FabSwingers.com forum: How are your confidence levels?

By *ickleTheWonderSchlong OP Man
15 weeks ago

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Right now

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By *enk15Man
15 weeks ago

Evesham

6/10

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By *ickleTheWonderSchlong OP Man
15 weeks ago

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"6/10"

Higher or lower than usual?

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By *ohn.Wick.Man
15 weeks ago

The Continental

1-2

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By *enk15Man
15 weeks ago

Evesham

About in the middle of the peak and troughs

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By *iscotti32Woman
15 weeks ago

choomah island

Usually I’m riding high at 9. Rightly or wrongly so.

Today I’d say around a 1

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By *sWyldWoman
15 weeks ago

Edinburgh

At the moment I'm struggling at around a 2/10

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By *eordieJeansCouple
15 weeks ago

Newcastle upon Tyne

Probably the lowest it’s been in about 5 years. Luckily I have an IDGAF attitude so this sort of counteracts it.

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By *wist my nipplesCouple
15 weeks ago

North East Scotland, mostly

Depends. My confidence in what?

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By *ookie46Woman
15 weeks ago

Deepest darkest Peru

Hovering middle ground at 5/10

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By (user no longer on site)
15 weeks ago

Currently in my don't give a fuck era so they are good

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By *ickleTheWonderSchlong OP Man
15 weeks ago

Ends

Good stuff guys

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By *litpleaserMan
15 weeks ago

Oldham

8/10... PMA...

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By *assion8Man
15 weeks ago

Glasgow

A 2 or a 3 at best

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By *agicman321Man
15 weeks ago

Reading

About a 3, people can be so mean

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By *ickleTheWonderSchlong OP Man
15 weeks ago

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"About a 3, people can be so mean "

I’m sorry to hear that. It’s worse when it dips as a result of something that’s happened

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By *ora the explorerWoman
15 weeks ago

Paradise, Herts

In life in general, always sky high.

Meeting new people from here, not great at the moment.

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By *eneralKenobiMan
15 weeks ago

North Angus

Low, I blame the hangover

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By *iltsTSgirlTV/TS
15 weeks ago

chichester

10/10 as always ...being confident is a frame of mind and a choice we make as humans within ourselves ... bend your thoughts to your will, not thoughts controlling you

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By *agicman321Man
15 weeks ago

Reading

Thanks, this place can bring you sprits right up and them shatter then seconds later

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By *agicman321Man
15 weeks ago

Reading

"A 2 or a 3 at best"

The world or on here?

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By *ickleTheWonderSchlong OP Man
15 weeks ago

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"Thanks, this place can bring you sprits right up and them shatter then seconds later"

Fab can be tough. If it’s impacting your confidence don’t be afraid to walk away from it and find somewhere healthier

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By *agpuss_1Man
15 weeks ago

on the move

About 1 / 10

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By *rthur30Man
15 weeks ago

Warrington

1/10. Can't get into a conversation on Chat, no responses from women on Messages, not many comments on the Forum.

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By *ickleTheWonderSchlong OP Man
15 weeks ago

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"1/10. Can't get into a conversation on Chat, no responses from women on Messages, not many comments on the Forum."

Here’s a reply.

Keep your head up. There’s plenty of places other than fab to meet people for sex or relationships. Utilise them. Don’t take this place to heart.

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By *ickleTheWonderSchlong OP Man
15 weeks ago

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"About 1 / 10 "

Sorry to hear that. What’s going on

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By *r.XratedMan
15 weeks ago

Liverpool/New York

"10/10 as always ...being confident is a frame of mind and a choice we make as humans within ourselves ... bend your thoughts to your will, not thoughts controlling you

Exactly

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By *assion8Man
15 weeks ago

Glasgow

"A 2 or a 3 at best

The world or on here?"

Just in general

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By *ister_ee_1981Man
15 weeks ago

Sunniest Exeter...

"1/10. Can't get into a conversation on Chat, no responses from women on Messages, not many comments on the Forum."

To quote the old "gambling" catchphrase, "when the fun stops, stop" For guys Fab can be a gruelling, relentless job interview process, but you should find some enjoyment in it. If you aren't, perhaps take a break and go "do that thing you have been putting off"

Good luck, we men need to look out for each other!

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By (user no longer on site)
15 weeks ago

Always a glass half full fella….but being on Fab severely tests that feeling.

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By *r.XratedMan
15 weeks ago

Liverpool/New York

Lack of confidence or too much of it would get you killed in the wild. The situation should determine your mind set

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By *jorkishMan
15 weeks ago

Seaforth

1/10

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By *eliWoman
15 weeks ago

About a seven? It'll probably reach the giddy heights of 8, maybe 8.5 once the silk press is done this afternoon.

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By *rHotNottsMan
15 weeks ago

Dubai & Nottingham

"Lack of confidence or too much of it would get you killed in the wild. The situation should determine your mind set"

Reality is a very useful thing. That so many awesome, beautiful people have low confidence shows how difficult it is to see.

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By *r.XratedMan
15 weeks ago

Liverpool/New York

How confident would you be if you had to do 1 length of a 4ft pool?

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By *atnip make me purrWoman
15 weeks ago

Reading

Reasonable but I have my wobbles. What About you OP?

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By (user no longer on site)
15 weeks ago

Probably about a 5 which isn't too bad considering it simmers at a 3

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By (user no longer on site)
15 weeks ago

On here or in general, on here don’t message anyone just post in forums in life 8-10

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By *ittle Miss TinkerbellWoman
15 weeks ago

your head

Oh here? Not great but I also CBA so not particularly bothered. In myself, pretty low atm. Other aspects of my life it's better ish.

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By *r SensualMan
15 weeks ago

London

A solid 9.5 out of 10

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By *uttercupWoman
15 weeks ago

Borders

8/10

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By *ickleTheWonderSchlong OP Man
15 weeks ago

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"Reasonable but I have my wobbles. What About you OP?"
probably the same. About a 6 at the minute. But it’s higher sometimes.

I feel good at the moment generally. Some job application rejections have knocked me slightly but keeping on keeping on.

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By *cottish guy 555Man
15 weeks ago

London

Confidence? What's that?

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By *lowupdollTV/TS
15 weeks ago

Herts/Beds/Lomdon

Didn’t know numbers went this high! 👍

Oh hang on that’s my gas bill.

Confidence is hovering around a 5.74

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By *rimson_RoseWoman
15 weeks ago

Tamworth

I’d say pretty reasonable right now. I’m in a good place. Part of that is about good boundaries around who I engage with and give my time to.

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By *aughtyal80Man
15 weeks ago

darlington

Probably about a 2 generally

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By *.T.Man
15 weeks ago

Belfast for the week

Sitting at 4. Got chatting with a potential playmate who really likes the look of me. The rejection elsewhere dents the confidence massively.

However, I know not to let the views of others affect me, but it is easier said than done. Fab is'nt the place for sensitive souls

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By *m3232Man
15 weeks ago

maidenhead

It never changes as my view is I am what I am in every aspect of life.

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By *westUKguyMan
15 weeks ago

Southport

Usually 7/10....come on here drops to 3/10

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By *olly_chromaticTV/TS
15 weeks ago

Stockport

Very little confidence about my sex life which is basically nonexistent. I do have successes in starting conversations with ladies and couples on here and elsewhere, but following through into a sexual connection seems to be more than I can achieve. My libido takes a hit, and increasingly I wonder if I'm just past it.

On the other hand over the last twelve months I have renewed my skills and learned fresh techniques in the fields of home refurbishment, diy, decorating... I have some lovely new bamboo flooring and a gorgeous garage conversion into a home office (unfortunately currently crammed full of furniture and stuff moved from the rest of the house to facilitate the other ongoing work). So self confidence in my manual skills is at a high...

Now if only there was someone interested in admiring my bamboo while admiring my body...

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By *loria JamesTV/TS
15 weeks ago

Durham

I'm always quite confident but like most people I do look in the mirror sometimes and think what a mess.

At the moment it seems hard to find genuine single people on Fab, I always feel better when I'm with nice people.

But generally im 7/10 x

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By *ornycougaWoman
15 weeks ago

Wherever I lay my hat

It's up around a 9 atm. I've challenged myself recently and come out on top, got some stuff of my chest, had my hair done and been reunited with my lingerie and shoe collection so I'm in a good place

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By *ohn.Wick.Man
15 weeks ago

The Continental

About 9.5 now.

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By *ee69Man
15 weeks ago

glasgow

Riding high lol

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By *ickleTheWonderSchlong OP Man
15 weeks ago

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"It's up around a 9 atm. I've challenged myself recently and come out on top, got some stuff of my chest, had my hair done and been reunited with my lingerie and shoe collection so I'm in a good place

Let’s see ya

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By *cottish guy 555Man
15 weeks ago

London

"About 9.5 now. "

Nice to see that it has risen in the last few hours. What prompted the increase?

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By *ust RachelTV/TS
15 weeks ago

Horsham

2/10

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By *ost-girlWoman
15 weeks ago

lost in Edinburgh somewhere

1.5/10!

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By *ee69Man
15 weeks ago

glasgow

"1.5/10!

Oh Mrs get that confidence up yer tattoo looks class

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By *ryorkshirepleaserMan
15 weeks ago

Yorkshire

Terry bell

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By *hilloutMan
15 weeks ago

All over the place! Northwesr, , Southwest

10/10.

Life is good and very happy with both my appearance and professional competence 😁

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By *ocktails23Man
15 weeks ago

Croydon/Kent

In general life I’m at 9 out of 10 with my Confidence. When on here however, it’s a 3 on a good day.

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By *tew008Man
15 weeks ago

edinburgh

depends what am applying myself too. Chatting shit I’m 10 everything else 0.1

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By *exysecretxxxWoman
15 weeks ago

waterford .and surrounding

"About 1 / 10 "

Never

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By *vaRose43Woman
15 weeks ago

Forest of Dean

Lowest they’ve been for a while. Shouldn’t let the trolls get to me but I did. I’ll be fine in a day or two

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By *uriousscouserWoman
15 weeks ago

Wirral

Right here and now: 10.

That's subject to massive shifts, so in an hour? Who knows.

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By *he_MikeMan
15 weeks ago

Cardiff

Tbh I thought I was the only one. And I am considering walking away from it because I either get told off or not replied at all. I don't know if it's my being too polite or that I don't just know the right things to say.

Atm my confidence on here is about 2/10. It's different in real life but here? Really low

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By * and R cple4Couple
15 weeks ago

swansea

"10/10 as always ...being confident is a frame of mind and a choice we make as humans within ourselves ... bend your thoughts to your will, not thoughts controlling you

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This is so spot on

.. Mines a 9/10 theirs always room for improvement

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By *abtastic Mr FoxMan
15 weeks ago

A den in the Glen

Generally in the high 9s.

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By *rthur30Man
15 weeks ago

Warrington

"1/10. Can't get into a conversation on Chat, no responses from women on Messages, not many comments on the Forum.

Here’s a reply.

Keep your head up. There’s plenty of places other than fab to meet people for sex or relationships. Utilise them. Don’t take this place to heart. "

Thanks! That's a start.

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By *he KakapoMan
15 weeks ago

A nice rock

I'm a solid 9/10 atm 🙌

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By *YDB75Man
15 weeks ago

East Yorkie

They never venture high

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By *rthur30Man
15 weeks ago

Warrington

"1/10. Can't get into a conversation on Chat, no responses from women on Messages, not many comments on the Forum.

Thanks! Being on here is the thing I've been putting off!

Good luck, we men need to look out for each other!"

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By *jk1978Couple
15 weeks ago

Cheshire

Never been confident male half should have loads of confidence got an amazing woman who’s been with me 25 years a daughter , a Job I love but hate everything about me and always felt a failure, why I will never know is it a man thing or just me no idea

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By *iss LovelyWoman
15 weeks ago

Here and There

For things Fab related probably 2/10 at the moment.

For things work related 8/10

For everything else it’s maybe a 6/10

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By *rwales90Man
15 weeks ago

Cwmbran

"Lowest they’ve been for a while. Shouldn’t let the trolls get to me but I did. I’ll be fine in a day or two "

I just read your profile , you’re big and beautiful. My wife fluctuates between size 18-20 , we been married 27 years and she was a size 18 when I met her.

There are people on here and in real life who like me like the fuller figure. Don’t allow those trolls to get inside your head.

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By *reyToTheFairiesWoman
15 weeks ago

Carlisle usually

12/10

Outstanding in all aspects that matter to me 💜

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By (user no longer on site)
15 weeks ago

I would say 7/10 always room for improvement

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By *ohn.Wick.Man
15 weeks ago

The Continental

"About 9.5 now.

Nice to see that it has risen in the last few hours. What prompted the increase?

A compliment from a stranger.

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By (user no longer on site)
15 weeks ago

In what area?

Work? Amazing

Men/sex? Meh

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple
15 weeks ago

Leeds

Not the best but also not the worst - work in progress.

Mrs

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By *ohnny3333Man
15 weeks ago

fleetwood

1 to 2 at mo

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By *a LunaWoman
15 weeks ago

South Wales

Fine until I get undressed

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By *ife NinjaMan
15 weeks ago

Dunfermline

"Fine until I get undressed

Get em off!

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By *urora1912Woman
15 weeks ago

Norfolk East anglia

I would out then at around a 4

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By (user no longer on site)
15 weeks ago

Pretty high - 8 maybe 9

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By *uacksplat.Woman
15 weeks ago

Star Trekking Across The Universe

meh.. Px 🦆

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By *asty tatsyMan
15 weeks ago

london

I’m quite a confident person so I’m going with 8 right now

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By *tYourPleasure_80Man
15 weeks ago

Newcastle

In general 8/10 on fab drop to 5/10

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By *entleman_spyMan
15 weeks ago

nearby

About a 3

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By *anchesterGuy1Man
15 weeks ago

Manchester

About a 5 today ffs 🙄

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By *ib.Man
15 weeks ago

Hampshire

Hmmm.

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By *illan-KillashMan
15 weeks ago

London/Sussex/Surrey/Berks/Hants

"Right now"

Pretty low. Been a tough few months.

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By *cottish guy 555Man
15 weeks ago

London

"About 9.5 now.

Nice to see that it has risen in the last few hours. What prompted the increase?

A compliment from a stranger."

Nice. It's amazing how a simple thing can have such a positive impact.

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By *riar BelisseWoman
15 weeks ago

Delightful Bliss

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By *inky_couple2020Couple
15 weeks ago

North West

4/10 - mobility scooter cramping my style.

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By *ell GwynnWoman
15 weeks ago

North Yorkshire

Sky high

It's been a good day.

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By *eroLondonMan
15 weeks ago

Mayfair

"4/10 - mobility scooter cramping my style. "

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Put some authentic Louis Vuitton™ stickers on it. Style injected. ❣️

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By *adyBugsWoman
15 weeks ago

cognito

What am I being confident about?

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By *inky_couple2020Couple
15 weeks ago

North West

"4/10 - mobility scooter cramping my style.

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Put some authentic Louis Vuitton™ stickers on it. Style injected. ❣️"

I borrowed it from someone my Dad's age

I can't pimp my ride

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By *ad NannaWoman
15 weeks ago

East London

Depends what I'm doing.

To undress for sex I'm 10/10.

For walking up my stairs without holding the bannister I'm 2/10.

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By *ad NannaWoman
15 weeks ago

East London

"Right now

Pretty low. Been a tough few months."

You're being very upbeat and there's light at the end of the tunnel.

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By *T89Man
15 weeks ago

Llandudno

A good 4/10. Gets me nowhere

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By *illan-KillashMan
15 weeks ago

London/Sussex/Surrey/Berks/Hants

"Right now

Pretty low. Been a tough few months.

You're being very upbeat and there's light at the end of the tunnel."

Giving it my best shot. Now it's the waiting........

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By *inky_couple2020Couple
15 weeks ago

North West

"Right now

Pretty low. Been a tough few months.

You're being very upbeat and there's light at the end of the tunnel.

Giving it my best shot. Now it's the waiting........"

Keep on keeping on, my friend

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By *viatrixWoman
15 weeks ago

Redhill

Now that I got my fantastic, swishy hair back after going to a great hairdresser in Mexico City, confidence has been boosted a bit

Photo in friends gallery

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By *ose-tinted GlassesMan
15 weeks ago

Glasgow / London

"Photo in friends gallery

I *thought* you were looking extra-fancy!

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By (user no longer on site)
15 weeks ago

Confidence isn’t equating to happiness.

Happiness is low 3-4

Confidence is low too 4-5

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By *iscombobulated1523Couple
15 weeks ago

Worcestershire

I'm not an overly confident person at the best of times

Right now my confidence is really low

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By *exyScientistsCouple
15 weeks ago

Castlebar

Now fully dressed 8/10

Naked maybe 4/10

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
15 weeks ago

East Sussex

Confidence in what?

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By *hallasMan
15 weeks ago

in a skip

"Right now"

Non of your business.

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