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Did someone at work find my profile?

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By *x Smith OP   Man
15 weeks ago

East Lancs

Something weird...

Names and details changed for privacy.

I think someone at work has found me on another sexy website known as FL or Fet among its users. I get push notifications from the site on my phone when someone likes or comments on my stuff. I got a ping yesterday. It said one of your posts/pics has got a like from FettishFrank78. I know someone at work called Frank, about my age, mid 40s.

I grow Carolina Reaper chillis -- the hottest variety you can grow at home. About 6 weeks ago, as they began to ripen, I took photos and posted 2 to my FL profile (I like pain, but I associate it with food, not sex). I also showed "Frank" the two photos of my chillis and accidentally, a photo of me dressed in a work in progress kink outfit, basically a rainbow striped mesh body-stocking dress and red banana-hammock. (Since then, the outfit has been expanded to include red PVC bolero, red PVC schoolgirl skirt with built-in stocking-suspenders and red PVC stockings, plus belt, shoes and a clutch-purse shaped like red lips.)

When I looked for the account that had pinged me, I couldn't find it, like I had been blocked or the user had removed their account. I think "Frank" had second thoughts about contacting me through FL. Why he did in the first place? Maybe to reassure me that being a kinky fecker is pretty normal, and not to feel too ashamed of flashing him by non-binary attire. Or he didn't notice that it was me until after he'd pinged me.

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By *oodmessMan
15 weeks ago

yumsville

So, you grow chilli's, you showed someone your chilli's, you posted pics of your chilli's on a site. You also showed a colleague a picture of you dressed up. You got a message, deleted by ulos.

You think as you know a Frank, Frank would set up a username, knowing you get pinged, doing it in enough time for you to see the ping, but delete their profile before you could see it or them. This, as well as Frank searching tinternet for a guy dressed up posting chilli pics within two weeks to give you a sign?

I'd say co-incidence but you could always ask Frank

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By *oodmessMan
15 weeks ago

yumsville

*six week.

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By *x Smith OP   Man
15 weeks ago

East Lancs

I'd say co-inky-dinky too. I haven't used that other site much, but I'm assuming...

If a person blocks another, it appears to the blocked person that the blocker's account doesn't exist. Therefore, somebody called "Frank" expressed an opinion on my profile, a like or a comment, which has since disappeared, they blocked me, and they're either Frank I work with, or they have other motivations unknown to me, to connect then block. Puzzling.

But if it is co-worker, the chronology I imagine is, at one time or another, we both created a profile each on FL. Then I accidentally show him a photo I'd rather not have. Then 6 weeks later, he chances upon my profile, reacts to it, changes his mind, deletes his like/ comment and blocks me.

In work, no comment ever made about kinky pic, but if we're waiting for a kettle to boil, conversations return to chillis.

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By *oodmessMan
15 weeks ago

yumsville

I suspect if you started to grow lemons he'd be chatting to you about them, pic or no pic. People message and delete messages and profiles all the time. I doubt him seeing a pic of you in whatever would set of a trail of site searching, pic hunting, profile making, and message deleting just to give signs.

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By *a LunaWoman
15 weeks ago

South Wales

I think you may be overthinking this.

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By *allySlinkyWoman
15 weeks ago

Leeds


" if we're waiting for a kettle to boil, conversations return to chillis."

Why don't you invite Frank round to look at your chillies ?

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By (user no longer on site)
15 weeks ago

From your profile, if someone wanted to identify you they could do it quite easily. You have photos of your face unblurred, and even the blurred ones can be unblurred using free AI tools. Then just bang the photo of your face into a search utility and hey presto, we know who you are.

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By *esthetic21Man
15 weeks ago

Birmingham/Bristol

"Accidentally"

Ok I believe you

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By *rHotNottsMan
15 weeks ago

Dubai & Nottingham

Do you grow Carolina reapers in the UK?

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By *x Smith OP   Man
15 weeks ago

East Lancs

In a "greenhouse" just large enough for two plants.

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