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By *Dan85 OP   Man
6 weeks ago

Great Harwood

Honest the past month has been so frustrating I've talked to loads of people we get to a point of arranging and then it's either silent or no can't meet. What am I doing wrong?? Any tips

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By *hris0808Man
6 weeks ago

Rotherham

You are doing better than a loy of others of you are talking to people on here. Myself included haha.

Maybe life just gets in the way for some people

I should get tips of you if you are at least talking and arranging meets

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By *ipstick KissesWoman
6 weeks ago

South Down

What are you talking about and what kind of conversations are you having?

Perhaps arranging a social meet up early doors and having less online chat might help?

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By *enegadeMMan
6 weeks ago

cheltenham

Go to their area from their profile.. and walk around until you bump into them. Then as them in person why??? Why oh why?

No I jest…there’s approximately 14.73 million guys to each woman and couple on fab…so really it’s just a waiting game.. one will meet…and then like busses you’ll have them queuing

No, again I joke…. Just fit to keep trying…forum interaction ,…planned area socials? At least you’re having messages right? That’s something

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By *eandmrsjones69Couple
6 weeks ago

Middle England

Not saying this is your situation be someone sends us a hello message; next they want to have sex with Mrs. For us it doesn't work.

May be in your instance things were moving a bit too fast or mixed messages.

I'd recommend meeting people, go to socials and/or clubs. Get to know them and then take it from there. Be social first and usually the rest will follow.

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By *Dan85 OP   Man
6 weeks ago

Great Harwood

Thank you

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By *Dan85 OP   Man
6 weeks ago

Great Harwood


"Go to their area from their profile.. and walk around until you bump into them. Then as them in person why??? Why oh why?

No I jest…there’s approximately 14.73 million guys to each woman and couple on fab…so really it’s just a waiting game.. one will meet…and then like busses you’ll have them queuing

No, again I joke…. Just fit to keep trying…forum interaction ,…planned area socials? At least you’re having messages right? That’s something "

Thabks

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By *urry BlokeMan
6 weeks ago


"Honest the past month has been so frustrating I've talked to loads of people we get to a point of arranging and then it's either silent or no can't meet. What am I doing wrong?? Any tips "

My guess is picking the wrong people

As soon as the sexy chat starts, I'm out

Most (or at the very least, a lot of) people are here with a common will and wish to meet

There are different approaches to reaching that goal

Find which approach works best for you

Find others that approach it similarly

My only tip is as soon as the chat goes beyond the 'hello's', if it starts going down the 'sexy chat' avenue, stop it and steer it away from there

That will, to a degree, separate the chatters from the meeters

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By *8on33Man
6 weeks ago

winfrith


"Honest the past month has been so frustrating I've talked to loads of people we get to a point of arranging and then it's either silent or no can't meet. What am I doing wrong?? Any tips "
Maybe it's the way you message, maybe it's your pics ,maybe it's your lack of profile or maybe your just another guy and it's not easy for guys .

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By *reyToTheFairiesWoman
6 weeks ago

Carlisle usually

I guess they don't agree that you've both reached the point of arranging.

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By *xtrafun2Couple
6 weeks ago

Rochdale

Just go to a club, act like a normal person and speak to people. Get some verifications, this will help. You’re going to really struggle to get a meet without verifications. We wouldn’t meet anyone without and I think most women/couples are the same

Oh and missing on here is supposedly one of the biggest turn offs from what we’ve read

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By *xtrafun2Couple
6 weeks ago

Rochdale

Moaning*

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By *rightonsteveMan
6 weeks ago

Brighton - even Hove!


"Not saying this is your situation be someone sends us a hello message; next they want to have sex with Mrs. For us it doesn't work.

May be in your instance things were moving a bit too fast or mixed messages.

I'd recommend meeting people, go to socials and/or clubs. Get to know them and then take it from there. Be social first and usually the rest will follow."

I agree. Don’t bother with the ‘hello’ bit, get straight in there. A whole list of things you’re gonna do and say and a 10 minute breakdown of what the evening will look like might work.

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
6 weeks ago

Central

Perhaps nothing, or just not having realistic expectations

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