FabSwingers.com forum: What pulls you in

By *ean direct OP Man
15 weeks ago

havant

What is the first thing of a profile that interests or disinterests you

Headline

Photos

Veris

Bio etc

I like looking through peoples veris to gage a personally and there types

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By *bi HaiveMan
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15 weeks ago

Cheeseville, Somerset

The whole package.

No one part is more important than another.

Could have great photos but shockingly bad text.

Could seem the ideal, perfectly compatible company until you read the veris.

Could sound good and exactly what you're searching for, til you look past the one good photo they use as a profile pic and get put off by the rest.

Big picture. Not small snapshot. 😉

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By *icecouple561Couple
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15 weeks ago

East Sussex

Pictures

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By *ean direct OP Man
15 weeks ago

havant

When they have a high amount of veris does it put you off or entices you in more

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By *ddie7XXXMan
15 weeks ago

wigan

The excitement of it all just can’t keep away x

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By *endalshaggersCouple
15 weeks ago

Kendal

Generally, I think everyone has a look at photos and videos.

We're more inclined and interested in profiles where someone's bio is clear, but leaves a little intrigue, they seem to be semi active on here, and their photos aren't either cropped beyond belief or blurred/emoji's slapped all over.

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By *lowupdollTV/TS
15 weeks ago

Herts/Beds/Lomdon

Photos. I’m looking for effort and some thought put into them, rather than a physical type. Status can be a turn off or on. Bio again looking for some effort doesn’t have to be ideal but do want a sense of personality. I don’t put much stock in veris really. I don’t much do veris myself so don’t need them from other’s profiles.

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By *bi HaiveMan
Forum Mod
15 weeks ago

Cheeseville, Somerset

"When they have a high amount of veris does it put you off or entices you in more "

Define high?

Someone with 100+ that's been here a decade hasn't actually been that active. 🤷‍♂️

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By *icecouple561Couple
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15 weeks ago

East Sussex

"When they have a high amount of veris does it put you off or entices you in more "

It depends what the veris are like. Mostly social is fine. Mostly praising their sexual prowess puts me right off, I know I wouldn't live up to their track record

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By *ean direct OP Man
15 weeks ago

havant

"When they have a high amount of veris does it put you off or entices you in more

It depends what the veris are like. Mostly social is fine. Mostly praising their sexual prowess puts me right off, I know I wouldn't live up to their track record "

I’m the in the same mindset. You can tell a lot about people from them even the language they use etc

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By *ora the explorerWoman
15 weeks ago

Paradise, Herts

"When they have a high amount of veris does it put you off or entices you in more "

Puts me off. Different if they’re social veris but I wouldn’t be bothered reading them all so I’d move on usually.

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By *atnip make me purrWoman
15 weeks ago

Reading

The bio and location.

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By *ean direct OP Man
15 weeks ago

havant

"When they have a high amount of veris does it put you off or entices you in more

Define high?

Someone with 100+ that's been here a decade hasn't actually been that active. 🤷‍♂️"

Yeah what 1 person thinks is high another doesn’t. High for me is isn’t a number more a sense of we are not suited

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By *anchesterGuy1Man
15 weeks ago

Manchester

Bit of everything for me, obviously we are all searching for our own thing.

But I like to have a read at what is in the actual free text, for me if there is some comedy in there I get the urge to think of a way to reach out to them (if I am within the parameters of what they are looking for of course!). I also send a polite message to people who have been creative with their pics, or their profile text just to acknowledge the time that they have taken to create a good profile.

What I have started to notice a lot of over the last month or so, is how many Internet stock pictures and videos there are on here. I struggle to understand how people get verified so they are able to post videos when the profile is clearly fake?

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple
15 weeks ago

Leeds

Photos initially, then the bio, then themselves.

Mrs

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By *ean direct OP Man
15 weeks ago

havant

"Photos initially, then the bio, then themselves.

Mrs "

Have to say your pics are great so well done

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By *andynecklaceWoman
15 weeks ago

Someplace

Pics

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple
15 weeks ago

Leeds

"Photos initially, then the bio, then themselves.

Mrs

Have to say your pics are great so well done "

Thank you 🙃

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By *MisschiefxTV/TS
15 weeks ago

London

First pics, then bio but it's all together. Bad pics are a big turn off

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By (user no longer on site)
15 weeks ago

Pictures first and then bio ❤️

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By *ean direct OP Man
15 weeks ago

havant

Pictures I would admit is the first as there has to be attraction

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
15 weeks ago

Central

Pics. But if any parts of it are wrong, I quickly move on. But if the pics don't make a man attractive, there's little point in looking further

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By *a LunaWoman
15 weeks ago

South Wales

Dunno. I just know it when I see it.

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By *ora the explorerWoman
15 weeks ago

Paradise, Herts

Height and sexuality, then pics then if there’s no willy in sight and I like the pics it’s bio

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By *eroLondonMan
15 weeks ago

Mayfair

"What is the first thing of a profile that interests you..."

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Her opening message, quite often. And, more often than not, women do send some respectable messages.

The exception being when they send photos of their vaginas. Then it's an instant delete.

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By *viatrixWoman
15 weeks ago

Redhill

Photos

Height

Interesting bio

Nothing is going anywhere if those three things aren’t to my liking.

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By *inky Biscuit DunkerMan
15 weeks ago

Gloucestershire

Photos

A bit of humour in the bio

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By *ean direct OP Man
15 weeks ago

havant

So height is a big pull then

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By *ora the explorerWoman
15 weeks ago

Paradise, Herts

"So height is a big pull then "

Not for everyone. Definitely is for me.

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By *issmorganWoman
15 weeks ago

Calderdale innit

Location first as if they're miles away I'd delete.

There has to be some effort in their bio, so I can get a idea of them and some tasteful pics too.

If I don't like the above, I just delete.

Then I look at their verifications, to see what type of people they seem to meet.

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By *ean direct OP Man
15 weeks ago

havant

"So height is a big pull then

Not for everyone. Definitely is for me. "

Ok so a 5ft 3 brad Pitt wouldn’t cut it then

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By *ora the explorerWoman
15 weeks ago

Paradise, Herts

"So height is a big pull then

Not for everyone. Definitely is for me.

Ok so a 5ft 3 brad Pitt wouldn’t cut it then "

Nope.

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By *ean direct OP Man
15 weeks ago

havant

"So height is a big pull then

Not for everyone. Definitely is for me.

Ok so a 5ft 3 brad Pitt wouldn’t cut it then

Nope. "

We all like what we like

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By *layisbetterwithLaughterMan
15 weeks ago

Stourbridge

Hopefully her

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By *ean direct OP Man
15 weeks ago

havant

"Hopefully her"

No brainer

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By *mmaleiaWoman
15 weeks ago

Trowbridge

Pictures, well written profile, nice forum manner if on the forums

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By *ean direct OP Man
15 weeks ago

havant

"So height is a big pull then

Not for everyone. Definitely is for me.

Ok so a 5ft 3 brad Pitt wouldn’t cut it then

Nope. "

So what’s an acceptable height x

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By *usybee26Woman
15 weeks ago

Londonderry

How they introduce themselves when they first message.

They can write plain English.

High numbers of verifications put me off it's like notches on a bed post

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By *ean direct OP Man
15 weeks ago

havant

"How they introduce themselves when they first message.

They can write plain English.

High numbers of verifications put me off it's like notches on a bed post "

Yeah high veris put me off

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