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"To get their attention? I will set the scene first before asking the question, I am watching eastenders and there it goes back and forth between cindy and junior knight, cindy is ians partner and she is seeing knight behind ians back, but she is playing hard to get, it feels like knight does it to her also sometimes, but I would say mostly cindy does it more, if she keeps doing it, there is a chance she could lose him. What is your view about sending out the wrong kind of signals to the other person early on where one is playing hard to get? The way I see it is, if one continue to do it there is a big chance they could lose that person, because they might not have the patience as they do, as it is only fair to tell the other person you like them or not as they could then move on, instead of playing hard to get, one should give them number of reason to keep chasing you instead " Is Cindy playing hard to get with Knight? If she is already seeing him, how is she playing hard to get? | |||
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"I'm confused... What's East Enders? " TV soap opera that's been going 40 odd years lol | |||
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"I like the whole courting thing outside of here. The flirt. The tease. The building up of something I like it here as well but not for courting so to speak That said you need to know where to stop or you run the risk of the other feeling it’s unrequited and they back off. However there are some people who love the “chase” and that’s all they want. That for me is toying with someone and game playing " I also like the flirt and tease, yes, one should know where to stop it too | |||
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"Sorry Shag I stop reading when I saw the word Eastenders " Same | |||
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"Cindy has slept with Junior lots of times, really not sure how she's playing hard to get after she has been got." So she's not actually played hard to get at all? | |||
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"Too old to play games now, it’s either a yes or no" Always throw a 'maybe' in? | |||
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"I don’t play hard to get… I *am* hard to get. " Yep. *and* you get me hard, too. | |||
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"Cindy has slept with Junior lots of times, really not sure how she's playing hard to get after she has been got. So she's not actually played hard to get at all?" Nope if anything she was pretty easy to get | |||
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"To get their attention? I will set the scene first before asking the question, I am watching eastenders and there it goes back and forth between cindy and junior knight, cindy is ians partner and she is seeing knight behind ians back, but she is playing hard to get, it feels like knight does it to her also sometimes, but I would say mostly cindy does it more, if she keeps doing it, there is a chance she could lose him. What is your view about sending out the wrong kind of signals to the other person early on where one is playing hard to get? The way I see it is, if one continue to do it there is a big chance they could lose that person, because they might not have the patience as they do, as it is only fair to tell the other person you like them or not as they could then move on, instead of playing hard to get, one should give them number of reason to keep chasing you instead " You lost me at the mention of Eastenders | |||
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"Playing hard to get is just absolutely childish, could come across as been prestigious and narcissistic, if you know u like someone or find them attractive go for it cos they might just leave u to find someone who shows them more attention " Exactly. Think of the dozens and dozens of women that we playing hard to get with me. I mean they have missed out on a fuck tonne of shit chat and worse shags. | |||
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"I don't watch that so I don't know the reference. I don't get playing hard to get. I'm very upfront generally myself. If someone indicates they're not interested in me the way I am in them, I usually just shrug it off and move on." That is good to be very upfront. I am the same too | |||
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"To get their attention? I will set the scene first before asking the question, I am watching eastenders and there it goes back and forth between cindy and junior knight, cindy is ians partner and she is seeing knight behind ians back, but she is playing hard to get, it feels like knight does it to her also sometimes, but I would say mostly cindy does it more, if she keeps doing it, there is a chance she could lose him. What is your view about sending out the wrong kind of signals to the other person early on where one is playing hard to get? The way I see it is, if one continue to do it there is a big chance they could lose that person, because they might not have the patience as they do, as it is only fair to tell the other person you like them or not as they could then move on, instead of playing hard to get, one should give them number of reason to keep chasing you instead " Well... I'm so bad at relationships it's hard to think I can add any value but... My gut always says... Life's too short for stupid childish games. Instead of spending time not doing what you want... Why not spend the time with people you want to be with doing things you want to do? | |||
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"It can be fun 🤔" For an attractive sexy woman on Fab, sure.. For a single male… not so much ☺️ It’s not a game if everyone’s gone home | |||
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"No. I don't play hard to get, I'm either worth meeting to them, or not." Hi patricia, same here, you are right there | |||
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