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Sexting.... In or Out?

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By *otHorizon OP   Man
9 weeks ago

West Midlands

Is sexting still popular? Growing up I used to absolutely love and still do now! Is it slowly being phased out??

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By *reyToTheFairiesWoman
9 weeks ago

Carlisle usually

With the people I'm intending to fuck I'm all for it 💜

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By *otHorizon OP   Man
9 weeks ago

West Midlands

What's your opinions?

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By *ay W. BeauWoman
9 weeks ago

Wolvo

If i like the person then yes. If you randomly found my number on the back of the bus - no!

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By *uacksplat.Woman
9 weeks ago

Star Trekking Across The Universe

i enjoy it. Px 🦆

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By *carlet SeductionWoman
9 weeks ago

Maidstone

I'm a fan with guys I connect with

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By *ongAndThick123Man
9 weeks ago

Leeds

With people I know and am attracted to yes. With randoms who ask “are you on snap?” no.

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By *valanche1001Man
9 weeks ago

Leeds


"If i like the person then yes. If you randomly found my number on the back of the bus - no! "

Maybe stop leaving your number on the bus?!

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By *n the cloudsMan
9 weeks ago

warlingham

Personally I love it before a meet.

It helps to build the tension and chemistry

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By *otHorizon OP   Man
9 weeks ago

West Midlands

I really enjoy it! I'm just finding it a struggle on here to find someone who is of the same mind

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By (user no longer on site)
9 weeks ago

Been doing a lot of it lately…good fun

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By (user no longer on site)
9 weeks ago

Depends on context and who's at the other end of it...

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By *ase4122Man
9 weeks ago

Lancashire

When the option presents itself, absolutely. Very few and far between on here lately.

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By *rimson_RoseWoman
9 weeks ago

Tamworth

With people I’ve played with and know well? Absolutely.

Randoms? No.

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By *ab50Man
9 weeks ago

bexhill

Love it..

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By *acey_RedWoman
9 weeks ago

Liverpool

Being flirty and discussing desires over text, absolutely! Messaging purely to give someone something to wank over, no thanks, I'm a grown up now.

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By *haiababeWoman
9 weeks ago

North devon

I do, and do it frequently, will often do video chats as well. But only with someone who i have built a connection with, even better if i have already had sex with them. Not some random do you eant to watch me cum call.

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By *ase4122Man
9 weeks ago

Lancashire


"With people I’ve played with and know well? Absolutely.

Randoms? No. "

Isn't everyone a random at some point?

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By *eronicaExplorerWoman
9 weeks ago

London

I love it with the right person

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By *ell GwynnWoman
9 weeks ago

North Yorkshire

Not until we've actually met and I know we fancy each other and intend to/have already done that sex thing.

After that I'm a dirty sexting hoebag.

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By *iker JackMan
9 weeks ago

Wolverhampton

Flirting yes

Full on sexting with someone I know and have a connection then maybe yes as long as it flows and isn’t forced or all one way

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By *oandstephCouple
9 weeks ago

Bradford

Needs to be with someone on the same wavelength with chemistry

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By *arlequin_tearsMan
9 weeks ago

Sheffield

Absolutely

Love sexy chat with fun bods

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By *orklad86Man
9 weeks ago

cork

Definitely in

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By *tlanshiaWoman
9 weeks ago

Chatham

I love it with a established partner.

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By *offiaCoolWoman
9 weeks ago

Kidsgrove

Nope, once sent, you lose control of where those photos might emerge in the future.

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By *inAndTonic21Couple
9 weeks ago

Merseyside

I don’t mind it but someone has gotta be good at it to entice me into it; hubby is much better at it than me

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
9 weeks ago

Central

The issue here is that many people will use sex chat as their way of getting off - it's part of their wank fodder. If you are attempting to find the right people to ultimately get together in person, anyone who's trying to get wank fodder, is delaying and making achieving your objective at best a pain in the arse, or almost impossible. People will lie and pretend to really be looking for a meeting but covertly trying to get more photos and sex chat.

Finding the right compatible people to meet is very hard work. Anything that makes this harder or impossible, is unwelcome.

It's best to keep sexting type engagement well away from those who are trying hard to find honest people who truly want to meet.

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By *rimson_RoseWoman
9 weeks ago

Tamworth


"With people I’ve played with and know well? Absolutely.

Randoms? No.

Isn't everyone a random at some point?"

Yes. But not everyone is someone I’ve played with and know well 🤷🏼‍♀️

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By *egDaySkipperMan
9 weeks ago

Liverpool

I wouldn't sext someone whom I wasn't planning to meet. There is porn for getting the edge off if you need it

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By *andPextraCouple
9 weeks ago

North West

i love it to ramp up the anticipation before a meet, but only do so after a social meet first. I adore the ability to tease and seduce via it.

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By *tickler2000Man
9 weeks ago

St Agnes

Doing it as we speak, As they say.

With a couple I'm going to meet in couple of weeks.

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By (user no longer on site)
9 weeks ago

With someone I know and meet yes, with Barry who wants to sniff my knickers for a packet of biscuits, no.

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By *h3rry Bomb80Man
9 weeks ago

the moon

Yep can make things more intense …

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By *imi_RougeWoman
9 weeks ago

Portsmouth

Possibly with someone I'm actually sleeping with, but even then it's rare. I find it a bit cringe and quite frustrating.

I'm very much an "in person" person.

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By *risscrossxMan
9 weeks ago

stourbridge

Still engage and thoroughly enjoy it

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By *a LunaWoman
9 weeks ago

South Wales

Meh. I find it boring these days. Especially as most make themselves sound like a sex god and in reality they’re two strokes and a squirt.

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By *oveandfastWoman
9 weeks ago

Bromsgrove

Love it! But I also love erotica, so it’s a personal extension of that for me

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By *entleman JayMan
9 weeks ago

Wakefield

Doesn’t do anything for me. Put a real person in front of me. I then get exited.

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By (user no longer on site)
9 weeks ago


"Love it! But I also love erotica, so it’s a personal extension of that for me "

Exactly the same here

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By *sWyldWoman
9 weeks ago

Edinburgh

If I'm really into someone and they do it to the point I can actuality feel their words, then yes. It can be fun.

In reality very few men have the imagination or the ability to write well enough to hold my attention, let alone turn me on

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By *ewellerMan
9 weeks ago

near

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By *weetiepie99Woman
9 weeks ago

cardiff

Nah

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By *har99Man
9 weeks ago

Birmingham


"With the people I'm intending to fuck I'm all for it 💜"

Good reply...can I use that literature and body?

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By *har99Man
9 weeks ago

Birmingham


"Meh. I find it boring these days. Especially as most make themselves sound like a sex god and in reality they’re two strokes and a squirt.

"

Full stroke here baby... I'm the energiser and can go for hours

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By *moothdickMan
9 weeks ago

stoke


"Meh. I find it boring these days. Especially as most make themselves sound like a sex god and in reality they’re two strokes and a squirt.

Put, put, nut

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By *parkle1974Woman
9 weeks ago

Leeds

Far to easy to fake

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By *hilloutMan
9 weeks ago

All over the place! Northwesr, , Southwest


"With the people I'm intending to fuck I'm all for it 💜"

Perfect answer 😁

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By *inceIlkestonMan
9 weeks ago

Ilkeston

I'm in, good fun

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By *irebrand 1263Man
9 weeks ago

near you

With the right people, I enjoy it

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By *ekked JackMan
9 weeks ago

South Lanarkshire

Love it. I have an overactive imagination.

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By *asupforfunMan
9 weeks ago

Oldbury

With the right person, this can be so much fun.

I am defo in

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By *rHotNottsMan
9 weeks ago

Dubai & Nottingham

Not the wanking type, I’d rather wait for the real thing, but I’m sometimes inspired to write for and loosely about people I meet.

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By *usyBusyGirlWoman
9 weeks ago

Brum

Absolutely love it 😘

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By *abtastic Mr FoxMan
9 weeks ago

A den in the Glen

I have a vivid imagination, can string a few hot sentences together and can sit here smugly knowing what I write works with people I have been with.

I find that most women can't, won't or don't like to reciprocate. My personal observation before you all start.

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By *entfootloverMan
9 weeks ago

Sevenoaks

I enjoy it. Seems to be well on the out though.

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By *agicfingers1Man
9 weeks ago

near Brighton


"With the right person, this can be so much fun.

I am defo in "

Totally agree with this

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By *arry monk40Man
9 weeks ago

Telford

I try

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By *iltsTSgirlTV/TS
9 weeks ago

chichester

Boring I find

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By *ornucopiaMan
9 weeks ago

Bexley


"If i like the person then yes. If you randomly found my number on the back of the bus - no! "

Has that replaced cards in the newsagents' windows?

I wondered where they had moved to!

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