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By *orny salesman OP   Man
13 weeks ago

Preston

Lots of women asking for Dom but when you talk to them they aren't really sub at all just seems they want a bit of rougher sex not really wanting to explore their limits

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By *ean directMan
13 weeks ago

havant

Is that not something you build up to with trust etc

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By *ack FrostyMan
13 weeks ago

Wolverhampton


"Lots of women asking for Dom but when you talk to them they aren't really sub at all just seems they want a bit of rougher sex not really wanting to explore their limits "

And..

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By (user no longer on site)
13 weeks ago


"Lots of women asking for Dom but when you talk to them they aren't really sub at all just seems they want a bit of rougher sex not really wanting to explore their limits "
Sensual and kinky. Its all about what scenarios that turns you on and sparks can fly If you submitted to and those glorious experiences and given a deeper understanding of the joys of domination. OP its more then rougher sex.

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By *tlanshiaWoman
13 weeks ago

Chatham

Just because a woman is submissive doesn't mean she will submit to every man in her inbox. Lol.

It takes time, trust and respect. Most men neglect that cause they wanna rush to the sex. It took me months to trust and accept my fantasy. My Dom gets the kinky slut because he was patient and kind bringing her out.

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By *pankingNorfolkCouple
13 weeks ago

Norwichish

Also every D/s dynamic is different.

Go on that FETish LIFEstyle website and just see the range of subs.

Dom to some may just mean someone who takes control, not even rough sex, for others it will be full submission with the willingness to be treated as a plaything to the Dom and to do whatever they say.

But there will nearly always be some limit and that’s part of the consent conversation before any D/s scene/interaction/meet

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By *ack FrostyMan
13 weeks ago

Wolverhampton


"Lots of women asking for Dom but when you talk to them they aren't really sub at all just seems they want a bit of rougher sex not really wanting to explore their limits "

Do you think they should go from not knowing someone from a swinging site to exploring limits.

There are many stages to go through starting with communication, trust, honesty and respect

I would politely suggest that bemoaning of this on here breaks respect and trust as even though you don’t name them they will know you’re talking about them.

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By *orny salesman OP   Man
13 weeks ago

Preston


"Lots of women asking for Dom but when you talk to them they aren't really sub at all just seems they want a bit of rougher sex not really wanting to explore their limits Sensual and kinky. Its all about what scenarios that turns you on and sparks can fly If you submitted to and those glorious experiences and given a deeper understanding of the joys of domination. OP its more then rougher sex. "

That's exactly what l was meaning a lot of women say they want to be sub and earn l tell them what l like as an experienced Dom they get cold feet

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By *ornycougaWoman
13 weeks ago

Wherever I lay my hat

Funny that because Fab is littered with guys purporting to be "Dom" when all they want is rough sex, shoot their muck and leave and wouldn't know how to to conduct a D/S relationship if their lives depended on it

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By *reyToTheFairiesWoman
13 weeks ago

Carlisle usually


"That's exactly what l was meaning a lot of women say they want to be sub and earn l tell them what l like as an experienced Dom they get cold feet "

"Experienced" Dom does not equal compatible Dom.

How are you telling them what you like? Even if it doesn't come across as rude and pushy it could easily be a simple case of they're not into that.

There are things I'll happily do for certain people within a developed dynamic, but if any of them had approached me as a stranger with a list of such as requirements I'd have never bothered to get to know them at all.

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By *issTinyWoman
13 weeks ago

omagh

You’re the type of rotten egg that’s hard to out on here but eventually tells on himself anyway. The perfect Dom encounters I’ve had took time to build the trust, get that and you get everything.

Some guys simply enjoy beyond rough sex, and expect those describing themselves as “sub” to mean sla\/e, and even at times have used the Dom term wrongly to justify what could qualify as sexual abuse.

An actual Dom is a quiet, behind the scenes presence that would never think like this, let alone expose himself as a fake by posting it.

Work on yourself.

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By *tlanshiaWoman
13 weeks ago

Chatham


"You’re the type of rotten egg that’s hard to out on here but eventually tells on himself anyway. The perfect Dom encounters I’ve had took time to build the trust, get that and you get everything.

Some guys simply enjoy beyond rough sex, and expect those describing themselves as “sub” to mean sla\/e, and even at times have used the Dom term wrongly to justify what could qualify as sexual abuse.

An actual Dom is a quiet, behind the scenes presence that would never think like this, let alone expose himself as a fake by posting it.

Work on yourself.

"

*Claps*

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By *uacksplat.Woman
13 weeks ago

Star Trekking Across The Universe


"You’re the type of rotten egg that’s hard to out on here but eventually tells on himself anyway. The perfect Dom encounters I’ve had took time to build the trust, get that and you get everything.

Some guys simply enjoy beyond rough sex, and expect those describing themselves as “sub” to mean sla\/e, and even at times have used the Dom term wrongly to justify what could qualify as sexual abuse.

An actual Dom is a quiet, behind the scenes presence that would never think like this, let alone expose himself as a fake by posting it.

Work on yourself.

*Claps*"

👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻

🦆

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By *olly MistlehoeWoman
13 weeks ago

Somewhere


"Lots of women asking for Dom but when you talk to them they aren't really sub at all just seems they want a bit of rougher sex not really wanting to explore their limits Sensual and kinky. Its all about what scenarios that turns you on and sparks can fly If you submitted to and those glorious experiences and given a deeper understanding of the joys of domination. OP its more then rougher sex.

That's exactly what l was meaning a lot of women say they want to be sub and earn l tell them what l like as an experienced Dom they get cold feet "

That's because it's not all about you, or what you like... They clearly aren't interested in that. Simples!

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By *r.XratedMan
13 weeks ago

Liverpool/ New York


"You’re the type of rotten egg that’s hard to out on here but eventually tells on himself anyway. The perfect Dom encounters I’ve had took time to build the trust, get that and you get everything.

Some guys simply enjoy beyond rough sex, and expect those describing themselves as “sub” to mean sla\/e, and even at times have used the Dom term wrongly to justify what could qualify as sexual abuse.

An actual Dom is a quiet, behind the scenes presence that would never think like this, let alone expose himself as a fake by posting it.

Work on yourself. "

This is not completely true but I generally agree

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