FabSwingers.com forum: What keeps you here

By *iker Jack OP Man
15 weeks ago

Wolverhampton

Based on another thread

What keeps you here?

For those that leave and come back, what brings you back?

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By *ora the explorerWoman
15 weeks ago

Paradise, Herts

I’m nosey

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By *rettCoolMan
15 weeks ago

Dunfermline

Naughty chat mostly .. very few meets

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By *ib.Man
15 weeks ago

Hampshire

Boredom and hop in equal measures.

Plus there's a few good souls scattered around the place that I would miss a little.

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By * WillisMan
15 weeks ago

London

Well to be honest my sock bills astronomical and I’m running out of socks again, so it’s just easier to let you dirty fuckers do it for me

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By *otyouraverageguyMan
15 weeks ago

West mids & n wales

"Boredom and hop in equal measures.

Plus there's a few good souls scattered around the place that I would miss a little."

Ditto!!!

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By * WillisMan
15 weeks ago

London

"Boredom and hop in equal measures.

Plus there's a few good souls scattered around the place that I would miss a little."

Boredom always a great response to why you meet someone for sex

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By *atandjayCouple
15 weeks ago

Brighton

The lovely sexy people we have met

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By *orphia2003Woman
15 weeks ago

Tonypandy.

Boredom, being a nosy cow, having some lovely online friends to chat to and boobies.

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By *issmorganWoman
15 weeks ago

Calderdale innit

The forums and the friends I've made really. I also like to to to the odd social with my other half.

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By *elboy1957Man
15 weeks ago

Weston-super-Mare

To chat and meet like minded people

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By *ornym66Man
15 weeks ago

Col /ips

Hopefully meet up but the forum on sexy real storyline

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By *esthetic21Man
15 weeks ago

Birmingham/Bristol

A good perving lol

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple
15 weeks ago

Leeds

The boobs.

Mrs

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By *onnynclaireCouple
15 weeks ago

Reading

Hope. The hope that we will find people too meet with on somewhat a regular basis for laughs and exploration

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By *onnynclaireCouple
15 weeks ago

Reading

And I used the wrong to. I’m ashamed of myself for letting the team down.

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By *rimson_RoseWoman
15 weeks ago

Tamworth

The forums.

Finding listed events, potential to get chatting to those going and stay in touch with those met on the night.

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By *eroLondonMan
15 weeks ago

Mayfair

What keeps me here? The occasional distractions attributed to sex, the guilty pleasures, the retinue of Åfternoon Teå incumbents and, to some degree because I'm still quite new, the forå.

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By *KBIMALE2025Man
15 weeks ago

WEDNESFIELD, WOLVERHAMPTON

The perving over the pics whilst looking for those elusive meets

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By *bi HaiveMan
Forum Mod
15 weeks ago

Cheeseville, Somerset

I made a deal with the devil.

I can never leave.

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By *onderWomanWlvWoman
15 weeks ago

Wolverhampton

Event listings, the forum, keeping up with existing friends, and very very occasionally making new ones.

I sometimes hide my profile or don't check it for a bit to take a break. I don't delete and come back though as even though I know this is silly, I like that my profile is old/established etc. I've been using this username on the scene for some time now, it feels like it is connected to me in some way.

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By *iker Jack OP Man
15 weeks ago

Wolverhampton

"I made a deal with the devil.

I can never leave. "

Ah yes the deal with the devil…admin…worse unpaid job ever 🤣

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By *idssissyTV/TS
15 weeks ago

Birmingham

Some good chats

Some forum friends

Hope of adventures

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By *bi HaiveMan
Forum Mod
15 weeks ago

Cheeseville, Somerset

"I made a deal with the devil.

I can never leave.

Ah yes the deal with the devil…admin…worse unpaid job ever 🤣"

Oh this was long before I became a mod.

How do you think I got my 12" dick, six pack and long flowing locks......😇😇

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By *MisschiefxTV/TS
15 weeks ago

London

Forums and the hope that I'll connect with the people I'm looking for.

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By *amantha_JadeWoman
15 weeks ago

Newcastle

The forums and their weird and wonderful content

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By *ornycougaWoman
15 weeks ago

Wherever I lay my hat

Depends from day to day. At any given time I may be doing one or more of:

Looking for people to meet

Mooching around the forums

Being an attention seeking whore

Chatting to friends

Looking to see what socials/events are on

Perving over certain profiles

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By (user no longer on site)
15 weeks ago

"Based on another thread

What keeps you here?

For those that leave and come back, what brings you back?"

People that think or feel the same & can relate to things here . nothing special tbh but people here have some sense of freedom here.

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By *enk15Man
15 weeks ago

Evesham

The Boobs.

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By *ickleTheWonderSchlongMan
15 weeks ago

Ends

The hope of a connection and regular sex keeps me here.

The lack of connections, replies and regular sex makes me leave

And the hope of a connection and regular sex makes me come back.

Hosting picnics is also something that I enjoy when I’m here.

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By *illy IdolMan
15 weeks ago

Midlands

It's a great place to pass time and the occasional meet can crop up from that.

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By (user no longer on site)
15 weeks ago

Glutton for punishment

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By *olinOfBathMan
15 weeks ago

Corsham

After nearly five years on Fab, I still get a lot - and I mean a lot - of great sex.

Simples.

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By *illy IdolMan
15 weeks ago

Midlands

"After nearly five years on Fab, I still get a lot - and I mean a lot - of great sex.

Simples."

Talk to me!

What's your secret?

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By *olinOfBathMan
15 weeks ago

Corsham

"After nearly five years on Fab, I still get a lot - and I mean a lot - of great sex.

Simples.

Talk to me!

What's your secret?"

Read the verifications...

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By (user no longer on site)
15 weeks ago

Penis

Friends

Socials

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By (user no longer on site)
15 weeks ago

I like looking at the naked pretty men.

I leave because they sometimes annoy me.

I come back because I like looking at the naked pretty men.

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By *illy IdolMan
15 weeks ago

Midlands

"After nearly five years on Fab, I still get a lot - and I mean a lot - of great sex.

Simples.

Talk to me!

What's your secret?

Read the verifications..."

It's your tongue, isn't it?

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By *rs Myvanwy Scarlet-BlackTV/TS
15 weeks ago

hot wife

Fate and destiny unable to leave now as may miss my soul mate ♥️ plus it can be fun sometimes x

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By *atnip make me purrWoman
15 weeks ago

Reading

Meets and this forum.

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By *oober698Man
15 weeks ago

Lincoln

The hope that one day i can meet folk to connect with.

The content I'm into can be found in here too.

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By *ean directMan
15 weeks ago

havant

Loving the forums and chatting to a range of different people

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By *olinOfBathMan
15 weeks ago

Corsham

"After nearly five years on Fab, I still get a lot - and I mean a lot - of great sex.

Simples.

Talk to me!

What's your secret?

Read the verifications...

It's your tongue, isn't it?"

Oh, dear.

No.

Look again. You read through three or four rave reviews before even seeing any mention of my bedroom talents.

It's about attitude and behaviour...

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By (user no longer on site)
15 weeks ago

Forums for me offer more interaction than the profile section.

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By *a LunaWoman
15 weeks ago

South Wales

The funny posts.

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By (user no longer on site)
15 weeks ago

The thrill of being rejected and blocked by someone new each day

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
15 weeks ago

East Sussex

I like the forums.

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By *electableicecreamMan
15 weeks ago

The West

The prospect of sex

The sex

The craic in the forum is good.

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By (user no longer on site)
15 weeks ago

I often wonder the same and can’t answer

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By *anchesterGuy1Man
15 weeks ago

Manchester

1. I am curious about people and what brings them here....(nosey)

2. Soooo Bored......

3. I like scrolling through the forums

4. The comedy value in the forums, particularly the blocked that moan about not being able to interact with the opposite sex

But most of all, this is a side of life that isn't vanilla, it helps me realise that I am not the only person in the world that wants something more than a curtains closed and lights out sex life!

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By *cedGemWoman
15 weeks ago

your dreams

"Based on another thread

What keeps you here?

For those that leave and come back, what brings you back?"

Boredom mainly

But there are some nice fellas on here too

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By *atch1982Man
15 weeks ago

Abingdon

No idea as I don’t ever manage to arrange meets, but I do quite like the forums and keeping up with friends that I have made from all over the country x

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By (user no longer on site)
15 weeks ago

It is the best way to get on guest lists for the club nights we go to.

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By *lder.Woman
15 weeks ago

Not Local

I really, really want to go to a big fab social meet one day, but only being here about 7 years I still dont quite feel ready. And, I would really, really like some sex again but, I am still dead inside, so when that flutter comes back, I'll be away, skirt up, knickers down again.

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By (user no longer on site)
15 weeks ago

I think hope is what keeps me here lol. I also love seeing the stuff that gets posted, I'm super nosey and think that some of the stuff on here is hot as fuck! I can't stay away

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By *atch1982Man
15 weeks ago

Abingdon

"I think hope is what keeps me here lol. I also love seeing the stuff that gets posted, I'm super nosey and think that some of the stuff on here is hot as fuck! I can't stay away"

It’s the hope that kills you!

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By *inaTitzTV/TS
15 weeks ago

Titz Towers, North Notts

Popular demand

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By *lderflower_AppleWoman
15 weeks ago

Basingstoke

Loneliness mostly. Social anxiety. The chat.

In the absence of physical like-minded folk to hang out with in the flesh (so to speak), this digital world gives me some semblance of a sense of belonging and being with 'my people'.

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By *eliWoman
15 weeks ago

The forums, albeit increasingly less so, my friends. The messages that bring me joy. Socials, quite like those and it's a good way of finding out about them.

I'm actively not looking for anything, really rather content. Life is rather beautiful and all those slightly nauseating sayings.

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By *agatoXXXMan
15 weeks ago

Gone and completely forgotten.

Apathy.

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By *ell GwynnWoman
15 weeks ago

North Yorkshire

The people.

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By (user no longer on site)
15 weeks ago

"I think hope is what keeps me here lol. I also love seeing the stuff that gets posted, I'm super nosey and think that some of the stuff on here is hot as fuck! I can't stay away

It’s the hope that kills you!"

I'd have to agree haha well if nothing ever comes of my time here, it'll still remain my favourite porn site lol

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By *imples24Man
15 weeks ago

tamworth

Noticed a few people saying they are back because they are single again. So suppose if you enter a relationship and it’s not an open one you leave. If it fails you find your way home 🤣

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By *ornyoldbastardMan
15 weeks ago

Blackpool

What keeps me here? Hope, because I'm an optimistic, and I'm hopeful that one day those younger than myself (56) will wake up, and realise what they are really looking for is a _ornyoldbastard like myself! 😂

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By (user no longer on site)
15 weeks ago

Optimism keeps me here and fomo brings me back 😂

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By *riar BelisseWoman
15 weeks ago

Delightful Bliss

Fun friends and lots of socials

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By *punk n gushCouple
15 weeks ago

deal

To chat with friends we have made and to arrange naughty playtime love to meet up with old and new people when on holiday mainly but do have a few locals usually find we have more luck with meets when we go south to the new forest every few months

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By *ellhungvweMan
15 weeks ago

Cheltenham

The sex.

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By *elix SightedMan
15 weeks ago

Cloud 8

I’ve made some good friends on fab with whom I miss talking when not online for a while.

Organised socials have become a good way for me to meet new friends (and occasionally touch a boob).

As a middle aged single guy who lives on his own, doesn’t have social media, and doesn’t see much of his friends or family, the lounge gives me a social life of sorts. Sometimes I have to talk to bellends but one runs that risk in any walk of life.

But the main reason is because it’s now become a competition with myself to see how long it will take to put my winkie in a woman not connected to the forums. It’s now well over a year and the riverbed is dry with no sign of rain. Come on Felix!!! 😆

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By *ife NinjaMan
15 weeks ago

Dunfermline

Boobs. Obviously

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By *inister_SpinsterWoman
15 weeks ago

Manchester(ish).

Fife Ninja, obviously.

😘

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By *ife NinjaMan
15 weeks ago

Dunfermline

"Fife Ninja, obviously.

😘"

💋😍

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By *929Man
15 weeks ago

bedlington

I enjoy the forums if they didn’t exist I’d have fucked off ages ago

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By *elix SightedMan
15 weeks ago

Cloud 8

"I enjoy the forums if they didn’t exist I’d have fucked off ages ago "

And the forums enjoy you old thing 😊

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By (user no longer on site)
15 weeks ago

At this point I'm using it as research for.my psychology degree.

Or maybe a book idea.

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By *lowupdollTV/TS
15 weeks ago

Herts/Beds/Lomdon

Increasingly I’m not sure. That’s the truth of it. Im stil here so clearly I see it as a positive (or I’m just very determined thst it be) but specific reasons? Don’t know.

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By *inky_couple2020Couple
15 weeks ago

North West

"Based on another thread

What keeps you here?

For those that leave and come back, what brings you back?"

I'm wheelchair bound. My hands are tied

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By *ife NinjaMan
15 weeks ago

Dunfermline

"At this point I'm using it as research for.my psychology degree.

Or maybe a book idea. "

Damn Sydney University

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By (user no longer on site)
15 weeks ago

"I’ve made some good friends on fab with whom I miss talking when not online for a while.

Organised socials have become a good way for me to meet new friends (and occasionally touch a boob).

You're the forums favourite teacher though, I'd have thought you'd be knee deep in vagina by now!

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By *hagTonightMan
15 weeks ago

From the land of haribos.

It would be the forum, it is comedy gold

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By *929Man
15 weeks ago

bedlington

"I enjoy the forums if they didn’t exist I’d have fucked off ages ago

And the forums enjoy you old thing 😊"

Thank you mate and likewise x

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By *ittlemissFlirtyCouple
15 weeks ago

Southampton

No idea... I'm a glutton for punishment I suppose lol

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By *obilebottomMan
15 weeks ago

All over

It can be good fun and an escape too. Like chatting to people and of course meeting some of them. There is the odd time ghat you have to hold back from screaming at someone but not often and most people, especially on the forum, are great to interact with

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By *elix SightedMan
15 weeks ago

Cloud 8

"I’ve made some good friends on fab with whom I miss talking when not online for a while.

Organised socials have become a good way for me to meet new friends (and occasionally touch a boob).

You're the forums favourite teacher though, I'd have thought you'd be knee deep in vagina by now! "

Yes but yours doesn’t count and the fact it’ll take a leg doesn’t do me any favours 😆

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By *utieBootyPatootieWoman
15 weeks ago

Here or There abouts

The awesome people here, the bants, the tears the laughter, the forums oh and the nudes

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By *isfits behaving badlyCouple
15 weeks ago

Coventry

Mainly because we still love this lifestyle and this is one on the best places to keep informed about what's going on. Plus we use it a lot to keep in touch with freinds (especially those who we don't keep in contact with over traditional vanilla means). And we do like to be seen and see others.

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By *mmaleiaWoman
15 weeks ago

Trowbridge

"Penis

Friends

Socials

This, but I never get the 1st 2

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By *reggSausageMan
15 weeks ago

derby

I’m here the Amazon Black Friday voucher codes, this is the right places yes….?

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By *iker Jack OP Man
15 weeks ago

Wolverhampton

Some great answers, but my time is coming to an end here

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By *r MzchiefMan
15 weeks ago

Derbyshire

Not a lot. Have met sone lovely people on here but im not hitting anyones checklist. The forums can be funny and occasionally an intetesting thread pops up. My membership runs out at the end of the month, dont think i will renew.

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By *ohnny DeeeepMan
15 weeks ago

durham

I’ll be brutally open and honest.

Me re-arranging my expectations brought me back.

I find it easy to get along with anyone in real life.

Super

Easy

Somebody suggested I’d do well for meeting like minded people on here.

They couldn’t have been more wrong.

Turns out I’m shit at selling myself online.

I liked the idea of verifications because you wouldn’t have to prove yourself to everyone you speak to.

After not managing to get to a meet point with anyone local enough that I was attracted to for the 6 odd months I was here it started to affect my self worth.

Then I had a few nights out, did well my nights out, analysed my fab life and realised that nobody here knows the real me, and online I probably look like every other guy with guy lines.

So now I meet people outside of fab instead.

When I do a few club visits and gain a few veris I’ll start making effort on here.

Until then it’s just a background site I check in on every now and then.

The only thing that actually kept me here was the forum mandems I spoke to privately before.

Which I’m yet to connect with since coming back.

-fin

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By *exycarlashane181Couple
15 weeks ago

Leamington Spa

The thrill of the chase and then the actual meets

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By *anae21Woman
15 weeks ago

Nearer than you think

Unfounded optimism.

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By *exxyyDy11Man
15 weeks ago

Darwen

Some right gems and cool people on here that is why, otherwise I'd have left a while ago.

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By *urry BlokeMan
15 weeks ago

Stalybridge

FOMO

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By (user no longer on site)
15 weeks ago

"Penis

Friends

Socials

This, but I never get the 1st 2"

Why not?

You don't look that scary when I've seen you 🤭🤣

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By *ittlemissFlirtyCouple
15 weeks ago

Southampton

"Some right gems and cool people on here that is why, otherwise I'd have left a while ago. "

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By *weetiepie99Woman
15 weeks ago

cardiff

It's a distraction from everyday stuff

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By *aul.J.JMan
15 weeks ago

Sedgley

As a shyish person it's tough to get the courage to go to clubs alone and meet like minded people so I come on here to see if I can find like-minded people.

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By (user no longer on site)
15 weeks ago

The hope Margot Robbie comes across my profile and immediately falls in love with me

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By *ittlemissFlirtyCouple
15 weeks ago

Southampton

"The hope Margot Robbie comes across my profile and immediately falls in love with me

I'll fight you for her

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By *ookie46Woman
15 weeks ago

Deepest darkest Peru

People and socials

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By *mmaleiaWoman
15 weeks ago

Trowbridge

"Penis

Friends

Socials

This, but I never get the 1st 2

Why not?

You don't look that scary when I've seen you 🤭🤣"

More like deer in headlights

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By *oy4women2Man
15 weeks ago

Langford

Not a lot keeps me here now if I'm honest. The only people I can chat to is men lol that's because I get messages from them trying their luck trying to get something haha it's crazy, eventhough I have got straight guy in my profile lol

To be honest I think the upfront abusive, rude guys who are dick heads have ruined it for the rest of us. By messaging "fancy a fuck" and send cock pics and shit like that. So I don't blame the women who don't wanna message back anymore. Plus they are getting bombarded with messages from guys all day long and they can't read them all, which stops them from replying too. I have always gone through their profiles, because that's the only way I can get to know them a little a see what they are like and what they want, and then I always send a respectable message, but it's basically a waste of time now because of the problems I just mentioned. So again like everyone else's answer for this, is the forums. They are the only reasons why I come on here now and then. To read and check out them, but that's it, which makes me wonder if I want to be here anymore or not??

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By *aul.J.JMan
15 weeks ago

Sedgley

"Not a lot keeps me here now if I'm honest. The only people I can chat to is men lol that's because I get messages from them trying their luck trying to get something haha it's crazy, eventhough I have got straight guy in my profile lol

Agree totally

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By *emonbuttercreamWoman
15 weeks ago

Birmingham

I come here when I'm feeling a bit bored.

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By *haveanicevoiceMan
15 weeks ago

Soggy Middle-Earth (Cumbria)

Miss the 90's and this site reminds me of it plus I like the sexy ad over here ---

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By (user no longer on site)
15 weeks ago

Agree totally "

So true

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By *aughty treatsMan
15 weeks ago

tamworth

It’s the faint hope that kills you! This site used to be au much better than it now is.

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By *ohnny DeeeepMan
15 weeks ago

durham

Yeh I couldn’t co-sign this harder.

Even though my profile stated strongly that I have zero interest in fellas I’d still get it.

1 fella who messaged me for bum fun who I told to read my profile replied with “so why don’t you block all men lol”

Because there are some fellas on the forum that can read a profile and are actually cool to chat with tbh, and I shouldn’t need to block all men because you don’t respect peoples boundaries.

On the flip side, I’d have a bunch off un fabbed pics if it wasn’t for the fellas on fab so every cloud….

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By (user no longer on site)
15 weeks ago

The vage hope that one of those I fancy contacts me and wants me too

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By *oy4women2Man
15 weeks ago

Langford

Agree totally "

Yeah it's a shame really. I blame the men hiding behind their screens at home trying their luck by sending cock photos and saying some really abusive and offensive messages to women because they are complete idiots and cowards in my eyes. What do they think they are gonna get out of it seriously. It's disgusting and they should be reported and blocked straight away for material like that to women. They wouldn't go and talk like that to them in a pub or club or something would they, so why do it here? Because they are sad cowardly little men who have no respect for anything and are most likely still living with their mums house lol I think there should be categories for the messages that are sent to women, so it gives the nice and respectable guys a chance to get a reply and have a chat. For example. For women they get 3 different post categories. In their msg box 1) that's for quick messages like "hi,hey and hello" and that. In msg box 2) they are for the respectable messages, from guys who have read their profiles and have written a proper nice post and has spent time typing it and then in the last box, msg box 3) they are for the idiots who have no respect, who try their luck by being rude and disturbing in my eyes.

This way the ladies have a choice to pick what they want. I think it will cut time for them to read and respond if they like to. They can choose what sort of message they would like to hear there and then and respond to it straight away, saves trying to read through all the messages they get bombarded with every day. Either fabswingers can somehow categorised them all like that but if not, give the option to the people which box they would like to message in. Maybe this will give the real gentleman on here a good chance to find a chat with someone

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15 weeks ago

The chance that one of my threads gets 175 replies

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By *haveanicevoiceMan
15 weeks ago

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"The chance that one of my threads gets 175 replies "

Why don't you just reply to it 174 times

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