FabSwingers.com forum: Inconsistent behaviour

By *HornyHusband. OP Man
6 weeks ago

Darlington

Hey, bit of a boring veiled rant but i'm also quite curious. Does anyone else notice others blowing hot and cold quite a lot on here?

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By *exandcoffeeWoman
6 weeks ago

Stamford

Just a bit! I give up trying to understand some people!

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By *HornyHusband. OP Man
6 weeks ago

Darlington

"Just a bit! I give up trying to understand some people! "

It's left me unbekievably frustrated

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By *parkle1974Woman
6 weeks ago

Leeds

Can't say I have.

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By *HornyHusband. OP Man
6 weeks ago

Darlington

"Can't say I have."

I really try to understand if it's me. Maybe it is.

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By *ittleLiasonsWoman
6 weeks ago

Birmingham

Is it hot and cold or is it our expectations? People communicate differently which can lead to misunderstandings and clashing, if their communication style doesn't match yours probably best to move on.

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By *bi HaiveMan
Forum Mod
6 weeks ago

Cheeseville, Somerset

Nope. It's natural that some conversations fizzle out.

It's also natural that once you've met someone in person that your view on them may change.

It's just as realistic that people have things going on in their lives at different times and emergencies and unplanned events may take priority over a random bunk up with someone you met or have chatted to online.

If someone is seriously stalling and making promises/commitments and constantly backing out, then it probably just means they were never blowing 'hot'in the first place.

I wouldn't overthink it.

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By *ira2024Woman
6 weeks ago

South West

"Is it hot and cold or is it our expectations? People communicate differently which can lead to misunderstandings and clashing, if their communication style doesn't match yours probably best to move on."

Agree

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By *ellhungvweMan
6 weeks ago

Cheltenham

"Nope. It's natural that some conversations fizzle out.

It's also natural that once you've met someone in person that your view on them may change.

If someone is seriously stalling and making promises/commitments and constantly backing out, then it probably just means they were never blowing 'hot'in the first place.

I wouldn't overthink it. "

Obi is spot on.

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By *ampireLoveMan
6 weeks ago

Essex & Bristol

"Nope. It's natural that some conversations fizzle out.

It's also natural that once you've met someone in person that your view on them may change.

If someone is seriously stalling and making promises/commitments and constantly backing out, then it probably just means they were never blowing 'hot'in the first place.

I wouldn't overthink it. "

Agree with this

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By *sleWightCoupleCouple
6 weeks ago

Ryde

When you're offer the full package (willing woman and private residence in which to have your way with said willing woman) and they blow hot before blowing cold, you know that they've had a handy-shandy before reality sets in.

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By *HornyHusband. OP Man
6 weeks ago

Darlington

I don't thonk it't that. I'm really trying to know be knee jerk about being disappointed but feeling your going 100mph with soneone expressong the same thoughts and feeling to literally 0 and left wondering what happened is getting a bit soul destroying.

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By *imples24Man
6 weeks ago

tamworth

Yes I think a lot of people have experienced this. Don’t take it to heart and move on 👍🏻

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By *ackagain!Man
6 weeks ago

Nearby

As a male you have to accept that there are 100 of us to every female, couple etc. If you opened fab to 200 messages every single time you'd be inconsistent. I had a couples profile on here and it was just overwhelming. My partner would talk to soneone and then the whole conversation would just get lost in a plethora of inbound cock pics. Nearly took my eye out.

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By *hilloutMan
6 weeks ago

All over the place! Northwesr, , Southwest

I've interacted with people like this before.

Have very little patience for it now.

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By *mf123Man
6 weeks ago

with one foot out the door

Its a symptom of my own insanity i call it 3 bears syndrome

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By *agatoXXXMan
6 weeks ago

Mordor

I am consistently inconsistent.

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By (user no longer on site)
6 weeks ago

Yeah, I married this lovely chap in County Durham. But now when I'm working evenings he's wanking on Fab cams with strange women. I feel like he's blown hot, cold, and his load all over the ipad.

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By *HornyHusband. OP Man
6 weeks ago

Darlington

"Yeah, I married this lovely chap in County Durham. But now when I'm working evenings he's wanking on Fab cams with strange women. I feel like he's blown hot, cold, and his load all over the ipad.

Omg. Lmaooo.

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By (user no longer on site)
6 weeks ago

"Yeah, I married this lovely chap in County Durham. But now when I'm working evenings he's wanking on Fab cams with strange women. I feel like he's blown hot, cold, and his load all over the ipad.

Omg. Lmaooo.

I mean, it's just not fay-er. I'm giving it 7 more days and them I'm outta that dump. Consistency is key!

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By *ellroseWoman
6 weeks ago

Brum

Don’t think so

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By *HornyHusband. OP Man
6 weeks ago

Darlington

I hear you.

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
6 weeks ago

The Town by The Cross

"Hey, bit of a boring veiled rant but i'm also quite curious. Does anyone else notice others blowing hot and cold quite a lot on here?

Yes you are right it is a bit of a boring veiled rant.

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