FabSwingers.com forum: Would a name

By *erroca OP Woman
9 weeks ago

Shropshire

Put you off meeting someone?

So ,I've been thinking(obviously not too hard,as it's Sunday)

You get a message from someone and they share a name with someone else you know ,maybe a family member,an ex or someone you don't like...

Would this put you off chatting and potentially meeting someone?

Could you just change their name for your own person reasons or would it be a just 'no thank you'?

For me personally, I wouldn't meet anyone that shares the same name as my children.

Discuss....

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By *inky_couple2020Couple
9 weeks ago

North West

Real names? No, we're fine meeting people with any old name.

Usernames? Yes, some do give us the ick.

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By (user no longer on site)
9 weeks ago

As long as it wasn't the same as any of our kids, I think we can get around a persons name.

A fab username on the otherhand can be massively offputting.

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By *erroca OP Woman
9 weeks ago

Shropshire

"Real names? No, we're fine meeting people with any old name.

Usernames? Yes, some do give us the ick."

Real names, yes.

I agree with some user names.

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By *inky_couple2020Couple
9 weeks ago

North West

Honestly, I don't get the kids one personally, but each to their own. Our son has a pretty common first name and we'd be excluding huge numbers of dudes simply because they have a common name for men.

I actually think it'd be weirder to meet someone with the same name as me

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By *reyToTheFairiesWoman
9 weeks ago

Carlisle usually

I really struggle to find a Keith sexy.

But mostly, no.

My least favourite names in terms of association are Stefan and David, I might feel a slight wobble if someone introduced themselves as such. But one of my current favourite people is called David, so it can't be that big of a thing for me.

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
9 weeks ago

Central

Generally no thought some usernames could, as others say

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By *8on33Man
9 weeks ago

winfrith

name as in the persons real name or the profile name?Many profile names are Ill thought out and what otherwise would be a great person to meet will be ignored because of it or maybe the customary cock avatar but some will like it some won't, as with everything here some will some won't.

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By *heIndianladynEnglishguyCouple
9 weeks ago

Sutton Coldfield

Personal names wouldn’t bother us.

Some profile names though are another story

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By *elix SightedMan
9 weeks ago

Cloud 8

Real names wouldn’t bother me, mainly because I either never get to know them or by the time I do I only ever refer to their fab name anyway.

As for fab usernames, absolutely. People with zero class or shame pop up on my updates all the time with names like ‘the slutty cunts’ or ‘horrid bitch for using’. Just urgh.

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By *eordieJeansCouple
9 weeks ago

Newcastle upon Tyne

I don’t think I could bang someone who had my mother’s name.

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By *ittlebirdWoman
9 weeks ago

The Big Smoke

I’m all good as long as they’re not called Greg.

I’m still looking for a Brian though 😘

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple
9 weeks ago

Leeds

Yeah I don’t date Tarquins, cucumber sandwiches and pimms ain’t my thing.

The mr

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By *vaRose43Woman
9 weeks ago

Forest of Dean

Real name? Only if their surname is Rees-Mogg or Farage

Username, yeah some are off putting

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By *eroLondonMan
9 weeks ago

Covent Garden

Quirky, imaginative and humourous names are fine...

However, yes, crass and repellant usernames would put me off. It's not a great opening gambit when someone messages you and you immediately flinch at their profile name.

It's not so much about first impressions but more about what I could interpret about their personality and outlook, and just assume that they are not quite the demographic that I seek on here.

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By *ave-and-LouiseCouple
9 weeks ago

Torquay

Not come across any real ones that have been a deal-breaker but plenty of usernames here are!

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By *erfHerder74Man
9 weeks ago

Greenock

I’ve been turned down a few times because of my name

I don’t think I’d be turned off by s name, maybe double think if it was the same as any of my relatives that had passed

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By *aven.Woman
9 weeks ago

Not the North West...

Why I never asks for their name, I'd rather not know

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By *hrista BellendWoman
9 weeks ago

surrounded by twinkly lights

No it wouldn't bother me

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By *abtastic Mr FoxMan
9 weeks ago

A den in the Glen

"Why I never asks for their name, I'd rather not know"

I've just read that in Popeye's voice.

Fuck, I need time away from Fab.

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By *oontuneMan
9 weeks ago

Menston

Hitler wouldn't be a popular name

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By *abtastic Mr FoxMan
9 weeks ago

A den in the Glen

"Hitler wouldn't be a popular name "

You might be surprised to know that wasn't his forename and he didn't do a 'Prince' or a 'Madonna'

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By *oo..Woman
9 weeks ago

Boo's World

Usernames put me off

And weirdly, a lot of men on fab seem to have the same name, must be code for something 🤣

Actual names wouldn't put me off as such, but I don't tend to use them in public anyway - never know who's listening, especially at large group socials.

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By *aven.Woman
9 weeks ago

Not the North West...

"Why I never asks for their name, I'd rather not know

I've just read that in Popeye's voice.

Fuck, I need time away from Fab."

I've just seen what I did

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By *abtastic Mr FoxMan
9 weeks ago

A den in the Glen

"Usernames put me off

And weirdly, a lot of men on fab seem to have the same name, must be code for something 🤣

Actual names wouldn't put me off as such, but I don't tend to use them in public anyway - never know who's listening, especially at large group socials. "

Even if I reveal myself as Fabien De La Wonderful at the Northampton social?

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By *oo..Woman
9 weeks ago

Boo's World

"Usernames put me off

And weirdly, a lot of men on fab seem to have the same name, must be code for something 🤣

Actual names wouldn't put me off as such, but I don't tend to use them in public anyway - never know who's listening, especially at large group socials.

Even if I reveal myself as Fabien De La Wonderful at the Northampton social?"

Goes off to check the list ....

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By *abtastic Mr FoxMan
9 weeks ago

A den in the Glen

"Usernames put me off

And weirdly, a lot of men on fab seem to have the same name, must be code for something 🤣

Actual names wouldn't put me off as such, but I don't tend to use them in public anyway - never know who's listening, especially at large group socials.

Even if I reveal myself as Fabien De La Wonderful at the Northampton social?

Goes off to check the list ...."

I think I had my PA put me down as my alter ego.

Tobias Von Lieberwurst

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By *ittle Miss TinkerbellWoman
9 weeks ago

your head

Yes, it would.

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By *umagain58Man
9 weeks ago

London

Am told mine does for some but others not so don’t worry about

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By *eordieJeansCouple
9 weeks ago

Newcastle upon Tyne

"Am told mine does for some but others not so don’t worry about"

Dahmer?

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By *rightonsteveMan
9 weeks ago

Brighton - even Hove!

I used to be called ‘thrust weapon pussy destroyer’ but changed it.

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By (user no longer on site)
9 weeks ago

"Put you off meeting someone?

So ,I've been thinking(obviously not too hard,as it's Sunday)

You get a message from someone and they share a name with someone else you know ,maybe a family member,an ex or someone you don't like...

Would this put you off chatting and potentially meeting someone?

Could you just change their name for your own person reasons or would it be a just 'no thank you'?

For me personally, I wouldn't meet anyone that shares the same name as my children.

Discuss...."

A name? Hardly. Unlike other stuff.

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By *ucka39Man
9 weeks ago

Newcastle

Nah names wouldn't bother me I'm trying to get through the alphabet 😂🤣

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By *aizyWoman
9 weeks ago

west midlands

Real names don't put me off, usernames can though.

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By (user no longer on site)
9 weeks ago

If it was clap or thrush mayb

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple
9 weeks ago

Leeds

Pussypounder300, domdaddy12 or Lick4hours yeah would put me off.

Mrs

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By *ellhungvweMan
9 weeks ago

Cheltenham

"Pussypounder300, domdaddy12 or Lick4hours yeah would put me off.

Mrs "

You don’t like even numbers?

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By *umagain58Man
9 weeks ago

London

"Am told mine does for some but others not so don’t worry about

Dahmer?"

???

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By *amantha_JadeWoman
9 weeks ago

Newcastle

Yep there’s some real names and some usernames that I would find a turn off.

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By *adyBugsWoman
9 weeks ago

cognito

No but some names and corresponding profiles have put me off. I mean if you’re advertising as GirthMonsterRUs but your sausage picture is a chipolata then I might think it’s false advertising…

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By *adyBugsWoman
9 weeks ago

cognito

Oh you mean real names? I’m shit with those so if you call yourself GiantSausagePenis on here, that’s what I’ll remember you as forever…and ever. So no it won’t put me off

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By *agatoXXXMan
9 weeks ago

Gone and completely forgotten.

Yes. I, along with many others, find the name Zagato very unpleasant.

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By *elix SightedMan
9 weeks ago

Cloud 8

"Nah names wouldn't bother me I'm trying to get through the alphabet 😂🤣"

Let us know when you reach B 😉😆

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By *ornucopiaMan
9 weeks ago

Bexley

"Yes. I, along with many others, find the name Zagato very unpleasant."

..and other constant references to cake!

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By *929Man
9 weeks ago

newcastle

Same name as my mother and daughter or sisters would yes

Wouldn’t be overly keen on old fashioned names like Morag or Gertrude

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