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By *ornyTrucker2019 OP   Man
6 weeks ago

Manchester

Curious to know, Iam seriously into the idea of this life but how can you get your feet under the table, if nobody is willing to give you the time of day? People look but never message… am I doing something wrong? Could someone guide me? Cheers

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By *orphia2003Woman
6 weeks ago

Tonypandy.

Fine your local.club / social event and head along.

Go on cam and meet people.

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By *vaRose43Woman
6 weeks ago

Forest of Dean

Sign up for and attend any organised social you can

Get on the cam rooms

Visit clubs

You mention that you’re into dogging, you can surely attend localities as a single guy? NMK so no idea on how the etiquette works there tbh

My only other thing would be to say many of your pics are the same. Disembodied head shots are fine if you keep it to one or two and have plenty of other pics (not dick). Think about lighting and poses.

Good luck op

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By *udamet666Woman
6 weeks ago

Kilbirnie

Take the advice you have been given & talk to people face to face

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By *otuseater11Man
6 weeks ago

IRVINE

There's no magic wand mate its about going to clubs socials and just enjoying chatting to others and if anything happens fantastic if not well you might have made new friends for life .

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By *mileyculturebelfastMan
6 weeks ago

belfast

Learn the difference between there, their and they're.

Don't whinge on statuses.

Treat women like people and not just a pussy to be eaten.

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By *rsKOTCTWoman
6 weeks ago

Leeds

Your a bloke in a sea of 174940 blokes, it's not easy.

If you want to make an effort then pop along to AA local social event or club, check out the meets and events section of the forums.

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By *rsKOTCTWoman
6 weeks ago

Leeds


"Learn the difference between there, their and they're.

Don't whinge on statuses.

Treat women like people and not just a pussy to be eaten. "

Agree with the whinge but don't go correcting grammar when yours isn't great.

Picking up on someone's faults isn't cool!

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By *bxanfCouple
6 weeks ago

Shadow Moses, Stourbridge

Clubs and social events are the best way to meet people in the swinging lifestyle. Mingle with people and make an effort to get involved. Most club nights and socials have group chats where you can get to know people beforehand.

Also you are listed as straight, but claim to be bi in the profile.

There is no magic formula on this site to get meets, theres so many single men compared to couples and ladies that most get lost in the shuffle.

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By *issmorganWoman
6 weeks ago

Calderdale innit

One point I'd make op is to get rid of the pics with others in them, crop them out if you still want to use them.There's literally no need as a single male to have others in your profile pics.

Also you've listed yourself as straight, but written bi in your text. If you are bi, then maybe change that as you won't come up on searches for bi men as it is.

Your interests won't be for everyone, but you can do searches on the words and see if there's any events around that cater to u what you're looking for.

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By *r-8-BBCMan
6 weeks ago

LONDON


"Fine your local.club / social event and head along.

Go on cam and meet people.

"

This

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By *eilde HoarWoman
6 weeks ago

In a wax coated bubble

Never assume just because they look, that you are their type, a very high percentage of views have zero intention of contacting the profile, they are just checking them out.

Clubs and house parties are the best to get noticed at

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By *enrietteandSamCouple
6 weeks ago

Staffordshire

Ignore any advice given to you in the lounge forum.

The vast majority are so out of touch with reality and spend all their time here giving out their opinions that they got by agreeing with someone else from the forum who also got their opinion from the forum.

#Dickpicsattractchicks

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By *r John WickMan
6 weeks ago

The Continental

Find a hot bird.

Ask her if she fancies a fuck.

Boom, your feet are under the table.

Enjoy the pussy deluge my friend.

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By *lowupdollTV/TS
6 weeks ago

Herts

Don’t get your feet under the table. That’s beta behaviour.

BRING THE TABLE.

BE THE TABLE.

I’ve no ikea what I’m saying really. I’m queer and drowning in dick. Good luck. 🤞 👍

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By *ros40Man
6 weeks ago

Bedford

It's hard to be seen in a sea of cocks

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