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"You can get 20+ verifications from 1 social event so no there isn't too many. Mrs " I was about to make a similar statement but was blocked ….. I know some people can be uneasy about number of veris but not happened with me before | |||
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"8 Least your under your limit for now "Haha and you . | |||
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"So I’ve had a message asking if I remember chatting with him few years back. No pic to refresh my memory just a message. Well I’m lucky if I remember last week let alone years back! I said I’ve no idea who they are… their reply was oh fair enough so I left it there. I was then sent another message saying well you have too my verifications and then blocked me. Is there such a thing on a swinging site as too many and If so how many is the limit?" Sounds like jealousy to me. Your getting some and have positive verifications they are not. There's no limit if your happy its your choice. | |||
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"8" Wrong, it's 9 | |||
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"8 Wrong, it's 9" Wrong it’s 10 | |||
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"8 Wrong, it's 9" either way neither are prime numbers | |||
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"8 Wrong, it's 9 either way neither are prime numbers " Ok 11 then | |||
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"8 Wrong, it's 9 either way neither are prime numbers Ok 11 then" You kept your head down in the maths class | |||
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"As long as it’s less than 31888 then you’re safe OP 👍🏻" Good job he didn’t see my previous profile | |||
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"As long as it’s less than 31888 then you’re safe OP 👍🏻 Good job he didn’t see my previous profile " 🤣🤣 or mine 😘 | |||
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"I don’t ask for or give meet veris. It’s just not something I want to broadcast. Enough veri to show I’m a human and exist is enough. " You exist? 😳 | |||
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"I don’t ask for or give meet veris. It’s just not something I want to broadcast. Enough veri to show I’m a human and exist is enough. You exist? 😳" [//@gndg..load..Glowup./doll++] Yes. | |||
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"I recently had my very summary on show and had a rather nice gentleman contact me to tell me that I was disgusting having fucked half of fab and that it made me worthless lol My veris are actually 95% social and not sex related from when I was a club host and have been on here 12 years Have to say I’ve hidden that veri summary now cos that message I got shook me a little " I’ve had a few of those. It is normally them thinking with their little head instead of their big one…. Whilst wanking it. Don’t sweat it lovely 😘 | |||
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"I recently had my very summary on show and had a rather nice gentleman contact me to tell me that I was disgusting having fucked half of fab and that it made me worthless lol My veris are actually 95% social and not sex related from when I was a club host and have been on here 12 years Have to say I’ve hidden that veri summary now cos that message I got shook me a little " It is astonishing that here we are on a swingers site and not only does an individual hold such a judgement but feels the need go out of his way to tell you this . I suspect that because you are so gorgeous he felt that he had absolutely zero chance so let’s knock you down instead | |||
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"I recently had my very summary on show and had a rather nice gentleman contact me to tell me that I was disgusting having fucked half of fab and that it made me worthless lol My veris are actually 95% social and not sex related from when I was a club host and have been on here 12 years Have to say I’ve hidden that veri summary now cos that message I got shook me a little " Sounds like an agent little man projecting his self hatred on to a target, in this instance you. Don’t hide your summary, you should not feel like you have to back down when faced with this revolting behaviour from some idiot on the internet. | |||
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"I recently had my very summary on show and had a rather nice gentleman contact me to tell me that I was disgusting having fucked half of fab and that it made me worthless lol My veris are actually 95% social and not sex related from when I was a club host and have been on here 12 years Have to say I’ve hidden that veri summary now cos that message I got shook me a little I’ve had a few of those. It is normally them thinking with their little head instead of their big one…. Whilst wanking it. Don’t sweat it lovely 😘" Aww thank you just through me a little. I ding show all my veris cos they are so very old and who on earth wants to read through them all Only so many times someone can say they met me lol x | |||
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"I recently had my very summary on show and had a rather nice gentleman contact me to tell me that I was disgusting having fucked half of fab and that it made me worthless lol My veris are actually 95% social and not sex related from when I was a club host and have been on here 12 years Have to say I’ve hidden that veri summary now cos that message I got shook me a little Sounds like an agent little man projecting his self hatred on to a target, in this instance you. Don’t hide your summary, you should not feel like you have to back down when faced with this revolting behaviour from some idiot on the internet. " * angry. I clearly can’t type  | |||
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"I recently had my very summary on show and had a rather nice gentleman contact me to tell me that I was disgusting having fucked half of fab and that it made me worthless lol My veris are actually 95% social and not sex related from when I was a club host and have been on here 12 years Have to say I’ve hidden that veri summary now cos that message I got shook me a little It is astonishing that here we are on a swingers site and not only does an individual hold such a judgement but feels the need go out of his way to tell you this . I suspect that because you are so gorgeous he felt that he had absolutely zero chance so let’s knock you down instead " ❤️ | |||
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"So I’ve had a message asking if I remember chatting with him few years back. No pic to refresh my memory just a message. Well I’m lucky if I remember last week let alone years back! I said I’ve no idea who they are… their reply was oh fair enough so I left it there. I was then sent another message saying well you have too my verifications and then blocked me. Is there such a thing on a swinging site as too many and If so how many is the limit?" lol!! Is three too many? 😂😂😂 Honestly? If people attended clubs and events, likelihood is, their verifications will be higher than ‘average’ what ever that is. I don’t think you can have too many, no. | |||
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"One." You best choose wisely then | |||
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"So I’ve had a message asking if I remember chatting with him few years back. No pic to refresh my memory just a message. Well I’m lucky if I remember last week let alone years back! I said I’ve no idea who they are… their reply was oh fair enough so I left it there. I was then sent another message saying well you have too my verifications and then blocked me. Is there such a thing on a swinging site as too many and If so how many is the limit?" 100 plus is too many for me, basically saying to me you’ll shag a warm scarf. | |||
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"So I’ve had a message asking if I remember chatting with him few years back. No pic to refresh my memory just a message. Well I’m lucky if I remember last week let alone years back! I said I’ve no idea who they are… their reply was oh fair enough so I left it there. I was then sent another message saying well you have too my verifications and then blocked me. Is there such a thing on a swinging site as too many and If so how many is the limit? 100 plus is too many for me, basically saying to me you’ll shag a warm scarf. " So you are the same as the guy who messaged me then (see further up)  | |||
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"So I’ve had a message asking if I remember chatting with him few years back. No pic to refresh my memory just a message. Well I’m lucky if I remember last week let alone years back! I said I’ve no idea who they are… their reply was oh fair enough so I left it there. I was then sent another message saying well you have too my verifications and then blocked me. Is there such a thing on a swinging site as too many and If so how many is the limit?" Lol you don't have too many at all !!.... Verifications can be misleading especially if high numbers of socials and 'bumped into you in a club' sort of thing. Yes if full sex meets they might put off some if in high number | |||
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"So I’ve had a message asking if I remember chatting with him few years back. No pic to refresh my memory just a message. Well I’m lucky if I remember last week let alone years back! I said I’ve no idea who they are… their reply was oh fair enough so I left it there. I was then sent another message saying well you have too my verifications and then blocked me. Is there such a thing on a swinging site as too many and If so how many is the limit?" There's really no pleasing everyone. Some will reply 5, some 632, some don't much care. | |||
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"One. You best choose wisely then " One is too many. I'm happy with none. | |||
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"So I’ve had a message asking if I remember chatting with him few years back. No pic to refresh my memory just a message. Well I’m lucky if I remember last week let alone years back! I said I’ve no idea who they are… their reply was oh fair enough so I left it there. I was then sent another message saying well you have too my verifications and then blocked me. Is there such a thing on a swinging site as too many and If so how many is the limit?" Are you asking about verifications only, or how many people a person has slept with? As it's often not the same thing ... as others have pointed you can get a bulk of verifications from a social event or a club (even if you don't have sex with any of them). If it's about sex... for me personally, if a woman's sexual conquests is such a high number that she doesn't remember most of them, I would not want to be just another number. | |||
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"So I’ve had a message asking if I remember chatting with him few years back. No pic to refresh my memory just a message. Well I’m lucky if I remember last week let alone years back! I said I’ve no idea who they are… their reply was oh fair enough so I left it there. I was then sent another message saying well you have too my verifications and then blocked me. Is there such a thing on a swinging site as too many and If so how many is the limit?" Apparently there is. On my couples account with my wife, we have quite a lot of veris. Mostly because are very social, do clubs and have hosted the odd meet up event in the past. We've been on and off Fab for years and on the scene for 27 years so...you meet people. However a large amount of them are purely "we know these guys and they're real" types of veris. Never anything more than "we chat at the club or talked at this social" types. But it puts some off for one reason or another. OK, whatever, dont care and no skin off our backs. You do you! No impact on our lives at all. However...there's many on here who are total hypocrites and thats what irks me. There is one local lady who pops up in my feed regularly. Now its nothing to do with me and I've never met nor will meet the woman (for reasons that will become clear soon). But she usually hangs around a few months, has multiple meets with different guys...then deletes and returns after a few days. I know its the same person because of the photos and the location (not a massive amount of single women in a 20 mile raduis to me). Eitherway, She fucks a lot of guys. Her right and not judging her for that. What I am judging her for is that on her profile she states she wont anyone with multiple meets (and to not even message her if you're over a certain number), wont do repeat meets and will be checking all mens veri history who contact her. Now we can all say shes entitled to her preffrences (and she is) but I find it all rather rich from a person meeting a couple of different guys a week who just resets her account every few months to hide how many shes really met. Oh and she does the occasional status update shaming others about who they meet. No idea who shes taking a pop at nor what their beef is but its just drama. It all just plays out like hypocrisy to me. But she can do that. Not like theres a shortage of thirsty guys she can meet up with. Point is, to me, veris dont matter and if they matter to someone else, that is a them issue, not a me or my wife issue (depending what account is being used). We're just gonna keep doing what we do, going to the club and social event, meeting freinds and meeting new folk alike. | |||
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"So I’ve had a message asking if I remember chatting with him few years back. No pic to refresh my memory just a message. Well I’m lucky if I remember last week let alone years back! I said I’ve no idea who they are… their reply was oh fair enough so I left it there. I was then sent another message saying well you have too my verifications and then blocked me. Is there such a thing on a swinging site as too many and If so how many is the limit?" What an arse. It doesn’t bother me, I appreciate the experience and skills many meets under the belt brings. Although I personally don’t request or accept ‘social’ veris, I am aware that many people accumulate masses of them. What does bother me is the kind of people they have met (fucked). I like good provenance. Yes, I’m a snob and hifalutin. Class and taste counts. | |||
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"The only people who worry about the amount of veris you are those who believe that every single verification is a separate meet! I have always just said that all a verification is there for is to say you are who you are and you showed up… nothing more! " I think veris are much more than that. They are a valuable insight. If I saw a veri that just said “ nice guy, turned up on time, genuine, treat him with respect” I’d be thinking “Aye, aye… that meet didn’t go well then..” The curt polite veris are a clear indicator of shit meets. You don’t have to read between the lines because it was barely a sentence of 8 words… there is no in between The lovely ones, people spending a bit of time writing them, saying nice things, “looking forward to doing that again soon” stuff. Those are veris to look out for. I’d never leave a short curt veri, how fucking rude would that be? ‘If you can’t say anything nice, don’t veri at all’ | |||
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"The other side of things is having 100+ and then having in the profile "I'm not here to sleep round the entire sight" lol" You do know veri's can be gotten through group socials, where you can be verified by a multitude of people, in one go..... Mr | |||
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"Yep definitely such a thing as too many,, if I see 20 to 30 that's off putting - my ex wife is here and she's got over 130 which is a big no to me. I think the higher the number the higher the chances of them coming into contact with something nasty no matter how careful you are! Of course you could always hide your verifications but just because it's a swinging site doesn't mean to a degree it's appealing to see huge numbers on here!" I’ve been waiting for the - so many veris must = STDs comment. For example some guy with two meet veris and syphilis (or worse) from a crackhead ho in George Place, go figure it out and understand actual risk | |||
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"So I’ve had a message asking if I remember chatting with him few years back. No pic to refresh my memory just a message. Well I’m lucky if I remember last week let alone years back! I said I’ve no idea who they are… their reply was oh fair enough so I left it there. I was then sent another message saying well you have too my verifications and then blocked me. Is there such a thing on a swinging site as too many and If so how many is the limit? 100 plus is too many for me, basically saying to me you’ll shag a warm scarf. " How many people per year do you think is acceptable? | |||
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"Yep definitely such a thing as too many,, if I see 20 to 30 that's off putting - my ex wife is here and she's got over 130 which is a big no to me. I think the higher the number the higher the chances of them coming into contact with something nasty no matter how careful you are! Of course you could always hide your verifications but just because it's a swinging site doesn't mean to a degree it's appealing to see huge numbers on here! I’ve been waiting for the - so many veris must = STDs comment. For example some guy with two meet veris and syphilis (or worse) from a crackhead ho in George Place, go figure it out and understand actual risk" By the way, genuine question- when did you last get tested? Obviously you are aware that you can carry STDs without displaying symptoms… | |||
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"Yep definitely such a thing as too many,, if I see 20 to 30 that's off putting - my ex wife is here and she's got over 130 which is a big no to me. I think the higher the number the higher the chances of them coming into contact with something nasty no matter how careful you are! Of course you could always hide your verifications but just because it's a swinging site doesn't mean to a degree it's appealing to see huge numbers on here!" Tell me your judgemental without telling me your judgemental. 😂😂 Mr | |||
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"Yep definitely such a thing as too many,, if I see 20 to 30 that's off putting - my ex wife is here and she's got over 130 which is a big no to me. I think the higher the number the higher the chances of them coming into contact with something nasty no matter how careful you are! Of course you could always hide your verifications but just because it's a swinging site doesn't mean to a degree it's appealing to see huge numbers on here!" Careful people don't fuck a long line of others without checking them out as best they can. Most importantly they take care of their own sexual health and are checked regularly. Your comment on your Ex is unpleasant and just not necessary. | |||
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"Yep definitely such a thing as too many,, if I see 20 to 30 that's off putting - my ex wife is here and she's got over 130 which is a big no to me. I think the higher the number the higher the chances of them coming into contact with something nasty no matter how careful you are! Of course you could always hide your verifications but just because it's a swinging site doesn't mean to a degree it's appealing to see huge numbers on here! Tell me your judgemental without telling me your judgemental. 😂😂 Mr" Exactly this!! | |||
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"The only people who worry about the amount of veris you are those who believe that every single verification is a separate meet! I have always just said that all a verification is there for is to say you are who you are and you showed up… nothing more! I think veris are much more than that. They are a valuable insight. If I saw a veri that just said “ nice guy, turned up on time, genuine, treat him with respect” I’d be thinking “Aye, aye… that meet didn’t go well then..” The curt polite veris are a clear indicator of shit meets. You don’t have to read between the lines because it was barely a sentence of 8 words… there is no in between The lovely ones, people spending a bit of time writing them, saying nice things, “looking forward to doing that again soon” stuff. Those are veris to look out for. I’d never leave a short curt veri, how fucking rude would that be? ‘If you can’t say anything nice, don’t veri at all’" Nope… that’s a you thing! Basically no two people are going to see a particular meet the same way! You may have got on with someone like a house on fire, where I may meet the same person and think “meh” Doesn’t mean that person doesn’t deserve a verification Also… I don’t need a blow by blow list of how a meet went… if I needed running commentary I’d watch more sky sports! Anything more than yes these people are who they are, and yes these people showed up is entirely subjective | |||
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"Yep definitely such a thing as too many,, if I see 20 to 30 that's off putting - my ex wife is here and she's got over 130 which is a big no to me. I think the higher the number the higher the chances of them coming into contact with something nasty no matter how careful you are! Of course you could always hide your verifications but just because it's a swinging site doesn't mean to a degree it's appealing to see huge numbers on here!" But again that’s making assumptions on how they got the verification… was it at a social… versus was it at a club…. Versus was it all private meetings… versus were they all play meetings Because without reading them how would you know…. Or is the generalisation made of just a number! | |||
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"So I’ve had a message asking if I remember chatting with him few years back. No pic to refresh my memory just a message. Well I’m lucky if I remember last week let alone years back! I said I’ve no idea who they are… their reply was oh fair enough so I left it there. I was then sent another message saying well you have too my verifications and then blocked me. Is there such a thing on a swinging site as too many and If so how many is the limit? 100 plus is too many for me, basically saying to me you’ll shag a warm scarf. How many people per year do you think is acceptable? " Depends whether it's a leap year  | |||
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" I was then sent another message saying well you have too my verifications and then blocked me. Is there such a thing on a swinging site as too many and If so how many is the limit?" I don't think there's any such thing as too many verifications. A lot could be socials and it shows they do actually meet people. | |||
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"Yep definitely such a thing as too many,, if I see 20 to 30 that's off putting - my ex wife is here and she's got over 130 which is a big no to me. I think the higher the number the higher the chances of them coming into contact with something nasty no matter how careful you are! Of course you could always hide your verifications but just because it's a swinging site doesn't mean to a degree it's appealing to see huge numbers on here! But again that’s making assumptions on how they got the verification… was it at a social… versus was it at a club…. Versus was it all private meetings… versus were they all play meetings Because without reading them how would you know…. Or is the generalisation made of just a number! " Man, you literally have 90 odd verifications given by people that have been nice, complimentary, thoughtful and considerate to you on your profile! And you’re saying that they don’t mean thing? That’s just being ungrateful 😂 | |||
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"So I’ve had a message asking if I remember chatting with him few years back. No pic to refresh my memory just a message. Well I’m lucky if I remember last week let alone years back! I said I’ve no idea who they are… their reply was oh fair enough so I left it there. I was then sent another message saying well you have too my verifications and then blocked me. Is there such a thing on a swinging site as too many and If so how many is the limit?" to some there is... to others nope If someone thinks our combined verifications is our sexual history they are very silly...as we have both met many people that haven't verified us. | |||
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"So I’ve had a message asking if I remember chatting with him few years back. No pic to refresh my memory just a message. Well I’m lucky if I remember last week let alone years back! I said I’ve no idea who they are… their reply was oh fair enough so I left it there. I was then sent another message saying well you have too my verifications and then blocked me. Is there such a thing on a swinging site as too many and If so how many is the limit? to some there is... to others nope If someone thinks our combined verifications is our sexual history they are very silly...as we have both met many people that haven't verified us. " 😂🤣 Yes! I’d be reluctant to reveal my actual ‘body count’ ! (terrible phrase) . I wonder what the average ‘Sex with someone versus Meets that provided a veri’ ratio would be? 🫣 | |||
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"Tbh l don't pay any attention to veri's as to me they only prove a person is real & genuine.No person is ever gonna get a bad veri & if by chance they do they're not gonna post it.Personally l really don't care if a person has a thousand veri's or just one , everyone is different here , the person with loads of veri's may not have the interest in chatting with you anyway whereas the person with one could be your gem , who knows ." Profile Name checks out 👍🏼 | |||
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"Tbh l don't pay any attention to veri's as to me they only prove a person is real & genuine.No person is ever gonna get a bad veri & if by chance they do they're not gonna post it.Personally l really don't care if a person has a thousand veri's or just one , everyone is different here , the person with loads of veri's may not have the interest in chatting with you anyway whereas the person with one could be your gem , who knows ." No one’s gonna get a bad veri? I beg to differ… | |||
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"The other side of things is having 100+ and then having in the profile "I'm not here to sleep round the entire sight" lol You do know veri's can be gotten through group socials, where you can be verified by a multitude of people, in one go..... Mr " There are thousands of people on this site. 100 is hardly the whole site. | |||
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"Yep definitely such a thing as too many,, if I see 20 to 30 that's off putting - my ex wife is here and she's got over 130 which is a big no to me. I think the higher the number the higher the chances of them coming into contact with something nasty no matter how careful you are! Of course you could always hide your verifications but just because it's a swinging site doesn't mean to a degree it's appealing to see huge numbers on here! But again that’s making assumptions on how they got the verification… was it at a social… versus was it at a club…. Versus was it all private meetings… versus were they all play meetings Because without reading them how would you know…. Or is the generalisation made of just a number! Man, you literally have 90 odd verifications given by people that have been nice, complimentary, thoughtful and considerate to you on your profile! And you’re saying that they don’t mean thing? That’s just being ungrateful 😂 " In that sense they don’t .. however i made the deliberate decision that I don’t show any verifications that have anything to do with play… they are all literally me on a social level… No one needs to know more than that about me | |||
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"The other side of things is having 100+ and then having in the profile "I'm not here to sleep round the entire sight" lol You do know veri's can be gotten through group socials, where you can be verified by a multitude of people, in one go..... Mr There are thousands of people on this site. 100 is hardly the whole site. " Did I say it was, ✊️✊️ Mr | |||
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"Yep definitely such a thing as too many,, if I see 20 to 30 that's off putting - my ex wife is here and she's got over 130 which is a big no to me. I think the higher the number the higher the chances of them coming into contact with something nasty no matter how careful you are! Of course you could always hide your verifications but just because it's a swinging site doesn't mean to a degree it's appealing to see huge numbers on here! But again that’s making assumptions on how they got the verification… was it at a social… versus was it at a club…. Versus was it all private meetings… versus were they all play meetings Because without reading them how would you know…. Or is the generalisation made of just a number! Man, you literally have 90 odd verifications given by people that have been nice, complimentary, thoughtful and considerate to you on your profile! And you’re saying that they don’t mean thing? That’s just being ungrateful 😂 In that sense they don’t .. however i made the deliberate decision that I don’t show any verifications that have anything to do with play… they are all literally me on a social level… No one needs to know more than that about me " Okay mystery man 😄, but my point still stands, you have had a lot of lovely veris from people who made an effort to write them and they’re the ones you didn’t even have sex with, making them even more relevant. Why did they bother to add to a growing list that say you’re a really nice guy? Don’t be so dismissive of the veri system, you clearly set some importance to yours and are proud of them otherwise why display 93 of them all saying the same thing? Based on your veris I’d love to have a beer and a laugh with you sometime | |||
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"As long as it’s less than 31888 then you’re safe OP 👍🏻" I wonder who has the most veris number wise on here | |||
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"Anymore than two,and it's over between us!
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"Makes me laugh when some people have issues with women having to many veris but yet have group play and orgies as something they enjoy ..
I don't care how many veris someone has we are looking for fun not someone to take to church with us on a Sunday... "Exactly my stance | |||
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"As long as it’s less than 31888 then you’re safe OP 👍🏻 I wonder who has the most veris number wise on here "A couple maxed out their veri’s twice over about ten years (and two profiles) they were fantastic people too | |||
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"As long as it’s less than 31888 then you’re safe OP 👍🏻 I wonder who has the most veris number wise on here
A couple maxed out their veri’s twice over about ten years (and two profiles) they were fantastic people too"There's a limit? 😳 | |||
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"Yep definitely such a thing as too many,, if I see 20 to 30 that's off putting - my ex wife is here and she's got over 130 which is a big no to me. I think the higher the number the higher the chances of them coming into contact with something nasty no matter how careful you are! Of course you could always hide your verifications but just because it's a swinging site doesn't mean to a degree it's appealing to see huge numbers on here!" I think you need to unpack why it’s an issue for you to see that someone has been sexually active. | |||
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"Yep definitely such a thing as too many,, if I see 20 to 30 that's off putting - my ex wife is here and she's got over 130 which is a big no to me. I think the higher the number the higher the chances of them coming into contact with something nasty no matter how careful you are! Of course you could always hide your verifications but just because it's a swinging site doesn't mean to a degree it's appealing to see huge numbers on here! I think you need to unpack why it’s an issue for you to see that someone has been sexually active." Honestly it's no issue! But the question was how many is too many and I answered! loving the replies and the I must join the band wagon lol! And those thinking it's judgemental! Hey it may be but it's not the first time I've personally had a woman not meet me because of the high number I had with a previous acct a few years ago! To be honest - who cares! State again my limit is 20 - 30! And just to make clear those would be separate meets not clubs etc. | |||
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