FabSwingers.com forum: Dose anyone answer messages ?

By *hmygod OP Man
9 weeks ago

Telford Shropshire

Want to put something here but I know that you ladies get so many and can’t reply to all and I know you get messages that just say .. do you want to fuck !! And that’s not a message girl there are some good guys out there and I know you all know that but some do fuck it up for others….

Let’s see how much shit I get for this …

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By *mmaleiaWoman
9 weeks ago

East Northamptonshire

Nobody wants a dose, that’s for sure

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By *NormalMan01Man
9 weeks ago

Harrogate

You’ve not actually made a point. Just some shouting, tbh.

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By *asty tatsyMan
9 weeks ago

london

It is what it is my friend, I was having a convo.l with someone and then blocked out of now where. But we move on that’s all you can do

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By *uenevereWoman
9 weeks ago

Scunthorpe

OP you've had meets on here so obviously some ladies reply.

If I was looking to meet men, the poor spelling and grammar would put me off, not to mention the plethora of cock on your profile.

If you do better in person, definitely try clubs and socials.

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By *r John WickMan
9 weeks ago

The Continental

Does anyone answer messages?

Yes they do.

You’re welcome.

Next question.

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By *espacito56Man
9 weeks ago

Orkney

Always.

But then I hardly ever get any, so...

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By *abtastic Mr FoxMan
9 weeks ago

A den in the Glen

Release the bungs, tighten the baffle plates. Your inbox is about to be flooded.

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By *ripodius WillyusMan
9 weeks ago

Here and there

God this irritates me another oh look at me I crave attention bloke.

If poster was on a muppet show which would he best suit 😁

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By *issYeuxBleusWoman
9 weeks ago

My boudoir - S Wales

"Release the bungs, tighten the baffle plates. Your inbox is about to be flooded."

You can release my bungs and tighten my baffle plates any day!

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By *weet and SpiceCouple
9 weeks ago

Around the Midlands

We try to respond if the messages aren't obvious copy and pastes or just one line demands!

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By *ruceyyMan
9 weeks ago

London

"We try to respond if the messages aren't obvious copy and pastes or just one line demands!"

The only thing I want to copy and paste with you is the 10/10 sex over and over 😘😘

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By *asty tatsyMan
9 weeks ago

london

"We try to respond if the messages aren't obvious copy and pastes or just one line demands!

The only thing I want to copy and paste with you is the 10/10 sex over and over 😘😘"

Brucey is back when did this happen. Welcome back mate

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By *eroLondonMan
9 weeks ago

Mayfair

Ye shall find all the answers here, my young Sirrah. It's an edification. 🩶

https://m.fabswingers.com/forum-search/Much%2bluck

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By *weet and SpiceCouple
9 weeks ago

Around the Midlands

"We try to respond if the messages aren't obvious copy and pastes or just one line demands!

The only thing I want to copy and paste with you is the 10/10 sex over and over 😘😘

Brucey is back when did this happen. Welcome back mate "

Looks like he's back to his old tricks again, the charmer 😂

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By *ightnow500Man
9 weeks ago

Bristol

Hey who’s looking

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By *obert RichardsMan
9 weeks ago

Surrey

I've been on here for over 10 years and only had one message and no meets. How do I meet people?

READ MY PROFILE

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By *riel13Woman
9 weeks ago

Northampton

Nobody fucks it up for others... I only answer messages that were sent by people I am attracted to and that I believe may actually be attracted to me too... They can only fuck it up themselves

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By *hmygod OP Man
9 weeks ago

Telford Shropshire

Very sorry but we are not all English school teachers are we ? And I do have meets but nothing off this site and yes I do go to clubs ..

enjoy your evening

And my point know body knows anyone unless you chat ??

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By *ickle-Lilly-WillyMan
9 weeks ago

Ends

If they don’t reply I just reckon they’re not attracted to me. If I can’t message them, I carry on with my life.

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By *asty tatsyMan
9 weeks ago

london

"We try to respond if the messages aren't obvious copy and pastes or just one line demands!

The only thing I want to copy and paste with you is the 10/10 sex over and over 😘😘

Brucey is back when did this happen. Welcome back mate

Looks like he's back to his old tricks again, the charmer 😂"

He has a point though

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
9 weeks ago

Central

Yes all the time.

But I study the profile of the sender, before I read and reply, so I know whether there's any potential compatibility.

I don't pursue dead end roads, when driving, however different the tarmac might seem.

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By *inkyropecoupleCouple
9 weeks ago

carluke

We try to answer all messages with the same level of effort - its amusing thinking about how excited the “hi” brigade must get when they see they have a new message, only to open it and see nothing more than a full stop 😂

But if some effort is put into a message - and it’s relevant to us and our profile, we will reply courteously

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By *ittle Miss TinkerbellWoman
9 weeks ago

your head

I reply, sometimes. If the profile interests me, if I'm in the mood, if it's a good message, if I feel like it. Previous messages don't impact new ones but all the above does.

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By *abtastic Mr FoxMan
9 weeks ago

A den in the Glen

"Release the bungs, tighten the baffle plates. Your inbox is about to be flooded.

You can release my bungs and tighten my baffle plates any day!"

Haha I would actually tighten your bungs and loosen your baffle plates MYB 😉. Many times over

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By *hmygod OP Man
9 weeks ago

Telford Shropshire

Love it that I put a message in the forum and loads of people reply and start giving there options.. but send a nice respectful message and blank nothing hahahah

Better stick to clubs I think …

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By *adawacoMan
9 weeks ago

south shields

Literally "welcome to fab" a new local site user, message got read and deleted.. no reply.

It's pretty ignorant and really off-putting to even attempt to socialise on here if that happens, incredibly rude some people are.

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By *ittle Miss TinkerbellWoman
9 weeks ago

your head

"Literally "welcome to fab" a new local site user, message got read and deleted.. no reply.

It's pretty ignorant and really off-putting to even attempt to socialise on here if that happens, incredibly rude some people are."

What's ignorant and rude about not reply to a strangers unsolicited message?

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By *agatoXXXMan
9 weeks ago

Gone and completely forgotten.

Always, unless the message is abusive.

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By *adawacoMan
9 weeks ago

south shields

Deleting somebody's message when they're simply welcoming you to the site is rude and ignorant.

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By *ickle-Lilly-WillyMan
9 weeks ago

Ends

"Deleting somebody's message when they're simply welcoming you to the site is rude and ignorant."

😂😂😂😂😂

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By *ittle Miss TinkerbellWoman
9 weeks ago

your head

"Deleting somebody's message when they're simply welcoming you to the site is rude and ignorant."

No, it's not.

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By *ickle-Lilly-WillyMan
9 weeks ago

Ends

"Deleting somebody's message when they're simply welcoming you to the site is rude and ignorant."

Did you really message a stranger to say welcome to the site?

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By *eroLondonMan
9 weeks ago

Mayfair

"Deleting somebody's message when they're simply welcoming you to the site is rude and ignorant."

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Here's your answer.

https://m.fabswingers.com/articles/FAQ#noreply

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By *riel13Woman
9 weeks ago

Northampton

"Deleting somebody's message when they're simply welcoming you to the site is rude and ignorant."

Would you like to be a nice young lady's secretary, when she joins then as she will get about 100 of those messages in the first hour of her joining and that's probably a low estimate... And without any profile or pictures

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By (user no longer on site)
9 weeks ago

Yes we answer messages but only to the people we are interested in. Women who say they can't get through them all are lying, filters sort out most of the nonsense. I read every one I get so if I haven't replied, they aren't for me simple as that.

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By *bi HaiveMan
Forum Mod
9 weeks ago

Cheeseville, Somerset

Why is it always women that are accused of not answering messages?

I don't reply to all of mine.

Nobody is obliged to. 🤔🤷‍♂️

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By *ickle-Lilly-WillyMan
9 weeks ago

Ends

"Why is it always women that are accused of not answering messages?

I don't reply to all of mine.

Nobody is obliged to. 🤔🤷‍♂️"

Humble brag here

No but I like it though

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By *r John WickMan
9 weeks ago

The Continental

"Yes we answer messages but only to the people we are interested in. Women who say they can't get through them all are lying, filters sort out most of the nonsense. I read every one I get so if I haven't replied, they aren't for me simple as that."

Away with your sensibleness.

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By *ora the explorerWoman
9 weeks ago

Paradise, Herts

I probably answer about one in 50 unless it’s someone I know.

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By *reyToTheFairiesWoman
9 weeks ago

Carlisle usually

Yup.

I answer most messages that manage more than four whole words and don't have a dick pic attached.

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By *8on33Man
9 weeks ago

winfrith

" Want to put something here but I know that you ladies get so many and can’t reply to all and I know you get messages that just say .. do you want to fuck !! And that’s not a message girl there are some good guys out there and I know you all know that but some do fuck it up for others….

Let’s see how much shit I get for this …"
Women answer my messages not all women but most women so I guess it's the way you message ,stop thinking with your dick and make friends first ,then the messages will flow .

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By (user no longer on site)
9 weeks ago

Back in the early 2010s, this thread would be nothing but people saying "BAWWWWW"

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By (user no longer on site)
9 weeks ago

"God this irritates me another oh look at me I crave attention bloke.

If poster was on a muppet show which would he best suit 😁"

Irritates me why some single guys have a profile picture of a woman, would maybe give folks a better idea if you actually advertised a picture of yourself rather than some random person.

Just saying.

I'm selling my car next week, but maybe I should upload a pic of my van instead as it's newer ?

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By *NormalMan01Man
9 weeks ago

Harrogate

The most logical explanation.

It really shouldn’t get to people about who does and doesn’t answer messages though. I mean, just because it’s a site to meet people, some assume it’s a site for sex. There’s another site for that and you pay the people you meet…

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By *imples24Man
9 weeks ago

tamworth

Do single blokes, who are straight that get messages of guys wanting a piece of the pie. Do you reply to all of them or just ignore as it’s not what you are after?

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By *ack FrostyMan
9 weeks ago

Wolverhampton

The truth is no one has to answer any message

As a male on this site you don’t have to answer any messages or carry on interacting with anyone

One thing we still have left is the ability to choose who we interact with

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By *cnugatugMan
9 weeks ago

Chatham

Incoherent babble is all I got from this

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By *NormalMan01Man
9 weeks ago

Harrogate

"God this irritates me another oh look at me I crave attention bloke.

If poster was on a muppet show which would he best suit 😁

Irritates me why some single guys have a profile picture of a woman, would maybe give folks a better idea if you actually advertised a picture of yourself rather than some random person.

Just saying.

I'm selling my car next week, but maybe I should upload a pic of my van instead as it's newer ?"

Can I buy your van? 😂

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By *reative-mindMan
9 weeks ago

Exeter

I fully agree or disagree with all of this....

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By (user no longer on site)
9 weeks ago

Women get tons of messages.

First thing you should do is learn to spell.

Badly composed messages are likely to be deleted instantly.

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By *ark n kimCouple
9 weeks ago

Durham

We answer messages as long some effort has been put in,it's the same with the profile.

Any one sending a one word or one line message get deleted.

Same if they have nothing or fill in later on their profile.

They don't spoil nothing for the good profiles and messages,they actually make the good ones stand out.

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