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"Does she have a toothbrush at your place?" it's his Nan's place. | |||
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"Weird as you're down as a single male, also no activity on veris since 2019 and years old pics . " people meet outside of fab too. A woman who I see regluar isn't here. Doesn't mean it doesn't happen | |||
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"So after two years of fucking each other she wants to reevaluate where the relationship is going? Is that unreasonable?" no it isn't | |||
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"Weird as you're down as a single male, also no activity on veris since 2019 and years old pics . " How’s it weird? I don’t show veris. He didn’t say he met them here either | |||
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"So after two years of fucking each other she wants to reevaluate where the relationship is going? Is that unreasonable?" No it is not unreasonable. It’s also not unreasonable if OP says thanks but no thanks. OP: do what _you_ want and don’t be bounced into something different. | |||
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"Weird as you're down as a single male, also no activity on veris since 2019 and years old pics . people meet outside of fab too. A woman who I see regluar isn't here. Doesn't mean it doesn't happen" Fine, so why not update pics and change single status then ? | |||
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"Does she have a toothbrush at your place?" 🤣 don’t think we’ve ever had a meal together, let alone sleep over!! | |||
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"Weird as you're down as a single male, also no activity on veris since 2019 and years old pics . people meet outside of fab too. A woman who I see regluar isn't here. Doesn't mean it doesn't happen Fine, so why not update pics and change single status then ? " A fwb doesn’t make you not single though | |||
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"Good luck OP. It doesn’t sound like fun chat to have either way. She’s within her rights of course to change her mind on what she wants, just as you are to remain firm with your needs too." Saves me having to type 😁 | |||
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"So after two years of fucking each other she wants to reevaluate where the relationship is going? Is that unreasonable? no it isn't" So just have an open and honest conversation with her about what you both want and how it's possible to move forward for both of you, either individually or together. | |||
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"Weird as you're down as a single male, also no activity on veris since 2019 and years old pics . people meet outside of fab too. A woman who I see regluar isn't here. Doesn't mean it doesn't happen Fine, so why not update pics and change single status then ? " I’m single in life and not looking to settle currently. We don’t swing as a couple and met outside here. I should update pics, veries I can’t control!! | |||
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"Weird as you're down as a single male, also no activity on veris since 2019 and years old pics . people meet outside of fab too. A woman who I see regluar isn't here. Doesn't mean it doesn't happen Fine, so why not update pics and change single status then ? A fwb doesn’t make you not single though " saved me the typing  | |||
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"So after two years of fucking each other she wants to reevaluate where the relationship is going? Is that unreasonable? no it isn't So just have an open and honest conversation with her about what you both want and how it's possible to move forward for both of you, either individually or together." Exactly, I was just letting off steam before the conversation. | |||
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"Just venting, have a FWB who wants “us” to stop swinging. We’ve never been and aren’t in a vanilla relationship or even been committed, but she seems to have new ideas after 2 years. This is going to be some interesting conversations coming up!!" Was there really a need to start a thread about it?? It's not like you are asking fir advice or anything. | |||
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"It always happens it can never stay platonic especially after 2 years "I've had one that stayed platonic for over 20 years | |||
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"It always happens it can never stay platonic especially after 2 years "Platonic is non sexual though isn’t it? I’ve had fwbs for longer. I just think it’s really important to be clear from the start what you want and what you will never want. It is possible but probably rare. Depends on the people | |||
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"Weird as you're down as a single male, also no activity on veris since 2019 and years old pics . people meet outside of fab too. A woman who I see regluar isn't here. Doesn't mean it doesn't happen Fine, so why not update pics and change single status then ? " It's a Fwb, he's still single. And maybe he just can't be arsed. | |||
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"Just venting, have a FWB who wants “us” to stop swinging. We’ve never been and aren’t in a vanilla relationship or even been committed, but she seems to have new ideas after 2 years. This is going to be some interesting conversations coming up!! Was there really a need to start a thread about it?? It's not like you are asking fir advice or anything." And then you were forced to read it and comment. Oh wait… | |||
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"Just venting, have a FWB who wants “us” to stop swinging. We’ve never been and aren’t in a vanilla relationship or even been committed, but she seems to have new ideas after 2 years. This is going to be some interesting conversations coming up!! Was there really a need to start a thread about it?? It's not like you are asking fir advice or anything. And then you were forced to read it and comment. Oh wait…" No-one said anything about being "forced"... | |||
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"Would you miss her if she stopped being your FWB and had to call it a day? Sometimes you don't know what you have until you lose it." It can only ever be FWB, and yes I enjoy it currently. | |||
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"Weird as you're down as a single male, also no activity on veris since 2019 and years old pics . people meet outside of fab too. A woman who I see regluar isn't here. Doesn't mean it doesn't happen Fine, so why not update pics and change single status then ? " Why would he need to? I have a single profile but I’m married and I’m here with my husbands consent. Your statement implies I should have a couples profile despite the fact he doesn’t currently swing | |||
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"Just venting, have a FWB who wants “us” to stop swinging. We’ve never been and aren’t in a vanilla relationship or even been committed, but she seems to have new ideas after 2 years. This is going to be some interesting conversations coming up!!" Well you have 2 choices, either accept things got a bit more serious! Or walk 
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"Just venting, have a FWB who wants “us” to stop swinging. We’ve never been and aren’t in a vanilla relationship or even been committed, but she seems to have new ideas after 2 years. This is going to be some interesting conversations coming up!!" Hope you’re ok - sounds like a tough position to be in. | |||
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"Weird as you're down as a single male, also no activity on veris since 2019 and years old pics . people meet outside of fab too. A woman who I see regluar isn't here. Doesn't mean it doesn't happen Fine, so why not update pics and change single status then ? Why would he need to? I have a single profile but I’m married and I’m here with my husbands consent. Your statement implies I should have a couples profile despite the fact he doesn’t currently swing " Spot on - people say some odd things on this forum | |||
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"What I’ve learnt about women is they change and what they want from a relationship changes too. " Is that so? In my experience it’s the men who do that. | |||
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"What I’ve learnt about women is they change and what they want from a relationship changes too. Is that so? In my experience it’s the men who do that. " In my experience, it’s always women who do it | |||
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"Weird as you're down as a single male, also no activity on veris since 2019 and years old pics . " How is that weird? He’s got a single profile on here and there’s a friend elsewhere he’s fucking. I don’t think that’s massively unusual is it? In fact lots of couples also have individual single accounts. Move along, move along, nothing to see here! Gbat | |||
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"This is also why I just fuck em and leave em. " We should really get started on this…. So you’re eventually able to leave me!! | |||
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