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"I just had a message from a gay hairy man on trying to insult me saying I look like Angela rayner(I would fuck her). When I replies, better that than a hairy sod like him ,he replied by calling me a disgusting dressed oap who looked like the most hated me in the land . My question what's the issue ,he didn't have to look at my pics . And it is an alarming trend in gaymen who htpocritaly constantly moaned about straights guys being homophobic. " I’m sorry this individual felt it was ok to send you abuse. It’s not acceptable. Ok so it’s one gay man who insulted you, not all gay men. Bit of a leap to go from one to ‘an alarming trend in gay men’. | |||
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"I just had a message from a gay hairy man on trying to insult me saying I look like Angela rayner(I would fuck her). When I replies, better that than a hairy sod like him ,he replied by calling me a disgusting dressed oap who looked like the most hated me in the land . My question what's the issue ,he didn't have to look at my pics . And it is an alarming trend in gaymen who htpocritaly constantly moaned about straights guys being homophobic. " I once listened to Grayson Perry discussing TV's / trans and the bitching that goes on within the that community A kind of 'my trans is better than your trans' scenario I believe this extends to some gay men also - for a group that (quite rightly) seek inclusion, my experience with "the scene" is that it is often very exclusive I mean in terms of needing to fit certain criteria in order to belong to a certain group - hence why terms like 'twink' and 'bear' exist I am not going to explain away or apologise for some random guys bitterness and alienation towards you However, whilst I understand your frustration with the message, is calling him out for being a hairy gay any more helpful? It just kind of perpetuates the distance between the groups within the wider LGBTQ community His comments are not universal doctrine Sorry you have had this experience x | |||
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"I just had a message from a gay hairy man on trying to insult me saying I look like Angela rayner(I would fuck her). When I replies, better that than a hairy sod like him ,he replied by calling me a disgusting dressed oap who looked like the most hated me in the land . My question what's the issue ,he didn't have to look at my pics . And it is an alarming trend in gaymen who htpocritaly constantly moaned about straights guys being homophobic. I once listened to Grayson Perry discussing TV's / trans and the bitching that goes on within the that community A kind of 'my trans is better than your trans' scenario I believe this extends to some gay men also - for a group that (quite rightly) seek inclusion, my experience with "the scene" is that it is often very exclusive I mean in terms of needing to fit certain criteria in order to belong to a certain group - hence why terms like 'twink' and 'bear' exist I am not going to explain away or apologise for some random guys bitterness and alienation towards you However, whilst I understand your frustration with the message, is calling him out for being a hairy gay any more helpful? It just kind of perpetuates the distance between the groups within the wider LGBTQ community His comments are not universal doctrine Sorry you have had this experience x" It’s called ‘trannier than thou’. It’s an attitude rooted in deep insecurity. As I’m not trans but it bothers me. It’s a kind of bullying. Gay scene is very much masc4masc and fairly indifferent to intolerant of lesser mortals. Fems are generally looked down on. People gonna people. | |||
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"I just had a message from a gay hairy man on trying to insult me saying I look like Angela rayner(I would fuck her). When I replies, better that than a hairy sod like him ,he replied by calling me a disgusting dressed oap who looked like the most hated me in the land . My question what's the issue ,he didn't have to look at my pics . And it is an alarming trend in gaymen who htpocritaly constantly moaned about straights guys being homophobic. I’m sorry this individual felt it was ok to send you abuse. It’s not acceptable. Ok so it’s one gay man who insulted you, not all gay men. Bit of a leap to go from one to ‘an alarming trend in gay men’. " I understand what your saying and respect that ,but on the sister site ,fabguys ,it can get pretty bad | |||
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"I just had a message from a gay hairy man on trying to insult me saying I look like Angela rayner(I would fuck her). When I replies, better that than a hairy sod like him ,he replied by calling me a disgusting dressed oap who looked like the most hated me in the land . My question what's the issue ,he didn't have to look at my pics . And it is an alarming trend in gaymen who htpocritaly constantly moaned about straights guys being homophobic. I’m sorry this individual felt it was ok to send you abuse. It’s not acceptable. Ok so it’s one gay man who insulted you, not all gay men. Bit of a leap to go from one to ‘an alarming trend in gay men’. I understand what your saying and respect that ,but on the sister site ,fabguys ,it can get pretty bad " I’m just being a bit pedantic as it’s non sequitur. I don’t go on fabguys anyway, do not seen their attitudes on there but have heard sone can be pretty hostile. Maybe just stop using fabguys and focus on this site? | |||
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"I just had a message from a gay hairy man on trying to insult me saying I look like Angela rayner(I would fuck her). When I replies, better that than a hairy sod like him ,he replied by calling me a disgusting dressed oap who looked like the most hated me in the land . My question what's the issue ,he didn't have to look at my pics . And it is an alarming trend in gaymen who htpocritaly constantly moaned about straights guys being homophobic. I once listened to Grayson Perry discussing TV's / trans and the bitching that goes on within the that community A kind of 'my trans is better than your trans' scenario I believe this extends to some gay men also - for a group that (quite rightly) seek inclusion, my experience with "the scene" is that it is often very exclusive I mean in terms of needing to fit certain criteria in order to belong to a certain group - hence why terms like 'twink' and 'bear' exist I am not going to explain away or apologise for some random guys bitterness and alienation towards you However, whilst I understand your frustration with the message, is calling him out for being a hairy gay any more helpful? It just kind of perpetuates the distance between the groups within the wider LGBTQ community His comments are not universal doctrine Sorry you have had this experience x" Calling him out wasn't lol ,but it fud amuse me and I thought ,see uf you can take it ,he couldn't he blocked me . | |||
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"If you’d fuck Angela Rayner then surely that is a compliment and you insulted him first 🤔" True | |||
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"I just had a message from a gay hairy man on trying to insult me saying I look like Angela rayner(I would fuck her). When I replies, better that than a hairy sod like him ,he replied by calling me a disgusting dressed oap who looked like the most hated me in the land . My question what's the issue ,he didn't have to look at my pics . And it is an alarming trend in gaymen who htpocritaly constantly moaned about straights guys being homophobic. I’m sorry this individual felt it was ok to send you abuse. It’s not acceptable. Ok so it’s one gay man who insulted you, not all gay men. Bit of a leap to go from one to ‘an alarming trend in gay men’. I understand what your saying and respect that ,but on the sister site ,fabguys ,it can get pretty bad I’m just being a bit pedantic as it’s non sequitur. I don’t go on fabguys anyway, do not seen their attitudes on there but have heard sone can be pretty hostile. Maybe just stop using fabguys and focus on this site? " I get more action off fabguys than here ,and I'm thick skinned ,just posted to show what's out there | |||
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"I just had a message from a gay hairy man on trying to insult me saying I look like Angela rayner(I would fuck her). When I replies, better that than a hairy sod like him ,he replied by calling me a disgusting dressed oap who looked like the most hated me in the land . My question what's the issue ,he didn't have to look at my pics . And it is an alarming trend in gaymen who htpocritaly constantly moaned about straights guys being homophobic. I’m sorry this individual felt it was ok to send you abuse. It’s not acceptable. Ok so it’s one gay man who insulted you, not all gay men. Bit of a leap to go from one to ‘an alarming trend in gay men’. I understand what your saying and respect that ,but on the sister site ,fabguys ,it can get pretty bad I’m just being a bit pedantic as it’s non sequitur. I don’t go on fabguys anyway, do not seen their attitudes on there but have heard sone can be pretty hostile. Maybe just stop using fabguys and focus on this site? I get more action off fabguys than here ,and I'm thick skinned ,just posted to show what's out there " Ah ok. | |||
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 it’s just the way some are.
On Fab a few horrible messages but compared to all of the rest so insignificant that I don’t remember them that well. Sorry this has happened I agree with some of the other comments but most of all Angela Rayner is quite attractive, so his insult wasn’t a good one.  | |||
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"The most abuse I’ve ever had when dressed and out was in Manchester gay village by a d*unk gay guy. He objected that I was in a pub that was mainly for masculine guys. He got right up to my face and was literally yelling in my face. However his friends led him away before either of us did anything and they profusely apologised. Other gay guys came over to see if I was alright (I was, but a bit shaken up) even offering to buy me a stiff shot of something for my nerves. In that pub there were more good than bad, it was a one off and that’s how I see it. In all of my time going out dressed I’ve had more kindness than hatred. Dirty looks ? more gay guys than straight people it’s just the way some are.
On Fab a few horrible messages but compared to all of the rest so insignificant that I don’t remember them that well. Sorry this has happened I agree with some of the other comments but most of all Angela Rayner is quite attractive, so his insult wasn’t a good one. "I had a similar experience in a gay bar recently. I was out with a girlfriend and we shared a couple of kisses. A (d*unk) gay guy came over and got shouty about us invading a gay space. I very clearly and loudly told him to do one and that as a bi/queer couple we had just as much right to that space. His partner led him away and apologised but it’s clearly a fairly common attitude and occurrence. I think that some people gatekeep and that includes areas and attitudes of acceptance. For some, being LGBTQ+ means little and community is merely lip service | |||
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"Block and move on, yeah it can hurt your feelings, I know but it's not you, it's them. Most are lovely on here and on guys as well. 64 is no age xx" He blocked me lol . I know he's just a dick ,put it on mainly so he can read the rest of the people arnt picks like him | |||
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"The most abuse I’ve ever had when dressed and out was in Manchester gay village by a d*unk gay guy. He objected that I was in a pub that was mainly for masculine guys. He got right up to my face and was literally yelling in my face. However his friends led him away before either of us did anything and they profusely apologised. Other gay guys came over to see if I was alright (I was, but a bit shaken up) even offering to buy me a stiff shot of something for my nerves. In that pub there were more good than bad, it was a one off and that’s how I see it. In all of my time going out dressed I’ve had more kindness than hatred. Dirty looks ? more gay guys than straight people it’s just the way some are.
On Fab a few horrible messages but compared to all of the rest so insignificant that I don’t remember them that well. Sorry this has happened I agree with some of the other comments but most of all Angela Rayner is quite attractive, so his insult wasn’t a good one. "I realised I should have said the current trend ,as it's only guys that have a inferiority complex shout the abuse and a vast majority just mind there own business, but to be honest I wasn't hurt ,just wanted to call him out as I'm sure he read this | |||
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"I think you were the first to throw out an insult. Both as bad as each other. " how do you get that ,you haven't read the message ? So I stick pics on here and get a insult and we are both as bad as each other lol | |||
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"I think you were the first to throw out an insult. Both as bad as each other. how do you get that ,you haven't read the message ? So I stick pics on here and get a insult and we are both as bad as each other lol" From someone who dudes her profile ? | |||
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"What’s wrong with Angela Rayner? I think she looks quite nice. " Well, that was a thread killer  | |||
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"What’s wrong with Angela Rayner? I think she looks quite nice. " I'd fuck her ,but off his second mail he obviously thought she was ugly and not a nice person . To be honest when he first messaged me I mistook it for angela Rippon lol | |||
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"The only TVs that I would insult would be the Bang & Olufsen™ ones. 📺 You, OP, are ❣️." They sound like two Danish swingers. | |||
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"The most abuse I’ve ever had when dressed and out was in Manchester gay village by a d*unk gay guy. He objected that I was in a pub that was mainly for masculine guys. He got right up to my face and was literally yelling in my face. However his friends led him away before either of us did anything and they profusely apologised. Other gay guys came over to see if I was alright (I was, but a bit shaken up) even offering to buy me a stiff shot of something for my nerves. In that pub there were more good than bad, it was a one off and that’s how I see it. In all of my time going out dressed I’ve had more kindness than hatred. Dirty looks ? more gay guys than straight people it’s just the way some are.
On Fab a few horrible messages but compared to all of the rest so insignificant that I don’t remember them that well. Sorry this has happened I agree with some of the other comments but most of all Angela Rayner is quite attractive, so his insult wasn’t a good one. "I have had this multiple time from the gay boys when in gay pubs / bars. Few times an idiot got aggressive in my face poking me. So I just headbutted him out cold Insects these men at times  | |||
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"The most abuse I’ve ever had when dressed and out was in Manchester gay village by a d*unk gay guy. He objected that I was in a pub that was mainly for masculine guys. He got right up to my face and was literally yelling in my face. However his friends led him away before either of us did anything and they profusely apologised. Other gay guys came over to see if I was alright (I was, but a bit shaken up) even offering to buy me a stiff shot of something for my nerves. In that pub there were more good than bad, it was a one off and that’s how I see it. In all of my time going out dressed I’ve had more kindness than hatred. Dirty looks ? more gay guys than straight people it’s just the way some are.
On Fab a few horrible messages but compared to all of the rest so insignificant that I don’t remember them that well. Sorry this has happened I agree with some of the other comments but most of all Angela Rayner is quite attractive, so his insult wasn’t a good one.
I have had this multiple time from the gay boys when in gay pubs / bars. Few times an idiot got aggressive in my face poking me. So I just headbutted him out cold Insects these men at times ",,, really | |||
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"I just had a message from a gay hairy man on trying to insult me saying I look like Angela rayner(I would fuck her). When I replies, better that than a hairy sod like him ,he replied by calling me a disgusting dressed oap who looked like the most hated me in the land . My question what's the issue ,he didn't have to look at my pics . And it is an alarming trend in gaymen who htpocritaly constantly moaned about straights guys being homophobic. " its just pick on a guy who is 1 down on the pecking order,,, they get stick so need someone to give it too,,, | |||
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"The most abuse I’ve ever had when dressed and out was in Manchester gay village by a d*unk gay guy. He objected that I was in a pub that was mainly for masculine guys. He got right up to my face and was literally yelling in my face. However his friends led him away before either of us did anything and they profusely apologised. Other gay guys came over to see if I was alright (I was, but a bit shaken up) even offering to buy me a stiff shot of something for my nerves. In that pub there were more good than bad, it was a one off and that’s how I see it. In all of my time going out dressed I’ve had more kindness than hatred. Dirty looks ? more gay guys than straight people it’s just the way some are.
On Fab a few horrible messages but compared to all of the rest so insignificant that I don’t remember them that well. Sorry this has happened I agree with some of the other comments but most of all Angela Rayner is quite attractive, so his insult wasn’t a good one.
I have had this multiple time from the gay boys when in gay pubs / bars. Few times an idiot got aggressive in my face poking me. So I just headbutted him out cold Insects these men at times " I could’ve hit him I did box in the Army (admittedly it was called milling and it was a free for all) but I have this fear of being arrested when dressed. I wouldn’t mind but I was with two lesbians and three gay guys, the only reason I was in the bar. Yes I was the most feminine one in the group
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"I think you were the first to throw out an insult. Both as bad as each other. how do you get that ,you haven't read the message ? So I stick pics on here and get a insult and we are both as bad as each other lol" I got it from your first message. You insulted him. You say so clearly. | |||
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"I think you were the first to throw out an insult. Both as bad as each other. how do you get that ,you haven't read the message ? So I stick pics on here and get a insult and we are both as bad as each other lol I got it from your first message. You insulted him. You say so clearly." But you didn't, I said he was trying to insult me by say I looked like Angela rayner .he actually compounded what he thought of her in the return message . But bekeave what you wish ,I don't really care | |||
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"I think you were the first to throw out an insult. Both as bad as each other. how do you get that ,you haven't read the message ? So I stick pics on here and get a insult and we are both as bad as each other lol I got it from your first message. You insulted him. You say so clearly. But you didn't, I said he was trying to insult me by say I looked like Angela rayner .he actually compounded what he thought of her in the return message . But bekeave what you wish ,I don't really care " Still hid thougb | |||
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"I think you were the first to throw out an insult. Both as bad as each other. how do you get that ,you haven't read the message ? So I stick pics on here and get a insult and we are both as bad as each other lol I got it from your first message. You insulted him. You say so clearly. But you didn't, I said he was trying to insult me by say I looked like Angela rayner .he actually compounded what he thought of her in the return message . But bekeave what you wish ,I don't really care " You seem to have taken the Angela Rayner comparison as an insult, and then things escalated. Why did you take offence at the comparison? Particularly since you say you find her attractive yourself? And did you report the poster? | |||
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"I think you were the first to throw out an insult. Both as bad as each other. how do you get that ,you haven't read the message ? So I stick pics on here and get a insult and we are both as bad as each other lol I got it from your first message. You insulted him. You say so clearly." Yeah that’s how it reads alright. | |||
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"I would like to pre-empt any negativity around that last part by explaining how I recieved a telling off from a d*unk university student for saying LGBT. Apparently I was showing a lack of respect for the other community members and my language was not very inclusive. There were a few expletives in their rant. I did not engage in a debate as I find it is hard to reason with the angry, young, virtue signalling people of today. Especially when they're d*unk." D*unk people are a waste of space fullstop to even communicate with in debate | |||
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"I always think, that any homophobia, where ever it originates from , Straight , Bi, Gay , Lesbian, wherever, is generally based on a fear that if they tried it, they might like it, and that’s frightens them. " Or perhaps they were just raised by/around intolerant fcuking degenerates | |||
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"I always think, that any homophobia, where ever it originates from , Straight , Bi, Gay , Lesbian, wherever, is generally based on a fear that if they tried it, they might like it, and that’s frightens them. " Yeah, that's the limit of why it might be.... obviously highly qualified in psychology! 🤣 | |||
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"How is that an insult other than her politics. Female & red hair, isn't that what you wish to achieve in your look? " Not really ,and his following message showed he thought she was vile and ugly .I think she's hot lol | |||
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"I think you were the first to throw out an insult. Both as bad as each other. how do you get that ,you haven't read the message ? So I stick pics on here and get a insult and we are both as bad as each other lol I got it from your first message. You insulted him. You say so clearly. Yeah that’s how it reads alright. " Yes after the insult for no reason ,I retaliated ,I'm bad | |||
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"The most abuse I’ve ever had when dressed and out was in Manchester gay village by a d*unk gay guy. He objected that I was in a pub that was mainly for masculine guys. He got right up to my face and was literally yelling in my face. However his friends led him away before either of us did anything and they profusely apologised. Other gay guys came over to see if I was alright (I was, but a bit shaken up) even offering to buy me a stiff shot of something for my nerves. In that pub there were more good than bad, it was a one off and that’s how I see it. In all of my time going out dressed I’ve had more kindness than hatred. Dirty looks ? more gay guys than straight people it’s just the way some are.
On Fab a few horrible messages but compared to all of the rest so insignificant that I don’t remember them that well. Sorry this has happened I agree with some of the other comments but most of all Angela Rayner is quite attractive, so his insult wasn’t a good one.
I have had this multiple time from the gay boys when in gay pubs / bars. Few times an idiot got aggressive in my face poking me. So I just headbutted him out cold Insects these men at times
I could’ve hit him I did box in the Army (admittedly it was called milling and it was a free for all) but I have this fear of being arrested when dressed. I wouldn’t mind but I was with two lesbians and three gay guys, the only reason I was in the bar. Yes I was the most feminine one in the group
I must admit not been out for awhile so with the general attitude towards the Trans community I can only see things getting worse. "Must admit, I'm a lot more hesitant about going out dressed these days. | |||
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"The most abuse I’ve ever had when dressed and out was in Manchester gay village by a d*unk gay guy. He objected that I was in a pub that was mainly for masculine guys. He got right up to my face and was literally yelling in my face. However his friends led him away before either of us did anything and they profusely apologised. Other gay guys came over to see if I was alright (I was, but a bit shaken up) even offering to buy me a stiff shot of something for my nerves. In that pub there were more good than bad, it was a one off and that’s how I see it. In all of my time going out dressed I’ve had more kindness than hatred. Dirty looks ? more gay guys than straight people it’s just the way some are.
On Fab a few horrible messages but compared to all of the rest so insignificant that I don’t remember them that well. Sorry this has happened I agree with some of the other comments but most of all Angela Rayner is quite attractive, so his insult wasn’t a good one.
I have had this multiple time from the gay boys when in gay pubs / bars. Few times an idiot got aggressive in my face poking me. So I just headbutted him out cold Insects these men at times
I could’ve hit him I did box in the Army (admittedly it was called milling and it was a free for all) but I have this fear of being arrested when dressed. I wouldn’t mind but I was with two lesbians and three gay guys, the only reason I was in the bar. Yes I was the most feminine one in the group
I must admit not been out for awhile so with the general attitude towards the Trans community I can only see things getting worse.
Must admit, I'm a lot more hesitant about going out dressed these days."It's getting too cold to go out naked,though.🥶 | |||
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I like to think i'm still capable. Right up to the point where I fall asleep "Fist point. The sweet spot is the period where you are unbeatable at pool, which is shortly followed by the bit where you’re not sure which balls you’re on | |||
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"The most abuse I’ve ever had when dressed and out was in Manchester gay village by a d*unk gay guy. He objected that I was in a pub that was mainly for masculine guys. He got right up to my face and was literally yelling in my face. However his friends led him away before either of us did anything and they profusely apologised. Other gay guys came over to see if I was alright (I was, but a bit shaken up) even offering to buy me a stiff shot of something for my nerves. In that pub there were more good than bad, it was a one off and that’s how I see it. In all of my time going out dressed I’ve had more kindness than hatred. Dirty looks ? more gay guys than straight people it’s just the way some are.
On Fab a few horrible messages but compared to all of the rest so insignificant that I don’t remember them that well. Sorry this has happened I agree with some of the other comments but most of all Angela Rayner is quite attractive, so his insult wasn’t a good one.
I have had this multiple time from the gay boys when in gay pubs / bars. Few times an idiot got aggressive in my face poking me. So I just headbutted him out cold Insects these men at times
I could’ve hit him I did box in the Army (admittedly it was called milling and it was a free for all) but I have this fear of being arrested when dressed. I wouldn’t mind but I was with two lesbians and three gay guys, the only reason I was in the bar. Yes I was the most feminine one in the group
I must admit not been out for awhile so with the general attitude towards the Trans community I can only see things getting worse.
Must admit, I'm a lot more hesitant about going out dressed these days.
It's getting too cold to go out naked,though.🥶"other day I was walking on the beach for my steps ... and there was 2 older guys sat naked in dunes ,, now the sun was semi out but it was like 14 temp lol | |||
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"I always think, that any homophobia, where ever it originates from , Straight , Bi, Gay , Lesbian, wherever, is generally based on a fear that if they tried it, they might like it, and that’s frightens them. " I don’t buy the “fear” idea, and therefore don’t agree with “phobia” being used to describe obnoxious or discriminatory behaviour. I find it far more likely that some people like taking the piss out of anyone unconventional, or anyone who doesn’t conform to their own social / world view. They feel that anyone “different” is just weird or wrong, and it’s ok to slag them off, or worse. | |||
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"The most abuse I’ve ever had when dressed and out was in Manchester gay village by a d*unk gay guy. He objected that I was in a pub that was mainly for masculine guys. He got right up to my face and was literally yelling in my face. However his friends led him away before either of us did anything and they profusely apologised. Other gay guys came over to see if I was alright (I was, but a bit shaken up) even offering to buy me a stiff shot of something for my nerves. In that pub there were more good than bad, it was a one off and that’s how I see it. In all of my time going out dressed I’ve had more kindness than hatred. Dirty looks ? more gay guys than straight people it’s just the way some are.
On Fab a few horrible messages but compared to all of the rest so insignificant that I don’t remember them that well. Sorry this has happened I agree with some of the other comments but most of all Angela Rayner is quite attractive, so his insult wasn’t a good one.
I have had this multiple time from the gay boys when in gay pubs / bars. Few times an idiot got aggressive in my face poking me. So I just headbutted him out cold Insects these men at times
I could’ve hit him I did box in the Army (admittedly it was called milling and it was a free for all) but I have this fear of being arrested when dressed. I wouldn’t mind but I was with two lesbians and three gay guys, the only reason I was in the bar. Yes I was the most feminine one in the group
I must admit not been out for awhile so with the general attitude towards the Trans community I can only see things getting worse.
Must admit, I'm a lot more hesitant about going out dressed these days.
It's getting too cold to go out naked,though.🥶
other day I was walking on the beach for my steps ... and there was 2 older guys sat naked in dunes ,, now the sun was semi out but it was like 14 temp lol "The sun was semi out? That’s the only semi when it’s that cold | |||
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"I just had a message from a gay hairy man on trying to insult me saying I look like Angela rayner(I would fuck her). When I replies, better that than a hairy sod like him ,he replied by calling me a disgusting dressed oap who looked like the most hated me in the land . My question what's the issue ,he didn't have to look at my pics . And it is an alarming trend in gaymen who htpocritaly constantly moaned about straights guys being homophobic. " How do you feel now about the generalisation you made in the heading on this thread? | |||
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"I just had a message from a gay hairy man on trying to insult me saying I look like Angela rayner(I would fuck her). When I replies, better that than a hairy sod like him ,he replied by calling me a disgusting dressed oap who looked like the most hated me in the land . My question what's the issue ,he didn't have to look at my pics . And it is an alarming trend in gaymen who htpocritaly constantly moaned about straights guys being homophobic. How do you feel now about the generalisation you made in the heading on this thread? " Maybe a bit hasty .but on fabguys the few seem to shout loudest | |||
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"I’ve just had abuse on here. First time in ages Reported so not sure what he gets out of it. " 🥺😢 | |||
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"I really, really don't get what anyone gets from insulting anyone. What's the fucking point except either you are wanting to make yourself feel good and being an arse does that for you. Or you are ok with making people feel shit because someone is different to you." What they get out of insults is venting about their own inadequaces. | |||
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"I really, really don't get what anyone gets from insulting anyone. What's the fucking point except either you are wanting to make yourself feel good and being an arse does that for you. Or you are ok with making people feel shit because someone is different to you. What they get out of insults is venting about their own inadequaces. " You may have a point. I would not be suprised if most of the people sending abuse on here fit a certain profile type | |||
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"I really, really don't get what anyone gets from insulting anyone. What's the fucking point except either you are wanting to make yourself feel good and being an arse does that for you. Or you are ok with making people feel shit because someone is different to you. What they get out of insults is venting about their own inadequaces. You may have a point. I would not be suprised if most of the people sending abuse on here fit a certain profile type " What profile type is that then? | |||
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"I really, really don't get what anyone gets from insulting anyone. What's the fucking point except either you are wanting to make yourself feel good and being an arse does that for you. Or you are ok with making people feel shit because someone is different to you. What they get out of insults is venting about their own inadequaces. You may have a point. I would not be suprised if most of the people sending abuse on here fit a certain profile type What profile type is that then? " I’m not saying I know what that is - but there will be a pattern, | |||
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