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By *otally Benetton OP   Couple
15 weeks ago

shropshire

Just spent another few hours chatting to a ‘couple’ on here only for them to pretty much reveal that they aren’t who they say they are. Why are there so many and what on earth do they get out of it?

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By *urry BlokeMan
15 weeks ago

Stalybridge

A wank

The chase without the guilt

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By *bcplCouple
15 weeks ago

Aberdeenshire

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By *urpleoneMan
15 weeks ago

nearby


"Just spent another few hours chatting to a ‘couple’ on here only for them to pretty much reveal that they aren’t who they say they are. Why are there so many and what on earth do they get out of it?"

Unfortunately it happens alot, there's alot of fake couples on here and it makes no sense as to what they obtain from it, usually I would go for the "oh if you've got snap care to send a face pic so I know who I'm talking to" it whittles out the fakes very quickly

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By *B69Woman
15 weeks ago

Wiltshire

Were they not a couple then?

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By *bcplCouple
15 weeks ago

Aberdeenshire

I think some are absolute fantasists they enjoy the chase it’s annoying ing out the real from the fakes

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By *imples24Man
15 weeks ago

tamworth

It’s the internet there are some strange people about. Maybe they thought once they had got you chatting you wouldn’t mind that they wasn’t what they said. I had a guy the other week making out he was part of a couple once I said let me speak to your wife disappeared.

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By *uperSalopian7Man
15 weeks ago

Shrewsbury

Attention - which they have been lacking probably

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By *otally Benetton OP   Couple
15 weeks ago

shropshire


"Were they not a couple then?"

I’m making assumptions based on how the discussion changed after the let’s exchange photos messages. Also, the lack of exchange on their part. I wouldn’t mind if it felt like it happened now and then but it’s more often than not.

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By *anchesterGuy1Man
15 weeks ago

Manchester

I have caught a couple of fakes previously by asking for a live picture not even with their face on, just used the old date and time written on a piece of paper!

The bottom line of the Internet is you can never be absolutely sure anyone is who they say they are especially with a place such as this.

My approach is very much take everyone on fave value until they pop up a red.flag then fish them out at that point.

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By *isfits behaving badlyCouple
15 weeks ago

Coventry

I don't know. We don't really do a lot of chatting and arranging meets on here. Stories like this are hardly endearing us to making more online connections.

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
15 weeks ago

Central

Yessir have to ask them.

Report inappropriate behaviour to Admin. And learn what part you have in the engagement so you move on

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
15 weeks ago

East Sussex

Imagine that for a couple of hours once a week you could be anyone you wanted. A more attractive, wealthier person with an enviable life style. It would lift you briefly from your mundane life even if it did highlight your dissatisfaction with yourself and your circumstances. That's what they get out of it.

Report them if they're using fake photos

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By *annyFoxCouple
15 weeks ago

Hagley / Halesowen

Ditto!

It's not just couples either.

So many fake proifiles on here!

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By (user no longer on site)
15 weeks ago

So frustrating. I’m pretty good at spotting fakes now, but they still slip through the net.

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By *imples24Man
15 weeks ago

tamworth

Shame they can’t put something in place to make you have to verify yourself more. Weed out all the fakes

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
15 weeks ago

East Sussex


"Shame they can’t put something in place to make you have to verify yourself more. Weed out all the fakes "

If you have any doubts at all ask to chat in one of the cam rooms or meet for a quick coffee.

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By *icolerobbieCouple
15 weeks ago

walsall


"Shame they can’t put something in place to make you have to verify yourself more. Weed out all the fakes

If you have any doubts at all ask to chat in one of the cam rooms or meet for a quick coffee. "

It really is as simple as this.

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By *inky Biscuit DunkerMan
15 weeks ago

Gloucestershire


"Shame they can’t put something in place to make you have to verify yourself more. Weed out all the fakes

If you have any doubts at all ask to chat in one of the cam rooms or meet for a quick coffee. "

Other hot beverages are available - like tea

It happens OP. You just have to dust yourself down and keep at it

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By *ellinever70Woman
15 weeks ago

Ayrshire


"I have caught a couple of fakes previously by asking for a live picture not even with their face on, just used the old date and time written on a piece of paper!

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I don't think refusal to do this is a sign that someone is fake

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By *abtastic Mr FoxMan
15 weeks ago

A den in the Glen


"I have caught a couple of fakes previously by asking for a live picture not even with their face on, just used the old date and time written on a piece of paper

I don't think refusal to do this is a sign that someone is fake "

Perhaps not, but doing it will possibly prove they're not.

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By *ayleynBenCouple
15 weeks ago

Accrington

Just don't talk to any non verified?

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By *enrietteandSamCouple
15 weeks ago

Staffordshire


"I have caught a couple of fakes previously by asking for a live picture not even with their face on, just used the old date and time written on a piece of paper

I don't think refusal to do this is a sign that someone is fake

Perhaps not, but doing it will possibly prove they're not.

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Exactly.

We’ve developed a very short tolerance for it.

Just send the picture request or go away, not interested in how beautiful you think you are or how desirable you think you are just because you or your partner has a vagina.

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By *enrietteandSamCouple
15 weeks ago

Staffordshire


"Just don't talk to any non verified?"

The verification process is easily duped.

Don’t trust it alone.

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By *enrietteandSamCouple
15 weeks ago

Staffordshire


"Shame they can’t put something in place to make you have to verify yourself more. Weed out all the fakes

If you have any doubts at all ask to chat in one of the cam rooms or meet for a quick coffee.

It really is as simple as this."

Yes, it is.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
15 weeks ago

East Sussex

Also don't engage in explicit sex chat unless you're prepared for it to be just that.

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By *carlettxWoman
15 weeks ago

Essex


"Just spent another few hours chatting to a ‘couple’ on here only for them to pretty much reveal that they aren’t who they say they are. Why are there so many and what on earth do they get out of it?"

Oh no ! As in they aren’t the people in the photos ?

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By *ffervescentMan
15 weeks ago

winfrith


"Just spent another few hours chatting to a ‘couple’ on here only for them to pretty much reveal that they aren’t who they say they are. Why are there so many and what on earth do they get out of it?"
What did they reveal themselves as ?

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By *otally Benetton OP   Couple
15 weeks ago

shropshire

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By *otally Benetton OP   Couple
15 weeks ago

shropshire


"Just spent another few hours chatting to a ‘couple’ on here only for them to pretty much reveal that they aren’t who they say they are. Why are there so many and what on earth do they get out of it?What did they reveal themselves as ?"

A teenage mutant ninja turtle!

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By *otally Benetton OP   Couple
15 weeks ago

shropshire


"Just spent another few hours chatting to a ‘couple’ on here only for them to pretty much reveal that they aren’t who they say they are. Why are there so many and what on earth do they get out of it?

Oh no ! As in they aren’t the people in the photos ? "

As in they are most likely one person!

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By *awpleasureMan
15 weeks ago

Sutton Coldfield


"Just spent another few hours chatting to a ‘couple’ on here only for them to pretty much reveal that they aren’t who they say they are. Why are there so many and what on earth do they get out of it?"

Can you elaborate please as I'm curious

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By *atnip make me purrWoman
15 weeks ago

Reading

I think sometimes a man might create a couples/woman's profile to see it from the other side then end up having too much fun?

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By *ffervescentMan
15 weeks ago

winfrith


"Just spent another few hours chatting to a ‘couple’ on here only for them to pretty much reveal that they aren’t who they say they are. Why are there so many and what on earth do they get out of it?What did they reveal themselves as ?

A teenage mutant ninja turtle!"
really Amadeus.

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By (user no longer on site)
15 weeks ago

No idea.

I can't stop thinking about tits tbh.

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By *asty tatsyMan
15 weeks ago

london


"Just spent another few hours chatting to a ‘couple’ on here only for them to pretty much reveal that they aren’t who they say they are. Why are there so many and what on earth do they get out of it?

Oh no ! As in they aren’t the people in the photos ?

As in they are most likely one person!"

I had a couple the other day start messaging me, we exchanged many messages but there was a few things that flagged. Then in the morning profile gone

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By *carlettxWoman
15 weeks ago

Essex


"Just spent another few hours chatting to a ‘couple’ on here only for them to pretty much reveal that they aren’t who they say they are. Why are there so many and what on earth do they get out of it?

Oh no ! As in they aren’t the people in the photos ?

As in they are most likely one person!"

Oh god that happens all the time to me too

I’ve never understood it either

So weird

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By *riar BelisseWoman
15 weeks ago

Delightful Bliss

Escapism. What you see online, is not necessarily what their real life is like.

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