FabSwingers.com forum: What do you think of me?

By *ea monkey OP Man
7 weeks ago

Manchester (he/him)

It’s been a little while since I posted this thread, so let’s bring a moment of self reflection, introspection and non reactive thought about others to the forums, as it can be helpful.

It might seem a strange idea but at it’s heart is the intent for us to be more rounded and understanding people.

Self reflection is an important tool in understanding what, why and how we act but so is how others honestly see us.

Post that you’re in on the thread, then respond to others via private message, NOT on the thread, with honest opinions about people. Not nasty, not sycophantic, honest appraisals of how you feel about them, this isn’t a chance to try to ‘get in’ with that hottie, this should be a self improvement exercise.

The intent is to honestly see how others view us, if you give criticism, then please be constructive with it. Remember to be kind folks. Let’s see how this goes...

Remember to respect filters, if you can’t directly message someone, then don’t post it on the thread, it’s meant to be private and personal.

Please also do send messages, passivity only lessens the interaction and those that often complain about not receiving messages, also tend to be the ones that didn’t send any.

Away you go folks

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By *ittlemiss Hal O weenCouple
7 weeks ago

Southampton

In... always useful to know where I could improve x

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By (user no longer on site)
7 weeks ago

In. 🤍

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By *eroLondonMan
7 weeks ago

Mayfair

In. 🩶²

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By *ong-leggedblondWoman
7 weeks ago

Next Door

Happy to recieve the constructive criticism.

❤️

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By *r Black 85Man
7 weeks ago

nottingham

In😎

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By *agicM53XMan
7 weeks ago

Orpington

This sounds like a very interesting thread...I will say I'm in, however I don't think people here know me well enough to have an opinion about me...they might have an opinion about my profile, which I will gladly take into consideration

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By *adyBugsWoman
7 weeks ago

cognito

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By *eliWoman
7 weeks ago

I'm in. 🧡

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By *hilloutMan
7 weeks ago

All over the place! Northwesr, , Southwest

Do your best...or worst. I can take it

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By *layisbetterwithLaughterMan
7 weeks ago

Stourbridge

I will join in, although I'd be surprised if people have enough to form an opinion on. Interesting none the less

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By *ell GwynnWoman
7 weeks ago

North Yorkshire

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By *ulie.your. bottom. slutTV/TS
7 weeks ago

Glasgow

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By *idnightMuseWoman
7 weeks ago

Dreamville

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By *elix SightedMan
7 weeks ago

Cloud 8

In please, as long as people can look past my ill-judged comment yesterday 😊

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By *eardedguy800Man
7 weeks ago

Kidderminster

In…please be nice

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By *hiteWitchXXXWoman
7 weeks ago

North Wales

"It’s been a little while since I posted this thread, so let’s bring a moment of self reflection, introspection and non reactive thought about others to the forums, as it can be helpful.

It might seem a strange idea but at it’s heart is the intent for us to be more rounded and understanding people.

Self reflection is an important tool in understanding what, why and how we act but so is how others honestly see us.

The intent is to honestly see how others view us, if you give criticism, then please be constructive with it. Remember to be kind folks. Let’s see how this goes...

Remember to respect filters, if you can’t directly message someone, then don’t post it on the thread, it’s meant to be private and personal.

Please also do send messages, passivity only lessens the interaction and those that often complain about not receiving messages, also tend to be the ones that didn’t send any.

Away you go folks"

Oh like the sound of this I’m in

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By *inx000Couple
7 weeks ago

Manchester

I'm in

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By *urhamdiscreetMan
7 weeks ago

Durham

I'm in

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By *ohn from johnmarie247Man
7 weeks ago

Chesham

I’m in x

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By *rsMistyPeaksWoman
7 weeks ago

Essex

Absolutely in. I enjoy self reflection & I can take honest criticism/feedback.

I’ll attempt to be honest in return…. But I can struggle and tend to be quite blunt 🙈

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By *ulieScrumptiousWoman
7 weeks ago

North West

In. 😊

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By *agerMorganMan
7 weeks ago

Canvey Island

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By *izandpaulCouple
7 weeks ago

merseyside

We'll say in.

But, to us, the excitement of meeting new people is they do not know us as a vanilla friends would.

It's a secret life and we like to keep most of our personal details hidden.

If that makes sense.

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By *inceIlkestonMan
7 weeks ago

Ilkeston

Sounds fun was I've often advised others, comments welcome.

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By *ansoffateMan
7 weeks ago

Sagittarius A

In.

Not my usual up-to-the-eyeballs Friday. 🙂

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By *vaRose43Woman
7 weeks ago

Forest of Dean

Self reflection needed and polite criticism welcome

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By *illy IdolMan
7 weeks ago

Midlands

In.

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By *h3rry Bomb80Man
7 weeks ago

the moon

Go for it …

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple
7 weeks ago

Leeds

We're in, I was surprised at this the last time around 😂

Mrs

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By (user no longer on site)
7 weeks ago

I'm intrigued...

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By *cottish guy 555Man
7 weeks ago

London

I'm in as the last one of these led to making a really good friend.

It's always interesting to hear what others think of you and your forum presence if they haven't met you.

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By *tokiwmattMan
7 weeks ago

stoke

Would love to know where I can improve. However I feel I’m not very good looking so nothing can be done to improve that!

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By (user no longer on site)
7 weeks ago

CAN ALL THE PEOPLE I REALLY LIKE PLEASE STOP SAYING THEY'RE IN, I CAN'T KEEP UP. 🤣

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By *ortyairCouple
7 weeks ago

Wallasey

In, Mrs x

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By (user no longer on site)
7 weeks ago

I'm in

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By *lue Eyed JokerMan
7 weeks ago

Always on the move

Sounds interesting, I'm in

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By *ellhungvweMan
7 weeks ago

Cheltenham

I will have a go.

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By *heWelshMan1Man
7 weeks ago

Cardiff

Im in

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By *abtastic Mr FoxMan
7 weeks ago

A den in the Glen

Very intrigued. My initial thoughts are that it's a little bit sycophantic and bum snorkel like.

But looking above, there are some people I don't associate with that behaviour, so.

Ok in. Fire your lasers this way.

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By *ittlemiss Hal O weenCouple
7 weeks ago

Southampton

"CAN ALL THE PEOPLE I REALLY LIKE PLEASE STOP SAYING THEY'RE IN, I CAN'T KEEP UP. 🤣"

Sorry 🤣🤣🤣

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By *B69Woman
7 weeks ago

Wiltshire

I’m in

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By *agatoXXXMan
7 weeks ago

Mordor

Can I handle all the hate coming my way?🤔

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By *wist my nipplesCouple
7 weeks ago

North East Scotland, mostly

Ah go on, I’m in. It is something I have a blind spot about at times so it’s always interesting.

Mrs TMN x

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By *parkle1974Woman
7 weeks ago

Leeds

In..... what's the worst that can happen

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By *electableicecreamMan
7 weeks ago

The West

Go on then

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By *oontuneMan
7 weeks ago

Menston

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By *midnight-Woman
7 weeks ago

...

Always interesting to hear other people's perspectives x

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By *oo..Woman
7 weeks ago

Boo's World

I'm in for some Friday afternoon entertainment

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By (user no longer on site)
7 weeks ago

I’m in I believe I need as much help and advice as I can get

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By *r John WickMan
7 weeks ago

The Continental

I suspect I know, but I’m in to be surprised, or assassinated.

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By *outhstaffscoupleCouple
7 weeks ago

Cannock

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By (user no longer on site)
7 weeks ago

In for thr evening crowds too

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By *igboro01Man
7 weeks ago

Middlesbrough

I'm absolutely in

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By *viatrixWoman
7 weeks ago

Redhill

Can’t leave airport until 11pm 🙄🙄🙄 so I’m in

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By *929Man
7 weeks ago

newcastle

Sounds like a laugh, in

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By *heIndianladynEnglishguyCouple
7 weeks ago

Sutton Coldfield

In for some harmless convo

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By *ea monkey OP Man
7 weeks ago

Manchester (he/him)

Bumping for Saturday

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By *eroLondonMan
7 weeks ago

Mayfair

He's a handsome bumper... ⬆️

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By *irty Boy-123Man
7 weeks ago

wirral

In.Please be kind

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By *ornicatorsCouple
7 weeks ago

Pollença , Mallorca

In x

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By *rindnbump V2Couple
7 weeks ago

Our little world of Kinky Fuckery in Durham

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By *inAndTonic21Couple
7 weeks ago

Merseyside

We are in

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By *agatoXXXMan
7 weeks ago

Mordor

Nobody thinks anything of me, apparently. Oh well.

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By (user no longer on site)
7 weeks ago

This worked out so lovely yesterday. I'm in.

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By (user no longer on site)
7 weeks ago

Ok im in,,do your worse

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By *ong-leggedblondWoman
7 weeks ago

Next Door

I had a few lovely messages, thank you.

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By *h3rry Bomb80Man
7 weeks ago

the moon

"Nobody thinks anything of me, apparently. Oh well."

Snap 😂 probably a good thing ….

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By *agatoXXXMan
7 weeks ago

Mordor

"Nobody thinks anything of me, apparently. Oh well.

Snap 😂 probably a good thing …. "

👍🏻

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By *ea monkey OP Man
7 weeks ago

Manchester (he/him)

"Nobody thinks anything of me, apparently. Oh well."

Read the OP again, especially the last bit

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By *agatoXXXMan
7 weeks ago

Mordor

"Nobody thinks anything of me, apparently. Oh well.

Read the OP again, especially the last bit"

Can't be arsed.

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By *atty7Man
7 weeks ago

Rochford

In as would be good to get feedback

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By *ampireLoveMan
7 weeks ago

Essex & Bristol

I’m in for this

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By *ristol_nicolaTV/TS
6 weeks ago

Fenny Stratford

I’m in

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