FabSwingers.com forum: Your Biggest Turn Off

By (user no longer on site) OP
9 weeks ago

Just been thinking, I'm not getting anywhere on this site. No one wants to meet me as I'm not verified etc etc.

One person person said to me that my body is a turn off! Therefore I thought I'd ask what turns people off others.

Is it the messages, the profile comments, the photos. What turns you off?

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By *ubikslongswordMan
9 weeks ago

East Grinstead

Quickest way to get verified is to pop into the chatrooms on camera and ask if someone can verify you, other than that get to a group social local to you and ask the host to verify you.

My biggest turn off is bad breath as kissing is important to me

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By *iker JackMan
9 weeks ago

Wolverhampton

If someone said that to me I’d tell them to fuck off!

Actually I’d probably just send the thumb emoji and feel if had a lucky escape

Biggest turn offs for me are arrogance, ignorance, a feeling of entitlement, game players and those that are constantly bemoaning how this place is crap. If it’s that crap just leave

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By *rimson_RoseWoman
9 weeks ago

Tamworth

Non existent profile text. Stilted, wooden messaging. Action shots - negative points if they mostly contain the people you’re playing with.

In essence - the turn off is lack of interesting conversation and connection.

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By *teveanddebsCouple
9 weeks ago

Norwich

People whining about not being verified like it's everyone else's fault.

Getting meet verified is really easy.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
9 weeks ago

Thanks for the advise, I'll do that.

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By *inky Biscuit DunkerMan
9 weeks ago

Gloucestershire

OP just ignore anyone who says things like that. They aren't worth it.

Biggest turn off - Jaffa Cakes

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By (user no longer on site)
9 weeks ago

"Non existent profile text. Stilted, wooden messaging. Action shots - negative points if they mostly contain the people you’re playing with.

In essence - the turn off is lack of interesting conversation and connection. "

What she said, mostly.

Plus galleries exclusively consisting of close-ups of genitals.

And entitlement/arrogance.

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By *eroLondonMan
9 weeks ago

Covent Garden

"People whining about not being verified like it's everyone else's fault."

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Do you feel the OP is "whining about not being verified like it's everyone else's fault."...?

Genuine question. 🌿

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By *n at the DeeP endCouple
9 weeks ago

Manchester

Lzy txt spk

Poor grammer

Penis alonside a lynx can

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By (user no longer on site) OP
9 weeks ago

Not whining, was asking for advice.

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By *h3rry Bomb80Man
9 weeks ago

the moon

seeing a new veri whilst being pursued …. 😁

Changes the game ! …. not today darling …

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By *inaTitzTV/TS
9 weeks ago

Titz Towers, North Notts

In a club, single guys who ignore me when other people are about, but who suddenly become amorous when it is just us.

Or guys who haven't pulled all night and want me as a consolation prize.

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple
9 weeks ago

Leeds

Getting verified is easy it just requires some effort.

No getting meets because your not verified is a load of crap, you'll see when your verified.

Get verified - pop on cam and ask, go to a local social event and ask, go to a local club and ask.

Mrs

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By *aven.Woman
9 weeks ago

Not the North West...

The desperation.

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By *eneralKenobiMan
9 weeks ago

North Angus

Over cooking their toast

Weirdos

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By *aven.Woman
9 weeks ago

Not the North West...

The use of lol or worse, hee hee.

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By *lowupdollTV/TS
9 weeks ago

Herts

Undercooking their toast. It’s most warm bread if you do that.

Weirdos.

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By *eneralKenobiMan
9 weeks ago

North Angus

"Undercooking their toast. It’s most warm bread if you do that.

Weirdos. "

😂😂

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By (user no longer on site) OP
9 weeks ago

Thanks for the advice. I will action.

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By *andPextraCouple
9 weeks ago

North West

Profile names.

Things like “pussy slayer” or ass ruiner”.

Why oh why they think that will turn the majority on is beyond me.

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By *antra MassageMan
9 weeks ago

South Side.

Smelly people.

Entitled people.

No intimacy, but want sex.

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By *aurus_09Man
9 weeks ago

surrey

People who drive a fiat 500! It’s so annoying when you drive up towards, what you think is an empty space, but noooooo it’s a bloody tiny fiat 500!!!

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By *vaRose43Woman
9 weeks ago

Forest of Dean

*No or very little profile text

*the legal disclaimer

*pics are either all cock shots, all the same disembodied head or action shots

*no profile pic

*knob cheese

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By *issmorganWoman
9 weeks ago

Calderdale innit

Blank profiles,instant delete.

Anyone who says I don't bite unless asked or mmmmm.

Cock pics attached in first messages.

Those who send another quick message when you've deleted the first, get the hint.

Couple profiles that only show one of them, when they're both involved.

BTW op sorry you had that, there's just no need.

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By *eardedguy800Man
9 weeks ago

Kidderminster

Dirty fingernails followed by poor dental hygiene.

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple
9 weeks ago

Leeds

Biggest turn off - whining

Mrs

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By *hallasMan
9 weeks ago

in a skip

Liars,cads and bounders.

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By *h3rry Bomb80Man
9 weeks ago

the moon

Scammed …. So I joined a forum post … there was a user with a black silhouette .. I had to choose a pic … 🙄 … half way through my bacon roll , I clicked to what was awaiting ! nothing more than a close up of a big fat hairy arsehole …. 🤢 ….. thanks pal …..

He’s about lurking around the forums ….

Click at your own risk 🫣

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By *teveanddebsCouple
9 weeks ago

Norwich

*knob cheese

Do NOT look in the Phimosis thread.

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By *usyBusyGirlWoman
9 weeks ago

Brum

Being addressed as a milf

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By *h3rry Bomb80Man
9 weeks ago

the moon

*knob cheese

Do NOT look in the Phimosis thread.

🙄 …. I won’t 😂

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By *abtastic Mr FoxMan
9 weeks ago

A den in the Glen

"The use of lol or worse, hee hee.

I actually pmsl'd at the 'hee hee' lol

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By *as1098Man
9 weeks ago

Sevenoaks

How fucking out of order to say that to you? Even if they thought it, they should keep it to themselves.

I can't stand the pouting, the fish lips, the ridiculous alterations they make to their faces in photoshop but my biggest turn off. In fact it really makes my shit itch.....

"Fab my pic to see more/if you like" etc.

Narcissistic pricks. More of a rant than a turn off!

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By *ittlebirdWoman
9 weeks ago

The Big Smoke

Biggest turn off? Lies. Always lies

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By *ikeC81Man
9 weeks ago

harrow

I wouldn’t say turn off - would say questioning in meeting

Bareback sex on a single lady profile with no explanation

I know some single ladies do have a single profile and the picture is with partner but it would be good to read that

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By *as1098Man
9 weeks ago

Sevenoaks

"Scammed …. So I joined a forum post … there was a user with a black silhouette .. I had to choose a pic … 🙄 … half way through my bacon roll , I clicked to what was awaiting ! nothing more than a close up of a big fat hairy arsehole …. 🤢 ….. thanks pal …..

He’s about lurking around the forums ….

Click at your own risk 🫣"

I was just having a spot of lunch when I read that.

So that person has another victim to their name.

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By *NormalMan01Man
9 weeks ago

Harrogate

Ghosting. Being ghosted is such a self esteem crushing thing. Be better, don’t do it.

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By *elix SightedMan
9 weeks ago

Cloud 8

Grotty language and grotty pictures. Urgh.

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By *r-bond-DMan
9 weeks ago

Wallasey

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By *as1098Man
9 weeks ago

Sevenoaks

Oh I thought of another....

The state of people's houses. Can't believe people can take a selfie with the mess in the background.

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By *iker JackMan
9 weeks ago

Wolverhampton

Not so much my biggest turn off but a turn off all the same is heavily filtered photos.

Ones where they are so changed they are unrecognisable to their actual look

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By *ick a clit.comMan
9 weeks ago

Southsea

Pop socks

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By *lowupdollTV/TS
9 weeks ago

Herts

Treating people like a utility there to serve their needs (need ball draining etc)

Throwing shade to be popular with others

Treating gay/tv/ts as a silver medal option

Being rude to complete strangers in the forums or showing signs of a lack of temper control

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By *erfHerder74Man
9 weeks ago

Greenock

Men in ladies clothes

I don’t mean TVs or Drag they make an amazing effort.

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By *lowupdollTV/TS
9 weeks ago

Herts

"Men in ladies clothes

I don’t mean TVs or Drag they make an amazing effort."

Yes. For me personally seeing a masc guy in lingerie etc is a turn off.

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By *amantha_JadeWoman
9 weeks ago

Newcastle

"Just been thinking, I'm not getting anywhere on this site. No one wants to meet me as I'm not verified etc etc.

One person person said to me that my body is a turn off! Therefore I thought I'd ask what turns people off others.

Is it the messages, the profile comments, the photos. What turns you off?"

Sorry to hear that someone has been so rude to you, OP. They had no need to say that, they could have just said you weren’t their type. Messages, comments and photos can all be a turn on or turn off, it depends on the content. Think of your profile as your shop window - show off what you feel are your best bits, put some effort into your photos and bio (I haven’t looked at yours so don’t know how much effort you may have already made), be friendly, polite in messages. Good luck 🙂

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By *enusandmarsCouple
9 weeks ago

Buryish

Profiles that don't reply to a message particularly when it's obviously a genuine profile sending the message, and an effort has been made in the message.

Couples are the absolute worst for it!

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By *iablo soloWoman
9 weeks ago

southside

Liers... In relation to this site, age wise and sexual orientation.. we are all adults. Come clean like!!

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By *abtastic Mr FoxMan
9 weeks ago

A den in the Glen

"Profiles that don't reply to a message particularly when it's obviously a genuine profile sending the message, and an effort has been made in the message.

Couples are the absolute worst for it!"

Fuck that. Why (if you are a woman(in particular)) would you write a reply to hundreds of chancing fuckwits amongst a few gems.

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By *iablo soloWoman
9 weeks ago

southside

"Profiles that don't reply to a message particularly when it's obviously a genuine profile sending the message, and an effort has been made in the message.

Couples are the absolute worst for it!

Fuck that. Why (if you are a woman(in particular)) would you write a reply to hundreds of chancing fuckwits amongst a few gems. "

Agreed... and if u open a communication line it doesnt stop at one message! An sometimes they even get nasty!

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By *abtastic Mr FoxMan
9 weeks ago

A den in the Glen

"Profiles that don't reply to a message particularly when it's obviously a genuine profile sending the message, and an effort has been made in the message.

Couples are the absolute worst for it!

Fuck that. Why (if you are a woman(in particular)) would you write a reply to hundreds of chancing fuckwits amongst a few gems.

Agreed... and if u open a communication line it doesnt stop at one message! An sometimes they even get nasty!"

Yeah, no shit. People just take the piss, give them an inch and take a mile.

Anyway enough about that. Tell me a little bit about yourself 😏

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By (user no longer on site)
9 weeks ago

"Profiles that don't reply to a message particularly when it's obviously a genuine profile sending the message, and an effort has been made in the message.

Couples are the absolute worst for it!

Fuck that. Why (if you are a woman(in particular)) would you write a reply to hundreds of chancing fuckwits amongst a few gems. "

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By *iablo soloWoman
9 weeks ago

southside

"Profiles that don't reply to a message particularly when it's obviously a genuine profile sending the message, and an effort has been made in the message.

Couples are the absolute worst for it!

Fuck that. Why (if you are a woman(in particular)) would you write a reply to hundreds of chancing fuckwits amongst a few gems.

Agreed... and if u open a communication line it doesnt stop at one message! An sometimes they even get nasty!

Yeah, no shit. People just take the piss, give them an inch and take a mile.

Anyway enough about that. Tell me a little bit about yourself 😏

🤣🤣🤣

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By *imples24Man
9 weeks ago

tamworth

Rude or people with ugly personalities

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By *ilyandronCouple
9 weeks ago

Bristol

Friend requests from people we’ve never spoken to.

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By *oveandfastWoman
9 weeks ago

Bromsgrove

Dick profile pics with no other photos on their profile, it makes me feel like I’m talking to a cock and not a person 😂.

Asking to meet right this second in their initial message- like I’ve just been sat waiting for their message.

Any message that alludes to me skin colour/ race: caramel goddess, brown sugar, your hair makes me think you’re wild in bed etc. 🤢

Men calling me mature in terms of age… I’m 36 🤣😂

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By *oveandfastWoman
9 weeks ago

Bromsgrove

"Dick profile pics with no other photos on their profile, it makes me feel like I’m talking to a cock and not a person 😂.

Asking to meet right this second in their initial message- like I’ve just been sat waiting for their message.

Any message that alludes to me skin colour/ race: caramel goddess, brown sugar, your hair makes me think you’re wild in bed etc. 🤢

Men calling me mature in terms of age… I’m 36 🤣😂

Oh and people who ask for a million photos when they won’t even show one of them lol

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By *cnugatugMan
9 weeks ago

Chatham

Feet

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By *viatrixWoman
9 weeks ago

Redhill

At this point in time, most things turn me off 🤣🤣🤣

But yeah- bad photos, bad grammar/spelling (I know), stupid unimaginative questions “any plans today?”…

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By *enusandmarsCouple
9 weeks ago

Buryish

"Profiles that don't reply to a message particularly when it's obviously a genuine profile sending the message, and an effort has been made in the message.

Couples are the absolute worst for it!

Fuck that. Why (if you are a woman(in particular)) would you write a reply to hundreds of chancing fuckwits amongst a few gems. "

Read my post again and you'll see that's exactly the opposite end of the stick than what you've got hold of

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By *antastic_Mr_Fox_76Man
9 weeks ago

District 13

Bad personal hygiene is a sure way my weener will crawl back inside my body like a turtles head 🤮🤮🐢

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By *r John WickMan
9 weeks ago

The Continental

A bird that doesn’t get a round in.

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By *ascaIMan
9 weeks ago

Cheshire Liverpool Manchester

Any pics where it looks like someone’s fly tipped in their bedroom.

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By *anchesterGuy1Man
9 weeks ago

Manchester

"Undercooking their toast. It’s most warm bread if you do that.

Weirdos.

😂😂 "

Not about it being undercooked, it's more about it not being burnt......

I have to watch the toaster as I believe that the moment my back is turned it will burn it, just because it can.

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
9 weeks ago

Central

You will only be mutually compatible with a tiny minority of people. They don't need to say why but some respect and tact are reasonable expectations.

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By *ranfrascoMan
9 weeks ago

Dublin

A couple that calls me to join them and the male half "proceed" to touch me from time to time. Even if I said that I'm strictly Straight.

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By *ucka39Man
9 weeks ago

Newcastle

Attitude, poor behaviour hygiene, self blaming like it's everyone/everything else to blame and the weather

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By *HUSH-Man
9 weeks ago

London

Entitled.

I’m astonished at some of the standards people expect on here especially when they don’t have those same standards for themselves. Massive turnoff.

Sorry to hear about you getting insulted like that OP. That was a horrible thing for them to say.

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By *egDaySkipperMan
9 weeks ago

Liverpool

Fluffy pink slippers combined with Donald trump fake tan level

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By *in deliveryMan
9 weeks ago

Tattershall

"Lzy txt spk

Poor grammer

Penis alonside a lynx can"
haha what about penis hovering over a toilet lol

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By *abtastic Mr FoxMan
9 weeks ago

A den in the Glen

"Profiles that don't reply to a message particularly when it's obviously a genuine profile sending the message, and an effort has been made in the message.

Couples are the absolute worst for it!

Fuck that. Why (if you are a woman(in particular)) would you write a reply to hundreds of chancing fuckwits amongst a few gems.

Read my post again and you'll see that's exactly the opposite end of the stick than what you've got hold of"

I did and I'm doubling down. It still reads the same to me. But it's small potatoes in the casserole of Fab.

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By *lowupdollTV/TS
9 weeks ago

Herts

"Undercooking their toast. It’s most warm bread if you do that.

Weirdos.

😂😂

Not about it being undercooked, it's more about it not being burnt......

I have to watch the toaster as I believe that the moment my back is turned it will burn it, just because it can."

Be nice to your toaster. If you let it share a bubble bath with you, you won’t have toast issues.

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By *adyBugsWoman
9 weeks ago

cognito

"Profiles that don't reply to a message particularly when it's obviously a genuine profile sending the message, and an effort has been made in the message.

Couples are the absolute worst for it!

Fuck that. Why (if you are a woman(in particular)) would you write a reply to hundreds of chancing fuckwits amongst a few gems.

Read my post again and you'll see that's exactly the opposite end of the stick than what you've got hold of

I did and I'm doubling down. It still reads the same to me. But it's small potatoes in the casserole of Fab.

I’m with you on this, I read it twice and maybe I’m missing something too…

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By *adyBugsWoman
9 weeks ago

cognito

"Undercooking their toast. It’s most warm bread if you do that.

Weirdos.

😂😂

Not about it being undercooked, it's more about it not being burnt......

I have to watch the toaster as I believe that the moment my back is turned it will burn it, just because it can.

Be nice to your toaster. If you let it share a bubble bath with you, you won’t have toast issues. "

💀😆

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By *n at the DeeP endCouple
9 weeks ago

Manchester

"Lzy txt spk

Poor grammer

Penis alonside a lynx can haha what about penis hovering over a toilet lol "

Oh no that's sexy. Who wouldn't like that?

P.s surprised there was no callout over the (intentional) mis spelling of grammar. Most disappointing. Been waiting all day for that

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By *n at the DeeP endCouple
9 weeks ago

Manchester

The toast issue is probably worthy of it's very own thread

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By *itygamesMan
9 weeks ago

women that wear the nickers theyve worn all day to bed, then keep em on the next day.

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By *n at the DeeP endCouple
9 weeks ago

Manchester

"women that wear the nickers theyve worn all day to bed, then keep em on the next day.

Could probably fetch a better price for them though. Any buyers?

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By *adyBugsWoman
9 weeks ago

cognito

You could go on cams for a verification or try a club or an organised group social?

Bloody rude of them to say that, if I’m not interested in someone’s body type or figure I’d not say that to them in person or in a message. Sorry they were so rude OP

Socks kept on turns me off unless it’s Joe Beans, he can keep his socks & sandals on

I also get turned off by cheats/liars because if you can’t be open about your lifestyle with your partner how can I trust you’ll not violate my boundaries or consent?

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By *crumdiddlyumptiousMan
9 weeks ago

Out of the 3 you named I'd say pictures,

There has to be a attraction and hopefully mutual attraction

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By *toC Thats MeWoman
9 weeks ago

Sheffield

He’s about lurking around the forums ….

Click at your own risk 🫣"

I wheezed 😂😂

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By *toC Thats MeWoman
9 weeks ago

Sheffield

People not reading my profile.

Also people that put lol at the end of every sentence.

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By *toC Thats MeWoman
9 weeks ago

Sheffield

"Oh I thought of another....

The state of people's houses. Can't believe people can take a selfie with the mess in the background. "

I have one engrained in my head for life. A cat litter tray that definitely needed to be cleaned.

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By *hrek101Man
9 weeks ago

Herts

D*unks

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By *abtastic Mr FoxMan
9 weeks ago

A den in the Glen

"Profiles that don't reply to a message particularly when it's obviously a genuine profile sending the message, and an effort has been made in the message.

Couples are the absolute worst for it!

Fuck that. Why (if you are a woman(in particular)) would you write a reply to hundreds of chancing fuckwits amongst a few gems.

Read my post again and you'll see that's exactly the opposite end of the stick than what you've got hold of

I did and I'm doubling down. It still reads the same to me. But it's small potatoes in the casserole of Fab.

I’m with you on this, I read it twice and maybe I’m missing something too…"

I read it 4 times but spared the quadrupling down.

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By *eordieJeansCouple
9 weeks ago

Newcastle upon Tyne

175 replies isn’t enough for how many things turn me off

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By *ittlemiss Hal O weenCouple
9 weeks ago

Southampton

"Undercooking their toast. It’s most warm bread if you do that.

Weirdos.

😂😂

Not about it being undercooked, it's more about it not being burnt......

I have to watch the toaster as I believe that the moment my back is turned it will burn it, just because it can."

I thought I was the only person who did that 🤣🤣

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By *urry BlokeMan
9 weeks ago

Stalybridge

Only one?

The list of my turn offs increases by the week

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By *ittleLiasonsWoman
9 weeks ago

Birmingham

When he doesn't meet me now, frigid.

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By *idnightMischiefMan
9 weeks ago

London

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By *idnightMischiefMan
9 weeks ago

London

For me it's attitude.

Not into anyone who misguidedly thinks they're above other people, usually based on the amount of attention they receive.

Also, zero tolerance for racism, homophobia etc.

That includes anyone who says they won't play with someone based on their prejudices (rather than preferences, which are usually easy to spot).

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By *ony MannMan
9 weeks ago

New York City New York USA

My turn off is complaints and about people on here.....but if I could figure out who did not meet they would turn me off

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By *hiregirl76Woman
9 weeks ago

Scotland

"seeing a new veri whilst being pursued …. 😁

Changes the game ! …. not today darling … "

Absolutely! Couldn't agree more.

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By *n at the DeeP endCouple
9 weeks ago

Manchester

"When he doesn't meet me now, frigid."

Are you calling the man who refuses to meet you now frigid?

Or do you mean getting called frigid for not meeting now?

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By *eladeCouple
9 weeks ago

hull

That’s very rude to say.I for one would like to apologise for that mean soul x

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By *appy him herCouple
9 weeks ago

derby

I (mrs) find it a massive turn off if I see a man wearing pajama bottoms in a pic 🤷🏻‍♀️🤣😂

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By *herrybakewellCouple
9 weeks ago

Staffordshire

Bad manners. There's just no need for it.

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By *eorgia82TV/TS
9 weeks ago

sunderland

Putting milk in a cup of tea first

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By *rHotNottsMan
9 weeks ago

Dubai & Nottingham

Bad attitude, whiny and overly negative / turn me off. Unless they’re really hot , then it’s forgivable

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By *elisandre300Woman
9 weeks ago

dontbefuckingnosey

Some of the usernames on here are 🤮 and definitely a turn off.

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By *teveanddebsCouple
9 weeks ago

Norwich

"People whining about not being verified like it's everyone else's fault.

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Do you feel the OP is "whining about not being verified like it's everyone else's fault."...?

Genuine question. 🌿"

Not particularly, I was just answering the question. Some people just repeatedly post the same old whine though.

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By *oppleWangerMan
9 weeks ago

Gods Country

Duck Lips

Tattoos

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By *pankingNorfolkCouple
9 weeks ago

Norwichish

"People who drive a fiat 500! It’s so annoying when you drive up towards, what you think is an empty space, but noooooo it’s a bloody tiny fiat 500!!! "

M is your nemesis. She actually does it on purpose, she reverses as far as possible and then takes pics from several angles to send to her mates who are annoyed by it.

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By *pankingNorfolkCouple
9 weeks ago

Norwichish

D*unk people are my biggest turn off.

Before I met M and was on the dating apps anyone with an excessive amount of holding a glass of wine or shots pictures on a night out would get instant swipe left.

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By *artfordBlokeMan
9 weeks ago

Dartford

Pretentiousness is a killer for me

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By *sWyldWoman
9 weeks ago

Edinburgh

People who expect me to want to have sex in their car/van/workshop /garage /woods.

Just no

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By *hrek101Man
9 weeks ago

Herts

"D*unk people are my biggest turn off.

Before I met M and was on the dating apps anyone with an excessive amount of holding a glass of wine or shots pictures on a night out would get instant swipe left."

Lol,I do that too.

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