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"No, I don’t believe so, you can feel great with the conversation etc, but it’s all in the way they look at me, what their eyes & smile tell me, I find online false & misleading " This is the thing first thing she picked out was my eyes and smile | |||
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"Can you build a connection online? Yes of course Is it really love? I’m not convinced. I did meet my husband online so I really hope it works out for you both " Thanks for the positive feedback | |||
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"You won’t know until you’ve actually met in person. " This. 2900 times this. | |||
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"You won’t know until you’ve actually met in person. " 💯💯 | |||
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"You won’t know until you’ve actually met in person. 💯💯" Have you had a video call with them? | |||
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"You won’t know until you’ve actually met in person. 💯💯 Have you had a video call with them?" No video calls, just phone calls, no silence, just natural banter, not one awkward moment, I don’t know I may be naive? | |||
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"You won’t know until you’ve actually met in person. 💯💯 Have you had a video call with them? No video calls, just phone calls, no silence, just natural banter, not one awkward moment, I don’t know I may be naive?" I don’t want to appear negative I’d want a video call. Just to prove you are both who you say you are. If she is then fantastic have a great day Saturday If she is not then you have a choice if the connection you have already built is enough to still meet | |||
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"Is it possible to match with someone on a dating site, though only seeing pictures, chatting on the phone for hours, but only been chatting a few days and feel you have such a connection in every way and you feel he/she is the one for you before you have even met ( we plan to meet up Saturday ) and the feeling is mutual for both, can love really be found like that? Is that the actual feeling of true love??" Hey OP, I’ve been online dating for years (and am currently single so I’m clearly very bad at it) and have lots of experience in this area. I’ve had feelings of excitement before that all-important first date that may be similar to yours. I don’t think you can ever assume anything more than that because meeting someone is a world apart from chatting by text and voice. So many times I’ve been feeling great about someone and then, when we’ve met, I’ve realised she’s not all I thought (or vice versa). I genuinely wish you good luck and hope it’s a great date. But - consider not putting you and them under such pressure for success. ‘The one’ is a big label, just enjoy the date and see if you want a second 😊 | |||
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"Is it possible to match with someone on a dating site, though only seeing pictures, chatting on the phone for hours, but only been chatting a few days and feel you have such a connection in every way and you feel he/she is the one for you before you have even met ( we plan to meet up Saturday ) and the feeling is mutual for both, can love really be found like that? Is that the actual feeling of true love??" If you click fast you usually finish fast 😉 | |||
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"Is it possible to match with someone on a dating site, though only seeing pictures, chatting on the phone for hours, but only been chatting a few days and feel you have such a connection in every way and you feel he/she is the one for you before you have even met ( we plan to meet up Saturday ) and the feeling is mutual for both, can love really be found like that? Is that the actual feeling of true love??" When you meet you're halfway there hope it goes well. | |||
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"Report back in a year once you've actually got to know them. I don't personally think you can fall for someone until then. Infatuation and lust are powerful, but they're not enough to sustain a healthy and authentic relationship. It fades, and then you're left with the mundane and you really find out if they're "the one" (if you believe in "the one")." I agree with the hairy toed one (although perhaps not a year to be falling for someone!). I think people can fall for the idea of someone and it's not love. More limerence, infatuation. Those are real feelings but it's not... really falling in love. There's too much pressure surrounding it. Words are beautiful things, of course they are, but actions mean so much more. Some people are naturally more prone to being infatuated - there's nothing wrong with enjoying it but try and not run before you've walked together. Properly. | |||
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