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By *ickleTheWonderSchlong OP Man
15 weeks ago

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How often would you ideally see them?

How often would you ideally have the sex with them?

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By *enrietteandSamCouple
15 weeks ago

Staffordshire

We found our ideal couple a few years ago and we arrange a weekend together around once every two or three months.

It’s a great arrangement

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By *reyToTheFairiesWoman
15 weeks ago

Carlisle usually

My very most favourite people I only want to see at most 3 times a week. I need my own space. I need to miss the people I adore 💜

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By *ickleTheWonderSchlong OP Man
15 weeks ago

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"We found our ideal couple a few years ago and we arrange a weekend together around once every two or three months.

It’s a great arrangement

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oh I’m glad you found them. That’s lovely.

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By *ickleTheWonderSchlong OP Man
15 weeks ago

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"My very most favourite people I only want to see at most 3 times a week. I need my own space. I need to miss the people I adore 💜"

3 times a week! Fair play!

I love this for you Prey. You’re cool af.

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By *enrietteandSamCouple
15 weeks ago

Staffordshire

"My very most favourite people I only want to see at most 3 times a week. I need my own space. I need to miss the people I adore 💜"

Absence makes the heart grow fonder ❤️

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By *ickleTheWonderSchlong OP Man
15 weeks ago

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"My very most favourite people I only want to see at most 3 times a week. I need my own space. I need to miss the people I adore 💜

Absence makes the heart grow fonder ❤️"

It also makes you a bit sad if you’re a lover boy like me.

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By *enrietteandSamCouple
15 weeks ago

Staffordshire

"We found our ideal couple a few years ago and we arrange a weekend together around once every two or three months.

It’s a great arrangement

oh I’m glad you found them. That’s lovely. "

Thank you pickle, it took quite sometime to find them but has been very worthwhile.

As a wise man used to say here, patience is key

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By *ickleTheWonderSchlong OP Man
15 weeks ago

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^ that’s bad for the brand

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By *wist my nipplesCouple
15 weeks ago

North East Scotland, mostly

That’s kinda an impossible question for me. It depends on so many other factors in my life and their life. I don’t have a one size fits all answer.

Mrs TMN x

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By *ickleTheWonderSchlong OP Man
15 weeks ago

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"We found our ideal couple a few years ago and we arrange a weekend together around once every two or three months.

It’s a great arrangement

oh I’m glad you found them. That’s lovely.

Thank you pickle, it took quite sometime to find them but has been very worthwhile.

As a wise man used to say here, patience is key

I’ve got one more year in me

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By *exyScientistsCouple
15 weeks ago

Castlebar

I think too often is a bad idea...I like the anticipation and build up. At the moment I see my favourite person every couple of weeks and stay in regular contact in between.

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By *ickleTheWonderSchlong OP Man
15 weeks ago

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"That’s kinda an impossible question for me. It depends on so many other factors in my life and their life. I don’t have a one size fits all answer.

Mrs TMN x"

I guess it’s an in an ideal world question. So in an ideal world your schedules align and you’re both ok with your situations etc

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By *reyToTheFairiesWoman
15 weeks ago

Carlisle usually

"My very most favourite people I only want to see at most 3 times a week. I need my own space. I need to miss the people I adore 💜

3 times a week! Fair play!

I love this for you Prey. You’re cool af. "

Aw. Fanks 💋

As for sex, varies. Sometimes I need a visit to be a solid 8 hour fuckfest. Sometimes I'm happy just cuddle up and spend some time together chatting shit and watching obscure old shows. I'm trying to keep the horn a little lower than normal at the moment while someone is recovering, but I like that thriving on frustration, and we can do the big energetic fun when it's less likely to result in death 💜

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By *ickleTheWonderSchlong OP Man
15 weeks ago

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"I think too often is a bad idea...I like the anticipation and build up. At the moment I see my favourite person every couple of weeks and stay in regular contact in between. "

Once every couple of weeks is good. I like that.

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By *G TMan
15 weeks ago

birmingham

Finding a regular fwb first before think about what happens after Lool tough nut to crack this is.

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple
15 weeks ago

Leeds

Ideally - more than I have availability, I've met & we've met some amazing people I'd love to see more often than I can.

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By *wist my nipplesCouple
15 weeks ago

North East Scotland, mostly

"That’s kinda an impossible question for me. It depends on so many other factors in my life and their life. I don’t have a one size fits all answer.

Mrs TMN x

I guess it’s an in an ideal world question. So in an ideal world your schedules align and you’re both ok with your situations etc"

I don’t really deal in ideal world. Cos it’s not a thing and then I just set myself up for frustration. X

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By *iker JackMan
15 weeks ago

Wolverhampton

I think it depends on the relationship you’re in with them.

Whether fwb/fb/more or less

I don’t think there’s a one stop answer also adding in work and distance and other things you do

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By *vaRose43Woman
15 weeks ago

Forest of Dean

Not sure I can answer this.

For swinging partners not so often that things become boring, I love the build up of anticipation and longing. So I guess when diaries align.

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By *electableicecreamMan
15 weeks ago

The West

I see the people I like the most every few weeks and I love when we have time to spend the night doing whatever we want

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By *illy IdolMan
15 weeks ago

Midlands

Ideally I'd meet them more often than we can.

And ideally I'd have sex with them more often than I do.

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By (user no longer on site)
15 weeks ago

Twice a year.

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By *ookie46Woman
15 weeks ago

Deepest darkest Peru

In an ideal world more often and not just for the sex, distance can be a pain but the build up, anticipation and longing always makes me smile

Take opportunities when they arise and make the most of them

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By (user no longer on site)
15 weeks ago

Found my ideal FWB last time last time I was on here (she was married ,so maybe not so ideal) used to see her a couple of times a month,she lived on the west coast, that why I left Fab,but then covid hit ,her circumstances changed and meetings became more difficult and she felt she couldn't carry on with the relationship

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By *cLovin2Man
15 weeks ago

Reading

As often as my wang can accommodate...

Btw pickle, have you managed to get a lady to give your pickle a tickle lately?

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By *cLovin2Man
15 weeks ago

Reading

"Twice a year."

Is that once each during the summer & winter solstice?

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By *ea monkeyMan
15 weeks ago

Manchester (he/him)

It depends on the dynamic and availability. I’m quite time poor because of my job and kids but I try to fit in seeing my partners at least once a week.

If it’s friends, it’s more fluid

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By *ickleTheWonderSchlong OP Man
15 weeks ago

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"As often as my wang can accommodate...

Btw pickle, have you managed to get a lady to give your pickle a tickle lately?"

I have not! Well, nobody from fab

People are hard work

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By *ickleTheWonderSchlong OP Man
15 weeks ago

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"It depends on the dynamic and availability. I’m quite time poor because of my job and kids but I try to fit in seeing my partners at least once a week.

If it’s friends, it’s more fluid "

I feel this.

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By *ickleTheWonderSchlong OP Man
15 weeks ago

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I think I’d see someone once a week and be happy in an ideal world. Once every few weeks would be good too. I think the hardest thing is consistency.

But I’m pretty privileged I have two lovely partners that I spend my life with. I live with my nesting partner and my other partner lives hundreds of miles away so have to be realistic. But I still have space for someone in my life if they stumble in. But that’s IF they do. I’m not hopeful

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By *ea monkeyMan
15 weeks ago

Manchester (he/him)

"I think I’d see someone once a week and be happy in an ideal world. Once every few weeks would be good too. I think the hardest thing is consistency.

At what point would you consider yourself saturated? Is there an ideal number of partners or friends that you’d like to spend your time with?

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By (user no longer on site)
15 weeks ago

All my favourite people are in London so once a month is realistic. If I found a local person, I wouldn't mind seeing them more often than that if we vibe well.

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By *ickleTheWonderSchlong OP Man
15 weeks ago

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"I think I’d see someone once a week and be happy in an ideal world. Once every few weeks would be good too. I think the hardest thing is consistency.

At what point would you consider yourself saturated? Is there an ideal number of partners or friends that you’d like to spend your time with? "

Well I think the risk of saturation comes from seeing too many people too often. You can see more people more casually and less people more seriously with similar time commitment. I definitely have time to see someone weekly or every other week. Definitely something more casual than that given that my only time commitment for a partner outside of my nest is currently monthly or so.

If that makes sense

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By *ickleTheWonderSchlong OP Man
15 weeks ago

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"All my favourite people are in London so once a month is realistic. If I found a local person, I wouldn't mind seeing them more often than that if we vibe well."

You’re leng.

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By *hastity_roseTV/TS
15 weeks ago

Nowhere

If I found the person I was able to be with they have me 24/7

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By *bi HaiveMan
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15 weeks ago

Cheeseville, Somerset

"How often would you ideally see them?

How often would you ideally have the sex with them?

I'm not looking for one person so in some ways it's irrelevant.

I'd love to see more of my partner but 'distance' and 'work' get in the way.

I have a regular friend I see a couple of times a week, sometimes more, sometimes less depending on how busy we are. But there are others I see less frequently and am always open to new acquaintances. 🤷‍♂️

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By *ornycougaWoman
15 weeks ago

Wherever I lay my hat

Tricky one and it depends. The right amount would have me wanting to see them more often than I was doing to maintain that delicious feeling of excitement and anticipation

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By *ell GwynnWoman
15 weeks ago

North Yorkshire

In an ideal world they'd live close enough to see once a week. We'd also ideally have sex each time apart from when I'm on my period, when we'd just hang out and enjoy each other's company. The friendship aspect of an FWB arrangement is very important to me.

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By *eroLondonMan
15 weeks ago

Mayfair

If past experiences are anything to go to by then probably twice a year (sadly). This is attributed to the Fab Curse™ because every perfect person has been 100s of miles away from London.

London is the antithesis of nirvana when it comes to finding one's perfect paramour.

In fact, that's me being polite: London is f**ked.

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By *ickleTheWonderSchlong OP Man
15 weeks ago

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"If past experiences are anything to go to by then probably twice a year (sadly). This is attributed to the Fab Curse™ because every perfect person has been 100s of miles away from London.

London is the antithesis of nirvana when it comes to finding one's perfect paramour.

In fact, that's me being polite: London is f**ked."

Couldn’t agree with you more. London is shit. No Chance you find what you’re looking for here.

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By *eroLondonMan
15 weeks ago

Mayfair

"If past experiences are anything to go to by then probably twice a year (sadly). This is attributed to the Fab Curse™ because every perfect person has been 100s of miles away from London.

London is the antithesis of nirvana when it comes to finding one's perfect paramour.

In fact, that's me being polite: London is f**ked.

Couldn’t agree with you more. London is shit. No Chance you find what you’re looking for here. "

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Brother-Pete-on-the-Street, I stopped looking around the cobbled streets of ye olde London Towne years ago. Even my Saved Search - which I rarely use - has the "within" set to 75 miles.

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By *anchesterGuy1Man
15 weeks ago

Manchester

Liking this thread

Me myself, depends on distance, once every week if close enough or once every couple of weeks

Be happy just to meet just in a social aspect if can't arrange a proper meet 😊

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By *ickleTheWonderSchlong OP Man
15 weeks ago

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"If past experiences are anything to go to by then probably twice a year (sadly). This is attributed to the Fab Curse™ because every perfect person has been 100s of miles away from London.

London is the antithesis of nirvana when it comes to finding one's perfect paramour.

In fact, that's me being polite: London is f**ked.

Couldn’t agree with you more. London is shit. No Chance you find what you’re looking for here.

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Brother-Pete-on-the-Street, I stopped looking around the cobbled streets of ye olde London Towne years ago. Even my Saved Search - which I rarely use - has the "within" set to 75 miles.

I’ve gone 50 miles but tempted to go 75. But I don’t really want another long distance relationship if I was to stumble into a relationship at all

Fair play to you. You’re committed to finding your happiness.

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By *ickleTheWonderSchlong OP Man
15 weeks ago

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"Liking this thread

Me myself, depends on distance, once every week if close enough or once every couple of weeks

Be happy just to meet just in a social aspect if can't arrange a proper meet 😊 "

Such an underrated thing, just meeting to hang out together so you get to see one another.

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By *MisschiefxTV/TS
15 weeks ago

London

I'm only really looking for one off's on here. So once I guess

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By *imples24Man
15 weeks ago

tamworth

Suppose it depends on her circumstances and what she’s wants but ideally a few times a week. Maybe even some socials thrown in

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By *a LunaWoman
15 weeks ago

South Wales

Once or twice a month. Distance dependent.

I generally don’t do overnight meets.

If the sex is awesome and there is great chemistry you sometimes hanker after more frequent bonks, but life and stuff etc.

Nothing is written in stone though.

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By *andT2023Couple
15 weeks ago

in the middle

More than i do ..but life gets in the way.

Not so frequent it gets boring !

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By *rHotNottsMan
15 weeks ago

Dubai & Nottingham

Really hard to give a simple answer.

Localish fb, weekly

National fb, monthly

National or international non regular type 2-6 times a year

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By *ensuallover1000Man
15 weeks ago

Somewhere In The Ether…

I’d like to have sex with them everyday but see them once a week.

….um…maths isn’t my strongest subject…. 😜

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By *riar BelisseWoman
15 weeks ago

Delightful Bliss

We all rotate weekends, so I see them separately on average once a month

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By (user no longer on site)
15 weeks ago

If it’s a FWB perhaps twice a week with some socials if time and life allows.

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By *uriousscouserWoman
15 weeks ago

Wirral

Fortnightly overnighters tends to be the frequency that suits me best. Often enough to feel involved, not so often as to feel relationshippy.

I do have a great FB I see maybe every 6-8 weeks. We spend a full weekend together and it works well - it's horses for courses depending on the person and our availability.

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By *oubleswing2019Man
15 weeks ago

Colchester

We were friends with a poly couple for a while, and non-sex socialised with them every 3-4 weeks. Every 2 months we'd have a "special" party at home. That felt about right. Then covid happened, everyone went in to lock down, the places we frequented closed, or changed when they reopened, and none of the old social groups meet anymore, apart from at weddings or funerals.

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By *inky_couple2020Couple
15 weeks ago

North West

"If past experiences are anything to go to by then probably twice a year (sadly). This is attributed to the Fab Curse™ because every perfect person has been 100s of miles away from London.

London is the antithesis of nirvana when it comes to finding one's perfect paramour.

In fact, that's me being polite: London is f**ked.

Couldn’t agree with you more. London is shit. No Chance you find what you’re looking for here. "

Sometimes, London comes up smelling of roses. Or some kind of moisturiser.

But to answer the question, I'd like to say at least fortnightly or even more, assuming distance wasn't a thing. Even monthly would be better than I can manage now.

I do want the Sex but also friendship and fun and frolics. Or footy. That's also good.

I'm not so demanding tbh.

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By *L4ck DI4moNdWoman
15 weeks ago

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By *mmaleiaWoman
15 weeks ago

Trowbridge

If an FBW, then no less than once a fortnight, if more, twice a week

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By *omRachCouple
15 weeks ago

Wirral

Prior to COVID we met a guy from here who saw to Rach's needs very very well and I think she would have no qualms with seeing him on a much more regular basis where it possible.

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By (user no longer on site)
15 weeks ago

No idea. It’s an alien concept to me.

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By (user no longer on site)
15 weeks ago

Ideal world, twice a week,

One wild night or all day, and then one gentle cosy evening.

I'm lucky I've got everything I need.

(Well, in fantasy land I don't have to work, and so 6 days a week with a spare day for me)

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By *urry BlokeMan
15 weeks ago

Stalybridge

I'm not looking for one person

2 or 3 people that are able to meet when our diaries align would be great, along with the odd newbie / random thrown in for variety

I don't seek a bond either - just people who I find attractive and like the same type of meets as me

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By *sWyldWoman
15 weeks ago

Edinburgh

I have yet to find the "one" if I ever do then I'll want to see them, spend time with them as much as possible.

Friends with benefits wise- I'm so very out of practice these days and life is incredibly busy,so i lack time and logistics can often get in the way.

Something to look forward to once every few weeks would probably be my ideal scenario.

Must build up my little black book

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By (user no longer on site)
15 weeks ago

Ideally someone to see regular once or twice a month and would only see that person(or couple) should i be lucky enough to find them

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By (user no longer on site)
15 weeks ago

I’d love to have a regular to go on an adventure with, at least a couple of times a week, but wouldn’t be my decision alone depends on the other party also

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By *osey WalesMan
15 weeks ago

In an ideal world, if i met the perfect partner i'd see them every day. If it was that perfect and we both wanted the same things and had the same outlook and interests, we'd move in together

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By (user no longer on site)
15 weeks ago

Yup till she’s had enough of me

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By *eliWoman
15 weeks ago

I've never looked for anyone. No desire to. But I understand the sentiment. So let's say there's a person I've not been looking for but they've come back in to my life after I doubted myself years ago and missed out on something wonderful.

As often as possible. Sometimes that might be after fortnight, others once a month. Maybe even a week apart. I'd find it difficult if it was longer than six/seven weeks because I'd really like their company.

Sex wise... they'd be more than a human dildo to me but I also imagine the sex would be that perfect blend of intimate, primal and loving. Sometimes I'd want to get out and do things but it would mean less time alone with them and wrapped in their arms. Maybe not every time. Maybe.

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By *ickleTheWonderSchlong OP Man
15 weeks ago

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"I've never looked for anyone. No desire to. But I understand the sentiment. So let's say there's a person I've not been looking for but they've come back in to my life after I doubted myself years ago and missed out on something wonderful.

I feel you. Thanks for playing along

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