FabSwingers.com forum: When did you realize...

By *ruceyy OP Man
6 weeks ago

London

You were kinky? Did you have a life moment or experience that made you go - ok I'm not like these other people...

If so, story times!

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By *wist my nipplesCouple
6 weeks ago

North East Scotland, mostly

NOBODY DID BEFORE THEY WERE ADULTS BRUCEY

Carry on

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By *hilloutMan
6 weeks ago

All over the place! Northwesr, , Southwest

The first time I visited a club.

I thought I'd crossed the Rubicon into territory that 99% of the population never has or will 😅

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple
6 weeks ago

Leeds

1974

Mrs

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By *heonixrising500Man
6 weeks ago

Barnsley

We all kinky in our own way

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By *ora the explorerWoman
6 weeks ago

Paradise, Herts

Depends on how you define kinky. I’m probably not

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By *ruceyy OP Man
6 weeks ago

London

"1974

Mrs "

A fine year!

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By *ittleLiasonsWoman
6 weeks ago

Birmingham

When I first discovered the big willies.. you never go back.

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By *ruceyy OP Man
6 weeks ago

London

"When I first discovered the big willies.. you never go back."

Oh it's you again! 😘

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By *rimal InstinctCouple
6 weeks ago

Carlisle

I read stuff for ages probably after my youngest was born, I always liked things that were a bit different. Actually wanted to act out things I had read, after my big op. The opportunity to do so took a long long while as I had to recover and gain my confidence again in myself. But it was fairly recently.

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By *aven.Woman
6 weeks ago

Not the North West...

I'm still waiting to realise this.

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By *sWyldWoman
6 weeks ago

Edinburgh

I've only realised I'm not

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By *izzy69Man
6 weeks ago

London

"I've only realised I'm not "

You are though. You have a kink for sexy shoes and tasteful lingerie

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By *wist my nipplesCouple
6 weeks ago

North East Scotland, mostly

I went to Ann Summers aged nineteen and bought a vibrator and some erotica. That was it!

Mrs x

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By *eroLondonMan
6 weeks ago

Mayfair

I'm not kinky. I am vanilla. I am unembellished of any such form. Perhaps I'm missing out.

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By *weet and SpiceCouple
6 weeks ago

Around the Midlands

Kinky....who me? It's a lie I tell ya, a lie!! 😉

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By *andynecklaceWoman
6 weeks ago

West Brom

Since I was a teenager

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By *ittlebirdWoman
6 weeks ago

The Big Smoke

"You were kinky? Did you have a life moment or experience that made you go - ok I'm not like these other people...

If so, story times!"

Never have, never will 😉

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By *irty-pairCouple
6 weeks ago

South Essex

Neither of us can remember a time when we were vanilla, and every year we’ve got kinkier. Can’t wait to see what 2025 brings

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By *uacksplat.Woman
6 weeks ago

Star Trekking Across The Universe

when i asked an ex if we could do something i was interested in, and he went bananas at me, telling me how disgusting i was. mind, this was a very long time ago, and i was extremely impressionable..so these words were very damaging.

fast forward... i am not actually *that* disgusting, i just hadn't found my people, or my little niche in the world. Px 🦆

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By *tevenTellyCouple
6 weeks ago

Newmarket

When I was a young adult my group of friends had one guy who was open about being on similar site and going to gangbangs and what not. While everyone else gave him shit I was intrigued.

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By *ad NannaWoman
6 weeks ago

East London

When my marriage ended and I started meeting open-minded people.

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By *ad NannaWoman
6 weeks ago

East London

"When my marriage ended and I started meeting open-minded people.

I was in my early 40s.

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By *herry delightWoman
6 weeks ago

Ilfracombe

I am still waiting for kinky awakening.

I think it's to late now.

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By *enk15Man
6 weeks ago

Evesham

I'm the opposite. I always thought I was kinky until I joined Fab and saw what kinky really was.

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By *reetbyMan
6 weeks ago

wrexham

I don’t think I’m that kinky, but I know others would think I am purely because I’m on here.

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By *NormalMan01Man
6 weeks ago

Harrogate

I think… like… since I started being attracted to women? I’ve always had a preference for ‘older’ women. That’s never changed as I’ve got older.

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By *inceIlkestonMan
6 weeks ago

Ilkeston

"You were kinky? Did you have a life moment or experience that made you go - ok I'm not like these other people...

If so, story times!"

When I started promoting dating websites and found a couples category. So I started by own and soon the wife wanted to join in for real. About 2004

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By *rs Myvanwy Scarlet-BlackTV/TS
6 weeks ago

Darlaston

From at age of 8 browsing through mail order catalogues I think it was brought on from my ADHD I found something that I liked and when I turned 18 all the pieces came together

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By *agatoXXXMan
6 weeks ago

Mordor

Before I joined fab, I thought I was kinky. Then I saw you durty bastards, and realised I'm very vanilla.

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By *eordieJeansCouple
6 weeks ago

Newcastle upon Tyne

I wouldn’t say I’m kinky but I’m definitely not vanilla and probably slightly perverted in the eyes of your average Joe. I realised it in my first long term relationship. Normal sex got boring so we decided to try a few things. Considering she was more perverted than me I dread to think what she’s getting up to these days.

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By *amantha_JadeWoman
6 weeks ago

Newcastle

I don’t think I’m kinky, I’m quite vanilla. But when I was in my teens I would sneakily watch eurotrash or ten min freeview, fascinated 😂

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By *tephTV67TV/TS
6 weeks ago

Cheshire

A magazine in the 80’s called ‘Forum’ it was one of the few publications that had stories about crossdressing and transgendered people.

I realised when reading these stories I also wanted to experience the same kind of kinky sex or situation. This ranged from same sex fun to bondage to group sex. I then entered the fetish scene, going to clubs and munches to meet others like myself. Luckily I have done most of my bucket list.

Been kinky ever since

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By *eranhim89Couple
6 weeks ago

whitby

When I watched my now husband fucking my flatmate before we got together. X

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By *he Silver FuxMan
6 weeks ago

Uttoxeter

"The first time I visited a club.

I thought I'd crossed the Rubicon into territory that 99% of the population never has or will 😅"

Same.

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By *he Silver FuxMan
6 weeks ago

Uttoxeter

"From at age of 8 browsing through mail order catalogues I think it was brought on from my ADHD I found something that I liked and when I turned 18 all the pieces came together "

Like a sexy montage…

*this humorous quip would have been 10 times better if you had also said you cut bits out of the magazines

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By *uscious_Lady1Woman
6 weeks ago

Norwich

When I split from my first bf who was so vanilla it was boring and met a man who was the complete opposite

it was soon after I was introduced to fab!

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By *abtastic Mr FoxMan
6 weeks ago

A den in the Glen

I'm not. A fairly Dominant Spicy Vanilla guy is how I've been described 😂

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By *uperSalopian7Man
6 weeks ago

Shrewsbury

"I don’t think I’m kinky, I’m quite vanilla. But when I was in my teens I would sneakily watch eurotrash or ten min freeview, fascinated 😂"

Those were the days lol

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By *ames1970Man
6 weeks ago

london

When i caught my sister fucking in the shed

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By *he Silver FuxMan
6 weeks ago

Uttoxeter

"When I split from my first bf who was so vanilla it was boring and met a man who was the complete opposite

it was soon after I was introduced to fab!

Life’s about moving on and finding that someone who fucks you with his thumb in your ass..

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By *abtastic Mr FoxMan
6 weeks ago

A den in the Glen

"When i caught my sister fucking in the shed"

Jesus fuck. You need to go past 'go' don't collect your 200 and go straight to fucking jail.

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By *elshcouple18Couple
6 weeks ago

Cardiff

About 10 trs ago when we were having sex in our van and thought it'd be fun to keep the sliding door open incase we were being watched.

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By *HUSH-Man
6 weeks ago

London

"I don’t think I’m kinky, I’m quite vanilla. But when I was in my teens I would sneakily watch eurotrash or ten min freeview, fascinated 😂"

I used to try and watch the soft core stuff that channel 5 used to air. For the storyline, that is.

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By *ikeC81Man
6 weeks ago

harrow

Probably as a late teenager (over 18)

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By *amantha_JadeWoman
6 weeks ago

Newcastle

"I don’t think I’m kinky, I’m quite vanilla. But when I was in my teens I would sneakily watch eurotrash or ten min freeview, fascinated 😂

I used to try and watch the soft core stuff that channel 5 used to air. For the storyline, that is."

Just for the storyline…. obviously

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By *HUSH-Man
6 weeks ago

London

"I don’t think I’m kinky, I’m quite vanilla. But when I was in my teens I would sneakily watch eurotrash or ten min freeview, fascinated 😂

I used to try and watch the soft core stuff that channel 5 used to air. For the storyline, that is.

Just for the storyline…. obviously

Of course. I’m as innocent as a Dove 🕊️

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By *reyToTheFairiesWoman
6 weeks ago

Carlisle usually

I'd stopped worrying about what was normal long before I started learning about my sexuality. There was no defining moment of "Oh well, guess I'm a weirdo in this too." 💜

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By *ellhungvweMan
6 weeks ago

Cheltenham

I am not kinky. I am just into the normal stuff like threesomes, enjoying wives, being watched by hubbies and gangbangs. Feels pretty vanilla to me anyway.

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