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By *uperS77 OP   Man
15 weeks ago

Gloucester

It’s a really vicious evil unrelenting beast.

Like a tsunami when that tide is being drawn back out to sea, you think you’ve escaped it, things go on, not normally, but there’s an existence, even some mild relief, some laughter.

Then when you least expect it that wave has built up and up, it sees and waits for you unexpectedly, and crashes back down making those drowning emotions, the churning and breathlessness rise up once again, and the beast sits there once again satisfied with its chaos once more.

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By *uicy 2020Woman
15 weeks ago

London

Hope youre doing ok OP 🫂

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By *iscotti32Woman
15 weeks ago

choomah island

It is truly one of the worst feelings of all time, I’d never really experienced it until my father died earlier this year followed shortly by my uncle.

Life will never be the same for as long as I’m alive and I think about the good times often and feel bitter that I will never have any more good memories.

It has fucked me mentally more than anything else ever has and I don’t think I will ever truly come to terms with such a big loss.

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By *osey WalesMan
15 weeks ago

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Cliche i know but time is a good healer. Songs gets me. Certain ones make me gibbering wreck, even smells and certain phrases. I doubt i will everreally truely get over my loss but in time, as each year, milestone, passes I will certainly deal with it better.

❤️

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By *punk n gushCouple
15 weeks ago

deal

Grief has no time span its not somthing you ever get over you just learn to live and exist along side it I lost both my parents within 6 months of each other last year then lost 3 friends and family members this year like you say you think your getting over it then it smacks you in the face again and so the cycle begins again big hugs to hun anyone going through grief it's not easy but try to remember the good times xx

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By *iker JackMan
15 weeks ago

Wolverhampton

I still have a voice mail my mum left. It’s about masterchef. 5 years later it’s still on my phone.

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By (user no longer on site)
15 weeks ago

Yes OP we have to ride the waves and think we now have to live as they would hate us not too. Life is to short and they live inside our hearts until we go. xx BIG HUGS X

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By *punk n gushCouple
15 weeks ago

deal


"I still have a voice mail my mum left. It’s about masterchef. 5 years later it’s still on my phone. "

Ah that's nice I'd love to her my mum and dad's voice again but they never left messages if I didn't answer

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