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By *dgy77 OP   Man
17 weeks ago

manchester

What I don’t get is on here try to have a chat with women and you just get no response what’s the point

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By *bi HaiveMan
Forum Mod
17 weeks ago

Cheeseville, Somerset


"What I don’t get is on here try to have a chat with women and you just get no response what’s the point "

Most people (women, couples and men) will often look at someone's profile before deciding whether to reply to a message.

Nothing of interest for them there and it's highly unlikely they'll bother.

Nobody is entitled to a reply just because you set up a profile and sent a message. You have to make your profile, photos and message interesting enough to warrant one.

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By *tan300Man
17 weeks ago

portsmouth

It’s because it’s such a sausage fest on here.Women can be as choosy as they like can’t they.You read it all the time on their profiles about receiving so many messages that they can’t answer them all.Imagine if it was the other way round I’d never have clothes on again

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By *issmorganWoman
17 weeks ago

Calderdale innit

Op you won't be for all, none of us will.

I always check a profile before I look at a message & if it doesn't appeal to me, I don't reply.

Many women get lots of messages, if they don't use filters, so can't reply to all.

If you feel like your profile represents you in the best way, then keep it as it is. However, it doesn't really give much away and you need to stand out, due to the numbers of men on here.

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By *ohn.Wick.Man
17 weeks ago

The Continental

Would you chat to someone you’re not interested in meeting?

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By *aomilatteCouple
17 weeks ago

Midlands


"What I don’t get is on here try to have a chat with women and you just get no response what’s the point "

Could it be because of your photo with a Lady cropped out?

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By *viatrixWoman
17 weeks ago

Redhill

I like chatting. I spend time on here in between work trips and many times it is just to chat.

So far this morning, I have received these gems:

-Hey xx

- Do you meet

-What are u up to lol

-any plans for the weekend hun

-Are u slutty enough to give me a BJ in the back of my van

5 messages in the span of 10 minutes. Multiply that times 10 in a day. And 99% of those messages are of similar quality. What am I supposed to do with these? I like chat that makes my brain cells interact with each other, feel the electropulses as opposed to them dying a slow and painful death by replying to this drivel….

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By *ornycougaWoman
17 weeks ago

Wherever I lay my hat

Take a hard look at both your profile and the messages you send. Then imagine you are a woman/couple that may get literally 100s of messages. Every. Single. Day.

Do you stand out as that one in a thousand that YOU would want to chat to in those circumstances?

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
17 weeks ago

Central

What's the point in chatting with a man who isn't mutually compatible?

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