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By *wist my nipples OP   Couple
6 weeks ago

North East Scotland, mostly

Are you an impulsive person? Or do you like to take your time with decisions? Could be big things, could be little things. I must know.

Mrs x

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By (user no longer on site)
6 weeks ago

Both. Depends on a lot of circumstances. 😅

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By *inky_couple2020Couple
6 weeks ago

North West

Name change

Also, yes, I'm pretty impulsive

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By *ensuallover1000Man
6 weeks ago

Somewhere In The Ether…

I’m more of a methodical person.

I prefer strategic planning in general (if possible).

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By *ell GwynnWoman
6 weeks ago

North Yorkshire

Generally, I'm a planner who does most things after careful deliberation (this is code for "procrastinates like fuck").

On occasion I throw caution to the wind and end up doing something like driving to Devon on a whim.

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By *inky_couple2020Couple
6 weeks ago

North West


"Generally, I'm a planner who does most things after careful deliberation (this is code for "procrastinates like fuck").

On occasion I throw caution to the wind and end up doing something like driving to Devon on a whim."

I booked and headed to France on the same day I came up with the idea

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By *wiss Army KnifeMan
6 weeks ago

Second star to the right…

I am usually a planner but sometimes my impulsively goes on overload!!

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By *wist my nipples OP   Couple
6 weeks ago

North East Scotland, mostly


"Name change

Also, yes, I'm pretty impulsive "

That’s what inspired the thread! It was a whim

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By *ampireLoveMan
6 weeks ago

Essex & Bristol


"Generally, I'm a planner who does most things after careful deliberation (this is code for "procrastinates like fuck").

On occasion I throw caution to the wind and end up doing something like driving to Devon on a whim."

This is also me. Apart from the driving to Devon part!

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By *wist my nipples OP   Couple
6 weeks ago

North East Scotland, mostly


"Both. Depends on a lot of circumstances. 😅"

Please expand on your answer for full credit.

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By *inky_couple2020Couple
6 weeks ago

North West


"Name change

Also, yes, I'm pretty impulsive

That’s what inspired the thread! It was a whim "

Go you!

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By *wist my nipples OP   Couple
6 weeks ago

North East Scotland, mostly


"I’m more of a methodical person.

I prefer strategic planning in general (if possible).

"

Is that different from normal planning?

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By *wist my nipples OP   Couple
6 weeks ago

North East Scotland, mostly


"Generally, I'm a planner who does most things after careful deliberation (this is code for "procrastinates like fuck").

On occasion I throw caution to the wind and end up doing something like driving to Devon on a whim."

See I am also a world class procrastinator but it’s not the same as planning for me

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By *rightonsteveMan
6 weeks ago

Brighton - even Hove!

Nope, I plan ahead most things. Diary, planner, reminders, time schedules. Happily I don’t freak when things go wrong or there are delays (which I build in time for) and it’s not an OCD controlling sort of thing, I’ve always done it. Guess who was NEVER late with his homework?

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By *wist my nipples OP   Couple
6 weeks ago

North East Scotland, mostly


"Generally, I'm a planner who does most things after careful deliberation (this is code for "procrastinates like fuck").

On occasion I throw caution to the wind and end up doing something like driving to Devon on a whim.

I booked and headed to France on the same day I came up with the idea "

Now that is impulsive!

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By *r John WickMan
6 weeks ago

The Continental

I don’t do planning.

I’ve pretty much winged it through the 48 n a bit years I’ve got through so far.

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By *inky_couple2020Couple
6 weeks ago

North West


"Generally, I'm a planner who does most things after careful deliberation (this is code for "procrastinates like fuck").

On occasion I throw caution to the wind and end up doing something like driving to Devon on a whim.

I booked and headed to France on the same day I came up with the idea

Now that is impulsive! "

Worked out brilliantly too. What could possibly have gone wrong with a wheelchair using woman + a child, heading to Paris on a whim? What, I ask you?!

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By *lder.Woman
6 weeks ago

Not Local

If I had a bit more money to act on my impulses, I would be an unstoppable liability. As it is, I am shackled.

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By *ensuallover1000Man
6 weeks ago

Somewhere In The Ether…

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By *ensuallover1000Man
6 weeks ago

Somewhere In The Ether…


"I’m more of a methodical person.

I prefer strategic planning in general (if possible).

Is that different from normal planning?"

Well….um….no. (But it sounds fancier) 😜

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By *rsMistyPeaksWoman
6 weeks ago

Essex

I’m stupidly impulsive.

When I’m not I overthink and get over anxious and freeze

I’ve learned mostly what not to run too recklessly towards.

Mostly

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By *midnight-Woman
6 weeks ago

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I think i tick ALL boxes

I'm a planner... Then become the world's worst procrastinater when overwhelmed by options followed by snap decisions that have no relation to anything else

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By *eilde HoarWoman
6 weeks ago

In a wax coated bubble

Impulsive, Impatient and likely to throw a bag in the car and fuck off on a whim adventure

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By *8on33Man
6 weeks ago

winfrith


"Are you an impulsive person? Or do you like to take your time with decisions? Could be big things, could be little things. I must know.

Mrs x"
Impulsive I just go with the flow

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By (user no longer on site)
6 weeks ago

Massively impulsive

Sometimes after I wonder was it a good idea. I’m more likely to over think after a conversation than I am a decision.

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By *ulieScrumptiousWoman
6 weeks ago

North West

Very much a mixture of both. I am definitely becoming more spontaneous and impulsive! 🤩

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By *n at the DeeP endCouple
6 weeks ago

Manchester


"Generally, I'm a planner who does most things after careful deliberation (this is code for "procrastinates like fuck").

On occasion I throw caution to the wind and end up doing something like driving to Devon on a whim."

This.

Except Llandudno instead of Devon

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By *oubleswing2019Man
6 weeks ago

Colchester

Very much a planner. Not impulsive at all. Even my plans have plans

And whilst it may sound perverse, I will plan impulsivity, in order to give the illusion of impulsiveness. The order and structure is my happy place.

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By *ripfillMan
6 weeks ago

havant

I am a bit of a planner .. love lists I have even written things on a list which I have just done !

Then crossed it off

Pisceans are noted for this trait of spontaneous action … in passing !

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By *vaRose43Woman
6 weeks ago

Forest of Dean

I’m a planner.

I plan, I change my mind, I plan some more….and then I procrastinate.

On very rare occasions i throw everything out of the window and wing it but it’s not often

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By (user no longer on site)
6 weeks ago

Has to be impulsive as if you over think, you will make the wrong decision, and then regret it.

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By *ickyKlungespeareMan
6 weeks ago

St Leonards

Nice name change OP.

You're such an adorable pervert you know 😘😘.

I connect my gut feel to my rational interrogation of a topic.

Whichever holds sway gets followed, and assessed frequently during the process.

To others, some of what I do looks wildly impulsive, sometimes excessively planned.

To me, it looks consistent with putting gut/planning together and following the most resonant xxxx

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By *obandruthCouple
6 weeks ago

wolverhampton

I'm a very laid back person.

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By *ularliWoman
6 weeks ago

Worcester

I am quite impulsive and probably would be more so if I could just pack up and take myself off to places.

The only real things I plan is work related stuff and horse shows lol.

The rest just kinda happens

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By *r_Midnight2000Man
6 weeks ago

home

Used to be very spontaneous when I was younger

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By *asygoingcouple2022Couple
6 weeks ago

The moon

I’m impulsive decided to meet my husband for a drink on a Saturday night and moved in with him on the Sunday and we have been together 24 years now

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By *sWyldWoman
6 weeks ago

Edinburgh

I'm probably too impulsive at times.

Decisions are more often than not, made my my heart rather than my head.

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By *usyBusyGirlWoman
6 weeks ago

Birmingham

Both, depending on my mood

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By *ittleLiasonsWoman
6 weeks ago

Birmingham

I'm impulsive with my emotions about people and sometimes act on them without seeing the bigger picture first. I'm more of an overthinker for other things so tend to think a lot before making a decision on life things.

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple
6 weeks ago

Leeds

I'm a planner but then I do have my fuck it moments.

Mrs

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