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Is this cheeky or nah?

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By *ohnny Deeeep OP   Man
15 weeks ago

durham

If you have pics on your profile.

And a profile with zero pics messages you for the first time, and the message is “pics? xxx”

And said person doesn’t send you any pics of them just that message.

And their profile states that you have to send a face pic to them oif you wish to speak to them.

Wouldn’t you find this tremendously cheeky?

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By (user no longer on site)
15 weeks ago

Extremely

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By *rMrs84Couple
15 weeks ago

Doncaster

Honestly I just block them and move on

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By *MisschiefxTV/TS
15 weeks ago

London


"If you have pics on your profile.

And a profile with zero pics messages you for the first time, and the message is “pics? xxx”

And said person doesn’t send you any pics of them just that message.

And their profile states that you have to send a face pic to them oif you wish to speak to them.

Wouldn’t you find this tremendously cheeky?"

I would just ignore the message

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By *issmorganWoman
15 weeks ago

Calderdale innit

I wouldn't engage with them.

I had a man with no public pics at all send me a message wanting to see my face recently, delete

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By *oy4women2Man
15 weeks ago

Langford

Yes it is ridiculous I reckon too. That's why I have stated in my profile that if you ask for a picture then send your photo first please. I think that's fair and makes sense. Because I have had my pics pinched before or something done with them after they asked me for them. Plus if you have a feeling that you might know one another and then they ask you for your picture first, then I'll say no thanks. Send your photo first for bringing the subject up and then asking for my picture. Because I'm not going to reveal myself if I did happen to know that person, so if they want to know so we can move on then they can reveal their picture first I'm afraid. Also people shouldn't ask for someone's picture if they have stated in their profile that they don't want to show their photos because of their small local towns or their work place which is understandable. The person asking should show their photo first and be done with it

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
15 weeks ago

Central

People can think that they are entitled to whatever they want but you don't have to agree with them. They may learn via feedback and results that their approach doesn't get them what they want

Find your way with Fab, that works for you and be grateful whenever anyone makes it abundantly clear that they aren't compatible.

There are all kinds of mad and trashy approaches that people try here. Move on, let them fester

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By *oy4women2Man
15 weeks ago

Langford

Everyone should respect that others would like to have a chat first before they start sending out their photos to anyone else. So stop asking everyone straight away if that's you, and send your pictures first if you want to see theirs

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By (user no longer on site)
15 weeks ago

I would ignore if they send no photos themselves even a body picture is ok but if they can’t send that then I’d rather just not reply

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By *oveandfastWoman
15 weeks ago

Bromsgrove


"If you have pics on your profile.

And a profile with zero pics messages you for the first time, and the message is “pics? xxx”

And said person doesn’t send you any pics of them just that message.

And their profile states that you have to send a face pic to them oif you wish to speak to them.

Wouldn’t you find this tremendously cheeky?"

Without a doubt that is audacious

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By *ust want fun 888Man
15 weeks ago

nearby

I really don’t know why people want to swap pics on this site or any site, if you have stuff uploaded they can see them and if you move to another platform and decide by yourselves that you want to share pics okay with those individuals, I just don’t get this picture swapping thing

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By *rsMxCouple
15 weeks ago

Glasgow

Yeh, that's rude.

Seems like a very common message though

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By *YDB75Man
15 weeks ago

East Yorkie

I have rules on things like that.

No pics of any kind in the first 20 messages and then its a 2 ways street

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By *ot really famousMan
15 weeks ago

monaghan


"If you have pics on your profile.

And a profile with zero pics messages you for the first time, and the message is “pics? xxx”

And said person doesn’t send you any pics of them just that message.

And their profile states that you have to send a face pic to them oif you wish to speak to them.

Wouldn’t you find this tremendously cheeky?"
...I would send Them a strongly worded letter...

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By *ohnny Deeeep OP   Man
15 weeks ago

durham


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Without a doubt that is audacious"

Blooming audacious!

I didn’t know if I was looking at this situation wrong but it is cheekiness of the highest order isn’t it.

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By *ohnny Deeeep OP   Man
15 weeks ago

durham


"I would send Them a strongly worded letter..."

I did, with a Polaroid of my strongest frowney face attached.

Oh wait….. they won didn’t they

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By *tillgame fifeCouple
15 weeks ago

Kirkcaldy

Yep. Seems like someone who just gets a kick out of getting pics and would probably just get ignored.

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By *reetimeguyMan
15 weeks ago

Wirral


"If you have pics on your profile.

And a profile with zero pics messages you for the first time, and the message is “pics? xxx”

And said person doesn’t send you any pics of them just that message.

And their profile states that you have to send a face pic to them oif you wish to speak to them.

Wouldn’t you find this tremendously cheeky?"

Very cheeky, similar post - well said

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By (user no longer on site)
15 weeks ago

Even if they had pictures showing like I do and they sent me that message, I'd not send them fuck all back either 🤣

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By *umagain58Man
15 weeks ago

London

As with lots of things will get different views. I used to have a few photos but removed them as got abused. I still seem to get on ok though but understand not for all

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By *reetimeguyMan
15 weeks ago

Wirral


"Even if they had pictures showing like I do and they sent me that message, I'd not send them fuck all back either 🤣"

Love it - fuck all !!

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