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By *aughtythomas42 OP   Man
15 weeks ago

brighton

Why do so many people in this forums feel there should "just say" and try to make you small

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By *rightonsteveMan
15 weeks ago

Brighton - even Hove!

Sorry to hear that. I always stand up for folk from Brighton. Eastbourne can go do one.

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By *nesCouple
15 weeks ago

Milton Keynes, city of dreams

I’m not sure what you mean.

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By *iker JackMan
15 weeks ago

Wolverhampton

If you ask a question you are opening it up to different opinions

Opinions are like arseholes, most people have them

If they differ to yours or mine does that make them judgmental?

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By *r Mind CandyMan
15 weeks ago

Cheshire


"Why do so many people in this forums feel there should "just say" and try to make you small

"

They don’t, most people in the forums are very kind and supportive, it’s just a shame people like you try to take advantage of the nice people on here.

We can see your previous threads and can also see there is a theme of making things up and going for the sympathy.

Just one example

https://m.fabswingers.com/forum/support/1578514

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By *nesCouple
15 weeks ago

Milton Keynes, city of dreams

👏

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By *ohn.Wick.Man
15 weeks ago

The Continental

The green arrow suggests that you simply disagree with some opinions, and you’re calling it ‘being judgemental’.

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By *929Man
15 weeks ago

bedlington


"Why do so many people in this forums feel there should "just say" and try to make you small

"

That was one hell of a sentence mate maybe try again?

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By *aughtythomas42 OP   Man
15 weeks ago

brighton


"Sorry to hear that. I always stand up for folk from Brighton. Eastbourne can go do one. "

Eastbourne is lovely aswell

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
15 weeks ago

The Town by The Cross


"👏 "

Is that a hand clap ? Or washing up gloves ?

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By *nesCouple
15 weeks ago

Milton Keynes, city of dreams

Marigolds, yes.

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
15 weeks ago

The Town by The Cross


"The green arrow suggests that you simply disagree with some opinions, and you’re calling it ‘being judgemental’."

Sort of like opinions being called 'kink shaming' ....

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By *rightonsteveMan
15 weeks ago

Brighton - even Hove!


"Sorry to hear that. I always stand up for folk from Brighton. Eastbourne can go do one.

Eastbourne is lovely aswell

"

Regrettably, my comment was a poorly received attempt at humour. I thought I had some. I realise now, that I do not. Lesson learned. What about Shoreham? Shoreham can fuck off.

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By *ickleTheWonderSchlongMan
15 weeks ago

Ends

Oh God.

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By *iker JackMan
15 weeks ago

Wolverhampton


"👏

Is that a hand clap ? Or washing up gloves ?"

My washing up gloves have more sparkle ✨

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
15 weeks ago

The Town by The Cross


"Why do so many people in this forums feel there should "just say" and try to make you small

"

Thomas - My serious reply is NO ONE can make you feel small ..... have a good time

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
15 weeks ago

The Town by The Cross


"Marigolds, yes. "

I wasn't sure. Aren't they a little short at the wrist ? Hot water seepage n all that

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By *aughtythomas42 OP   Man
15 weeks ago

brighton


"Why do so many people in this forums feel there should "just say" and try to make you small

They don’t, most people in the forums are very kind and supportive, it’s just a shame people like you try to take advantage of the nice people on here.

We can see your previous threads and can also see there is a theme of making things up and going for the sympathy.

Just one example

https://m.fabswingers.com/forum/support/1578514

"

Make things up ?

Lies you mean ?

Sympathy ? I had a stroke and my cock doesn't work "please please give me Sympathy" do you mean ?

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By *aughtythomas42 OP   Man
15 weeks ago

brighton


"Why do so many people in this forums feel there should "just say" and try to make you small

That was one hell of a sentence mate maybe try again? "

Why

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By *nesCouple
15 weeks ago

Milton Keynes, city of dreams


"Marigolds, yes.

I wasn't sure. Aren't they a little short at the wrist ? Hot water seepage n all that"

I mainly use them for amateur proctology.

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By (user no longer on site)
15 weeks ago

Everyone just take a chill pill 😂

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By *rightonsteveMan
15 weeks ago

Brighton - even Hove!


"Everyone just take a chill pill 😂 "
clearly you’ve never been to Eastbourne.

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By *aughtythomas42 OP   Man
15 weeks ago

brighton


"Sorry to hear that. I always stand up for folk from Brighton. Eastbourne can go do one.

Eastbourne is lovely aswell

Regrettably, my comment was a poorly received attempt at humour. I thought I had some. I realise now, that I do not. Lesson learned. What about Shoreham? Shoreham can fuck off. "

Im sure Shoreham people are also nice lol

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By (user no longer on site)
15 weeks ago

OP

I've apologised on your other thread for giving unsolicited profile advice.

I wish you luck

But I won't be interacting with you and your attitude

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By *reyToTheFairiesWoman
15 weeks ago

Carlisle usually

What's the actual problem OP?

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By (user no longer on site)
15 weeks ago

I quite like the forums one of the better features that’s on the site gives you a range of opinions from people who know the site…

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
15 weeks ago

The Town by The Cross

Tom.

That can't be easy to deal with, the stroke , the recovery and loss of functions.... xx

Good on you for being up front and on here.

Best of luck with everything ....

Now have a good time n join in x

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By *ora the explorerWoman
15 weeks ago

Paradise, Herts


"The green arrow suggests that you simply disagree with some opinions, and you’re calling it ‘being judgemental’.

Sort of like opinions being called 'kink shaming' .... "

This always happens. Folk ask for opinions on something they do and if yours doesn’t match theirs you’re kink shaming 🤣🙄

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By *r Mind CandyMan
15 weeks ago

Cheshire


"Why do so many people in this forums feel there should "just say" and try to make you small

They don’t, most people in the forums are very kind and supportive, it’s just a shame people like you try to take advantage of the nice people on here.

We can see your previous threads and can also see there is a theme of making things up and going for the sympathy.

Just one example

https://m.fabswingers.com/forum/support/1578514

Make things up ?

Lies you mean ?

Sympathy ? I had a stroke and my cock doesn't work "please please give me Sympathy" do you mean ?"

Yep exactly, like the fact you are a couple… clearly a made up lie.

If the profile is based on a lie then it’s difficult to believe anything else.

Obviously I would have sympathy for anyone genuine who had a stroke, I just don’t believe anything you say I’m afraid.

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By *aughtythomas42 OP   Man
15 weeks ago

brighton


"What's the actual problem OP?"

To be honest i have no idea sorry

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By *aughtythomas42 OP   Man
15 weeks ago

brighton


"Tom.

That can't be easy to deal with, the stroke , the recovery and loss of functions.... xx

Good on you for being up front and on here.

Best of luck with everything ....

Now have a good time n join in x "

Thank you

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By *rightonsteveMan
15 weeks ago

Brighton - even Hove!


"Tom.

That can't be easy to deal with, the stroke , the recovery and loss of functions.... xx

Good on you for being up front and on here.

Best of luck with everything ....

Now have a good time n join in x "

That reminds me, if I send you a rubber glove into which one of fingers has been filled and ‘used’ will you turn it inside out and video yourself thrwacking off with it?

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
15 weeks ago

The Town by The Cross


"Tom.

That can't be easy to deal with, the stroke , the recovery and loss of functions.... xx

Good on you for being up front and on here.

Best of luck with everything ....

Now have a good time n join in x

That reminds me, if I send you a rubber glove into which one of fingers has been filled and ‘used’ will you turn it inside out and video yourself thrwacking off with it? "

Yes !!! Damn right

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
15 weeks ago

The Town by The Cross


"Marigolds, yes.

I wasn't sure. Aren't they a little short at the wrist ? Hot water seepage n all that

I mainly use them for amateur proctology."

I did my daughters wedding photos ... cheaper

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By *rsMistyPeaksWoman
15 weeks ago

Essex


"Why do so many people in this forums feel there should "just say" and try to make you small

"

If you “just ask” people will “just say”

Some people will try to make you feel small, but ultimately your feelings are your own.

90% of the folk on forums are supportive. Some are brutally honest - but supportive with it.

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By *rightonsteveMan
15 weeks ago

Brighton - even Hove!


"Marigolds, yes.

I wasn't sure. Aren't they a little short at the wrist ? Hot water seepage n all that

I mainly use them for amateur proctology.

I did my daughters wedding photos ... cheaper"

For an anal insertion?

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By *rightonsteveMan
15 weeks ago

Brighton - even Hove!


"Tom.

That can't be easy to deal with, the stroke , the recovery and loss of functions.... xx

Good on you for being up front and on here.

Best of luck with everything ....

Now have a good time n join in x

That reminds me, if I send you a rubber glove into which one of fingers has been filled and ‘used’ will you turn it inside out and video yourself thrwacking off with it?

Yes !!! Damn right "

Oooops! Sorry, wrong person! I’ll keep you in mind though.

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
15 weeks ago

The Town by The Cross


"Marigolds, yes.

I wasn't sure. Aren't they a little short at the wrist ? Hot water seepage n all that

I mainly use them for amateur proctology.

I did my daughters wedding photos ... cheaper

For an anal insertion? "

Sometimes you have to accept the arsehole into the family ...

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
15 weeks ago

The Town by The Cross


"Tom.

That can't be easy to deal with, the stroke , the recovery and loss of functions.... xx

Good on you for being up front and on here.

Best of luck with everything ....

Now have a good time n join in x

That reminds me, if I send you a rubber glove into which one of fingers has been filled and ‘used’ will you turn it inside out and video yourself thrwacking off with it?

Yes !!! Damn right

Oooops! Sorry, wrong person! I’ll keep you in mind though. "

Pfffft .... I only said yes to salve your ego ....... Tart .....

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By *aughtythomas42 OP   Man
15 weeks ago

brighton


"The green arrow suggests that you simply disagree with some opinions, and you’re calling it ‘being judgemental’.

Sort of like opinions being called 'kink shaming' ....

This always happens. Folk ask for opinions on something they do and if yours doesn’t match theirs you’re kink shaming 🤣🙄"

No i think opinions are great on post that asks for people opinions

Its another thing when no one asks or if someone spells something wrong

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
15 weeks ago

The Town by The Cross


"The green arrow suggests that you simply disagree with some opinions, and you’re calling it ‘being judgemental’.

Sort of like opinions being called 'kink shaming' ....

This always happens. Folk ask for opinions on something they do and if yours doesn’t match theirs you’re kink shaming 🤣🙄

No i think opinions are great on post that asks for people opinions

Its another thing when no one asks or if someone spells something wrong

"

It's Wronng

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By *iker JackMan
15 weeks ago

Wolverhampton


"The green arrow suggests that you simply disagree with some opinions, and you’re calling it ‘being judgemental’.

Sort of like opinions being called 'kink shaming' ....

This always happens. Folk ask for opinions on something they do and if yours doesn’t match theirs you’re kink shaming 🤣🙄

No i think opinions are great on post that asks for people opinions

Its another thing when no one asks or if someone spells something wrong

"

So what posts are there that don’t ask a question or seek an opinion?

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By (user no longer on site)
15 weeks ago

Make the forums great again.

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By *rightonsteveMan
15 weeks ago

Brighton - even Hove!


"The green arrow suggests that you simply disagree with some opinions, and you’re calling it ‘being judgemental’.

Sort of like opinions being called 'kink shaming' ....

This always happens. Folk ask for opinions on something they do and if yours doesn’t match theirs you’re kink shaming 🤣🙄

No i think opinions are great on post that asks for people opinions

Its another thing when no one asks or if someone spells something wrong

So what posts are there that don’t ask a question or seek an opinion?"

The ones that say ‘Brighton Steve has a huge cock. FACT.’

No opinion. No argument. No questions.

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By *aughtythomas42 OP   Man
15 weeks ago

brighton


"Why do so many people in this forums feel there should "just say" and try to make you small

They don’t, most people in the forums are very kind and supportive, it’s just a shame people like you try to take advantage of the nice people on here.

We can see your previous threads and can also see there is a theme of making things up and going for the sympathy.

Just one example

https://m.fabswingers.com/forum/support/1578514

Make things up ?

Lies you mean ?

Sympathy ? I had a stroke and my cock doesn't work "please please give me Sympathy" do you mean ?

Yep exactly, like the fact you are a couple… clearly a made up lie.

If the profile is based on a lie then it’s difficult to believe anything else.

Obviously I would have sympathy for anyone genuine who had a stroke, I just don’t believe anything you say I’m afraid. "

Lol your funny

Married for 27 years

Swingers for 20 years

Dyslexic and very very much genuine

Feel free pm for proff

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By *nesCouple
15 weeks ago

Milton Keynes, city of dreams

Are you going to get photo verified as a couple?

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By *iker JackMan
15 weeks ago

Wolverhampton

So this profile you’re using to reply to which is set up as a couples account refers to a couples account you have with your wife and she has a single account

So why is this one a couples account or do you have multiple accounts?

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By *r Mind CandyMan
15 weeks ago

Cheshire


"Why do so many people in this forums feel there should "just say" and try to make you small

They don’t, most people in the forums are very kind and supportive, it’s just a shame people like you try to take advantage of the nice people on here.

We can see your previous threads and can also see there is a theme of making things up and going for the sympathy.

Just one example

https://m.fabswingers.com/forum/support/1578514

Make things up ?

Lies you mean ?

Sympathy ? I had a stroke and my cock doesn't work "please please give me Sympathy" do you mean ?

Yep exactly, like the fact you are a couple… clearly a made up lie.

If the profile is based on a lie then it’s difficult to believe anything else.

Obviously I would have sympathy for anyone genuine who had a stroke, I just don’t believe anything you say I’m afraid.

Lol your funny

Married for 27 years

Swingers for 20 years

Dyslexic and very very much genuine

Feel free pm for proff"

Doesn’t even warrant a reply! But here you go….

Sad little man you are!

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By *r Mind CandyMan
15 weeks ago

Cheshire


"So this profile you’re using to reply to which is set up as a couples account refers to a couples account you have with your wife and she has a single account

So why is this one a couples account or do you have multiple accounts?"

Have a look at the other threads he has posted.

You will the answer to your question is.. because he’s full of shit!

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By *iker JackMan
15 weeks ago

Wolverhampton

And on this account she is 47 but on the other account 48

Something doesn’t stack up

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By *ora the explorerWoman
15 weeks ago

Paradise, Herts


"The green arrow suggests that you simply disagree with some opinions, and you’re calling it ‘being judgemental’.

Sort of like opinions being called 'kink shaming' ....

This always happens. Folk ask for opinions on something they do and if yours doesn’t match theirs you’re kink shaming 🤣🙄

No i think opinions are great on post that asks for people opinions

Its another thing when no one asks or if someone spells something wrong

"

That’s what I said

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By *rightonsteveMan
15 weeks ago

Brighton - even Hove!

I notice my previous post didn’t get any contradictions

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By *allySlinkyWoman
15 weeks ago

Leeds


"

So what posts are there that don’t ask a question or seek an opinion?"

The "change a letter" word games and Wordle/Quordle scores

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By *electableicecreamMan
15 weeks ago

The West

It's Catch 22 for you OP. Bit of a SNAFU really.

If you had posted this from a single male account you can be rest assured the roasting would have been because, you being married, should have posted from a couples account.

For what it's worth I think your approach hasn't helped your case.

Your disability isn't what defines you and sympathy for strangers with unclear origins on fab is in short supply. As you can see for yourself there is no mercy for a story with holes in it.

Maybe come back another day and try to make some friends based on who, not what, you are.

Start fresh with a new account and a few photos. Join in the forum threads and you might find people who like you for you.

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By *ir tootMan
15 weeks ago

Burton-on-Trent

Most people people I've talked to on here have made me feel pretty dam big, not once have I been looked down on or made to feel small.

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By *aughtythomas42 OP   Man
15 weeks ago

brighton


"Are you going to get photo verified as a couple? "

Will you feel better?

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By *inaTitzTV/TS
15 weeks ago

Titz Towers, North Notts

Pops in with a FORUM INSURANCE claim form

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By *ohn.Wick.Man
15 weeks ago

The Continental


"Pops in with a FORUM INSURANCE claim form "

No amount of insurance can cover this one.

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
15 weeks ago

Central

The forum is a small part of Fab, which is a fully opposite that anyone and everyone can and does join. People are drawn here for all kinds of reasons and none of us will be very compatible with most others. Like much on the internet, the anonymity of keyboard warriors can be seen. People must adhere to acceptable behaviour here. Abuse and bullying, for example, would not be in any way acceptable.

We do need to have thick skins to be here, as it can be very tough, for many reasons, away from unacceptable behaviour. Sometimes there are going to be opinions that are uncomfortable to hear.

Ultimately, we each have to determine whether Fab is the right place for ourselves - it will not be for everyone.

In the meantime, it's important that we all call out inappropriate behaviour in Fab, reporting it to Admin.

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By *phrodisiac2000Man
15 weeks ago

oL3

I e had this tonight where’s someone has messaged me then just decided to abuse me

Some people take the high moral ground but live in a bubble of deceit themselves

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By *tan300Man
15 weeks ago

portsmouth


"Why do so many people in this forums feel there should "just say" and try to make you small

They don’t, most people in the forums are very kind and supportive, it’s just a shame people like you try to take advantage of the nice people on here.

We can see your previous threads and can also see there is a theme of making things up and going for the sympathy.

Just one example

https://m.fabswingers.com/forum/support/1578514

Make things up ?

Lies you mean ?

Sympathy ? I had a stroke and my cock doesn't work "please please give me Sympathy" do you mean ?"

That’s made me all paranoid now cos I put something up earlier about some stuff that’s happens to me over past few years I hope people don’t think it was a sympathy thing because it really wasn’t

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By *neeyedwillieMan
15 weeks ago

Darlington


"If you ask a question you are opening it up to different opinions

Opinions are like arseholes, most people have them

If they differ to yours or mine does that make them judgmental?"

It's the internet. There is differing opinions and then there are the arseholes spouting differing ooinions.

Some people are judgemental dickheads because they can be online. There's no repercussion unless they break the site rules.

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By *ffervescentMan
15 weeks ago

winfrith


"Why do so many people in this forums feel there should "just say" and try to make you small

"

are you small ?

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By *urry BlokeMan
15 weeks ago

Stalybridge

The trick is to be judged and not give a fuck about it

Caring about the judgement of others online is just so draining

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By *phrodisiac2000Man
15 weeks ago

oL3


"The trick is to be judged and not give a fuck about it

Caring about the judgement of others online is just so draining

"

This is true take the power a st from the idiots

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By (user no longer on site)
15 weeks ago

Do you post stupid needy posts like a lot of men do.

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By *lowupdollTV/TS
15 weeks ago

Herts/Beds/Lomdon

[Glow wakes up. Starts judging]

Today is going to be a good day.

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By *ora the explorerWoman
15 weeks ago

Paradise, Herts


"The trick is to be judged and not give a fuck about it

Caring about the judgement of others online is just so draining

"

This! The day I get upset about what a bunch of strangers think about what I do and don’t do is the day I need to take a long hard look at myself.

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By *a LunaWoman
15 weeks ago

South Wales

I wouldn’t take it personally OP. A lot of folk on here like to show off their sharp wit and sometimes it’s at the expense of others, unintentionally maybe but sometimes it smarts.

If you want support or advice pertaining to swinging, there is a support and advice section of the forums where ears may be more sympathetic.

However, if you just want to offload your thoughts and feelings then of course the The Lounge is an option, but just remember you’ll need a thick skin!

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By *piritOfWolvesMan
15 weeks ago

Wolverhampton


"Why do so many people in this forums feel there should "just say" and try to make you small

"

How so? Sorry to hear you've had a bad experience, generally these forums are a good laugh.

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By *obilebottomMan
15 weeks ago

All over

Lots and lots of decent people on here and fun to be with in the forums. Caring people too. You get to know those after a while. There are of course a few full of their own importance or behaving with very little integrity but then they are such people everywhere. There are tools to mostly avoid those and as many have said best be ignored anyway or reported if abusive to anyone

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