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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTable OP   Couple
15 weeks ago

Leeds

So in some recent conversations it comes to people stating themselves or their man can "sway me" into meeting.

What exactly is ment by sway me?

Why would someone want to push someone who isn't interested in meeting anyway?

Apparently despite being currently allergic to penis certain men can "sway me"

What do you do to sway someone & why do you want to?

Just to note - nothing with a penis will sway me.

Disclaimer - I've fat fingers - grammar police 🖕

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By *ora the explorerWoman
15 weeks ago

Paradise, Herts

Stick my boobs in their face

Seriously though I’ve always been of the mindset that if someone doesn’t want me I don’t want them, even if I did before. So I’d never try and sway someone. Same as I’ve never got the obsessive bunny boiler thing. I can’t understand how you could want someone it they didn’t want you.

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By *ruceyyMan
15 weeks ago

London

When the rhythm something starts to play, dance with me...

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By *sWyldWoman
15 weeks ago

Edinburgh

Sadly there have been occasions (thankfully not anymore) where I may have been prepared to do something in order to please a partner. However it would not have been enjoyable and I'd have regretted it.

So, while it's not for me, I can see how it may happen.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
15 weeks ago

East Sussex

If I have the slightest inkling that someone isn't fully on board with meeting me/us I wouldn't even attempt to change their mind. I walk away from a lot of situations if someone shows disinterest.

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15 weeks ago


"If I have the slightest inkling that someone isn't fully on board with meeting me/us I wouldn't even attempt to change their mind. I walk away from a lot of situations if someone shows disinterest. "

This, pleasure is to be shared not endured to please someone else

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By *ib.Man
15 weeks ago

Hampshire


"If I have the slightest inkling that someone isn't fully on board with meeting me/us I wouldn't even attempt to change their mind. I walk away from a lot of situations if someone shows disinterest. "

I get that in some instances it's playful flirting but in most situations it just shows disinterest and I've unless I've had my mind completely blown, I've got better things to do*.

* I probably don't really have better things to do I just can't be bothered if I'm not valued.

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By *ornycougaWoman
15 weeks ago

Wherever I lay my hat

Some people have a warped idea of their physique or sexual prowess. I met a guy and knocked him back. He started unbuttoning his trousers because he thought if I saw his cock I would change my mind and want to fuck him. I mean seriously... Where was his self respect? And how deluded was he to think I would suddenly be consumed with lust at the sight of his wang?

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By *ruceyyMan
15 weeks ago

London


"Some people have a warped idea of their physique or sexual prowess. I met a guy and knocked him back. He started unbuttoning his trousers because he thought if I saw his cock I would change my mind and want to fuck him. I mean seriously... Where was his self respect? And how deluded was he to think I would suddenly be consumed with lust at the sight of his wang? "

Shit that was gonna be my strategy for you...

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By *issmorganWoman
15 weeks ago

Calderdale innit

Yeah it's annoying.

I'm not currently meeting, yet I get men who say that's cool, we can still chat.

Then they try and push for a meet, they seem to think I won't be able to resist them, I can.

If someone told me they weren't meeting or didn't want to meet me, I'd just accept that.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
15 weeks ago

East Sussex


"If I have the slightest inkling that someone isn't fully on board with meeting me/us I wouldn't even attempt to change their mind. I walk away from a lot of situations if someone shows disinterest.

I get that in some instances it's playful flirting but in most situations it just shows disinterest and I've unless I've had my mind completely blown, I've got better things to do*.

* I probably don't really have better things to do I just can't be bothered if I'm not valued."

Exactly!

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
15 weeks ago

East Sussex


"If I have the slightest inkling that someone isn't fully on board with meeting me/us I wouldn't even attempt to change their mind. I walk away from a lot of situations if someone shows disinterest.

This, pleasure is to be shared not endured to please someone else "

Yes. We've had socials with couples where it's obvious one of them isn't interested. Why would we put ourselves and the disinterested party through it

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By *ell GwynnWoman
15 weeks ago

North Yorkshire

I don't do anything to try to sway anyone. The thought that I might only be getting a pity shag is horrendous.

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTable OP   Couple
15 weeks ago

Leeds


"Stick my boobs in their face

Seriously though I’ve always been of the mindset that if someone doesn’t want me I don’t want them, even if I did before. So I’d never try and sway someone. Same as I’ve never got the obsessive bunny boiler thing. I can’t understand how you could want someone it they didn’t want you. "

I'm the same it baffles me.

Mrs

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTable OP   Couple
15 weeks ago

Leeds


"Some people have a warped idea of their physique or sexual prowess. I met a guy and knocked him back. He started unbuttoning his trousers because he thought if I saw his cock I would change my mind and want to fuck him. I mean seriously... Where was his self respect? And how deluded was he to think I would suddenly be consumed with lust at the sight of his wang? "

What?! That's crazy, we had similar when saying a polite no thank you as she was too young, she then bombarded us with pics and said "this is what your missing" kinda proved my maturity point if nothing else.

Mrs

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