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By (user no longer on site) OP   
6 weeks ago

What was the first thing you were hoping to see or do the 1st time you joined fab? Or are you still looking? Or are you disappointed?

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By *iker JackMan
6 weeks ago

Wolverhampton

Photos taken from around the world of people eating said ice lolly of the same name

But in all honesty. Zero expectations and just some like minded people

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By *rightonsteveMan
6 weeks ago

Brighton - even Hove!

I joined and spent a couple of weeks looking and reading and seeing how things worked. Started chatting and went from there.

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By *ittlebirdWoman
6 weeks ago

The Big Smoke

The sex 💯

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By *ell GwynnWoman
6 weeks ago

North Yorkshire

It was 9 years ago, so I can't quite remember!

Sex with hot people, probably.

After the initial kid-in-a-sweetshop slutty phase, I realised I can't do NSA sex and altered my approach accordingly.

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By *electableicecreamMan
6 weeks ago

The West

I was definitely hoping to have sex with women I find very attractive.

Not much has changed really.

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By *eroLondonMan
6 weeks ago

Mayfair

I had high hopes of undefined expectations. I found the place bewildering, an ocean of crass and squalor which made me feel like a prude or some puritanical soul (I'm not a swinger but I'm not a prude either).

I took a break, a hiatus of three months and then came back and redux'd my profile, sent a few messages (actually 500+), test-fired a few winks and then dipped into the forum for just one day only, creating one thread which polarised some people. Four women messaged me on the back of that...

I didn't join the forums again until after another 2½ years.

I'm here for the sex.

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By *renzMan
6 weeks ago

Between Chichester and Havant

It was a long time ago. Previously I had used contact magazines and been fairly successful, but it also taught me how to message people, what was responded to. I used fab in exactly the same way and was successful despite never going to a club or event. I also wrote a few stories in that section of the forum which was quite successful. The Manor being one.

I left, lost my verifications, rejoined and have been on and off since. As someone else has already said.... have no expectations, treat people with respect and you may be lucky.

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By *aven.Woman
6 weeks ago

Not the North West...

I was expecting it to be full of desperate men.

I wasn't wrong.

I only stayed because of a particular guy I got talking to in the first few weeks. I hate that guy.

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By *r Mrs FuckableCouple
6 weeks ago

Stoke

Ended up meeting the fella via this place. Initially met at a club and then we were friends on here, the rest is history.

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By *lder.Woman
6 weeks ago

Not Local

Have sex. And I did.

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By *eordieJeansCouple
6 weeks ago

Newcastle upon Tyne

A threesome. It happened so stuck around to see if it could happen again.

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By *ollmanMan
6 weeks ago

Burnley

I joined to catch up with old friends from years ago when I was on another site initially but as time has passed I have met and got to know a load of others, some who are no longer here, and some who have become very close friends.

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By *agatoXXXMan
6 weeks ago

Mordor


"What was the first thing you were hoping to see or do the 1st time you joined fab? Or are you still looking? Or are you disappointed?"

I was hoping to have beat off hordes of desperate wimmin with a shitty stick.

I still have my hope, and my stick.💩

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By *elix SightedMan
6 weeks ago

Cloud 8

I thought I’d probably complete it and move on within 18 months. 2 years max.

I fell a bit short.

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By *ell GwynnWoman
6 weeks ago

North Yorkshire


"I thought I’d probably complete it and move on within 18 months. 2 years max.

I fell a bit short."

What level are you on?

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By *ee69Man
6 weeks ago

glasgow

Was hooe to meet folk , much prefer a fwb tbh but no always easy , the nice thing about being in is a have a couple folk a chat too , almost a pen pall a guess lol but it cool and interesting

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By *agatoXXXMan
6 weeks ago

Mordor


"I thought I’d probably complete it and move on within 18 months. 2 years max.

I fell a bit short.

What level are you on?"

He's still on the beginners settings

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By *eardedguy800Man
6 weeks ago

Kidderminster

Good question….

To meet lovely ladies who would fall for a 63 year old skinny, erudite guy…then I woke up 🤣

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By *elix SightedMan
6 weeks ago

Cloud 8


"I thought I’d probably complete it and move on within 18 months. 2 years max.

I fell a bit short.

What level are you on?"

Only level three. Met my first few people and established myself. Then got into a groove and made some long term perverts. I mean friends. Then found the lounge and connected with some awesome filthbags.

But I can’t start level four until I confront and shag the level three boss. Do you know who it is? They better be easy

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By *electableicecreamMan
6 weeks ago

The West


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But I can’t start level four until I confront and shag the level three boss. Do you know who it is? They better be easy "

Brace yourself Felix. He's a big fella

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By *elix SightedMan
6 weeks ago

Cloud 8


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But I can’t start level four until I confront and shag the level three boss. Do you know who it is? They better be easy

Brace yourself Felix. He's a big fella "

Oh cripes DM!! Has he got a big weapon? I was hoping for a girl boss and I’d have to conquer her cave

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By *ell GwynnWoman
6 weeks ago

North Yorkshire


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But I can’t start level four until I confront and shag the level three boss. Do you know who it is? They better be easy

Brace yourself Felix. He's a big fella

Oh cripes DM!! Has he got a big weapon? I was hoping for a girl boss and I’d have to conquer her cave"

There are no girl bosses until level 9 🤷‍♀️

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By *mmaleiaWoman
6 weeks ago

East Northamptonshire

I thought it’d be pretty easy finding a local FWB, how wrong was I!

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By *elix SightedMan
6 weeks ago

Cloud 8


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But I can’t start level four until I confront and shag the level three boss. Do you know who it is? They better be easy

Brace yourself Felix. He's a big fella

Oh cripes DM!! Has he got a big weapon? I was hoping for a girl boss and I’d have to conquer her cave

There are no girl bosses until level 9 🤷‍♀️"

Oh jeez. I’m gonna need to extend my projected timescales and put in some play time over the Christmas holidays (2034).

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By *rRiosMan
6 weeks ago

dublin

Came for the boobies

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By (user no longer on site)
6 weeks ago

No expectations tbh, met some absolutely amazing people,they had " it " in everyway but as l said no expectations, if it happened , great , if it didn't, absolutely fine too.

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By *ampireLoveMan
6 weeks ago

Essex & Bristol

Had no expectations. Then found forums and love them! Still no expectations apart from just having fun and positivity from this place!

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By (user no longer on site)
6 weeks ago

Sexual satisfaction with,a lady or ladies who sought the same,I was here 7 years ago and got very lucky with my very first meet, this time it's proving a little more of a challenge

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