FabSwingers.com forum: Have I become old and boring..

By *sWyld OP Woman
9 weeks ago

Edinburgh

Just been going through sone of my messages and honestly some of the things that seem to be exciting to others are just a no from me.

I'm not wanting to have sex in your car.

I don't want to get naked in the woods.

I also don't feel thrilled or excited by the prospect of a quickie or a hurried meet in the local travelodge!

Am I now old and boring?

What things make you think you might be?

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By *ickle-Lilly-WillyMan
9 weeks ago

Ends

No. You’re romance.

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By *reyToTheFairiesWoman
9 weeks ago

Carlisle usually

Even in my 20s I was pretty set on the bed being the best place to do it.

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By *ubmissiveman2uMan
9 weeks ago

Cheshire

Lack of winks, and serious messages x

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By *ickle-Lilly-WillyMan
9 weeks ago

Ends

I think I’m getting old because I do the millennial pause on videos and voice notes.

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By *enrietteandSamCouple
9 weeks ago

Staffordshire

Nope, you’re perfectly fine in our opinion but then we might be just as old and boring too

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By *eordieJeansCouple
9 weeks ago

Newcastle upon Tyne

The fact I go to bed at 9:30pm on a Saturday night.

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By *ot really famousMan
9 weeks ago

monaghan

"Just been going through sone of my messages and honestly some of the things that seem to be exciting to others are just a no from me.

I'm not wanting to have sex in your car.

I don't want to get naked in the woods.

I also don't feel thrilled or excited by the prospect of a quickie or a hurried meet in the local travelodge!

Am I now old and boring?

What things make you think you might be? "
...you're definitely not old....

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By *ora the explorerWoman
9 weeks ago

Paradise, Herts

"Just been going through sone of my messages and honestly some of the things that seem to be exciting to others are just a no from me.

I'm not wanting to have sex in your car.

I don't want to get naked in the woods.

I also don't feel thrilled or excited by the prospect of a quickie or a hurried meet in the local travelodge!

Am I now old and boring?

What things make you think you might be? "

Then I’m definitely old and boring too then as none of that appeals to me either.

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By *ickle-Lilly-WillyMan
9 weeks ago

Ends

"The fact I go to bed at 9:30pm on a Saturday night."
you’d go to bed after MOTD if Newcastle were any good

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By (user no longer on site)
9 weeks ago

The fact I no longer recognise most of the cast on any TV show with the word ‘celebrity’ in the title?

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By *inceIlkestonMan
9 weeks ago

Ilkeston

"Just been going through sone of my messages and honestly some of the things that seem to be exciting to others are just a no from me.

I'm not wanting to have sex in your car.

I don't want to get naked in the woods.

I also don't feel thrilled or excited by the prospect of a quickie or a hurried meet in the local travelodge!

Am I now old and boring?

What things make you think you might be? "

In this weather I'm only getting naked at home, period.

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By (user no longer on site)
9 weeks ago

When I get messages in the morning asking why I'm up so early. Why do you think? I'm in bed for 10pm mate.

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By *inky_couple2020Couple
9 weeks ago

North West

I'm incapacitated and boring.

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By (user no longer on site)
9 weeks ago

I think I'm old because I've started stretching before and after my workouts

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By *bi HaiveMan
Forum Mod
9 weeks ago

Cheeseville, Somerset

"Just been going through sone of my messages and honestly some of the things that seem to be exciting to others are just a no from me.

I'm not wanting to have sex in your car.

I don't want to get naked in the woods.

I also don't feel thrilled or excited by the prospect of a quickie or a hurried meet in the local travelodge!

Am I now old and boring?

What things make you think you might be? "

I bought a colouring book last week. 😳

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By *icecouple561Couple
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9 weeks ago

East Sussex

I don't think of myself as boring although I'm definitely old.

Quite a lot of things make me want to close the front door and pour a glass of wine though. We were invited out recently and got all excited because it started at 5:30 pm and ended around 9. That's my kind of evening

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By (user no longer on site)
9 weeks ago

"I don't think of myself as boring although I'm definitely old.

Do you have to make me jealous of *every* aspect of your life? I mean.

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By *anchesterGuy1Man
9 weeks ago

Manchester

I'm so boring I send myself to sleep 😆

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By *r TriomanMan
9 weeks ago

Chippenham Malmesbury area

"Just been going through sone of my messages and honestly some of the things that seem to be exciting to others are just a no from me.

I'm not wanting to have sex in your car.

I don't want to get naked in the woods.

I also don't feel thrilled or excited by the prospect of a quickie or a hurried meet in the local travelodge!

Am I now old and boring?

What things make you think you might be? "

Hello OP, I'm glad you don't want to have sex in my car as I've just cleaned it. It's also great that you're not looking for naked forest adventures, it's freaking freezing outside. And I have a heart condition so I'll not be doing anything hurriedly either!

We aren't old or boring, we are sexy people who want to take time to enjoy the moment without freezing our bits off and/or getting cramp.

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By *icecouple561Couple
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9 weeks ago

East Sussex

"I don't think of myself as boring although I'm definitely old.

Do you have to make me jealous of *every* aspect of your life? I mean."

Sorry

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By *ack FrostyMan
9 weeks ago

Wolverhampton

I am happy bring me. Whatever that is. Most definitely boring at times.

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By *ack FrostyMan
9 weeks ago

Wolverhampton

"I am happy bring me. Whatever that is. Most definitely boring at times.

Being me

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By *actilenorfolkgentMan
9 weeks ago

Norwich

Think the ideal is always a warm bed, though outside in the woods on warm summer day does have its appeal, no not old and boring

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By *ock-a-doodledooMan
9 weeks ago

Grimsby ish

Your like a fine wine and should be admired and tasted slowly taking in all the aromas.

A nice warm bed for long slow love making....

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By *ierycpl08Couple
9 weeks ago

Barnsley

Nope we're exactly the same, it's trashy behaviour in my eyes you have some class or that's what I tell myself lol why have shitty ass quickies when life is for living

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By *eordieJeansCouple
9 weeks ago

Newcastle upon Tyne

"The fact I go to bed at 9:30pm on a Saturday night. you’d go to bed after MOTD if Newcastle were any good"

I’m up early enough the repeat on the Sunday morning…. And we’ve only lost once this season.

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By *imples24Man
9 weeks ago

tamworth

Who’s the judge of this boring?

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By (user no longer on site)
9 weeks ago

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By *uperSalopian7Man
9 weeks ago

Shrewsbury

We don't get older. We just get wiser

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By *eliWoman
9 weeks ago

No. You're middle aged but you're not boring. I don't want a Travelodge fuck. Sex in a car... not with some random person. Maybe driving home from something and the urge is there but not happening with someone I don't know.

I also don't want to hear stories of going all night to find they're asleep by 10pm and the next morning all groggy and grouchy and... the tank is empty. I unashamedly like passion and lust and desire and anything less than? I can't be fucked.

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By *heHookyMonsterMan
9 weeks ago

Liverpool

"Just been going through sone of my messages and honestly some of the things that seem to be exciting to others are just a no from me.

I'm not wanting to have sex in your car.

I don't want to get naked in the woods.

I also don't feel thrilled or excited by the prospect of a quickie or a hurried meet in the local travelodge!

Am I now old and boring?

What things make you think you might be? "

I've started to wonder the same about myself. I'd like tothink it's just a case of having some class to be honest, but in my case it's not for me to judge myself.

I would suggest from your photos that you're all about class. Sexiness, passion and class aren't mutually exclusive to my mind. I don't get messaged at all though, so hard to judge.

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By *reative-mindMan
9 weeks ago

Exeter

Who's getting naked in the woods at this time of year?

Wrong un's!

Op no youre not getting old just wiser!

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By *icecouple561Couple
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9 weeks ago

East Sussex

I got naked in the woods when it was -2°c once, then Mr N handcuffed me to a tree . We were a bit younger but we had a really good laugh.

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By *aigressMan
9 weeks ago

Cardiff

I'm a bit of a unit.. so the thought of sex in a car ... is a bit like asking me to play twister in a cardboard box.

It ain't gonna be pretty and I'm don't gonna be able to hit all the angles.

So a no from me.

I love the woods.. I like a walk / nature.

But I don't like the idea of turning that into a sex place.. and have some dog turn up followed by its owner carrying a bag of shit.

Maybe I'm old too

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By *luebell888Woman
9 weeks ago

Glasgowish

I must admit I do enjoy my nights in but think that is probably due to working nights. Sex in the woods I still find very appealing although I move around to much to find car sex enjoyable these days.

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By *agatoXXXMan
9 weeks ago

Gone and completely forgotten.

"Just been going through sone of my messages and honestly some of the things that seem to be exciting to others are just a no from me.

I'm not wanting to have sex in your car.

I don't want to get naked in the woods.

I also don't feel thrilled or excited by the prospect of a quickie or a hurried meet in the local travelodge!

Am I now old and boring?

What things make you think you might be? "

I've always been boring. The old part is more recent.

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By *lowupdollTV/TS
9 weeks ago

Herts

Getting old and boring is a privilege isn’t it?

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By *inky Biscuit DunkerMan
9 weeks ago

Gloucestershire

I've just become less tolerant of numpties (other words of choice are available).

If that makes me old and boring, so be it

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By *r.XratedMan
9 weeks ago

Liverpool/ New York

It’s natural as sexual arousal becomes more mental than physical the older we get

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By *atnip make me purrWoman
9 weeks ago

Reading

I didn't like doing those things in my 20s so im just consistent.

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By *icecouple561Couple
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9 weeks ago

East Sussex

"Getting old and boring is a privilege isn’t it? "

Damn right!

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By *phrodisiac2000Man
9 weeks ago

blazing Saddleworth

I agree lots of the things that might have floated my boat years ago no longer appeal to me

I’m more about taking my time having a warm cosy room and taking my time rather wham bam

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By *heHookyMonsterMan
9 weeks ago

Liverpool

"Getting old and boring is a privilege isn’t it?

Damn right!"

Very true! I count ten friends in my work life alone who haven't got to anything like old age. It's an absolute privilege to be breathing, whatever the state of play.

I appear to be seen as past my sell-by date on here now (although the reality in person is far from being the case), but Fab isn't life/life isn't Fab. I'm blessed.

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By *eavenscentitCouple
9 weeks ago

barnstaple

I'm stable, content and boring - I love it. Ms

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