FabSwingers.com forum: Winks

By *jlondon78 OP Man
10 weeks ago

Suffolk

Why is it that for me as a start especially when they have looked at me and I find them of interest I send a wink yet nothing carrys forward do winks mean not anymore or is it just me ???

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By *mmaleiaWoman
10 weeks ago

East Northamptonshire

If they’ve looked at you & not fabbed or winked, then they’re not interested in the 1st place

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By *r John WickMan
10 weeks ago

The Continental

Just because they looked at you, doesn’t mean they’re interested.

Winks are very informal, and most people are polarised between hate, or indifference to them.

Think of it as a bonus if you get some contact from them, but don’t hand your hopes on them.

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By *eordieJeansCouple
10 weeks ago

Newcastle upon Tyne

I see winks the same way I see poking people on Facebook.

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By *aven.Woman
10 weeks ago

Not the North West...

It's just you

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By *inaTitzTV/TS
10 weeks ago

Titz Towers, North Notts

They're aliens from Venus, covertly surveying the planet, and would only travel to establish world domination, or at least a social with cake

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By *jlondon78 OP Man
10 weeks ago

Suffolk

So winks are a waist of time then

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By *r John WickMan
10 weeks ago

The Continental

"I see winks the same way I see poking people on Facebook."

Or a ping on ICQ.

Now I’m aging myself

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By *r John WickMan
10 weeks ago

The Continental

"So winks are a waist of time then "

Not entirely.

I’ve met people as a result of a wink.

It’s just very hit n miss. With more missing than hits.

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By *jlondon78 OP Man
10 weeks ago

Suffolk

"It's just you "
okay good to know I will take all your advice and appreciate your opinion

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By *uenevereWoman
10 weeks ago

Scunthorpe

A good friendly message is a much better option than a wink, in my opinion. Wink just seem lazy.

I'm not sure I've ever responded to a wink on this profile but do usually reply to messages.

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By *elix SightedMan
10 weeks ago

Cloud 8

"Why is it that for me as a start especially when they have looked at me and I find them of interest I send a wink yet nothing carrys forward do winks mean not anymore or is it just me ???"

OP if someone looks at you in a bar and then looks away, do you wink at or prod her and expect her to immediately sashay on over and start chatting?

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By *elix SightedMan
10 weeks ago

Cloud 8

"So winks are a waist of time then "

Not necessarily, you’re just winking at the wrong people.

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By *jlondon78 OP Man
10 weeks ago

Suffolk

Maybe

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By *r Mrs FuckableCouple
10 weeks ago

Stoke

They looked and they did nothing, they left. What makes you think they're interested?

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By *h3rry Bomb80Man
10 weeks ago

the moon

A message is a good indication they’re interested …

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By *uyandGirl42Couple
10 weeks ago

Perth

I quite like a wink, It’s a nice we hint that “hey I have looked and like, So have a Quick Look and maybe make contact”

Kat xx

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By *akin77Man
10 weeks ago

Boston

I always tend to use winks as a first point of contact but that’s just because I’m not good at conversation (the joys of being an introvert

) and I find it easier if the other person starts.

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By *eroLondonMan
10 weeks ago

Covent Garden

It's a pointless action in my opinion; I don't send winks. Indeed I haven't sent one for over three years, other than those which are part of a forum game or a challenge (an equally pointless exercise). I've sat next to women at socials who have shown me their 'wink tally', with the number varying between 350 and 600++ winks (from men) sitting in their 'winkbox' like forgotten orphans.

I suspect winks are more useful to/for couples.

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By *ellroseWoman
10 weeks ago

Brum

I find them 🙄🙄

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