FabSwingers.com forum: Day time socials and meets

By *ang bang bangity bang OP Couple
15 weeks ago

Sunderland

Following some lunch break cardio today it struck us that there must be a lot of people who, like us, would find it easier to meet during the day? Working from home being more common, child care, etc

Do people have a preference?

I imagine for most parents a midday meet is far more practical than a midnight meet 🤣

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By *vaRose43Woman
15 weeks ago

Forest of Dean

Daytimes are my preference

Evenings and overnights take a lot more time, energy and money to organise carers etc

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By *ot workman 88Man
15 weeks ago

Colchester

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By (user no longer on site)
15 weeks ago

Daytime is my preference especially with working shifts, I have a lot of free time during the days.

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By *ornyperv100Man
15 weeks ago

Tunbridge wells

Having an empty house and everyone else at school does make it easier

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By (user no longer on site)
15 weeks ago

Definitely day time 100%

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By *ot workman 88Man
15 weeks ago

Colchester

I prefer daytime meets as I get up very early 4am most days , evening meets leave me shagged for the wrong reasons

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple
15 weeks ago

Leeds

I prefer day times it's much easier.

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By *ang bang bangity bang OP Couple
15 weeks ago

Sunderland

Feel like there needs to be a day time fabbers group

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By *ickleTheWonderSchlongMan
15 weeks ago

Ends

I fancy a meet tomorrow. But day time meets are hard to find. People aren’t as committed to skiving off as I am.

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By *ornycougaWoman
15 weeks ago

Wherever I lay my hat

Horses for courses. I've had some amazing nights or evening/night/next day meets. But there is also something delicious about booking a Dayuse room or the spontaneity of meeting someone for a coffee and a chat. Variety is the spice of life so I love em all

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By *sWyldWoman
15 weeks ago

Edinburgh

Planning a day off and hiding in a day room somewhere is great fun with the right person. However I wouldn't waste my precious annual leave on a random

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By *ot workman 88Man
15 weeks ago

Colchester

Definitely need a daytime fab group

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By *ags73Man
15 weeks ago

glasgow-ish

It doesn’t happen.

My life is such that I look after my sons and can’t get out most evening and getting toward 2 years here and nope.

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By *bi HaiveMan
Forum Mod
15 weeks ago

Cheeseville, Somerset

I have no preference.

Whilst I'm often free daytimes midweek, many of the people I'd like to meet are at work.

On weekends when those that have Mon-Fri 9-5 style jobs are out clubbing and generally free (if childless).....I'm working.

It's the joy of Fab and swinging. Trying to match lifestyles, working patterns and free time will often be problematic. And sods law it's those you wish to meet the most who don't match. That's life!! 🤦‍♂️🤷‍♂️😂

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By (user no longer on site)
15 weeks ago

I'm always up early so I'm at my best up till tea time

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By (user no longer on site)
15 weeks ago

Daytimes would be ideal. More options to meet for a coffee. In the end not fussed….a meet anytime would be a bonus

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By *elix SightedMan
15 weeks ago

Cloud 8

I wfh so daytime meets would mix things up a bit. The only thing is some selfish bastards keep putting work meetings into my diary. Also I think I’d feel like I had to clock watch instead of relaxing and enjoying myself.

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By (user no longer on site)
15 weeks ago

I would say easy 80% of my meets are daytime as it's easier to fit around work shifts. X

I would say weekends are the hardest to find a meet.

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By *NormalMan01Man
15 weeks ago

Harrogate

Daytime is 100% my preference, fitting in the little lives and work… I wfh exclusively and it’s easier to have a nice hour in my lunch for ‘fun’. 😉

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By *azzler2Man
15 weeks ago

halifax

Day times and Sunday mornings good for me I live in hope 😊

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By *eroLondonMan
15 weeks ago

Mayfair

I prefer both, but daytime takes precedence — and it has to be ·all day· and not just a couple of hours like some ephemeral cheap thrill. I'll do overnights but they require planning.

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By *illy IdolMan
15 weeks ago

Midlands

Stud^

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By *eroLondonMan
15 weeks ago

Mayfair

He's right.... ^

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By *assion8Man
15 weeks ago

Glasgow

Daytime preferable for me, evenings and weekends need planning in advance (ie arrange babysitter)

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By *hillenCouple
15 weeks ago

Borehamwood

Daytimes are our preference usually.

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By *parkle1974Woman
15 weeks ago

Leeds

Done both but my preference is for evening meets as I find them more relaxed x

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By *ora the explorerWoman
15 weeks ago

Paradise, Herts

I prefer evening

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By *weetiepie99Woman
15 weeks ago

cardiff

Evening dalliances for me. Find them a little sexier.

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By *ags73Man
15 weeks ago

glasgow-ish

Interesting reading and downhearted as I get one weekend off a month and unfortunately can’t escape to do that

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By *asty tatsyMan
15 weeks ago

london

I’m more of a day time meet as well, casual and no expectations of anything further. I do love a day time cuppa meet

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By *ang bang bangity bang OP Couple
15 weeks ago

Sunderland

Day time meets also give the perfect excuse to leave early if you don't like them "oh no, I've just got an email for an emergency meeting with the compliance team about Q4s metrics"

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By *ora the explorerWoman
15 weeks ago

Paradise, Herts

"I’m more of a day time meet as well, casual and no expectations of anything further. I do love a day time cuppa meet

You love a cuppa

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By *asty tatsyMan
15 weeks ago

london

"I’m more of a day time meet as well, casual and no expectations of anything further. I do love a day time cuppa meet

You love a cuppa

Talking about cuppa we need another one

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By *he Silver FuxMan
15 weeks ago

Uttoxeter

"Following some lunch break cardio today it struck us that there must be a lot of people who, like us, would find it easier to meet during the day? Working from home being more common, child care, etc

Do people have a preference?

I imagine for most parents a midday meet is far more practical than a midnight meet 🤣

Mr"

A friend and I had a profile called the Dayroom Duo where we met ladies for day time liaisons 😈 I still love a daytime meet - feels so much risqué when everyone is going about their working day

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By *ee69Man
15 weeks ago

glasgow

Daytime is easier for me but it’s what suits it’s usually nice and quiet and you can go for it lol

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By *erry bull1Man
15 weeks ago

doncaster

Daytime for me too plus the advantage of some gardening work done

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By *ora the explorerWoman
15 weeks ago

Paradise, Herts

"I’m more of a day time meet as well, casual and no expectations of anything further. I do love a day time cuppa meet

You love a cuppa

Talking about cuppa we need another one "

We do

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By *istnbroke69Man
15 weeks ago

Cheshire / Shropshire

Day meets for me suits my circumstances, DM if interested 😊

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By *asty tatsyMan
15 weeks ago

london

"I’m more of a day time meet as well, casual and no expectations of anything further. I do love a day time cuppa meet

You love a cuppa

Talking about cuppa we need another one

We do

Time and day Nora time and day

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By *punk n gushCouple
15 weeks ago

deal

Daytime suits us better but most here prefer evening

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By *haiababeWoman
15 weeks ago

North devon

As a single parent of 3 school age children, most my meets are daytimes. I even say when chatting to someone new that i have very limited evenings and weekends. Yes i still jave to juggle it around part time work. But im not against evenings meets just dont have an empty house as often then.

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By *ickleTheWonderSchlongMan
15 weeks ago

Ends

"I’m more of a day time meet as well, casual and no expectations of anything further. I do love a day time cuppa meet

You love a cuppa

Talking about cuppa we need another one

We do

Time and day Nora time and day

Is that all it takes to meet Nora?

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By *atnip make me purrWoman
15 weeks ago

Reading

I prefer daytime meets as I don't like overnights.

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By (user no longer on site)
15 weeks ago

I’d absolutely love a daytime meet, especially now it’s cold

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By *iscotti32Woman
15 weeks ago

choomah island

I’d prefer a day time meet.

Unfortunately the men who want to mostly meet me tend to want to meet at night in the dead of night.

Wonder what that means 🤔

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By *eroLondonMan
15 weeks ago

Mayfair

"I’d prefer a day time meet.

Unfortunately the men who want to mostly meet me tend to want to meet at night in the dead of night.

Wonder what that means 🤔"

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It means two things — they are either romantic fools or vampires.🦇

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By *aythan68Man
15 weeks ago

Near Birmingham

Daytime meet and building to fun, much more exciting

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By *ang bang bangity bang OP Couple
15 weeks ago

Sunderland

"I’d prefer a day time meet.

Unfortunately the men who want to mostly meet me tend to want to meet at night in the dead of night.

Wonder what that means 🤔"

Bloody vampires. Trying to take our mortal women. Shocking I tell ya,shocking.

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By *ocothumpaMan
15 weeks ago

Herts

Daytimes

Work for me as I work from home, on the road a lot and I provider care for family members most nights so it’s hard to get out.

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By (user no longer on site)
15 weeks ago

I need the cover of darkness to hide this face

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By (user no longer on site)
15 weeks ago

"I’d prefer a day time meet.

Unfortunately the men who want to mostly meet me tend to want to meet at night in the dead of night.

Wonder what that means 🤔"

They work during the day? 🤷‍♂️

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By *ora the explorerWoman
15 weeks ago

Paradise, Herts

"I’m more of a day time meet as well, casual and no expectations of anything further. I do love a day time cuppa meet

You love a cuppa

Talking about cuppa we need another one

We do

Time and day Nora time and day

Is that all it takes to meet Nora?

He makes me drive near him though Steve. He don’t like me that much

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By (user no longer on site)
15 weeks ago

"I’d prefer a day time meet.

Unfortunately the men who want to mostly meet me tend to want to meet at night in the dead of night.

Wonder what that means 🤔

They work during the day? 🤷‍♂️"

How dare they!!

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By *iscotti32Woman
15 weeks ago

choomah island

"I’d prefer a day time meet.

Unfortunately the men who want to mostly meet me tend to want to meet at night in the dead of night.

Wonder what that means 🤔

They work during the day? 🤷‍♂️"

Evening is acceptable. Late at night into early hours of the morning is not 😂

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By *B69Woman
15 weeks ago

Wiltshire

I prefer daytime meets, do have the occasional weekend free

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By *ell GwynnWoman
15 weeks ago

North Yorkshire

I like both. Daytime meets have to be a couple of hours minimum, though. I'm not into that cheap feeling that comes with hoiking up my knickers as I run for the door.

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By *eliWoman
15 weeks ago

"I like both. Daytime meets have to be a couple of hours minimum, though. I'm not into that cheap feeling that comes with hoiking up my knickers as I run for the door."

Oh but that's such a beautiful image! Cum seeping (yep, that's the word I'm going with) down your legs, you frantically hoiking up underwear. Such a classy vision.

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By *enrietteandSamCouple
15 weeks ago

Staffordshire

We’ve done both.

We prefer date nights but the last daytime meet we had was a lot of fun too. If the company is good then the time of day becomes irrelevant.

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By *ell GwynnWoman
15 weeks ago

North Yorkshire

"I like both. Daytime meets have to be a couple of hours minimum, though. I'm not into that cheap feeling that comes with hoiking up my knickers as I run for the door.

Oh but that's such a beautiful image! Cum seeping (yep, that's the word I'm going with) down your legs, you frantically hoiking up underwear. Such a classy vision.

I love knowing that you've put so much effort into envisioning my body in that particular state.

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By *ed VoluptaWoman
15 weeks ago

Wirral.

Nope, daytime meets are a big no for me if it's meet & fuck on his lunch hour or while wifey does the big shop.

If it's a long lazy lunch followed by a few hours in bed, I'll consider it

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By *eliWoman
15 weeks ago

"I like both. Daytime meets have to be a couple of hours minimum, though. I'm not into that cheap feeling that comes with hoiking up my knickers as I run for the door.

Oh but that's such a beautiful image! Cum seeping (yep, that's the word I'm going with) down your legs, you frantically hoiking up underwear. Such a classy vision.

I love knowing that you've put so much effort into envisioning my body in that particular state. "

Honestly? I really wanted to use the word seeping in some form and the rest flowed poetically.

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By *aydar99Man
15 weeks ago

Rochester

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By *eardedman7Man
15 weeks ago

Berkshire

Daytime meets much easier for me as my kid lives fulltime with me.

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By *aydar99Man
15 weeks ago

Rochester

Allways day time with me

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By *obert RichardsMan
15 weeks ago

Sutton

I much prefer daytime meets as I tend to find the evening meets can get a little crazy, especially when alcohol is involved.

However, something that I really enjoy is early morning sex.

This sometimes happens after an evening meet when they stay over

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By (user no longer on site)
15 weeks ago

"I’d prefer a day time meet.

Unfortunately the men who want to mostly meet me tend to want to meet at night in the dead of night.

Wonder what that means 🤔

They work during the day? 🤷‍♂️

Evening is acceptable. Late at night into early hours of the morning is not 😂"

Yeah, I get that actually! Although a meet in the evening that runs into the early morning... 😈

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By *ripfillMan
15 weeks ago

Paris, New York, Hong Kong and Havant

Day time … it’s far more practical plus avoids alcohol and is time realistic .. not Elastic …

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By *iscotti32Woman
15 weeks ago

choomah island

"I’d prefer a day time meet.

Unfortunately the men who want to mostly meet me tend to want to meet at night in the dead of night.

Wonder what that means 🤔

They work during the day? 🤷‍♂️

Evening is acceptable. Late at night into early hours of the morning is not 😂

Yeah, I get that actually! Although a meet in the evening that runs into the early morning... 😈"

Well that is a totally different ball game

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By *rightonsteveMan
15 weeks ago

Brighton - even Hove!

Daytimes suit me. I get tired at night, I’m very much a morning person.

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By (user no longer on site)
15 weeks ago

Ww can only meet midweek and during the day.

There are a fair few of us out there.

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By *riar BelisseWoman
15 weeks ago

Delightful Bliss

I miss my midweek day use hotel meets

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By *neamigo2Man
15 weeks ago

in the village

Daytime meets always seem “Risqué “ that’s why I love them !!

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
15 weeks ago

Central

I prefer daytimes but never early or any mornings

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By *isfits behaving badlyCouple
15 weeks ago

Coventry

Yes daytimes would open up a few more opportunities for us. Especially locally (as distance and time are related).

I would also say having a short time window in the daytime is great for risk free first meets. Gives you the opportunity to gauge chemistry and if its going to work without risking losing a prime evening/babysitter slot and cost. Definitely takes the sting out of a no show or just lack of compatability if you've not had to use a babysitter, taken time off work or lost a prime evening/weekend spot for nothing.

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