FabSwingers.com forum: I met a lady on here ..we had sex ..now we have the most amazing beautiful baby ..

By *ereforfunxx OP Man
13 weeks ago

wirral

Basically we met 1 time sheets fell pregnant..we have a amazing child..but we struggling to find how we fit together besides the baby...what's the best thing to do

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By (user no longer on site)
13 weeks ago

You had a paternity test?

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By *ereforfunxx OP Man
13 weeks ago

wirral

Yes mate

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By *icecouple561Couple
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13 weeks ago

East Sussex

The best thing to do is whatever is best for your child. If you need to get professional counselling to do that then do.

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By *ereforfunxx OP Man
13 weeks ago

wirral

Most amazing blessing ..unplanned

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By *ereforfunxx OP Man
13 weeks ago

wirral

When do you no it it's just what you think is right

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By *icecouple561Couple
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13 weeks ago

East Sussex

"When do you no it it's just what you think is right "

I don't know what you mean. When you think what is right?

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By (user no longer on site)
13 weeks ago

Your a year over age to join the French foreign legion.

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By (user no longer on site)
13 weeks ago

And don't do overtime while they assess you for CSA.

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By *ereforfunxx OP Man
13 weeks ago

wirral

Dont get me wrong me and his mum couldn't love him any more but we both got to a nowhere were asking are we just together for him...is that a good enoughreasonto be together..

No body wants a broken home but I personallygrew up in a fam where parents resented eachotherand argued I'd never let him see the same but at what pointdo u realise..

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By *icecouple561Couple
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13 weeks ago

East Sussex

Kids need to know they're loved and to have a good example of what adults respecting each other looks like. They also need to see what good relationships look like.

Decide between the two of you what you want to do but if neither of you know why you're together you have a lot of talking to do

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By *icecouple561Couple
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13 weeks ago

East Sussex

"Your a year over age to join the French foreign legion. "

Why would he want to join the foreign legion?

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By (user no longer on site)
13 weeks ago

"Your a year over age to join the French foreign legion.

Why would he want to join the foreign legion?"

He might want the sun and adventure

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By *ereforfunxx OP Man
13 weeks ago

wirral

Thanks for advice nicecouple

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By *icecouple561Couple
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13 weeks ago

East Sussex

"Thanks for advice nicecouple"

Welcome

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By *ereforfunxx OP Man
13 weeks ago

wirral

"Your a year over age to join the French foreign legion.

Why would he want to join the foreign legion?

He might want the sun and adventure "

Possibly

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By *icecouple561Couple
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13 weeks ago

East Sussex

"Your a year over age to join the French foreign legion.

Why would he want to join the foreign legion?

He might want the sun and adventure "

He could get that in Ibiza

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By *londebiguyMan
13 weeks ago

Southport

"Basically we met 1 time sheets fell pregnant..we have a amazing child..but we struggling to find how we fit together besides the baby...what's the best thing to do"

You put the child first and do everything best for that child.

It doesn't really matter more than that.

Maybe you will be a good couple or maybe not.

Just see how that side goes if you want.

But stay friendly and the child comes first no matter what is best way.

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By (user no longer on site)
13 weeks ago

"Your a year over age to join the French foreign legion.

Why would he want to join the foreign legion?"

You can join under a false name. They will deny you are there unless you are wanted for certain things.

If you do 5 years satisfactory service they give you a French passport.

I the name you enlisted under.

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By *ereforfunxx OP Man
13 weeks ago

wirral

How many years did u do

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By (user no longer on site)
13 weeks ago

"How many years did u do"

Prison?

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By *hesubtlegentMan
13 weeks ago

surrey

If you’re saying you don’t thing you should be together but staying for the sake of the baby, my advice is don’t. It’s best to have two loving parents that can be civil and get on after separating rather than a couple that resent each other because they are in a relationship that neither wants. Kids pick up on that and would be more damaging than living between parents sharing custody.

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By *ulie.your. bottom. slutTV/TS
13 weeks ago

Glasgow

Make another baby..

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By *ulie.your. bottom. slutTV/TS
13 weeks ago

Glasgow

Or 2 more..

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By *orthernJayMan
13 weeks ago

LHR

"And don't do overtime while they assess you for CSA. "

I sincerely hope you never have a child!

There’s so many fucked up children born to those who care more about themselves than their responsibility to raise the child!

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By (user no longer on site)
13 weeks ago

"And don't do overtime while they assess you for CSA.

I sincerely hope you never have a child!

There’s so many fucked up children born to those who care more about themselves than their responsibility to raise the child!

Bit judgemental that.

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By *orthernJayMan
13 weeks ago

LHR

"And don't do overtime while they assess you for CSA.

I sincerely hope you never have a child!

There’s so many fucked up children born to those who care more about themselves than their responsibility to raise the child!

Bit judgemental that.

More than happy to stand in judgement of anyone who doesn’t commit unequivocally to raising a child they’ve created!

Anyways, quietly back to your shadow #wave

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By (user no longer on site)
13 weeks ago

"And don't do overtime while they assess you for CSA.

I sincerely hope you never have a child!

There’s so many fucked up children born to those who care more about themselves than their responsibility to raise the child!

Bit judgemental that.

More than happy to stand in judgement of anyone who doesn’t commit unequivocally to raising a child they’ve created!

Anyways, quietly back to your shadow #wave

Who wants kids anyway?

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By *ereforfunxx OP Man
13 weeks ago

wirral

Before everyone starts arguing...neither of us me or mum are ever going to love or care for baby any less than we do now witch is with all are hart and being ...what ever comes of our relationship

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By (user no longer on site)
13 weeks ago

So anyway don't do overtime while they assess you, unless that's what you are willing to do for the next 17 or so years.

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By *ereforfunxx OP Man
13 weeks ago

wirral

Each to there own but ...mad thing to say that

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By *ereforfunxx OP Man
13 weeks ago

wirral

"So anyway don't do overtime while they assess you, unless that's what you are willing to do for the next 17 or so years. "

Who

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By (user no longer on site)
13 weeks ago

And bag up in future

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By (user no longer on site)
13 weeks ago

"So anyway don't do overtime while they assess you, unless that's what you are willing to do for the next 17 or so years.

Who"

The CSA

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By *ereforfunxx OP Man
13 weeks ago

wirral

Why would csa be a problem..if they got involved

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By *orthernJayMan
13 weeks ago

LHR

"Why would csa be a problem..if they got involved "

What he’s trying to promote is a falsifying of your financial position so you may reduce the amount of financial support you offer to the mother of your child.

Ignore him or anyone akin to him!

Raising a child a life long commitment, provide absolutely everything you can for them, every single day; anybody who says otherwise simply isn’t worth the bandwidth of your ears!

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By (user no longer on site)
13 weeks ago

"Why would csa be a problem..if they got involved

What he’s trying to promote is a falsifying of your financial position so you may reduce the amount of financial support you offer to the mother of your child.

Ignore him or anyone akin to him!

Raising a child a life long commitment, provide absolutely everything you can for them, every single day; anybody who says otherwise simply isn’t worth the bandwidth of your ears!"

That's untrue.

Base income should be assessed at a normal amount of hours.

Not at an unstainable amount.

This is why there's suicides and father's getting financialy destroyed, especially in low paid jobs.

Like most people

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By *ereforfunxx OP Man
13 weeks ago

wirral

Tbh mate I kinda new what he was sayin just wanted to see if he would admit it...

Money is irrelevant when it comes to kids ...

I do no that people have frustrations over csa ...that tends to be due to relationship they have with mother or father ..either way not kids fault

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By *ereforfunxx OP Man
13 weeks ago

wirral

"Why would csa be a problem..if they got involved

What he’s trying to promote is a falsifying of your financial position so you may reduce the amount of financial support you offer to the mother of your child.

Ignore him or anyone akin to him!

Raising a child a life long commitment, provide absolutely everything you can for them, every single day; anybody who says otherwise simply isn’t worth the bandwidth of your ears!

That's untrue.

Base income should be assessed at a normal amount of hours.

Not at an unstainable amount.

This is why there's suicides and father's getting financialy destroyed, especially in low paid jobs.

Like most people "

Agreed

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By *ereforfunxx OP Man
13 weeks ago

wirral

This thread has gone of line ...dont wana wind any one up over this

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By *ot really famousMan
13 weeks ago

monaghan

"Basically we met 1 time sheets fell pregnant..we have a amazing child..but we struggling to find how we fit together besides the baby...what's the best thing to do"
...did she verify you?

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By *andyCaneCuntWoman
13 weeks ago

Not the North West...

I guess the fun has stopped

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By *rishlad88Man
13 weeks ago

Co Dublin

"I guess the fun has stopped"

More than welcome to have fun chatting? Wyt

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By *orthern BeardMan
13 weeks ago

Preston

"I guess the fun has stopped"

For a second I thought you were quoting that TV gambling advert

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By *oxychicWoman
13 weeks ago

Nottinghamshire

U can be apart and raise the child together , if u both agree to do that , nothing says you have to be together to actively raise your child together x

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By *aomilatteCouple
13 weeks ago

Midlands

You need to talk as a couple. How old is the baby?

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By *low eaterMan
13 weeks ago

Shannon

Co Parent.

Live your lives separately without exposing your child to any toxicity that arises from people forcing themselves to be together.

Your child deserves a happy Mum and Dad, so do what it takes to make that the new reality

I do nearly 50-50 with my ex and it works. It will take effort and clear communication about the needs of your child but it can be done (:

Good luck brother

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By *ot really famousMan
13 weeks ago

monaghan

Is she still on here .?

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By *ools and the brainCouple
13 weeks ago

couple, us we him her.

Just be the best dad you can.

Certainly won't be the last accidental pregnancy in history.

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By *issmorganWoman
13 weeks ago

Calderdale innit

You don't have to be with the child's mother, to make sure the child is loved and cared for op.

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By *antasdeerideMan
13 weeks ago

winfrith

"Your a year over age to join the French foreign legion.

Why would he want to join the foreign legion?"
because hes French maybe.

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By *atnip make me purrWoman
13 weeks ago

Reading

When kids get put front and centre then there is little damage from being in a 2 household family. Two happy households is so much healthier than 1 with lots of fighting. Don't stay together for the kids unless you get on well. Be amicable and flexible at all times.

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By *oberto7Man
13 weeks ago

Greenock

Did ye aye 🤔

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By *laytime_13Woman
13 weeks ago

Lincs

"When kids get put front and centre then there is little damage from being in a 2 household family. Two happy households is so much healthier than 1 with lots of fighting. Don't stay together for the kids unless you get on well. Be amicable and flexible at all times. "

This.

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By (user no longer on site)
13 weeks ago

"Your a year over age to join the French foreign legion.

Why would he want to join the foreign legion?because hes French maybe."

Erm.........

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