FabSwingers.com forum: Offended

By (user no longer on site) OP
15 weeks ago

I may get some stick here but hey ho,

Is it awful of me to ask if a man is nice and clean , would you men be offended I asked and block me x 🫣🫣

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By *reyToTheFairiesWoman
15 weeks ago

Carlisle usually

Nice and clean is kind of a bare minimum expectation. It'd feel like asking someone of they can be bothered to do the bare minimum. Which does feel a little rude.

I do expect people to be nice and clean. If they're not then it simply doesn't progress beyond a hello. I don't think I'd ask in advance. If they haven't the frame of mind to consider that by themselves then we're not compatible 💜

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By *r_BrightSparkMan
15 weeks ago

Barnet

It should be a minimum standard for everyone shouldn’t it?

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By *ora the explorerWoman
15 weeks ago

Paradise, Herts

"Nice and clean is kind of a bare minimum expectation. It'd feel like asking someone of they can be bothered to do the bare minimum. Which does feel a little rude.

I agree with all this

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By (user no longer on site)
15 weeks ago

"I may get some stick here but hey ho,

Is it awful of me to ask if a man is nice and clean , would you men be offended I asked and block me x 🫣🫣"

Why would that offended. If it did then I'm guessing they are manky.

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By *vaRose43Woman
15 weeks ago

Forest of Dean

"Nice and clean is kind of a bare minimum expectation. It'd feel like asking someone of they can be bothered to do the bare minimum. Which does feel a little rude.

This.

The bare minimum is that someone arrives freshly showered and clean. If they’re coming straight from work then they can shower in the hotel.

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By *ora the explorerWoman
15 weeks ago

Paradise, Herts

"I may get some stick here but hey ho,

Is it awful of me to ask if a man is nice and clean , would you men be offended I asked and block me x 🫣🫣

Why would that offended. If it did then I'm guessing they are manky. "

If it was me I wouldn’t be offended but I’d probably block as it would slightly annoy me. But I do block for petty reasons. They’ve only got to say one word I don’t like and they’re gone

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By (user no longer on site)
15 weeks ago

"I may get some stick here but hey ho,

Is it awful of me to ask if a man is nice and clean , would you men be offended I asked and block me x 🫣🫣"

I would not be offended in the slightest. For the record I always make sure I’m showered and smelling nice. Love my L’Ocitane men’s collection

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By *assion8Man
15 weeks ago

Glasgow

You shouldn't even need to ask that question, it should be a given!

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple
15 weeks ago

Leeds

Asking if I'd had or wouod have a wash before the sex I always find really off it's literally the minimum.

In my personal experience those who state "good hygiene" tend to be the worst for good hygiene.

Mrs

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By (user no longer on site) OP
15 weeks ago

I only asked as my last meet was horrendous, I turned and left, it has put me off meets x

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By *ellhungvweMan
15 weeks ago

Cheltenham

I wouldn’t be offended. Would you be offended if I asked the same of you OP?

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By *herrybakewellCouple
15 weeks ago

Staffordshire

You'd think it went without saying really.....but this is fab, you have to make it clear.

We wouldn't be offended.

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By *r TriomanMan
15 weeks ago

Chippenham Malmesbury area

"Asking if I'd had or wouod have a wash before the sex I always find really off it's literally the minimum.

In my personal experience those who state "good hygiene" tend to be the worst for good hygiene.

Mrs "

Double standards on Fab? Surely not!

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By *ora the explorerWoman
15 weeks ago

Paradise, Herts

Thing is. If you were to have said are you clean? They’re very unlikely to say nah I stink and I don’t wash. 🤷‍♀️

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By (user no longer on site) OP
15 weeks ago

"I wouldn’t be offended. Would you be offended if I asked the same of you OP?"

Not at all

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By *allySlinkyWoman
15 weeks ago

Leeds

Maybe he thought you were asking him if he was clean of illegal substances.

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By * perfect GentMan
15 weeks ago

here there and everywhere

"I may get some stick here but hey ho,

Is it awful of me to ask if a man is nice and clean , would you men be offended I asked and block me x 🫣🫣"

It's good manners for a Gentleman to turn up at a meet fresh clean and smelling good

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By (user no longer on site) OP
15 weeks ago

Yes was probably not the best thing to say, thanx for replies guys x

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By *ondiego85Man
15 weeks ago

nottingham

"I may get some stick here but hey ho,

Is it awful of me to ask if a man is nice and clean , would you men be offended I asked and block me x 🫣🫣"

Absolutely no. I would expect the same from you, it’s the bare minimum!

If they block you for this, they’re probably a crusty cob and you’re not missing anything

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By *ickleTheWonderSchlongMan
15 weeks ago

Ends

No I’d just ask if you were clean, showered and moisturised and if you weren’t one of those things I’d block you.

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By *reyToTheFairiesWoman
15 weeks ago

Carlisle usually

"No I’d just ask if you were clean, showered and moisturised and if you weren’t one of those things I’d block you. "

Some of us just have perfect skin Steve 💜

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By *urnedoutniceagainMan
15 weeks ago

louth

For me it seems a pointless question because some guys will think they are nice and clean despite having poor hygiene so would answer yes anyway.

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By *phrodisiac2000Man
15 weeks ago

oL3

"I may get some stick here but hey ho,

Is it awful of me to ask if a man is nice and clean , would you men be offended I asked and block me x 🫣🫣"

It’s a expected thing why would anyone not be

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By *ickleTheWonderSchlongMan
15 weeks ago

Ends

"No I’d just ask if you were clean, showered and moisturised and if you weren’t one of those things I’d block you.

Some of us just have perfect skin Steve 💜"

🤔 what do you mean by that 👀

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By *uenevereWoman
15 weeks ago

Scunthorpe

"I may get some stick here but hey ho,

Is it awful of me to ask if a man is nice and clean , would you men be offended I asked and block me x 🫣🫣"

If you suspect they aren't, why would you even engage with them?

Sadly, those with poor personal hygiene are often blissfully unaware of it, so asking is probably not helpful anyway.

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By *illy IdolMan
15 weeks ago

Midlands

"I may get some stick here but hey ho,

Is it awful of me to ask if a man is nice and clean , would you men be offended I asked and block me x 🫣🫣

Why would that offended. If it did then I'm guessing they are manky.

If it was me I wouldn’t be offended but I’d probably block as it would slightly annoy me. But I do block for petty reasons. They’ve only got to say one word I don’t like and they’re gone "

Manchester is blue💙

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By *avinci4Man
15 weeks ago

East Midlands

"I may get some stick here but hey ho,

Is it awful of me to ask if a man is nice and clean , would you men be offended I asked and block me x 🫣🫣

Why would that offended. If it did then I'm guessing they are manky.

If it was me I wouldn’t be offended but I’d probably block as it would slightly annoy me. But I do block for petty reasons. They’ve only got to say one word I don’t like and they’re gone "

Nice to see a lady admit that you block for petty reasons. Most ladies actually do the same but justfy it as some massive reason. One wrong word is easy to write/say as there are more wrong words than correct ones. All I'm saying is, for petty reasons, you might be screening out more good ones than you ladies think

. If you are bathing in gold, one coin makes no difference, right.

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By *r TriomanMan
15 weeks ago

Chippenham Malmesbury area

"No I’d just ask if you were clean, showered and moisturised and if you weren’t one of those things I’d block you.

Some of us just have perfect skin Steve 💜"

You have perfect everything PTTF!

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By *eroLondonMan
15 weeks ago

Mayfair

I suppose in this day and age anyone who lives/loves north of the North Pennines needs reminding of their ablutions. 🛀🏻

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By (user no longer on site) OP
15 weeks ago

Yes I know I regret asking now, 🫣🫣🫣

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By *MisschiefxTV/TS
15 weeks ago

London

No, I always make a point of mentioning it before a meet. I have very delicate senses, if someone's not clean I would be too grossed out and sick from the smell to have sex anyway. If they take offence to it then that's not someone I would want to do anything with anyway.

As prey said, being clean is the absolute base line minimum.

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By (user no longer on site)
15 weeks ago

"I may get some stick here but hey ho,

Is it awful of me to ask if a man is nice and clean , would you men be offended I asked and block me x 🫣🫣"

It's the bare minimum to expect but I don't think it's rude to ask, and I wouldn't take any offence.

I had a meet with someone who may have washed that morning, but certainly hadn't before the meet that afternoon and they'd been working outside in the sun... I asked them to giving it a quick freshen up and although it still went ahead, a cloud had been cast

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By *elix SightedMan
15 weeks ago

Cloud 8

"I may get some stick here but hey ho,

Is it awful of me to ask if a man is nice and clean , would you men be offended I asked and block me x 🫣🫣"

I wouldn’t be offended and I don’t expect anyone in this forum would be either, because we’re (almost) all decent people with high(ish) standards. But I imagine the reaction could be different from some of the pond life floating around this site.

I think it’s a shame you have to ask any human if they’ve washed before having relations, but maybe some context would soften the question ie “Last week I met someone who was lovely in our messages but unclean when we met. What’s your approach to meet hygiene?”

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By *elix SightedMan
15 weeks ago

Cloud 8

For what it’s worth, I have a shower every month whether I need it or not.

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By *end1Man
15 weeks ago

southend on sea

No OP I don't think it's rude to ask and judging by some other posts I've seen where people have been dirty smelly or house is a tip.i would keep asking.

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By *ife NinjaMan
15 weeks ago

Dunfermline

Before I go on a meet, I have a bath, shave, deodorant, body spray, aftershave and eat enough mints to sink the fox's glacier!

Common decency really

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By *MisschiefxTV/TS
15 weeks ago

London

"For what it’s worth, I have a shower every month whether I need it or not."

Looks like we've got some aristocracy over here lording it up with their bath every month.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
15 weeks ago

"No OP I don't think it's rude to ask and judging by some other posts I've seen where people have been dirty smelly or house is a tip.i would keep asking."

That is exactly why I asked, had a bad experience, but yes I could of put the question better than I did x

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By *hGlobbitsMan
15 weeks ago

Leeds

I feel like "please wash your cock" is a very reasonable request.

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By *ora the explorerWoman
15 weeks ago

Paradise, Herts

"I may get some stick here but hey ho,

Is it awful of me to ask if a man is nice and clean , would you men be offended I asked and block me x 🫣🫣

Why would that offended. If it did then I'm guessing they are manky.

If it was me I wouldn’t be offended but I’d probably block as it would slightly annoy me. But I do block for petty reasons. They’ve only got to say one word I don’t like and they’re gone

Manchester is blue💙"

🤣🤣. Omg! Gone

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By *ora the explorerWoman
15 weeks ago

Paradise, Herts

"I may get some stick here but hey ho,

Is it awful of me to ask if a man is nice and clean , would you men be offended I asked and block me x 🫣🫣

Why would that offended. If it did then I'm guessing they are manky.

If it was me I wouldn’t be offended but I’d probably block as it would slightly annoy me. But I do block for petty reasons. They’ve only got to say one word I don’t like and they’re gone

. If you are bathing in gold, one coin makes no difference, right."

Probably. But yeah I’m petty.

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By (user no longer on site)
15 weeks ago

I wouldn't be offended but it's an odd question to ask as it should be a given. I'd make the assumption that I look like I smell

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By *ase4122Man
15 weeks ago

Lancashire

Who doesn't keep themselves clean

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By *iker JackMan
15 weeks ago

Wolverhampton

This is why I always have a social first before anything else may or may not happen

If you asked me if I was clean and hygienic I’d actually block you for no other reason than for me that is a basic minimum standard

However you don’t have to justify or explain how you run your account

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
15 weeks ago

East Sussex

Would you be offended op if a man asked you if you were nice and clean?

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By *atnip make me purrWoman
15 weeks ago

Reading

It's a pointless question as who would answer in the negative regardless of the truth? So better not to ask.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
15 weeks ago

"Would you be offended op if a man asked you if you were nice and clean?"

I wouldn't no, I'd even show them my recent sti test results as I do between meets, not that I have that many meets

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By *ellinever70Woman
15 weeks ago

Ayrshire

I wouldn't be offended

Nor would I actually answer

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By *iker JackMan
15 weeks ago

Wolverhampton

"Would you be offended op if a man asked you if you were nice and clean?

I wouldn't no, I'd even show them my recent sti test results as I do between meets, not that I have that many meets"

Ah I read this wrong as I took nice and clean as meaning hygiene not sexual health

Maybe that’s where some of the confusion is happening

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By *ungandMan
15 weeks ago

daveyhulme

"I may get some stick here but hey ho,

Is it awful of me to ask if a man is nice and clean , would you men be offended I asked and block me x 🫣🫣"

It should be a given that people are clean and smell nice for a meeting

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
15 weeks ago

East Sussex

"Would you be offended op if a man asked you if you were nice and clean?

I wouldn't no, I'd even show them my recent sti test results as I do between meets, not that I have that many meets"

Oh you meant clean as in free of sti.

Tbh I'd assume anyone asking me in those words meant do I shower regularly. I wouldn't be offended but I wouldn't reply either

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By *ackformore100Man
15 weeks ago

Tin town

"I may get some stick here but hey ho,

Is it awful of me to ask if a man is nice and clean , would you men be offended I asked and block me x 🫣🫣"

Would you mind if someone asked you the same question? I can't imagine anyone asking strangers thinking of getting up close and personal if they are clean and smell great would be troubled by the question. But as with most things, context is important.

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By *ayRyuMan
15 weeks ago

Harrogate

Wouldn't be offended at all but that's because I know I look after myself.

I'm sure there's some who certainly don't.

On both sides of the equation.

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By *ad NannaWoman
15 weeks ago

East London

You need to be clear of what you're asking.

I knew a man in the real world who said he gives blood so doesn't need to get STI checked as they test the blood he's donated.

Another said he goes by the results of the women he's had sex with. If they are negative then so is he.

The problem I have with my STI results is I gave my real name and the link shows it to whoever I share it with, so they have to believe me when I say they were all negative, if I don't want them knowing my name yet.

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By *ot really famousMan
15 weeks ago

monaghan

"I may get some stick here but hey ho,

Is it awful of me to ask if a man is nice and clean , would you men be offended I asked and block me x 🫣🫣

Why would that offended. If it did then I'm guessing they are manky.

If it was me I wouldn’t be offended but I’d probably block as it would slightly annoy me. But I do block for petty reasons. They’ve only got to say one word I don’t like and they’re gone "
....sorry..I had to block you..you said a word I didn't like..(wouldn't)...

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By (user no longer on site)
15 weeks ago

No offence taken, you'd expect cleanliness as standard

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By *hoc TitanMan
15 weeks ago

Peterborough/ London

If you don’t wash your disgusting..end off…no exceptions!

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By *ora the explorerWoman
15 weeks ago

Paradise, Herts

"I may get some stick here but hey ho,

Is it awful of me to ask if a man is nice and clean , would you men be offended I asked and block me x 🫣🫣

Why would that offended. If it did then I'm guessing they are manky.

If it was me I wouldn’t be offended but I’d probably block as it would slightly annoy me. But I do block for petty reasons. They’ve only got to say one word I don’t like and they’re gone ....sorry..I had to block you..you said a word I didn't like..(wouldn't)...

Ah well. Must admit I’ve never blocked forum folk. I find that too petty even for me. Just general fab folk who send stupid or vile messages

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By *illy IdolMan
15 weeks ago

Midlands

When asked this question, has anyone ever answered no?

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By *ayRyuMan
15 weeks ago

Harrogate

"When asked this question, has anyone ever answered no?"

Not anyone sane I would hope

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By *eneralKenobiMan
15 weeks ago

North Angus

Always go with the wire brush and detol before a meet, it’s only fair

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By *illy IdolMan
15 weeks ago

Midlands

"When asked this question, has anyone ever answered no?

Not anyone sane I would hope"

It's tough enough to get a shag as it is, without admitting you're a trap.

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By *exyScientistsCouple
15 weeks ago

Castlebar

If you have to ask then I'm thinking that they won't be the sort if person you'd want to meet anyway. At least that's how I'd feel 😳

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By *ungandMan
15 weeks ago

daveyhulme

"I may get some stick here but hey ho,

Is it awful of me to ask if a man is nice and clean , would you men be offended I asked and block me x 🫣🫣

Why would that offended. If it did then I'm guessing they are manky.

Ah well. Must admit I’ve never blocked forum folk. I find that too petty even for me. Just general fab folk who send stupid or vile messages "

To be honest people block for any reason no matter how clean friendly, well dressed a person is . It’s easier to block than a simple no thanks not interested.

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By (user no longer on site)
15 weeks ago

"I may get some stick here but hey ho,

Is it awful of me to ask if a man is nice and clean , would you men be offended I asked and block me x 🫣🫣"

I wouldn't even ask tbh , l'd say it straight out if the lady in chatting didn't mention it , hygiene is just something that's important to both , if one party isn't cutting the mustard in that depth , not for you after all who wants to have sex with someone that doesn't care about their hygiene , if people don't care about their hygiene well off they go & have Sex.

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By *neeyedwillieMan
15 weeks ago

Darlington

Basic hygiene shouldn't even be a question.

I wouldnt even dream of going on a meet or to the club without a good scrub up everywhere before I go and I would expect the same of any women I meet.

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By *electableicecreamMan
15 weeks ago

The West

I wouldn't be offended but if someone asked me if I was clean I'd take it as a red flag and leave it there.

Sorry to hear a bad experience made you feel that way OP

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By *izzy69Man
15 weeks ago

London

"I may get some stick here but hey ho,

Is it awful of me to ask if a man is nice and clean , would you men be offended I asked and block me x 🫣🫣"

The thing is though, who would say no he's not?

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By *electableicecreamMan
15 weeks ago

The West

I didn't read down far enough before replying. I thought this was about personal hygiene.

In the case of STI testing no I wouldn't be offended. You can absolutely ask. I offer this information freely to anyone new I meet. It's partly for their reassurance and partly a polite way for me to ask them what their current status is.

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By (user no longer on site)
15 weeks ago

I’d say will be clean after you have sucked the cheese off

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By (user no longer on site)
15 weeks ago

I'm more reading this as asking about their sti testing status.

Instead of using soap and water 🤣

Could be wrong, but it's a fair question either way.

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By (user no longer on site)
15 weeks ago

You have a right to ask anything it's your gig if you make the first move but even if you didn't I would still ask, I do and get blocked lol

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By *ripfillMan
15 weeks ago

Paris, New York, Hong Kong and Havant

Absolutely right to ask ….

OP … it’s very important for a number of reasons

Cleanliness is next to Godliness…. In summary

Good you should ask !

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By *ackformore100Man
15 weeks ago

Tin town

"I'm more reading this as asking about their sti testing status.

Instead of using soap and water 🤣

Could be wrong, but it's a fair question either way. "

But if it looks and smells clean its got no STIs right?

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By *rafter69Man
15 weeks ago

upminster

I thought you shouldnt need to ask to be fair

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By (user no longer on site)
15 weeks ago

"I'm more reading this as asking about their sti testing status.

Instead of using soap and water 🤣

Could be wrong, but it's a fair question either way.

But if it looks and smells clean its got no STIs right? "

According to some people's way of thinking on fab - of course that is correct! 🫣

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By *ot really famousMan
15 weeks ago

monaghan

"I may get some stick here but hey ho,

Is it awful of me to ask if a man is nice and clean , would you men be offended I asked and block me x 🫣🫣

Why would that offended. If it did then I'm guessing they are manky.

Ah well. Must admit I’ve never blocked forum folk. I find that too petty even for me. Just general fab folk who send stupid or vile messages "
...im joking of course

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By *piritOfWolvesMan
15 weeks ago

Wolverhampton

I wouldn't take offence at all. I take a lot of pride in being clean and neat.

How would a woman react with the same question?

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By *ohnny DeeeepMan
15 weeks ago

durham

I think if you are a normal fella that doesn’t realise how grim some fellas can be then you might find it offensive.

I think after you speak to enough women and find out how grim some fellas can be you start to understand their point of view.

Along with a lot of other things that wouldn’t even come to mind normally.

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By *ggdrasil66Man
15 weeks ago

Saltdean

I would agree that a high standard of personal hygiene is required at the very least. So nice and clean is hardly offensive.

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By *ornycougaWoman
15 weeks ago

Wherever I lay my hat

"Would you be offended op if a man asked you if you were nice and clean?"

I would. I'd be thinking "do I actually look like a skanky old soap dodger?" (understand I'm leaving myself open to replies of "yes you do"

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By *elix SightedMan
15 weeks ago

Cloud 8

"Would you be offended op if a man asked you if you were nice and clean?

I would. I'd be thinking "do I actually look like a skanky old soap dodger?" (understand I'm leaving myself open to replies of "yes you do"

) "

You’re not *that* skanky dear.

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By *ools and the brainCouple
15 weeks ago

couple, us we him her.

What's that smell

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By *ornycougaWoman
15 weeks ago

Wherever I lay my hat

"Would you be offended op if a man asked you if you were nice and clean?

I would. I'd be thinking "do I actually look like a skanky old soap dodger?" (understand I'm leaving myself open to replies of "yes you do"

)

You’re not *that* skanky dear."

Tbh I get more offended at the term "dear"

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By *ffervescentMan
15 weeks ago

winfrith

"I may get some stick here but hey ho,

Is it awful of me to ask if a man is nice and clean , would you men be offended I asked and block me x 🫣🫣"
Wouldn't offend me but I guess it may offend some .

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
15 weeks ago

Central

I'd be asking for specifics, of when they'd showered. Nice and clean is a bit too subjective. A dirty finger probably will answer that he is, if he has had more than 2 showers in his whole life and once washed his hands after the loo.

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By *rHotNottsMan
15 weeks ago

Dubai & Nottingham

Honestly if a woman asked me that I’d assume she’s had some really bad experiences , made some awful choices and I’d avoid her.

There’s some things you don’t need to ask, you use your eyes , ears and judgement

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
15 weeks ago

The Town by The Cross

Hi O.P.

It is not offensive.

1. Those that take it as such are hypervigilant types who automatically look for insult in every comment throughout all days. Their ego's are fragile and damaged and they have to go to such lengths to make you feel as if you have asked an offensive question.

2. For me .... it would depend on how you asked. How you worded it. If it sounded accusatory or disgusted or high fallutin' and snotty nosed.. but it would be the attitude i'd reject not the question.

3. I'm with YOU don't take anything as a given. Why waste your time meeting a stinker.

If being recently washed in every crevice is a must for you then do what you did and ASK .... or just state that you clean all yours , and you had to decline a person once because he was not washed. Or ask him his take on hygeine....

Stick to your guns....

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15 weeks ago

The Town by The Cross

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By *eroLondonMan
15 weeks ago

Mayfair

Grånny still uses Pears™ soap from the 1920s. Fåçt. ❣️

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15 weeks ago

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By *otwifeHusband888Couple
15 weeks ago

Within touching distance

"I may get some stick here but hey ho,

Is it awful of me to ask if a man is nice and clean , would you men be offended I asked and block me x 🫣🫣"

I wouldn't be offended I'd be concerned about what would make you think I wasn't "nice and clean"

We expect people to be clean. Now you have me worried 😂😂

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
15 weeks ago

The Town by The Cross

"Grånny still uses Pears™ soap from the 1920s. Fåçt. ❣️"

Nero .. never a truer word spoken

AND .... a good hot soap up with Wrights Coal Tar ..... seriously

In my kitchen always bars of Imperial Leather ..... I'm such a traditional bitch

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By *andadbodMan
15 weeks ago

Liverpool

you should ask, from experience with the mrs some of the guys we’ve had round have been far from it 🤢

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By *ackformore100Man
15 weeks ago

Tin town

"Grånny still uses Pears™ soap from the 1920s. Fåçt. ❣️

Nero .. never a truer word spoken

AND .... a good hot soap up with Wrights Coal Tar ..... seriously

In my kitchen always bars of Imperial Leather ..... I'm such a traditional bitch"

I thought you'd use camay?

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By *rightonsteveMan
15 weeks ago

Brighton - even Hove!

my grandmother always would use carbolic soap. It used to go in my eyes and all. I didn’t cry when she died.

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
15 weeks ago

The Town by The Cross

"Grånny still uses Pears™ soap from the 1920s. Fåçt. ❣️

Nero .. never a truer word spoken

AND .... a good hot soap up with Wrights Coal Tar ..... seriously

In my kitchen always bars of Imperial Leather ..... I'm such a traditional bitch

I thought you'd use camay? "

Disowned that back in the late 60's. A beautifully creamy soap with a heavy perfume....... took the bloody skin off your face.

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
15 weeks ago

The Town by The Cross

"my grandmother always would use carbolic soap. It used to go in my eyes and all. I didn’t cry when she died. "

I love the big block of red carbolic....... that and Flash powder.

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
15 weeks ago

The Town by The Cross

Uhmmmmmmm I think the thread is being highjacked with soap chat....

Down with offensive questions !!! Rahhhhhh

That should fix it

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By *rightonsteveMan
15 weeks ago

Brighton - even Hove!

"my grandmother always would use carbolic soap. It used to go in my eyes and all. I didn’t cry when she died.

I love the big block of red carbolic....... that and Flash powder.

Yes, I recall now. It was a huge block of soap. She would rub it directly on my face.

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By *ggdrasil66Man
15 weeks ago

Saltdean

If someone was to turn up all stinky, you should tell em to eff off. Seriously, there is no excuse, I doubt even a brass would entertain em.

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