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"I think with some people it can sometimes be if they didn’t treat you like they would you still go back?? It’s a difficult one. I’ve been in situations where I’ve thought I wish he’d message me as much another one does and I wish he’d say the things he says. But would i feel the same if he did? The mind is a strange thing. 🤷♀️" Reading that back it probably makes no sense but I know what I mean 🤣🤣🤣🤣 | |||
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"Why do we chose the one that’s make us feel shit but we still go back " It actually takes a lot of bravery to control your own narrative, you would be surprised how many people prefer to let others do it for them, going back to the wrong person is one of many, ways avoid creating what you truly want, it’s easier. | |||
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"I don't. Once they show their true colours then I'm done. I will never allow myself to be treated like an option....plenty more fishes in the sea so to speak x" Great way to be | |||
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"The ostrich effect...we avoid confronting issues and information hoping they will go away. That and trauma bonding. Unless the trauma bond is broken the tendancy is to always go back " I feel I need to google this effect and understand more, thank you | |||
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"Why do we chose the one that’s make us feel shit but we still go back " Tell me about it… 🙄🙄🙄 Fool me once, shame on you. Fool me twice, shame on me, I keep repeating myself… | |||
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"Because our hearts are stupid " Hopeful. Not stupid. | |||
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"Why do we chose the one that’s make us feel shit but we still go back " Must be the excitement that they inspire in you ,bad boys are your thing maybe . | |||
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"Why do we chose the one that’s make us feel shit but we still go back " Weakness and poor self control ultimately. Focus your mind and take control | |||
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"Why do we chose the one that’s make us feel shit but we still go back Weakness and poor self control ultimately. Focus your mind and take control " This! | |||
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