FabSwingers.com forum: Do you have to be hung and handsome l

By (user no longer on site) OP
10 weeks ago

Hi everyone before I get slated i know I'm a single guy thanks . My question is do you have to be hamsome with a big member to find fun on fab. I'm very genuine and respectful don't ask for meets straight up just chats and it never works .

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By *eroLondonMan
10 weeks ago

Covent Garden

No, you don't. Absolutely not. 🌈

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By *lowupdollTV/TS
10 weeks ago

Herts

I do just fine on here and I’m neither. So no.

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By *880 SaintMan
10 weeks ago

Essex

You don’t have to be both. But as there’s like a billion blokes to one woman on this site, women, rightly, have the luxury of being selective with who they meet.

The best way to meet people is to go to clubs/socials.

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By *ittlebirdWoman
10 weeks ago

The Big Smoke

No 👍🏻

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By *osey WalesMan
10 weeks ago

Surrey

Some may say it helps but i do not think it is a given even if you were.

Personality goes along way

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By *r John WickMan
10 weeks ago

The Continental

End of thread.

Next question?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
10 weeks ago

Thanks everyone so far I know there's a lot of guys on here I had to ask to know .

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By *vaRose43Woman
10 weeks ago

Forest of Dean

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By *lowupdollTV/TS
10 weeks ago

Herts

"No 👍🏻"

Telling the guy he needs to have no thumb is just gonna be confusing.

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By *lowupdollTV/TS
10 weeks ago

Herts

"No

End of thread.

Next question? "

Can’t be end of thread if there’s another question.

Just pointing out the obvious cause it’s..well it’s a hobby really.

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By *toC Thats MeWoman
10 weeks ago

Sheffield

In a nutshell…no.

Everyone has preferences or different reasons for using fab. But surely attraction is always key.

Been genuine and respectful should be a given anyway.

I don’t use fab for meeting people though, I prefer to attend clubs.

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By *ittlebirdWoman
10 weeks ago

The Big Smoke

"No 👍🏻

Telling the guy he needs to have no thumb is just gonna be confusing."

I love you ♥️

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By (user no longer on site) OP
10 weeks ago

Thanks again everyone ill stay me and I'll keep trying and to the guy that said end the threat the next question is why what's the problem with asking a question.

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By *aughtynottsCouple
10 weeks ago

Outside Nottingham

Fabs is not the be all and end all of this lifestyle. In fact I'd say as a single guy this would be the hardest place for you to find meets as your in a sea of thousands, head to a club / social and chat to people in real life.

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By *hilloutMan
10 weeks ago

All over the place! Northwesr, , Southwest

It certainly helps if you are physically attractive but that only gets your foot in the door...and not with everyone.

People will take note of how your profile presents and the vibe it gives off. The way you conduct yourself in the forums may also help, particularly if your target audience uses them.

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By *inky Biscuit DunkerMan
10 weeks ago

Gloucestershire

A sense of humour often has a ladies bra pinging off

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By *ipstick KissesWoman
10 weeks ago

South Down

For some yes, but not for all.

Most will want to meet someone that's attractive to them. "Attractive" is subjective.

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By *reyToTheFairiesWoman
10 weeks ago

Carlisle usually

Some people are only interested in hot guys with massive schlongs.

But also some people are only into midget contortionists.

Just find the right people for your market.

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By *lowupdollTV/TS
10 weeks ago

Herts

"Some people are only interested in hot guys with massive schlongs.

But also some people are only into midget contortionists.

Just find the right people for your market."

Midget contortionists are hard to find. Literally.

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By *ny1localMan
10 weeks ago

READING

"Hi everyone before I get slated i know I'm a single guy thanks . My question is do you have to be hamsome with a big member to find fun on fab. I'm very genuine and respectful don't ask for meets straight up just chats and it never works ."
folks might have to be in the fab world, but not so much in my opinion in the real world.

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By *orningcoffee9Man
10 weeks ago

Manchester

Hmm I don't know it seems to me its just as hard finding a connection on a dating app/site as it is here. I don't particularly think size should matter however it's quite common to see profiles who are mainly just looking for hung or BBC. This place does highlight that a lot.

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By *ros40Man
10 weeks ago

Bedford

Different strokes for different folks and all that

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By (user no longer on site)
10 weeks ago

Hope not because I’m neither.

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By *lackcanaryWoman
10 weeks ago

Ipswich

Absolutely not!. My preferences is always one who approaches me in a respectful manner (to start with

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Having said that I do personally need a physical attraction to play. We all have our own preferences. And there are so many men compared to women on here

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By *ot workman 88Man
10 weeks ago

Colchester

I think fab women only have the pics to judge at first and there are so many blokes in really good shape to choose from they as spoilt for choice, most think I am to big a built, tbh alot do stat they would like a big dong too

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By (user no longer on site)
10 weeks ago

You have to be attractive to that person yes but dick size isn't important. For me, they also need to have something about them, only being pretty doesn't impress me.

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By *ack FrostyMan
10 weeks ago

Wolverhampton

I hope not or I’d be fucked, well actually I wouldn’t be fucked but you know what I mean

I find being me is the best I can do, it will appeal to a few and not to some.

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By *urry BlokeMan
10 weeks ago

Stalybridge

Whilst not essential, I certainly think it helps

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By (user no longer on site)
10 weeks ago

"I do just fine on here and I’m neither. So no. "

But you're sexy, and that counts for a hell of a lot

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By *avexxMan
10 weeks ago

cheshire

never lose your manners or respect op... fab or no fab

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By (user no longer on site)
10 weeks ago

Sure it helps to be

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By *8on33Man
10 weeks ago

winfrith

Obviously the more you appeal to the better your chances .

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By *ixfootfiveandabitMan
10 weeks ago

oxford

I’m definitely not hung

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By *tokiwmattMan
10 weeks ago

stoke

Feels that way, not that I’ve shown my manhood to anyone. Always respectful in messages but getting nowhere

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By *.hrisMan
10 weeks ago

Bath

I'm one of the two and have managed to have meets, not telling you which one though (my profile picture might give away which one I am not

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By *lexV16Man
10 weeks ago

Welling

Even hung and handsome struggle to get a meet judging by many topics on this forum

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By *ora the explorerWoman
10 weeks ago

Paradise, Herts

Yep

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By *avexxMan
10 weeks ago

cheshire

"Yep

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple
10 weeks ago

Leeds

Nah I’m minging with a tiny penis and I’ve got all the vag in my inbox.

The mr

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By (user no longer on site)
10 weeks ago

I find as long as your decent and polite you get further, the other things are just a bonus.

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By *inky_couple2020Couple
10 weeks ago

North West

"I do just fine on here and I’m neither. So no. "

No, you're hung and pretty

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By *heGateKeeperMan
10 weeks ago

Stratford

I am and it definitely helps. Humble too 🤭

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By *inky_couple2020Couple
10 weeks ago

North West

"I am and it definitely helps. Humble too 🤭"

Humble bragging ain't cool. Bro

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By *heGateKeeperMan
10 weeks ago

Stratford

"I am and it definitely helps. Humble too 🤭

Humble bragging ain't cool. Bro

Tbf it was a non humble brag

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple
10 weeks ago

Leeds

Absolutely not, personally I don't like large cocks and neither do many women, I'm small they hurt.

Yes there are size queens out there just avoid them.

We all like different things OP being larger isn't a turn off for me, I'm more about the person, don't get me wrong I need attraction but that can come with personality too not just aesthetics.

Mrs

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By (user no longer on site)
10 weeks ago

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By (user no longer on site)
10 weeks ago

"Absolutely not, personally I don't like large cocks and neither do many women, I'm small they hurt.

Yes there are size queens out there just avoid them.

We all like different things OP being larger isn't a turn off for me, I'm more about the person, don't get me wrong I need attraction but that can come with personality too not just aesthetics.

Mrs "

Good to hear… from a skinny, average size…just guy

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By *inky_couple2020Couple
10 weeks ago

North West

"I am and it definitely helps. Humble too 🤭

Humble bragging ain't cool. Bro

Tbf it was a non humble brag

🤦🏻‍♀️

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By *aven.Woman
10 weeks ago

Not the North West...

I'll take the hung and handsome ones off the hands of the women that don't care!

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By *heGateKeeperMan
10 weeks ago

Stratford

"I am and it definitely helps. Humble too 🤭

Humble bragging ain't cool. Bro

Tbf it was a non humble brag

🤦🏻‍♀️

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By *eroLondonMan
10 weeks ago

Covent Garden

"...I don't particularly think size should matter however it's quite common to see profiles who are mainly just looking for hung or BBC. This place does highlight that a lot. "

That's expected for a site like this, rightly or wrongly.

If this was an Embroidery Site then you would have people asking for extra long knitting needles versus short thimbles. You can still create a great tapestry with shorter/smaller...

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By *ellhungvweMan
10 weeks ago

Cheltenham

OP does it help? Yes. A lot of people use the site to get something that they don’t have at home. You can’t deny that.

That said, it isn’t enough on its own. If you look at the guys who do well here they invariably have good photos and a decent profile. That’s the key thing - it is within everyone’s reach but few seem to grasp it.

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By *eroLondonMan
10 weeks ago

Covent Garden

... actually, b*llocks, quite often one has to be hung and handsome (or 'hangsome') to be successful on here. Thankfully only a few women make love to good-looking dullards on here. 🙂♥️

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By *izandpaulCouple
10 weeks ago

merseyside

Absolutely not.

Your couple of verifications are excellent and put you in good stead.

Just keep getting out there.

Good luck.

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By *cottish guy 555Man
10 weeks ago

London

Try the Fleet social. Check out the hampshire's most wanted profile.

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By *illan-KillashMan
10 weeks ago

London/Sussex/Surrey/Berks/Hants

Short answer, no you don't.

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By *ony MannMan
10 weeks ago

New York City New York USA

Some are looking for big and if you can get a photoshop showing your cock the size of a cucumber you may a message.

...but ladies normally say hi before thing of England.

Put some thought into your profile and be nice.

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By *.T.Man
10 weeks ago

Belfast

No. I do ok.

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By *oshrocksMan
10 weeks ago

Gloucester

Nope, just be yourself. I'm neither handsome or hung, just unapologetically me. It doesn't work for everyone, but I don't want it to either.

Keep your chin up, OP. You'll find the right people.

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By (user no longer on site)
10 weeks ago

Depends on your "target audience", really and on what you want to get out of fab.

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By (user no longer on site)
10 weeks ago

Nope. I may be hung but that doesn't guarantee my success. You have to be charismatic, honest and polite. Living anywhere that isn't the countryside probably boosts your chances too

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By *hrista BellendWoman
10 weeks ago

surrounded by twinkly lights

It certainly helps yes.

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By *erfHerder74Man
10 weeks ago

Greenock

Just be yourself

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By *aven.Woman
10 weeks ago

Not the North West...

"No

Just be yourself "

Unless you're a bit of a twat.

Then be someone else.

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By *ell GwynnWoman
10 weeks ago

North Yorkshire

"No

Just be yourself

Unless you're a bit of a twat.

Then be someone else. "

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By *equila89Man
10 weeks ago

Tortured Poets Department

I’d say things like height and facial attractiveness are gonna be filters that determine whether a conversation is even gonna begin. If you tick those boxes, your personality will become more interesting. You can register interest in someone at a glance. Single male profiles tend to be about selling themselves, women’s are more about saying what they want.

If I wanted to meet women in this scene I’d go exclusively real world events over messaging here. The imbalance and how differently both sides experience this site is just too extreme in my mind. Being the 300th person in someone’s inbox that day in the hope of a hello is just surreal to me, and utterly demoralising.

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
10 weeks ago

Central

No.

But most people are not mutually compatible with most other people and thus you must have realistic expectations, that fully take this into account.

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By *rightonsteveMan
10 weeks ago

Brighton - even Hove!

If it doesn’t work, then try something else. Have you been to a social? That’s where your personality and character can be noticed whereas on here, it’s very visual and people will be looking at your face and body. A lot of guys say they are ‘genuine’, think about saying stuff that reflects who you are and don’t try to appeal to everyone. What sort of people are looking for? Be like Darwin and adapt and evolve.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
10 weeks ago

Thanks everyone I've taken on board what you have all said and made a couple of adjustments and new pictures to follow.

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By *he Silver FuxMan
10 weeks ago

Uttoxeter

No. Someone has to find you ‘fuckable’.

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By *ony MannMan
9 weeks ago

New York City New York USA

What will be will be

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By *ib.Man
9 weeks ago

Hampshire

No. Never worked for me. But then I am a dickhead too so there is that.

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By *rightonsteveMan
9 weeks ago

Brighton - even Hove!

"Nope. I may be hung but that doesn't guarantee my success. You have to be charismatic, honest and polite. Living anywhere that isn't the countryside probably boosts your chances too "

And now you’ve left the site. And can’t read this. Unless you come back. And if you do. Hello, again.

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By *a LunaWoman
9 weeks ago

South Wales

Nah. I am an equal opportunities shagger.

Ugly, fugly, beautiful - my fanny welcomes them all.

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By *cottish guy 555Man
9 weeks ago

London

"No

Just be yourself "

Unless you can be batman. Then be batman. Obviously.

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By *NormalMan01Man
9 weeks ago

Harrogate

No. You don’t. You just have to find people who don’t block and ghost 😂😂

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By *agatoXXXMan
9 weeks ago

Gone and completely forgotten.

Prob'ly

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By *ucka39Man
9 weeks ago

Newcastle

You just need to find your audience

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By *ruceyyMan
9 weeks ago

London

I'm a big member of the site but I'm not handsome so it just gets me close but not quite there. Balls!

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By *atnip make me purrWoman
9 weeks ago

Reading

Nope just a big brain for me

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By *agatoXXXMan
9 weeks ago

Gone and completely forgotten.

"Nope just a big brain for me"

Mine is so big, it leaks out my ears. Or it might be earwax.

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By (user no longer on site)
9 weeks ago

My car bumper sticker says "You don't have to be hung and handsome to play here but it helps".

I'm fucked on both accounts 😁

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By (user no longer on site)
9 weeks ago

Definitely not, I'm no adonis and not hung, but what women like is a man who can talk to them and listen.

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By *ickle-Lilly-WillyMan
9 weeks ago

Ends

I have a small willy, only pickle size and I find fun. Tbf I am incredibly handsome to anyone with sense though so that helps. Obviously.

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By *teveanddebsCouple
9 weeks ago

Norwich

Dick size is very important.

But for different reasons for different people.

Some like big, some prefer small and some average.

Funnily enough there are some that don't care.

Debs prefers dicks that aren't too big (7-8" max) and not so small they can't do the job.

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By *ilk_TrayMan
9 weeks ago

South

You don’t mate.

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By *tsJustKateWoman
9 weeks ago

London

No, but it helps

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By (user no longer on site)
9 weeks ago

Hung? No. Handsome? Eh, depends

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By *illan-KillashMan
9 weeks ago

London/Sussex/Surrey/Berks/Hants

"I have a small willy, only pickle size and I find fun. Tbf I am incredibly handsome to anyone with sense though so that helps. Obviously. "

If I ever catch the ghey you'd get it, you handsome bastard.

Being a decent human being helps your cause though.

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By *ickle-Lilly-WillyMan
9 weeks ago

Ends

"I have a small willy, only pickle size and I find fun. Tbf I am incredibly handsome to anyone with sense though so that helps. Obviously.

If I ever catch the ghey you'd get it, you handsome bastard.

Being a decent human being helps your cause though."

I think the being a decent human being is most of my appeal

It’s so good to see you in the forums

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By (user no longer on site)
9 weeks ago

I don’t think I’m either. However, I do think I’m an interesting guy with a nice personality.

My self effacing profile suggests this

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By *iltsTSgirlTV/TS
9 weeks ago

chichester

It helps but i think a big bank account is probably the great equaliser vs that in many cases in the real world

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By *2000ManMan
9 weeks ago

Worthing

No but your face has to resemble their favourite actor, sportsman, musician or "him on the telly". 95% and above similarity is fine. Only joking op, just be yourself and join in with the forum/cam room chat. Make friends and good luck!

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By *agic.MMan
9 weeks ago

Orpington

Depends what your objective is when you say "fun"...do you want to "get lucky" or do you want to have options and be desires by most women on fab? If you want to have options, than yes it helps to be hung and handsome and tall and fit and charming, and confident and financially capable to facilitate memorable experiences, and so on and so on...or just be yourself (what ever that means), like others have said, and if you're lucky, you'll "get lucky"

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By *lassifiedDickMan
9 weeks ago

london

You actually don't. Some women on here are attention seekers and time wasters but some are serious about meets

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By *he Silver FuxMan
9 weeks ago

Uttoxeter

Not for the ugly ones

💣💥

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By *endalshaggersCouple
9 weeks ago

Kendal

We've found not, although there has to be some chemistry and attraction! Unless you are trying to treat this site like some of the casual dating apps where it doesn't take much to "get lucky". Some people are very picky over what they want, and unfortunately for you you are one single male profile amongst thousands and if you have nothing to make you stand out or intriguing then it'll be a struggle.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
9 weeks ago

Thank you everyone I'm going to post in the forum about help with getting into the club scene something I've never done.

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By *avexxMan
9 weeks ago

cheshire

its no good having a big cock if its hanging off quasimodo

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