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By *heekyCharm OP   Man
10 weeks ago

Colne

I'm totally new to clubs, never been, and wondered if anyone in my area might like to go along to one?

It'd be great to meet some decent friends here into the scene. X

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By *abioMan
10 weeks ago

Newcastle and Gateshead

Why don’t you do what the rest of us do and just go!

Trust me, there is no difference in going on your own and meeting people you don’t know and talking to them…….. and going with someone who you don’t know and meeting people you don’t know and talking to them!

If you are a socialable person you will survive!

Also.. being more serious… I personally would not want any credibility tarnishing by going with someone, who turned out to be a tit! ( not saying that is you… but how would that person know!)

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
10 weeks ago

Central

If you can go to a pub by yourself, you can go to a club. Clubs will have a selection of other people alone, who can chat with each other, which is the same as taking a stranger along. Plus there will be couples and groups to chat with roo. You will probably speak with more people, if you go alone.

Best focus is on finding the right club for you

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By *arla SwingerWoman
10 weeks ago

Somewhere

Just bite the bullet and pop along of you fancy it OP. Some clubs do newbie nights and events where you can see what you think without paying full membership too.

I went to a club on my own a few weeks ago, as I was already in town and didn't want to sit in a busy regular bar on my own. Had a nice time, chatted with a few folk

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By *heekyCharm OP   Man
10 weeks ago

Colne

I guess I'll just have to go for it then. Wish me luck!

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By *he Silver FuxMan
10 weeks ago

Uttoxeter


"I guess I'll just have to go for it then. Wish me luck! "

Which club are you going to OP and.what event / night?

I remember my first visit to a club (Liberty Elite) sat in the car, stomach doing flips. Then out of the car, come on we are doing this inner monologue, to the door, ring the doorbell, very nervous, door opened, in I go and then… just lovely people, sounds of laughing and happy people in the bar area, welcoming, smiles everywhere, relief, relax (a bit), drink at the bar, smiling, looking around, some nice eye contact, hellos, chat ‘yeah, first time’ adorable people show me around, answer questions, tell me about themselves. Invite to come and play… mind blown. Note to self.. Fucking love this, big playroom, sexy people fucking all around, watching me, watching them, into the jacuzzi, laughs, chat, flirting, casual hand job from a lady sat next to me whilst she told the jacuzzi audience a funny filthy story, all the while just stroking my cock like I’m a cat on her lap. Another invite to play and then suddenly it’s 2AM, kisses and goodbyes, swapping Fab names, promises of veris. Into car, dirty burger on the way home. Smile didn’t wear off for days.

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By *heekyCharm OP   Man
10 weeks ago

Colne


"I guess I'll just have to go for it then. Wish me luck!

Which club are you going to OP and.what event / night?

I remember my first visit to a club (Liberty Elite) sat in the car, stomach doing flips. Then out of the car, come on we are doing this inner monologue, to the door, ring the doorbell, very nervous, door opened, in I go and then… just lovely people, sounds of laughing and happy people in the bar area, welcoming, smiles everywhere, relief, relax (a bit), drink at the bar, smiling, looking around, some nice eye contact, hellos, chat ‘yeah, first time’ adorable people show me around, answer questions, tell me about themselves. Invite to come and play… mind blown. Note to self.. Fucking love this, big playroom, sexy people fucking all around, watching me, watching them, into the jacuzzi, laughs, chat, flirting, casual hand job from a lady sat next to me whilst she told the jacuzzi audience a funny filthy story, all the while just stroking my cock like I’m a cat on her lap. Another invite to play and then suddenly it’s 2AM, kisses and goodbyes, swapping Fab names, promises of veris. Into car, dirty burger on the way home. Smile didn’t wear off for days. "

I haven't decided on a club yet but from this story, even though I'm keeping my expectations low, I'm feeling a little more confident! X

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By *oiluvfunMan
10 weeks ago

Penrith


"I guess I'll just have to go for it then. Wish me luck!

Which club are you going to OP and.what event / night?

I remember my first visit to a club (Liberty Elite) sat in the car, stomach doing flips. Then out of the car, come on we are doing this inner monologue, to the door, ring the doorbell, very nervous, door opened, in I go and then… just lovely people, sounds of laughing and happy people in the bar area, welcoming, smiles everywhere, relief, relax (a bit), drink at the bar, smiling, looking around, some nice eye contact, hellos, chat ‘yeah, first time’ adorable people show me around, answer questions, tell me about themselves. Invite to come and play… mind blown. Note to self.. Fucking love this, big playroom, sexy people fucking all around, watching me, watching them, into the jacuzzi, laughs, chat, flirting, casual hand job from a lady sat next to me whilst she told the jacuzzi audience a funny filthy story, all the while just stroking my cock like I’m a cat on her lap. Another invite to play and then suddenly it’s 2AM, kisses and goodbyes, swapping Fab names, promises of veris. Into car, dirty burger on the way home. Smile didn’t wear off for days. "

Lucky you! What an amazing first time club experience!

Note to the OP; not every club visit is as welcoming and ‘fruitful’ as this for a guy on his own, but this is certainly a big ‘thumbs up’ for Liberty Elite

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10 weeks ago


"I'm totally new to clubs, never been, and wondered if anyone in my area might like to go along to one?

It'd be great to meet some decent friends here into the scene. X"

Which club OP? If they have a forum post you can post on there saying it is your first time and you would like to meet some new people.

Some clubs/club nights have group chats you can join too

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By *heekyCharm OP   Man
10 weeks ago

Colne


"I'm totally new to clubs, never been, and wondered if anyone in my area might like to go along to one?

It'd be great to meet some decent friends here into the scene. X

Which club OP? If they have a forum post you can post on there saying it is your first time and you would like to meet some new people.

Some clubs/club nights have group chats you can join too"

Oh this is great thankyou, I'll do that then. X

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