FabSwingers.com forum: Have you ever

By *iker Jack OP Man
7 weeks ago

Wolverhampton

Have you ever looked at yourself and think “I’m looking good” or alternatively “I’m looking a mess”

I caught a glimpse of myself in some big mirrors yesterday and thought I look a mess

Not so much dress sense but tired and old

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By (user no longer on site)
7 weeks ago

The latter usually

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By *ell GwynnWoman
7 weeks ago

North Yorkshire

Yes to both.

This week I've looked old and tired. Last week I looked hot.

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By *lowupdollTV/TS
7 weeks ago

Herts

I always look like that thing you want to take back and refund but you’ve used it and you’re wondering if you can get away with it.

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By *mmaleiaWoman
7 weeks ago

East Northamptonshire

Always the latter

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By *ell GwynnWoman
7 weeks ago

North Yorkshire

"I always look like that thing you want to take back and refund but you’ve used it and you’re wondering if you can get away with it. "

Glow, you're like the shiniest shiny thing on here.

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By *ittlemiss Hal O weenCouple
7 weeks ago

Southampton

I never think I look hot... Best I go with is " I look ok " but it's mostly " I look a mess "

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By *esthetic21Man
7 weeks ago

Birmingham/Bristol

Always feel tired and old because I am

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By *riel13Woman
7 weeks ago

Northampton

I'm usually quite happy with how I look tbh... I'm too old to give a shit if anybody else is these days... Helps massively

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By *ellhungvweMan
7 weeks ago

Cheltenham

I looked in the mirror a few years ago and felt that I was getting old. That forced me to rethink my health and fitness. I like what I see now.

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By *eordieJeansCouple
7 weeks ago

Newcastle upon Tyne

I do both regularly. Some days I’m like “I would” and others I’m like “Not even if you were the last man on earth”.

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By *avexxMan
7 weeks ago

cheshire

nope never look a mess

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By *ittlemiss Hal O weenCouple
7 weeks ago

Southampton

"I looked in the mirror a few years ago and felt that I was getting old. That forced me to rethink my health and fitness. I like what I see now."

I like what I see

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By *ittlemiss Hal O weenCouple
7 weeks ago

Southampton

"Always feel tired and old because I am

Shush you ... spring chicken... I'm pushing half a century 🤣🤣😱😭😭

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By *r TriomanMan
7 weeks ago

Chippenham Malmesbury area

Mirrors love me so it's very unusual for me to think negatively about myself when I look into one, regardless of wether I'm messy, smart or anything in-between; cameras on the other hand, they hate me.

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By *elix SightedMan
7 weeks ago

Cloud 8

Imagine dropping a lasagna on the floor and scr@ping it back into the dish. Me getting dressed is like putting a sprig of parsley on that.

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By (user no longer on site)
7 weeks ago

Meh so so. Sometimes I think I love ok sometimes likes the village troll

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By *agatoXXXMan
7 weeks ago

Mordor

If I ever looked in a mirror and thought I looked good, I'd return the mirror to the fairground.

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By *erfHerder74Man
7 weeks ago

Greenock

I’ve never been one to stand in front of a mirror for more than about 10 seconds

I am who I am and thtt try Pugh life my looks have changed

I accept myself

I don’t trust people who think they look perfect

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By *lowupdollTV/TS
7 weeks ago

Herts

"I always look like that thing you want to take back and refund but you’ve used it and you’re wondering if you can get away with it.

Glow, you're like the shiniest shiny thing on here."

🩷

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By *lue Eyed JokerMan
7 weeks ago

Always on the move

Both. On the same day sometimes too

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By *8on33Man
7 weeks ago

winfrith

mirrors never lie .

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By *upersonic SamMan
7 weeks ago

wigan

Sometimes yes, when I’m feeling sleepy, bloated and my body is aching I catch a glance and think damn, I feel like shit but my body is still rocking it for an old man

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
7 weeks ago

Central

Yes to both

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By *ee04Man
7 weeks ago

Essex

Not for 15 years

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By *ittlemiss Hal O weenCouple
7 weeks ago

Southampton

"Sometimes yes, when I’m feeling sleepy, bloated and my body is aching I catch a glance and think damn, I feel like shit but my body is still rocking it for an old man

Old my arse

🤣🤣

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple
7 weeks ago

Leeds

Yes, it's rare these days I think I look good, but there is the odd occasion.

Mrs

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By *oo..Woman
7 weeks ago

Boo's World

I do me , I like how I look .

Not perfect but gave up giving a fuck about what others think a long time ago!

I'm always clean and presentable 😊

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By *idnightMuseWoman
7 weeks ago

Dreamville

There are some days I look better than others, but I generally really like the way I look, especially when I'm in full glam. I put a lot of time and effort into looking well put together though.

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By *rostgiantMan
7 weeks ago

Chippenham

Its always the latter for me, I'm not a fan of how I look

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By *elix SightedMan
7 weeks ago

Cloud 8

"I do me , I like how I look ."

I like how you look, can I do you too?

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By *SCouple81Couple
7 weeks ago

Between Edinburgh and Scottish Borders

Yes to both

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By *ong-leggedblondWoman
7 weeks ago

Next Door

For me, it's the latter.

Nothing special to look at here,

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By *eardedguy800Man
7 weeks ago

Kidderminster

"For me, it's the latter.

Nothing special to look at here,

I think you do yourself a disservice

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By *eavenscentitCouple
7 weeks ago

barnstaple

At 59 I think I'm presentable, I have an attractive face, quite nice boobs but, not so nice tummy. I'm glad to be alive. Ms

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By (user no longer on site)
7 weeks ago

Always the latter at the moment, although taking steps to improve this!

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By *atnip make me purrWoman
7 weeks ago

Reading

I looked really old the other day

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By *hornyx69Man
7 weeks ago

down south and up north

I think I look good when I trim my beard shave my head.some nice aftershave and I always dress well clean boxers shaved my cock and balls as you never know who you might bump into.

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By *oo..Woman
7 weeks ago

Boo's World

"I do me , I like how I look .

I like how you look, can I do you too?"

Awww my favourite History Teacher! 🥰

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By *ucka39Man
7 weeks ago

Newcastle

Never use a mirror, less chance of facing disappointment

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By *lemFandango23TV/TS
7 weeks ago

Sou City Centre

Usually the latter, always catch myself in the mirror and think I should go to the gym but never do, when I put lingerie on I fell sexy and right though so swings and roundabouts

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By *adyBugsWoman
7 weeks ago

cognito

Yes to both in the space of five minutes this morning 😂

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By *layisbetterwithLaughterMan
7 weeks ago

Stourbridge

I don't think I ever look hot, but I have accepted myself. So happy

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By *elix SightedMan
7 weeks ago

Cloud 8

"I do me , I like how I look .

I like how you look, can I do you too?

Awww my favourite History Teacher! 🥰"

😆😆 Will I ever live that down?!

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By *oo..Woman
7 weeks ago

Boo's World

"I do me , I like how I look .

I like how you look, can I do you too?

Awww my favourite History Teacher! 🥰

😆😆 Will I ever live that down?!"

Felix, this is me you're asking! 🤭

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By *TinyDelight-Woman
7 weeks ago

City Centre

I tend to stay clear of mirrors. It's a morning thing to get ready, nose clean, eye scram gone, teeth scrubbed, job done kinda thing. If I feel good then it probably shows. I had a rough couple of months and people noted how tired I looked, I felt that way too.

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By *idnightMuseWoman
7 weeks ago

Dreamville

Gonna get a bit soppy here for a moment, but the amount of self depreciation on this thread is genuinely upsetting

why are so many people talking down about themselves?

As my substitute mother RuPaul says: "If you can't love yourself, how in the HEEELLLL you gonna love anybody else?!"

(No but seriously. Please everybody go look in the mirror and pick out like 5-10 things you like about yourselves. Everybody deserves to feel good in their own skin ❤️)

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By *ansoffateMan
7 weeks ago

Sagittarius A

Usually it's 'I'm getting old'

Closely followed by 'Well then I need to get my kicks before the whole shithouse goes up in flames.'

Then I have a cup of tea and chocolate digestive usually.

I honestly don't think about it much. I keep myself clean etc, but that's about it.

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By *ootyfruityCouple
7 weeks ago

andover

I looked at that plate of food you have op and yes, I recon I’d give a blozzee for that

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By *rostgiantMan
7 weeks ago

Chippenham

"Gonna get a bit soppy here for a moment, but the amount of self depreciation on this thread is genuinely upsetting

why are so many people talking down about themselves?

As my substitute mother RuPaul says: "If you can't love yourself, how in the HEEELLLL you gonna love anybody else?!"

(No but seriously. Please everybody go look in the mirror and pick out like 5-10 things you like about yourselves. Everybody deserves to feel good in their own skin ❤️)

I'm afraid thats not possible, it may be upsetting but there isn't anything I particularly like

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By *electableicecreamMan
7 weeks ago

The West

I had both at the same time this week

I took a photo of myself and thought wow I look hot and at the same time thought 'i don't look like that'

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By *iker Jack OP Man
7 weeks ago

Wolverhampton

"I looked at that plate of food you have op and yes, I recon I’d give a blozzee for that "

That was and is the food of champions (for me)

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By *elix SightedMan
7 weeks ago

Cloud 8

"Gonna get a bit soppy here for a moment, but the amount of self depreciation on this thread is genuinely upsetting

why are so many people talking down about themselves?

As my substitute mother RuPaul says: "If you can't love yourself, how in the HEEELLLL you gonna love anybody else?!"

(No but seriously. Please everybody go look in the mirror and pick out like 5-10 things you like about yourselves. Everybody deserves to feel good in their own skin ❤️)

That’s a nice sentiment miss muse, but I would change every single element of my face and body if I could. There isn’t one thing about it I like. I’m not being self deprecating, it’s just how I feel and have always felt.

The fact is, when you get to 47 and are long-term single despite your best efforts, you begin to realise it’s you! There are other factors, of course (not least my personality haha), but having never, ever pulled when out I know I’m not a good looking bloke (not fishing here).

I’ve accepted me for who I am because I can’t fundamentally change things like my face, so I’m not down about it.

Anyway, there we go. Back under my bridge now 😆

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By *inxy777Woman
7 weeks ago

essex

I don’t think I have ever looked at myself I thought I looked hot! I like and see just me, always the negative, too old to change that lol x

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By *r Black 85Man
7 weeks ago

nottingham

"Have you ever looked at yourself and think “I’m looking good” or alternatively “I’m looking a mess”

I caught a glimpse of myself in some big mirrors yesterday and thought I look a mess

Not so much dress sense but tired and old "

I don't bother looking 😎

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
7 weeks ago

East Sussex

Yes!

With my hair scraped back first thing in the morning when I'm showering I look dog rough. When I look in the mirror I wonder where it all went so horribly wrong. 😂

Once I've done my hair and the creases have dropped out I catch a glimpse and think 'Damn you're hot!' 😅

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By *inky_couple2020Couple
7 weeks ago

North West

Today it was "WTF" because my hair needs cutting and is unruly and because I'm knackered from not sleeping well.

However, I did think I looked half decent on Wednesday and I got a lot of compliments about my tights, so..... Yeah.

I mainly think I look fat and frumpy though. I don't think the mobility scooter helps

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