elimination right.

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By *ot really famousMan
21 weeks ago

monaghan


"So, to those profiles that carry this kind of line - but don’t have a face pic, and/or not Photo Verid - is this fair approach across the Fab world…?"
...rule number one...trust no one

Rule number two...see rule number one...

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By *issmorganWoman
21 weeks ago

Calderdale innit

It's fair as in yes they can ask, but you don't have to send a face pic to them.

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By *ohnny DeeeepMan
21 weeks ago

durham

It’s funny because I just started a similar post kinda.

I don’t think it’s an issue if somebody wants to keep anonymity publicly on this site but wants to make sure that they are attracted to the person messaging them.

However, if that person approaches someone they should live by that same rule that’s in their own bio.

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By *ase4122Man
21 weeks ago

Lancashire

My ugly mug is on show and it doesn't help a jot

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By *outhernC0mfortMan
21 weeks ago

Cumbria

Very least they could do is go into mspaint and use paintbrush to change the default avatar to make it look like them more or less

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By *ot really famousMan
21 weeks ago

monaghan

Goddammit it..I love women with big asses...there...I've said it

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
21 weeks ago

East Sussex

The fab world isn't fair.

If you don't want to do what's asked...don't

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By *reetimeguy OP   Man
21 weeks ago

Wirral


"I think everyone should have to be photo verified before being able to have a profile.

But not having public face pics I’d say it’s fair. Process of elimination right. "

Agree

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By *reetimeguy OP   Man
21 weeks ago

Wirral


"It’s funny because I just started a similar post kinda.

I don’t think it’s an issue if somebody wants to keep anonymity publicly on this site but wants to make sure that they are attracted to the person messaging them.

However, if that person approaches someone they should live by that same rule that’s in their own bio."

Agree

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By *reetimeguy OP   Man
21 weeks ago

Wirral


"It's fair as in yes they can ask, but you don't have to send a face pic to them. "

Fair point - but should all users need to be Photo Verid as a minimum ?

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By *reetimeguy OP   Man
21 weeks ago

Wirral


"My ugly mug is on show and it doesn't help a jot"

I’m oil slick not oil painting 😂

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By *ipstick KissesWoman
21 weeks ago

There and Here


"It's fair as in yes they can ask, but you don't have to send a face pic to them.

Fair point - but should all users need to be Photo Verid as a minimum ?"

I just think you should use Fab judiciously.

I'm not photo verified but I've multiple meet verifications. Which speaks more to my veracity? 🤷‍♀️ That's for the individual user to decide. I'm happy to accept that there may be those who aren't going to interact with me because I'm not photo verified. That's within your power too. If there's something - anything - that doesn't sit right with you about a profile, you have the choice to not interact with it.

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By *reetimeguy OP   Man
21 weeks ago

Wirral


"It's fair as in yes they can ask, but you don't have to send a face pic to them.

Fair point - but should all users need to be Photo Verid as a minimum ?

I just think you should use Fab judiciously.

I'm not photo verified but I've multiple meet verifications. Which speaks more to my veracity? 🤷‍♀️ That's for the individual user to decide. I'm happy to accept that there may be those who aren't going to interact with me because I'm not photo verified. That's within your power too. If there's something - anything - that doesn't sit right with you about a profile, you have the choice to not interact with it. "

Absolutely

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By *ansoffateMan
21 weeks ago

Sagittarius A

Nothing has been fair since playschool.

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By *anonfire96Man
21 weeks ago

Mansfield

It definitely seems to be a wide spread approach. It's a bit like all the profiles that state safe sex only , then post pics and vids having oral sex with multiple cocks without condoms. Most STI,s can be passed on orally.

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By *anonfire96Man
21 weeks ago

Mansfield

I'm photo verified but never ask for meet veries, that being said Im very picky and don't have many meets but tend to have long regular meets, if I see too many veries I won't message. Each to their own. But I also think everyone should have to photo verify before they can use the site. Lots of other sites won't allow you to get any further without.

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By *reyToTheFairiesWoman
21 weeks ago

Carlisle usually

Not having face pics public is different to not sending one privately. A lot of people need a face to know if there's an attraction. A lot of people don't want their face on public here.

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By *AYENCouple
21 weeks ago

Lincolnshire

I don't see brown paper bags around anymore (plastic ones could work, but you have to be really quick), so a face pic with the first point of contact really helps. K.

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By *usicloverseastmidsCouple
21 weeks ago

East Midlands


"It's fair as in yes they can ask, but you don't have to send a face pic to them.

Fair point - but should all users need to be Photo Verid as a minimum ?"

Definitely! It's the easiest thing to do to take a photo of yourself with the date, time, profile name etc and send it to the moderaters for verification. If this rule was applied on Fab, it might even help combat the glut of fake profiles.

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By *reetimeguy OP   Man
21 weeks ago

Wirral


"It's fair as in yes they can ask, but you don't have to send a face pic to them.

Fair point - but should all users need to be Photo Verid as a minimum ?

Definitely! It's the easiest thing to do to take a photo of yourself with the date, time, profile name etc and send it to the moderaters for verification. If this rule was applied on Fab, it might even help combat the glut of fake profiles. "

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple
21 weeks ago

Leeds

At the end of the day I'm never meeting anyone without seeing their face, I don't demand or ask for it upfront but I'd like it quickly - what's the point in speaking for ages to see the face and go no thanks not for me, it's a huge waste of time.

I'm never kissing a face I don't want to look at.

If you don't want to give your face ignore the profiles that ask.

Mrs

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By *inAndTonic21Couple
21 weeks ago

Merseyside

I agree with this ⬆️ - we won’t demand or send one straight away but if chat seems to go in right direction quickly then will share face pics. But if no intention to meet is on the cards from our perspective we will politely say no we ain’t sharing

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By *iss Boot LoverTV/TS
21 weeks ago

Tetbury

Will reply without a face pic but won't meet.

It's a red flag that says timewaster to me. If they won't share a face pic, they won't meet ( not in my experience in any case).

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By *oupleLookingToExploreCouple
21 weeks ago

Liverpool

Don't agree with this. We don't send face pics initially. Anyone who asks this is expecting too much in my opinion. Far too demanding! Too many fakes. No way do we share our face without reason. X

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By *ffervescentMan
21 weeks ago

winfrith


"So, to those profiles that carry this kind of line - but don’t have a face pic, and/or not Photo Verid - is this fair approach across the Fab world…?"
Yep your face is your passport. No face no getting past go in the world of love and sex .

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By *enrietteandSamCouple
21 weeks ago

Staffordshire

We don’t care, if you don’t wanna send one don’t message us.

Simples

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