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By (user no longer on site) OP   
15 weeks ago

Last week I commented on a forum that was “Controversial Opinions” My opinion was some BBW’s preferring skinny men. It’s something I’ve never understood until a recent message in my inbox. She said “There’s no point both of us being big, both our bellies will get in the way”. Fair point I guess, still a bit harsh though. I guess we like what we like.

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By *reyToTheFairiesWoman
15 weeks ago

Carlisle usually

Are we only allowed to like the same body type that we have ourselves?

Fuck knows where I'm supposed to find a man with a 24inch waist to a 44inch arse.

And I'm not sure that would work on a masculine body anyway.

Why is it harsh?

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
15 weeks ago

East Sussex


"I guess we like what we like. "

You said it!

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By *ora the explorerWoman
15 weeks ago

Paradise, Herts

I quite like a fit gym bod. Go figure 🤣🤣

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By (user no longer on site)
15 weeks ago

That's why for me a mental connection is needed , body type is body type but the mind ...oooohhh the mind ..now that's a different thing altogether..if both rock it..🚀🚀 😈😈😈

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By *inky_couple2020Couple
15 weeks ago

North West

I seem to like a range of body types 🤷🏻‍♀️

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By *sWyldWoman
15 weeks ago

Edinburgh

For me I like all sorts of body types because I am attracted to the person they belong to.

However my insecurity does often make me wonder why super attractive "gym fit" types sometimes apparently like me!

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By *hGlobbitsMan
15 weeks ago

Leeds


"For me I like all sorts of body types because I am attracted to the person they belong to.

However my insecurity does often make me wonder why super attractive "gym fit" types sometimes apparently like me! "

I'm not a super attractive gym fit type, but I reckon I know the answer to that question...

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
15 weeks ago

East Sussex


"For me I like all sorts of body types because I am attracted to the person they belong to.

However my insecurity does often make me wonder why super attractive "gym fit" types sometimes apparently like me! "

For the answer to your second paragraph see your first paragraph

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By *ickleTheWonderSchlongMan
15 weeks ago

Ends

I don’t care that’s funny

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By *vaRose43Woman
15 weeks ago

Forest of Dean

I’m attracted to the person more than their body.

If we could only meet people with the same body type, where would I find a man with thunder thighs and an arse I can rest a pint on?

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By *ickleTheWonderSchlongMan
15 weeks ago

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"Are we only allowed to like the same body type that we have ourselves?

Fuck knows where I'm supposed to find a man with a 24inch waist to a 44inch arse.

And I'm not sure that would work on a masculine body anyway.

Why is it harsh?"

I think it’s more the shock that people might not find a similar body type attractive or desirable which on the surface is fair to be shocked by.

And I think it was seen as harsh because she’s saying he’s fat? And that’s the reason that she’s rejecting him? I can see why someone might find that harsh.

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By (user no longer on site)
15 weeks ago

Prefer a guy with some timber than a skinny one with ripped muscles he needs to be cuddly and tatts is a bonus

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By *hGlobbitsMan
15 weeks ago

Leeds


"I’m attracted to the person more than their body.

If we could only meet people with the same body type, where would I find a man with thunder thighs and an arse I can rest a pint on?"

*Waves*

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By *lex CoxMan
15 weeks ago

Porth

Love all sorts of shapes and sizes It's the persons character I tend to admire more especially if they can make me smile.

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By *reyToTheFairiesWoman
15 weeks ago

Carlisle usually


"Are we only allowed to like the same body type that we have ourselves?

Fuck knows where I'm supposed to find a man with a 24inch waist to a 44inch arse.

And I'm not sure that would work on a masculine body anyway.

Why is it harsh?

I think it’s more the shock that people might not find a similar body type attractive or desirable which on the surface is fair to be shocked by.

And I think it was seen as harsh because she’s saying he’s fat? And that’s the reason that she’s rejecting him? I can see why someone might find that harsh. "

I think it bothers me more when some gym fit adonis is seen as being charitable by fucking a fat bird. Even though it's simply the body type he's attracted to.

Why is it fair to be shocked by? It's sort of a weird idea that just because people have similar body types they should be into one another. Same for skin tones. If someone gets a bad haircut are they required to stop liking people with good haircuts?

Just because I'm a big old narcissist who finds little hotter than fellow pale as fuck fat bottomed Amazons in fishnets doesn't mean I expect other people to be the same way.

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By *oveandfastWoman
15 weeks ago

Bromsgrove


"For me I like all sorts of body types because I am attracted to the person they belong to.

However my insecurity does often make me wonder why super attractive "gym fit" types sometimes apparently like me! "

Oooof absolutely relate to this!

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By *he Silver FuxMan
15 weeks ago

Uttoxeter


"Last week I commented on a forum that was “Controversial Opinions” My opinion was some BBW’s preferring skinny men. It’s something I’ve never understood until a recent message in my inbox. She said “There’s no point both of us being big, both our bellies will get in the way”. Fair point I guess, still a bit harsh though. I guess we like what we like. "

Don’t listen to her making derogatory comments about your belly, you’re bigger than that

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By *ora the explorerWoman
15 weeks ago

Paradise, Herts


"Last week I commented on a forum that was “Controversial Opinions” My opinion was some BBW’s preferring skinny men. It’s something I’ve never understood until a recent message in my inbox. She said “There’s no point both of us being big, both our bellies will get in the way”. Fair point I guess, still a bit harsh though. I guess we like what we like.

Don’t listen to her making derogatory comments about your belly, you’re bigger than that "

🤣

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By *ickleTheWonderSchlongMan
15 weeks ago

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I admit to liking all body types and previously finding it strange that people didn’t find body types similar to their own attractive. All that’s changed is, I simply don’t care anymore what they find attractive or not. Do I think there’s reasons we don’t like fat bodies or see them as desirable, even if we ourselves are fat? Yes. Do I care to have that debate? No.

If you think I’m too fat for you, we’re a bad match for many reasons.

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By *ickleTheWonderSchlongMan
15 weeks ago

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"Are we only allowed to like the same body type that we have ourselves?

Fuck knows where I'm supposed to find a man with a 24inch waist to a 44inch arse.

And I'm not sure that would work on a masculine body anyway.

Why is it harsh?

I think it’s more the shock that people might not find a similar body type attractive or desirable which on the surface is fair to be shocked by.

And I think it was seen as harsh because she’s saying he’s fat? And that’s the reason that she’s rejecting him? I can see why someone might find that harsh.

I think it bothers me more when some gym fit adonis is seen as being charitable by fucking a fat bird. Even though it's simply the body type he's attracted to.

Why is it fair to be shocked by? It's sort of a weird idea that just because people have similar body types they should be into one another. Same for skin tones. If someone gets a bad haircut are they required to stop liking people with good haircuts?

Just because I'm a big old narcissist who finds little hotter than fellow pale as fuck fat bottomed Amazons in fishnets doesn't mean I expect other people to be the same way."

I think the shock is that, for some, I think not liking body types similar to your own (on the surface) feels like not liking your own or not seeing beauty or desirability in it. I’m not saying that’s the case but I think I’m not going to get mad at that surface level assumption. Especially not if someone says ‘fair enough though’.

On the skin tone thing I dunno. There’s plenty of debates amongst Black people though about not finding other Black people attractive. These conversations are a thing. They happen. So like I said, I’m not shocked

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By (user no longer on site)
15 weeks ago

Myself and my wife are both big belly havers and many people who have had sex with us also had big bellies and not a single time has two big bellies ever gotten in the way.

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By (user no longer on site)
15 weeks ago

You just don’t get enough in a six pack why I have a keg

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By (user no longer on site)
15 weeks ago

I think that big bellies are so sexy, i can imagine being in between both.

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By *heelerMan
15 weeks ago

Northants


"I quite like a fit gym bod. Go figure 🤣🤣"

That counts me out.

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By *isfits behaving badlyCouple
15 weeks ago

Coventry

I'm a man who carries the baggage of a lust for good food and drink. However I've never found my dimensions a significant disadvantage when it comes to dating or when here as a single guy. I've tended to have been fairly successful I think with women of various dimensions over the years.

I've always taken people as I've found them and dress size is not a huge factor in my attraction. I hate this notion of beauty leagues and the upset when people seek or play outside of these supposed leagues. Or when they get butt hurt because they think someone of their perceived league or lower rejects them. It reminds of a social media couple who get so much hate and cynicism because she's a big woman and he's a ripped gym bod. I find it so sad when people have such a limited and childish ideas of attraction and the factors that make a great match between two people (on a causal or serious basis). I feel sorry for them.

Yes people have preferences and the larger man is not always the most popular. I'm sure for some I am to big. However to me success (or not) has always boiled down more to character, values and the ability to be comfortable in your own skin.

Mr

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By *a LunaWoman
15 weeks ago

South Wales

I’m a fatty and I’m quite partial to a bigger guy. So long as one of you isn’t a pillow princess then no belly is insurmountable, you just have to experiment a bit. Which is fun

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By *ickleTheWonderSchlongMan
15 weeks ago

Ends


"I’m a fatty and I’m quite partial to a bigger guy. So long as one of you isn’t a pillow princess then no belly is insurmountable, you just have to experiment a bit. Which is fun "

Sounds hot. I’m in.

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By *a LunaWoman
15 weeks ago

South Wales


"I’m a fatty and I’m quite partial to a bigger guy. So long as one of you isn’t a pillow princess then no belly is insurmountable, you just have to experiment a bit. Which is fun

Sounds hot. I’m in. "

Wish you were! I could use a could pickling

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By *ickleTheWonderSchlongMan
15 weeks ago

Ends


"I’m a fatty and I’m quite partial to a bigger guy. So long as one of you isn’t a pillow princess then no belly is insurmountable, you just have to experiment a bit. Which is fun

Sounds hot. I’m in.

Wish you were! I could use a could pickling "

I’ve been waiting for you to say that

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By *ase4122Man
15 weeks ago

Lancashire


"For me I like all sorts of body types because I am attracted to the person they belong to.

However my insecurity does often make me wonder why super attractive "gym fit" types sometimes apparently like me! "

I'm not 'gymfit' and certainly like you

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By *ase4122Man
15 weeks ago

Lancashire


"I’m a fatty and I’m quite partial to a bigger guy. So long as one of you isn’t a pillow princess then no belly is insurmountable, you just have to experiment a bit. Which is fun "

Hallelujah

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By *ife NinjaMan
15 weeks ago

Dunfermline


"I’m a fatty and I’m quite partial to a bigger guy. So long as one of you isn’t a pillow princess then no belly is insurmountable, you just have to experiment a bit. Which is fun "

Budge up, I'm coming

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By *ed VoluptaWoman
15 weeks ago

Wirral.

I range from chubby to hippo-like and while I've had the odd relationship with bigger guys, I prefer not to have casual sex with another fatty. No reason for it other than i find toned bodies attractive.

So shoot me!

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By *ad NannaWoman
15 weeks ago

East London

A large man who had a big belly once said to me- if you lost a couple of stone you would gain two inches of penis.

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By *ickleTheWonderSchlongMan
15 weeks ago

Ends


"A large man who had a big belly once said to me- if you lost a couple of stone you would gain two inches of penis.

"

He would down below. He wouldn’t gain any more on his head.

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