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By (user no longer on site) OP   
8 weeks ago

Worst meet up experiences

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By *iltsTSgirlTV/TS
8 weeks ago

chichester

Had lots on here over years. Mostly couples and odd solo female couple of times that i ejected myself from

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By *mber123appleCouple
8 weeks ago

Bristol

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By *mber123appleCouple
8 weeks ago

Bristol

One who said he was getting a drink from the bar but ran out to his car and drove off, another one turned up so pissed he couldn't get it up. Other than that mostly positive meets

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
8 weeks ago


"One who said he was getting a drink from the bar but ran out to his car and drove off, another one turned up so pissed he couldn't get it up. Other than that mostly positive meets"
some people are a waste of space unfortunately

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By *ellhungvweMan
8 weeks ago

Cheltenham

I have only really had one “bad” social - a couple turned up, she was clearly d*unk. Not sure if it was dutch courage or whatever but I didn’t stay around long.

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By *iltsTSgirlTV/TS
8 weeks ago

chichester


"I have only really had one “bad” social - a couple turned up, she was clearly d*unk. Not sure if it was dutch courage or whatever but I didn’t stay around long."

Good choice there can’t be fucking around with d*unk women as you need to protect yourself incase they flip their biscuit later and start slinging accusations.

All oh men friends have a zero drink hookup policy with dates because of this risk .

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By *sleWightCoupleCouple
8 weeks ago

Ryde

A couple of people have tried to 'stealth' me, but eagle-eye'd hubby spotted what they were up to, and 'helped' them on their way out with a piece of 2x4.

Another guy was a clearly impotent, but hoping for a miracle when it came time to get down to business. He became increasingly frustrated, with his temper matching. He ended up becoming really rough with me, and he too was "helped" out the door.

Worst of all was early last month, when we had a guy due in for spanking & sex. Long story short, he was a sadistic bastard, with zero regard for both my comfort nor my welfare. It wasn't long before I was literally bleeding, and my husband wanted to take his head off, but I gave him a discrete signal to stay back.

My genuine protests ignored, I gritted my teeth and let him get it over with. I'm a big girl, and can handle myself, but I didn't want him to think he'd beaten me mentally as well as physically. He didn't even want sex after, which was probably just as well, as I wasn't in the mood for it! As it turned out, he was only there for the sadistic trashing, in spite of his initial claims. I heal very quickly, but the bruises took weeks clear up, and I have a couple of scars from the cane welts.

Usually, my husband is very good at sussing out potential troublemakers, as he is good at "reading" people through messages, and figuring out if they're hiding an ulterior motive. On this occasion, the guy had no personality to read. He spoke in a monotone, and had no sense of humour or irony, which is how he slipped through the net. His lack of humanity and emotions meant he was impossible to read. As hubby said: "It was like playing poker with a robot - there are no 'tells' because there aren't any emotions".

A good candidate for "worst meeting".

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By *ellhungvweMan
8 weeks ago

Cheltenham


"I have only really had one “bad” social - a couple turned up, she was clearly d*unk. Not sure if it was dutch courage or whatever but I didn’t stay around long.

Good choice there can’t be fucking around with d*unk women as you need to protect yourself incase they flip their biscuit later and start slinging accusations.

All oh men friends have a zero drink hookup policy with dates because of this risk .

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If I have a social or meet then I always make sure I drive so I have an excuse not to drink too much. Alcohol and swinging don’t mix well in my experience.

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By *ickfetMan
8 weeks ago

Southampton

Shagging in the dark. I thought she was sweating like hell, she thought I was sweating. I had a runny nose so turned the light on. It was like a murder scene, both covered in blood everywhere. I had been having a nose bleed!

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By *ripfillMan
8 weeks ago

havant


"A couple of people have tried to 'stealth' me, but eagle-eye'd hubby spotted what they were up to, and 'helped' them on their way out with a piece of 2x4.

Another guy was a clearly impotent, but hoping for a miracle when it came time to get down to business. He became increasingly frustrated, with his temper matching. He ended up becoming really rough with me, and he too was "helped" out the door.

Worst of all was early last month, when we had a guy due in for spanking & sex. Long story short, he was a sadistic bastard, with zero regard for both my comfort nor my welfare. It wasn't long before I was literally bleeding, and my husband wanted to take his head off, but I gave him a discrete signal to stay back.

My genuine protests ignored, I gritted my teeth and let him get it over with. I'm a big girl, and can handle myself, but I didn't want him to think he'd beaten me mentally as well as physically. He didn't even want sex after, which was probably just as well, as I wasn't in the mood for it! As it turned out, he was only there for the sadistic trashing, in spite of his initial claims. I heal very quickly, but the bruises took weeks clear up, and I have a couple of scars from the cane welts.

Usually, my husband is very good at sussing out potential troublemakers, as he is good at "reading" people through messages, and figuring out if they're hiding an ulterior motive. On this occasion, the guy had no personality to read. He spoke in a monotone, and had no sense of humour or irony, which is how he slipped through the net. His lack of humanity and emotions meant he was impossible to read. As hubby said: "It was like playing poker with a robot - there are no 'tells' because there aren't any emotions".

A good candidate for "worst meeting". "

OMG … that is awful ….

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By *sleWightCoupleCouple
8 weeks ago

Ryde


"OMG … that is awful ….

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Yep, pretty bad.

Had another guy who was really screwing away, but he started twitching his nose like a rabbit. He pulled out and excused himself for a second as he desperately fought to stifle a sneeze which was clearly on the way.

Sure enough, he let out an almighty sneeze, which resounded around the room, quickly followed by a very disappointed look on his face. The turned sheer magnitude of his sneeze had caused him to blow his wad as well as his nose.

He almost trudged out the door, and he didn't come back, which I don't blame him, as he was clearly VERY embarrassed.

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By *rucking-HellMan
8 weeks ago

Northampton


" His lack of humanity and emotions meant he was impossible to read."

All that lack is THE thing to read

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By *sleWightCoupleCouple
8 weeks ago

Ryde


" His lack of humanity and emotions meant he was impossible to read.

All that lack is THE thing to read "

But even THAT didn't come across in the messages. My husband has managed to stump professional psychologists who take pride in being able to read people - they just can't read him. Even with his abilities in that area (he's a journalist) it was a no-win scenario. When you are consorting with dominant men, there is often a degree of arrogance which comes with the territory, making things worse. I have to stress that this guy was NOT on Fab.

Well, you live and learn. I had a spanking/roleplay/sex session last week, and can happily report that the experience hasn't left any lasting psychological damage.

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
8 weeks ago

Central


"OMG … that is awful ….

Yep, pretty bad.

Had another guy who was really screwing away, but he started twitching his nose like a rabbit. He pulled out and excused himself for a second as he desperately fought to stifle a sneeze which was clearly on the way.

Sure enough, he let out an almighty sneeze, which resounded around the room, quickly followed by a very disappointed look on his face. The turned sheer magnitude of his sneeze had caused him to blow his wad as well as his nose.

He almost trudged out the door, and he didn't come back, which I don't blame him, as he was clearly VERY embarrassed."

Did he get a magnificent orgasm though? Perhaps more of us could perfect the sneeze and cum routine

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By *agatoXXXMan
8 weeks ago

Gone and completely forgotten.

There was this one time where I turned. 🙄

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By *enfella4uMan
8 weeks ago

staffs

Worst ever experience for me was I went to meet a couple at their house, went with a nice bottle freshly showered and nice n discreet then went in and instantly turned off from the mess of the house literally dog shit on the floor just left their and house smelly I told them

Sorry I can’t do this because the mess is just to bad and left

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By (user no longer on site)
8 weeks ago


" His lack of humanity and emotions meant he was impossible to read.

All that lack is THE thing to read

But even THAT didn't come across in the messages. My husband has managed to stump professional psychologists who take pride in being able to read people - they just can't read him. Even with his abilities in that area (he's a journalist) it was a no-win scenario. When you are consorting with dominant men, there is often a degree of arrogance which comes with the territory, making things worse. I have to stress that this guy was NOT on Fab.

Well, you live and learn. I had a spanking/roleplay/sex session last week, and can happily report that the experience hasn't left any lasting psychological damage."

I'm sorry but allowing him to carry on, don't you think that gave him the impression that it's OK and now he will go on to do it again? Maybe to someone and not take notice /ignore if they want to stop?

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By *avid 50Man
8 weeks ago

kendal

Meeting up with a young couple in their early 20s, she wanted to experience somebody different. He didn’t want her to have a younger guy so he wanted somebody more mature but he was so jealous he didn’t let it happen.

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By *hiteWitchXXXWoman
8 weeks ago

North Wales

My first meet was the the only worse experience thankfully. The guy was far too rough with me…. Put me off and ended up deleting the account , didn’t rejoin again till nearly 12 months later

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By *enusandmarsCouple
8 weeks ago

Buryish

After brief, shit sex, one guy got up, got back into his scruffy tracksuit and had a shoes waiting by the door downstairs, before she'd even left the bathroom! Took her drink away too 🤣

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By *illxxMan
8 weeks ago

motherwell

Met a couple a few years ago went to there house. Everything was going great till we went to the room to take things further. Myself and the woman got naked and started playing. Next thing he started to get jealous and him and his wife started to argue. That ended the meeting for me I just got dressed and left pretty quickly. I wasn’t in the can 5 minutes when the phone went they asked me to come back but declined and said no thanks

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By *aughty driverMan
8 weeks ago

Romford

Met a woman years ago went down on her and it stank so bad its completely put me off oral and now i find it as a stumbling block when i say i dont go down. Its an insecurity of mine now

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By *he Silver FuxMan
8 weeks ago

Uttoxeter


"OMG … that is awful ….

Yep, pretty bad.

Had another guy who was really screwing away, but he started twitching his nose like a rabbit. He pulled out and excused himself for a second as he desperately fought to stifle a sneeze which was clearly on the way.

Sure enough, he let out an almighty sneeze, which resounded around the room, quickly followed by a very disappointed look on his face. The turned sheer magnitude of his sneeze had caused him to blow his wad as well as his nose.

He almost trudged out the door, and he didn't come back, which I don't blame him, as he was clearly VERY embarrassed."

I can relate to having a really good sneeze,

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By *he Silver FuxMan
8 weeks ago

Uttoxeter


"Met a woman years ago went down on her and it stank so bad its completely put me off oral and now i find it as a stumbling block when i say i dont go down. Its an insecurity of mine now"

Yup - all you women pushing our heads down there, pretending that it’s nectar of the gods when you know damn well it’s a bit musty having had a quick rub and a smell of your fingers… 😂

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By *ose-tinted GlassesMan
8 weeks ago

Glasgow / London


"Worst meet up experiences "

Probably the one with the machete.

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By *he Silver FuxMan
8 weeks ago

Uttoxeter


"Worst meet up experiences

Probably the one with the machete."

Sounds kinky, what went wrong exactly?

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By *agatoXXXMan
8 weeks ago

Gone and completely forgotten.


"Worst meet up experiences

Probably the one with the machete."

Huh. That's normal for Glasgow.

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By (user no longer on site)
8 weeks ago

Met a couple once one of the first things I did was go down on her she came and decided that was that

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By *valanche1001Man
8 weeks ago

Leeds

I can’t decide if it’s the meet with the couple where the female half announced halfway through she was going for a poo

Or the meet where the couple’s dog had a wee on my leg

🤔

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By *moothdickMan
8 weeks ago

stoke

A few years back in a club, was with a cpl and another guy, they were up the top end and I got invited to the neither regions of the lady.. anyway, we all had a good time, so I thought until we were getting dressed and the hubby took the hump with me for pleasuring his good lady with my tongue… put it down the shot yr load jealousy aftermath moment …. But made me weary in the future ….

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By (user no longer on site)
8 weeks ago

I was doing a guy over his sofa and his mrs came back home unexpected, walked in the room, saw us, and started screaming and throwing objects at us.

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By *tephTV67TV/TS
8 weeks ago

Cheshire

When I was a lot younger and experimenting with my sexuality a guy chatted me up in a club. I stupidly went back to his place and even though he’d told me he was straight (by the way he knew I was a guy) I didn’t really care.

Unfortunately after he came it suddenly dawned on him that his heterosexuality was in danger. He started to have a go at me, I thought any second now he’ll attack me, so I gathered up my clothes, luckily I still had most of them on and got out of there.

So it’s always annoying when straight guys message and try to convince me they’re bi. Some of us have had bad experiences with guys who are experimenting but afterwards are ashamed of what ‘they’ wanted.

Luckily for me a one off, but I’ve known other Tgirls had the same frightening experiences as well.

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By *orthern BeardMan
8 weeks ago

Oxfordshire


"One who said he was getting a drink from the bar but ran out to his car and drove off, another one turned up so pissed he couldn't get it up. Other than that mostly positive meets"

Someone actually did that! Can only think he was nervous! You’re a stunner

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By *erfHerder74Man
8 weeks ago

Greenock

Worst was when I got crabs from him

Another he took pops and was wasted he had to lay for 45 minutes to recover

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By *dz69247Man
8 weeks ago

Manchester and Leeds

Had a meeting with what I thought was a couple. Had a FaceTime with them beforehand and everything looked normal, the lady even giving me a quick preview.

Was two hours away. Got there, guy answers, welcomes me in and gets me a beer, there’s another lad sat in the couch. We chat for a bit as I think the lady must be getting ready.

Talk turns to dick sucking, and that because I’m bi, do I like to get fucked as well?. My spidey senses go into overdrive, I say no, and ask where the lady is, I get vague answers.

I say am leaving, but like a dick head my car keys are in my coat which I gave the bloke to hang up somewhere.

He and the other bloke get aggressive, but I manage to be more aggressive, I get the beer bottle and smash it on the table as a weapon, mood changes instantly.

He gets my coat and I run out of there. I couldn’t tell you what the plan was or what was going on, was 100% a women who FaceTimed me with the bloke.

And that’s the last time I met dodgy couples of KIK groups.

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By *eneralKenobiMan
8 weeks ago

North Angus

Can’t say I’ve really anything of note although one time I turned up and either she hadn’t brushed her teeth in a month or had just finished a sandwich but my god that caught me off guard for something I’d never really thought ever would

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By (user no longer on site)
8 weeks ago

When they looked nothing like their profile

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By *lowupdollTV/TS
8 weeks ago

Herts


"When I was a lot younger and experimenting with my sexuality a guy chatted me up in a club. I stupidly went back to his place and even though he’d told me he was straight (by the way he knew I was a guy) I didn’t really care.

Unfortunately after he came it suddenly dawned on him that his heterosexuality was in danger. He started to have a go at me, I thought any second now he’ll attack me, so I gathered up my clothes, luckily I still had most of them on and got out of there.

So it’s always annoying when straight guys message and try to convince me they’re bi. Some of us have had bad experiences with guys who are experimenting but afterwards are ashamed of what ‘they’ wanted.

Luckily for me a one off, but I’ve known other Tgirls had the same frightening experiences as well. "

A familiar experience from my drag years unfortunately. Tgirls give straight guys enough visual excuse to convince themselves it’s not guy on guy. One reason why I keep things strictly ‘femboi’ these days.

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By *olinOfBathMan
8 weeks ago

Corsham

This wasn't Fab, but Plenty Of Freaks about six years ago. Within moments of meeting in a pub, it became clear that she wasn't seeking romance. She was looking for a hitman to take care of her ex-husband. I made my excuses and left.

It turned out that she was known to local authorities, who regard her as harmless, and didn't actually have an ex-husband.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
8 weeks ago


"This wasn't Fab, but Plenty Of Freaks about six years ago. Within moments of meeting in a pub, it became clear that she wasn't seeking romance. She was looking for a hitman to take care of her ex-husband. I made my excuses and left.omg bloody hell

It turned out that she was known to local authorities, who regard her as harmless, and didn't actually have an ex-husband."

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By (user no longer on site)
8 weeks ago

I posted this on a similar thread a few weeks back so here's the truncated version...

On my first Fab profile about 6 years ago, I was working and I got a message from a man not far from me. I agreed to meet him on my lunch break at his farmhouse after discussing boundaries/do's/don'ts.

He was 6ft+, huge muscles, and hands like shovels. He led me to the bedroom and I asked to freshen up a bit because I'd been on a building site most of the morning. He saw me washing and said "that's okay, my mouth will clean it". This should've been the first red flag but I was inexperienced and it was my first ever meet: I was nervous and just went with the flow.

I went to his room and he tried to kiss me - one of my definite no-no's at the time - so I turned my head and he got angry and pushed me to my knees. I was there because I wanted to try sucking cock for the first time so I wasn't too worried about it and he got his huge cock out, which he started facefucking me with. I asked him to take it easy and he just laughed. The thing is, his willy wasn't particularly clean but I was intimidated and thought I'll just do this then leave.

He picked me up, lay me on the bed and sucked me then moved to my balls, then lifted my legs. I enjoy rimming but I was self-conscious because I'd been working all morning and he said he didn't care, that he'd clean me good. He started to finger me - another of my DON'Ts - and when I asked him to stop he postioned himself as if he was going to fuck me - my biggest, triple underlined DON'T. I wriggled off the bed and he got aggressive so I basically sucked him till he came in my mouth - another NO! - then as I was leaving he said to message him any time.

It was fucking horrible and I didn't meet anyone for a very long time after.

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By (user no longer on site)
8 weeks ago

Ellen was sick after going down on a woman once.

Spoiled the mood a little.

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By *lueman3Man
8 weeks ago

North east

Top 3 for me

3rd when I was in a couple on here we met a single guy he was not what he claimed and cummed before he even touched her. He left it felt like ages as he put his clothes back on

2nd my first meet alone single after above relationship ended and I cummed way too soon. It was only a few pumps and I was mortified. Karma kinda

1st meeting a couple and their house was absolutely rotten. Stunk and rubbish all over they were very sweet but I felt the need to at least please her and let’s just say it took all my will power to lick her out. I told them that’s only how far I go on first meet and left. The smell was with me for ages

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By (user no longer on site)
8 weeks ago


"When I was a lot younger and experimenting with my sexuality a guy chatted me up in a club. I stupidly went back to his place and even though he’d told me he was straight (by the way he knew I was a guy) I didn’t really care.

Unfortunately after he came it suddenly dawned on him that his heterosexuality was in danger. He started to have a go at me, I thought any second now he’ll attack me, so I gathered up my clothes, luckily I still had most of them on and got out of there.

So it’s always annoying when straight guys message and try to convince me they’re bi. Some of us have had bad experiences with guys who are experimenting but afterwards are ashamed of what ‘they’ wanted.

Luckily for me a one off, but I’ve known other Tgirls had the same frightening experiences as well. "

When I was first coming to terms with my sexuality, I spoke to a couple of Tgirls with a view to maybe meeting and at least one of them had a similar tale and declined my offer. Which is more than understandable

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By *ennifertvayrshireTV/TS
8 weeks ago

Kilmarnock

Met a guy who had great verification from tv. I began to realise he had been drinking at 11am and had opened a second bottle of wine. He started going off on tangent rants about how much of a hard man he was and by this time he couldn’t get hard. I got out when he started going through kitchen drawers for implements to insert inside me. Lots more to it but lucky escape. You have to get yourself out of the situation without escalating it.

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By *abtastic Mr FoxMan
8 weeks ago

A den in the Glen

My second meet. Everything that could've gone wrong did go wrong.

I posted about this in my usual manner and most laughed, the rest blocked me 🤣.

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By *r John WickMan
8 weeks ago

The Continental

I’ve mentioned it in other threads, so I won’t recount the whole story apart from it needing police intervention and a restraining order.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
8 weeks ago


"I’ve mentioned it in other threads, so I won’t recount the whole story apart from it needing police intervention and a restraining order."
yes i always wonder when some people put meet now at mine on there status

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By *he Silver FuxMan
8 weeks ago

Uttoxeter


"A few years back in a club, was with a cpl and another guy, they were up the top end and I got invited to the neither regions of the lady.. anyway, we all had a good time, so I thought until we were getting dressed and the hubby took the hump with me for pleasuring his good lady with my tongue… put it down the shot yr load jealousy aftermath moment …. But made me weary in the future …. "

Post nut clarity will getcha

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By *abtastic Mr FoxMan
8 weeks ago

A den in the Glen

Not my experience. Honest. No I mean it!

I am friends with a couple and they arranged to see a lovely lady for a lovely but if 3way loving and whilst he was making tender, sweet love to her from behind, in her ass, his wife is licking both her and him.

He withdraws and by all accounts a large clegnut is attached to his love rod. His wife looks at him, he looks at her and he shrugs. What to do? She flicks the clegnut off his lieberwurst and it flies across the room and sticks on the TV screen and play continued.

It was the single woman's house.

The wife told me this.

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By *enrietteandSamCouple
8 weeks ago

Staffordshire


"Not my experience. Honest. No I mean it!

I am friends with a couple and they arranged to see a lovely lady for a lovely but if 3way loving and whilst he was making tender, sweet love to her from behind, in her ass, his wife is licking both her and him.

He withdraws and by all accounts a large clegnut is attached to his love rod. His wife looks at him, he looks at her and he shrugs. What to do? She flicks the clegnut off his lieberwurst and it flies across the room and sticks on the TV screen and play continued.

It was the single woman's house.

The wife told me this."

Sometimes I just open the wrong threads.

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By *abtastic Mr FoxMan
8 weeks ago

A den in the Glen

I should've lied, set the car amongst the pigeons and said "a lovely forum couple I know..."

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By *tephTV67TV/TS
8 weeks ago

Cheshire


"When I was a lot younger and experimenting with my sexuality a guy chatted me up in a club. I stupidly went back to his place and even though he’d told me he was straight (by the way he knew I was a guy) I didn’t really care.

Unfortunately after he came it suddenly dawned on him that his heterosexuality was in danger. He started to have a go at me, I thought any second now he’ll attack me, so I gathered up my clothes, luckily I still had most of them on and got out of there.

So it’s always annoying when straight guys message and try to convince me they’re bi. Some of us have had bad experiences with guys who are experimenting but afterwards are ashamed of what ‘they’ wanted.

Luckily for me a one off, but I’ve known other Tgirls had the same frightening experiences as well.

When I was first coming to terms with my sexuality, I spoke to a couple of Tgirls with a view to maybe meeting and at least one of them had a similar tale and declined my offer. Which is more than understandable "

Just read your experience and it made me shudder, hope you’re doing better now.

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By (user no longer on site)
8 weeks ago


"When I was a lot younger and experimenting with my sexuality a guy chatted me up in a club. I stupidly went back to his place and even though he’d told me he was straight (by the way he knew I was a guy) I didn’t really care.

Unfortunately after he came it suddenly dawned on him that his heterosexuality was in danger. He started to have a go at me, I thought any second now he’ll attack me, so I gathered up my clothes, luckily I still had most of them on and got out of there.

So it’s always annoying when straight guys message and try to convince me they’re bi. Some of us have had bad experiences with guys who are experimenting but afterwards are ashamed of what ‘they’ wanted.

Luckily for me a one off, but I’ve known other Tgirls had the same frightening experiences as well.

When I was first coming to terms with my sexuality, I spoke to a couple of Tgirls with a view to maybe meeting and at least one of them had a similar tale and declined my offer. Which is more than understandable

Just read your experience and it made me shudder, hope you’re doing better now. "

Thanks. I'm fine, it was just a total shock and I definitely got off lightly compared to what could have happened. I deleted my account straight after it and it was a year before I rejoined. I'm not even sure if the guy is still on here

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By *ittlemiss Hal O weenCouple
8 weeks ago

Southampton


"I have only really had one “bad” social - a couple turned up, she was clearly d*unk. Not sure if it was dutch courage or whatever but I didn’t stay around long.

Good choice there can’t be fucking around with d*unk women as you need to protect yourself incase they flip their biscuit later and start slinging accusations.

All oh men friends have a zero drink hookup policy with dates because of this risk .

If I have a social or meet then I always make sure I drive so I have an excuse not to drink too much. Alcohol and swinging don’t mix well in my experience."

* puts down her glass of wine

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By *agatoXXXMan
8 weeks ago

Gone and completely forgotten.


"I have only really had one “bad” social - a couple turned up, she was clearly d*unk. Not sure if it was dutch courage or whatever but I didn’t stay around long.

Good choice there can’t be fucking around with d*unk women as you need to protect yourself incase they flip their biscuit later and start slinging accusations.

All oh men friends have a zero drink hookup policy with dates because of this risk .

If I have a social or meet then I always make sure I drive so I have an excuse not to drink too much. Alcohol and swinging don’t mix well in my experience.

* puts down her glass of wine "

Don't, you'll need your wine goggles to meet me.

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