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" What on earth am I doing wrong ?" Are you asking for profile advice ? | |||
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"9 years I’ve been here and still not had the sex " Liar I know you have | |||
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"9 years I’ve been here and still not had the sex Liar I know you have " And no not with me | |||
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"I’m asking because as a genuine guy, who is respectful, educated, looks after himself and is not atrocious to look at, I have not met anyone in the months I’ve been trying. And this is not just on this site, but two others as well. I am on sites that cost a lot more than this one, but was pointed in this direction as the other site’s seem to cater for more ‘long term’ relationships. However, aside from having my time completely wasted by ‘all greet and no meet’ people, nothing. Zero. Zilch. I really may as well pay for ‘professional services’ on a monthly basis. It would likely cost me less once I’ve not had to cover drinks and hotels. What on earth am I doing wrong, or is it simply a numbers game (not enough women)?" You are doing nothing wrong buddy, believe me. The ratio is ridiculous .. 10 times or more men to women. I'm like you, has always had decent success in the pub because I'm nice guy whose chatty respectful and good company, but on here the ladies don't really value that as it's all about other things. Forget trying to meet on here, you are ten times more likely to find whatever you are looking for on the dating apps, even if it's NSA fwb kink etc than on here. This site is very deliberately set up for the ladies and of course couples, same reasons why the clubs charge a fortune for single guys .. Just resign yourself to the odd fun conversation with the nice ladies and enjoy the pics, anything else is a bonus and rare as hens teeth. Certainly don't beat yourself up about your perceived failings or what some of the fab women tell you is wrong with you.. like any situation, just be you. | |||
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"I've met loads of guys off here but any hint of negativity is a big turn off. (The irony of this given my own profile text is not lost on me!) " Which just goes to show the imbalance in how this site functions. | |||
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"I've met loads of guys off here but any hint of negativity is a big turn off. (The irony of this given my own profile text is not lost on me!) Which just goes to show the imbalance in how this site functions." I disagree. Yes there is an huge imbalance in the ratio of men to women on this site which works in our favour. But - as is posted on the forums on a daily basis - a significant proportion of men on Fab behave as if a woman on here is horny for any old (or young) cock with no effort required on their part. | |||
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"Yup, Complete waste of your time. Use it as a network to events and clubs where you'll get more progression, you'll only ever get stood up and messed around on here " People are standing you up?! Who do they think they are?! 😲😂 | |||
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"Yes people do No I wouldn't respond to your profile Good luck though " Ouch | |||
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"I’m asking because as a genuine guy..." ...we are all genuine, dear fellow. However most of us have the stamp of authenticity. I suggest that you procure that first. "...who is respectful, educated, looks after himself and is not atrocious to look at" ...your countenance and cognition is only half the story "...I have not met anyone in the months I’ve been trying." ... you've only been here 4 weeks. That is an infinitesimal epoch within the realms of Fab. Patience is key. "...And this is not just on this site, but two others as well. I am on sites that cost a lot more than this one, but was pointed in this direction as the other site’s seem to cater for more ‘long term’ relationships. " ...I think you have been misinformed and mislead. Money will not lubricate the apparatus of your success on here. Charm, grace and beguilement will, in measured doses. "However, aside from having my time completely wasted by ‘all greet and no meet’ people, nothing. Zero. Zilch. I really may as well pay for ‘professional services’ on a monthly basis. It would likely cost me less once I’ve not had to cover drinks and hotels. What on earth am I doing wrong, or is it simply a numbers game (not enough women)?" It's a numbers game. Plain and simple. It's not helped by the fact that I have unashamedly claimed, coveted and seduced most of the high calibre maidens and damsels on here, leaving the mediocre ones for the unfortunate few. You will have your opportunity, cometh the hour. | |||
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"You mention spending good money to be here It’s a fiver That fiver does not guarantee you anything at all. People who don’t pay it get meets " Almost a boots meal deal to be fair! | |||
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"You mention spending good money to be here It’s a fiver That fiver does not guarantee you anything at all. People who don’t pay it get meets Almost a boots meal deal to be fair!" But at least you can get something for that fiver 🤣 | |||
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"I’m asking because as a genuine guy, who is respectful, educated, looks after himself and is not atrocious to look at, I have not met anyone in the months I’ve been trying. And this is not just on this site, but two others as well. I am on sites that cost a lot more than this one, but was pointed in this direction as the other site’s seem to cater for more ‘long term’ relationships. However, aside from having my time completely wasted by ‘all greet and no meet’ people, nothing. Zero. Zilch. I really may as well pay for ‘professional services’ on a monthly basis. It would likely cost me less once I’ve not had to cover drinks and hotels. What on earth am I doing wrong, or is it simply a numbers game (not enough women)?" Give it a few years.. | |||
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"Sir, this isn't Just Eat. You can.put an order in and have it delivered to your door! " Poor delivery man if he had to cycle with a couple or a BBW on his back | |||
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"Maybe they are just reading your bio and complying? "if you’ve no intentions of meeting up then please pass me by." Don't worry though. All is not lost... 4 weeks is still you finding your Fab feet. You wait until you enter your 5th week. It's like a veritable fannyfest. You will need a snorkel to navigate the depths of your inbox " Humour and sarcasm in agony aunt form love it . | |||
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"Maybe they are just reading your bio and complying? "if you’ve no intentions of meeting up then please pass me by." Don't worry though. All is not lost... 4 weeks is still you finding your Fab feet. You wait until you enter your 5th week. It's like a veritable fannyfest. You will need a snorkel to navigate the depths of your inbox Humour and sarcasm in agony aunt form love it . " No sarcasm. I'm still wearing my flippers (sorry, 'fins' to proper divers) and I've been here a bit longer. | |||
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"Yet another person who joined what they thought would/should be instashag, failed to immediately secure sex with six stunning filthbags, had a final whinge on the forum expecting sympathy and a few offers, then flounced out the site door. Ha!" I'm just taking it as it goes 🤣. There is no rush | |||
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"Yet another person who joined what they thought would/should be instashag, failed to immediately secure sex with six stunning filthbags, had a final whinge on the forum expecting sympathy and a few offers, then flounced out the site door. Ha!" Or perhaps he's just bagged the six and is set up for life, then flounced to enjoy some MFFFFFF | |||
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"Sir, this isn't Just Eat. You can.put an order in and have it delivered to your door! " Did somebody say JUST EAT | |||
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"Yet another person who joined what they thought would/should be instashag, failed to immediately secure sex with six stunning filthbags, had a final whinge on the forum expecting sympathy and a few offers, then flounced out the site door. Ha!" Six! We feel cheated, we only got 3! | |||
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"Yet another person who joined what they thought would/should be instashag, failed to immediately secure sex with six stunning filthbags, had a final whinge on the forum expecting sympathy and a few offers, then flounced out the site door. Ha!" 🤣🤣🤣 | |||
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" Six! " Well guess He/She/They counted up how many they got on one hand 🖐 and decided they had their fill and site fulfilled its purpose and went UNLOS | |||
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"There’s only one reason I have been using this site for over 12 years now, and that’s to meet likeminded people. I’ve always paid the £5 for silver membership, but nobody has to pay a penny, Fab can be used equally successfully completely free of charge. Don’t pay too much heed to those who bleat on about “Go to a club”…….as a single guy, you will meet more women in your local Wetherspoons, than you will in a swinger club " That's interesting from you given the verifications you've had from meets at clubs. Obviously you want the club ratio in your favour by dissuading other guys from going! | |||
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"There’s only one reason I have been using this site for over 12 years now, and that’s to meet likeminded people. I’ve always paid the £5 for silver membership, but nobody has to pay a penny, Fab can be used equally successfully completely free of charge. Don’t pay too much heed to those who bleat on about “Go to a club”…….as a single guy, you will meet more women in your local Wetherspoons, than you will in a swinger club That's interesting from you given the verifications you've had from meets at clubs. Obviously you want the club ratio in your favour by dissuading other guys from going!" The bulk of my veris from clubs are from hosts, the rest are from couples. You are correct in part; I am happy to dissuade other guys from visiting clubs, if they think they will meet single ladies in there, yes | |||
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"Yup, Complete waste of your time. Use it as a network to events and clubs where you'll get more progression, you'll only ever get stood up and messed around on here People are standing you up?! Who do they think they are?! 😲😂" Think it's 6 in a row now that have messed us about, pointless on here. | |||
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"I’m asking because as a genuine guy, who is respectful, educated, looks after himself and is not atrocious to look at, I have not met anyone in the months I’ve been trying. And this is not just on this site, but two others as well. I am on sites that cost a lot more than this one, but was pointed in this direction as the other site’s seem to cater for more ‘long term’ relationships. However, aside from having my time completely wasted by ‘all greet and no meet’ people, nothing. Zero. Zilch. I really may as well pay for ‘professional services’ on a monthly basis. It would likely cost me less once I’ve not had to cover drinks and hotels. What on earth am I doing wrong, or is it simply a numbers game (not enough women)?" A little resilience goes a lo..oh….wait. Forget it. | |||
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"There’s only one reason I have been using this site for over 12 years now, and that’s to meet likeminded people. I’ve always paid the £5 for silver membership, but nobody has to pay a penny, Fab can be used equally successfully completely free of charge. Don’t pay too much heed to those who bleat on about “Go to a club”…….as a single guy, you will meet more women in your local Wetherspoons, than you will in a swinger club " Who constitute the Wetherspoons equivalent to the "wanking dead', then? 'The drinking d*unk'? | |||
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"Yup, Complete waste of your time. Use it as a network to events and clubs where you'll get more progression, you'll only ever get stood up and messed around on here People are standing you up?! Who do they think they are?! 😲😂 Think it's 6 in a row now that have messed us about, pointless on here. " They're fucking crazy. Id arrive with an erection and a bouquet of flowers | |||
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"Yup, Complete waste of your time. Use it as a network to events and clubs where you'll get more progression, you'll only ever get stood up and messed around on here People are standing you up?! Who do they think they are?! 😲😂 Think it's 6 in a row now that have messed us about, pointless on here. They're fucking crazy. Id arrive with an erection and a bouquet of flowers " Me too .. | |||
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