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"It made no difference for me apart from getting rid of the fear when her period is a few days late." It's worth it just for that! | |||
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"It made no difference for me apart from getting rid of the fear when her period is a few days late. It's worth it just for that!" 100%. It’s one of the best decisions we’ve made. We had complicated pregnancies and there’s no way either of us would want to go through it again. | |||
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Just the thought of having my junk snipped... | |||
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"I do think many more men would have them. At least they have the option of a simple snip. I've been arguing for 20 years about removing the risk of unwanted parasites and willing to go through much more invasive procedures, but they still won't do it 💜" I don't know what it's like in the UK but in post Catholic Ireland there's just no information available about vasectomies in the public sphere. Men think they are going to get castrated or will lose their testosterone. I have a friend with a disability and a pregnancy would a huge risk her andthe health service still won't tie her tubes. Her guy just got the snip. Easy as. | |||
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"I don't know what it's like in the UK but in post Catholic Ireland there's just no information available about vasectomies in the public sphere. Men think they are going to get castrated or will lose their testosterone. I have a friend with a disability and a pregnancy would a huge risk her andthe health service still won't tie her tubes. Her guy just got the snip. Easy as." It's not something that's put publicly as an option anywhere for sure. But it is a simple job for any man with any amount of kids (including zero) to get on the waiting list with little to no argument. As a childless woman, they won't do anything. Even though I'm now of an age where a pregnancy is actually called a geriatric pregnancy and I'm too old to donate my eggs to someone who could at least make use of my unwanted fertility. A friend of mine had ovarian cancer, mid 40s, 2 kids. They still tried to talk her out of a medically necessary for survival hysterectomy because she might regret it. | |||
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"I had mine done years ago, and I agree it has definitely had a effect on me..... Like you say it does effect the intensity of orgasms, but the other effect is that I can go for longer without getting there, but my recovery time for round 2 has been impeded "Recovery time might just be aging? Not that your old but things do start to change mid forties. | |||
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" ... The biggest surprise to me was the amount of my female friends that were impressed by a man taking taking the responsibility for contraception." The biggest surprise to me is that my statement that I am vasectomised is accepted without question! | |||
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"If I took a whack to the plums I found it hurt less. Other than that, no difference." Must check that out by misselecting a bicycle some time! | |||
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"Every since I've had the snip I've found that my orgasms have been deeper and more powerful. Once the primal fear of accidental conception is removed it just feels better. I did a bit of research and it seems quite a few men report increased satisfaction during sex post vasectomy. Shout out to all the lads getting snipped. If you haven't done it and your done heading kids it's worth considering! The biggest surprise to me was the amount of my female friends that were impressed by a man taking taking the responsibility for contraception." ^^^ He thinks it makes a vas deferens…….I’ll get me coat. | |||
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" ... The biggest surprise to me was the amount of my female friends that were impressed by a man taking taking the responsibility for contraception. The biggest surprise to me is that my statement that I am vasectomised is accepted without question!" I kept the letter from the clinic when my second sperm test came back negative | |||
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" ... The biggest surprise to me was the amount of my female friends that were impressed by a man taking taking the responsibility for contraception. The biggest surprise to me is that my statement that I am vasectomised is accepted without question! I kept the letter from the clinic when my second sperm test came back negative " I kept the scar | |||
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" ... The biggest surprise to me was the amount of my female friends that were impressed by a man taking taking the responsibility for contraception. The biggest surprise to me is that my statement that I am vasectomised is accepted without question!" Assuming the woman your with was using contraception (likely) it's largely a moot point unless your in a relationship. I've heard more than once from women that they wouldn't trust a guy with that responsibility unless it was their partner. | |||
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"I’m considering it. It’s a very difficult decision, I’ve been gifted such a beautiful penis and to alter any of its features seems almost sacrilegious. But I do appreciate the benefits and we have had a number of scares. " You'll only lose about an inch off it. Sure you have dick to spare | |||
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"I’m considering it. It’s a very difficult decision, I’ve been gifted such a beautiful penis and to alter any of its features seems almost sacrilegious. But I do appreciate the benefits and we have had a number of scares. You'll only lose about an inch off it. Sure you have dick to spare " Nah. I’d have to buy a whole new collection of briefs! | |||
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"I booked in for one but chickened out a week or so before.
Just the thought of having my junk snipped..."ask for the no cut technique, there's nothing to it | |||
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"I booked in for one but chickened out a week or so before.
Just the thought of having my junk snipped...ask for the no cut technique, there's nothing to it "Funny story the doc told me. The no cut technique or the no scalpel technique was invented by a clever surgeon who noticed that the scalpel was scaring off men. But the truth is the hot knife they use does exactly the same thing. It's entirely to pacify us scaredy cat guys 🤣 There's nothing to fear getting the snip though. There's no pain just don't discomfort for a little while. The scar is miniscule. I walked home | |||
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" ... The biggest surprise to me was the amount of my female friends that were impressed by a man taking taking the responsibility for contraception. The biggest surprise to me is that my statement that I am vasectomised is accepted without question! Assuming the woman your with was using contraception (likely) it's largely a moot point unless your in a relationship. I've heard more than once from women that they wouldn't trust a guy with that responsibility unless it was their partner." Good point. That probably explains their apparent trust! | |||
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"I wonder if it's just a psychological thing knowing that there's no way they're going to have a life long responsibility as a result of the need to ejaculate " I feel like that's exactly what it is. Can't be anything else really. | |||
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"I wonder if it's just a psychological thing knowing that there's no way they're going to have a life long responsibility as a result of the need to ejaculate " I wouldn't say 'just' mind you. How much of the power of an orgasm is psychological? | |||
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Anyone sure about not wanting any/more children, just do it! The worst part of the procedure, is the thinking about what will happen before you knock on that door....   | |||
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" ... The biggest surprise to me was the amount of my female friends that were impressed by a man taking taking the responsibility for contraception. The biggest surprise to me is that my statement that I am vasectomised is accepted without question!" Is the scar easy to see | |||
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"No operation is without risk .left me in pain for the rest of my life !!! So anyone thinking of it don’t take it lightly.oh and yes I live with ruined orgasms also" I'm really sorry to hear that. | |||
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"Every since I've had the snip I've found that my orgasms have been deeper and more powerful. Once the primal fear of accidental conception is removed it just feels better. I did a bit of research and it seems quite a few men report increased satisfaction during sex post vasectomy. Shout out to all the lads getting snipped. If you haven't done it and your done heading kids it's worth considering! The biggest surprise to me was the amount of my female friends that were impressed by a man taking taking the responsibility for contraception." Had it done in 2017, a year after I got married. We both never wanted kids, so I took that brave step. I still don't want kids and recently separated from my wife. I am happy and it was a good decision, no regrets. | |||
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" ... The biggest surprise to me was the amount of my female friends that were impressed by a man taking taking the responsibility for contraception. The biggest surprise to me is that my statement that I am vasectomised is accepted without question! Is the scar easy to see" mine isn't even noticeable at all | |||
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" ... The biggest surprise to me was the amount of my female friends that were impressed by a man taking taking the responsibility for contraception. The biggest surprise to me is that my statement that I am vasectomised is accepted without question! Is the scar easy to see mine isn't even noticeable at all "That makes it difficult to see if he's telling the truth though, I guess the no sperm certificate, Is the only way to truly know, if it's safe to bareback without risk of pregnancy  | |||
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"Yeah... I'll take the dudes who are fit to breed but comfortable and competent with safer sex please." Interesting take. I wouldn't consider fertility to be a factor in the ability to use an STI barrier. | |||
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" ... The biggest surprise to me was the amount of my female friends that were impressed by a man taking taking the responsibility for contraception. The biggest surprise to me is that my statement that I am vasectomised is accepted without question! Is the scar easy to see" Mine is smaller than a key hole. I made that post as a joke though. I honestly wouldn't expect a casual acquaintance to take my word for it. Everyone has their own personal responsibility when it comes to contraception. | |||
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"Yeah... I'll take the dudes who are fit to breed but comfortable and competent with safer sex please. Interesting take. I wouldn't consider fertility to be a factor in the ability to use an STI barrier." Apparently you had little faith that whatever you were doing pre-snip would prevent pregnancy. Consequently I have little faith in the same habits preventing STI transmission post-snip xx | |||
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"Yeah... I'll take the dudes who are fit to breed but comfortable and competent with safer sex please. Interesting take. I wouldn't consider fertility to be a factor in the ability to use an STI barrier. Apparently you had little faith that whatever you were doing pre-snip would prevent pregnancy. Consequently I have little faith the same habits preventing STIs post-snip xx" Ah I see. An interesting jump to a conclusion. Would you apply the same logic to menopause or a hysterectomy? I got the snip because I had two kids, my partner at the time had a kid and her coil was wreaking havoc on her. It was an easy decision to make. Everyone will have their own reasons. I doubt any of them thinks it will help with sti's though. We learn that at school. | |||
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"Can't say that I noticed any difference after the snip at all. Procedure was super quick and painless though so nobody should worry about that 🖤 Blows my mind how easy it is for guys compared to women though with regard to getting procedures. LvM" I was in and out in under 10mins just felt a little tug and that was it... although I thought I was fine when I came out then went red hot and fainted out during the aftercare talk as I'd worked myself up to much beforehand  | |||
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"Can't say that I noticed any difference after the snip at all. Procedure was super quick and painless though so nobody should worry about that 🖤 Blows my mind how easy it is for guys compared to women though with regard to getting procedures. LvM I was in and out in under 10mins just felt a little tug and that was it... although I thought I was fine when I came out then went red hot and fainted out during the aftercare talk as I'd worked myself up to much beforehand "I was close to tears when I came out and couldn't understand why. | |||
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"Can't say that I noticed any difference after the snip at all. Procedure was super quick and painless though so nobody should worry about that 🖤 Blows my mind how easy it is for guys compared to women though with regard to getting procedures. LvM I was in and out in under 10mins just felt a little tug and that was it... although I thought I was fine when I came out then went red hot and fainted out during the aftercare talk as I'd worked myself up to much beforehand
I was close to tears when I came out and couldn't understand why."The "worst" part for me was when the doctor accidentally rested the cauteriser against my thigh for a second 😅 LvM | |||
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"Yeah... I'll take the dudes who are fit to breed but comfortable and competent with safer sex please. Interesting take. I wouldn't consider fertility to be a factor in the ability to use an STI barrier. Apparently you had little faith that whatever you were doing pre-snip would prevent pregnancy. Consequently I have little faith the same habits preventing STIs post-snip xx Ah I see. An interesting jump to a conclusion. Would you apply the same logic to menopause or a hysterectomy? I got the snip because I had two kids, my partner at the time had a kid and her coil was wreaking havoc on her. It was an easy decision to make. Everyone will have their own reasons. I doubt any of them thinks it will help with sti's though. We learn that at school." Female sterilisation is typically not carried out by induced menopause or hysterectomy. But assuming someone without exceptional risks had chosen either of those over, or in addition to, barrier methods I would infer they were not that happy or confident with barrier methods, yes. I am not into inflicting safer sex on people who would rather a hot knife to the genitals. So it's better I play with people who are content with safer sex. We can't all suit everyone  | |||
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"Can't say that I noticed any difference after the snip at all. Procedure was super quick and painless though so nobody should worry about that 🖤 Blows my mind how easy it is for guys compared to women though with regard to getting procedures. LvM I was in and out in under 10mins just felt a little tug and that was it... although I thought I was fine when I came out then went red hot and fainted out during the aftercare talk as I'd worked myself up to much beforehand "Note to anyone considering a vasectomy. Bring smelling salts! | |||
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" ... The biggest surprise to me was the amount of my female friends that were impressed by a man taking taking the responsibility for contraception. The biggest surprise to me is that my statement that I am vasectomised is accepted without question! Is the scar easy to see Mine is smaller than a key hole. I made that post as a joke though. I honestly wouldn't expect a casual acquaintance to take my word for it. Everyone has their own personal responsibility when it comes to contraception." My balls are too wrinkly to see a scar
Worse bit for me that no one ever mentioned beforehand
My first wank afterwards I came bloody cum in the shower
Nearly fainted
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" ... The biggest surprise to me was the amount of my female friends that were impressed by a man taking taking the responsibility for contraception. The biggest surprise to me is that my statement that I am vasectomised is accepted without question! Is the scar easy to see Mine is smaller than a key hole. I made that post as a joke though. I honestly wouldn't expect a casual acquaintance to take my word for it. Everyone has their own personal responsibility when it comes to contraception. My balls are too wrinkly to see a scar
Worse bit for me that no one ever mentioned beforehand
My first wank afterwards I came bloody cum in the shower
Nearly fainted
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" ... The biggest surprise to me was the amount of my female friends that were impressed by a man taking taking the responsibility for contraception. The biggest surprise to me is that my statement that I am vasectomised is accepted without question! Is the scar easy to see mine isn't even noticeable at all
That makes it difficult to see if he's telling the truth though, I guess the no sperm certificate, Is the only way to truly know, if it's safe to bareback without risk of pregnancy "No difference between that and someone saying that they’re on the pill… | |||
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"Can't say I noticed any difference either. . The Dr did say to me during the consultation in advance, "You can bring in a CD with some music to help you relax if you like ?" . On the day of the op, I handed him my CD. . 1. Echo & The Bunnymen : The Cutter 2. Bryan Adams : Cuts Like A Knife 3. Sheryl Crow : The First Cut Is the Deepest 4. David Bowie : Changes . He tried to keep a straight face as the music played, but he was struggling." Brilliant   | |||
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" ... The biggest surprise to me was the amount of my female friends that were impressed by a man taking taking the responsibility for contraception. The biggest surprise to me is that my statement that I am vasectomised is accepted without question! Is the scar easy to see mine isn't even noticeable at all
That makes it difficult to see if he's telling the truth though, I guess the no sperm certificate, Is the only way to truly know, if it's safe to bareback without risk of pregnancy
No difference between that and someone saying that they’re on the pill…"Well if you are planing on having sex with someone without condoms and you trust them on the sti risk factors, then you should also be able to trust them on the contraception factors. If not then yoi should probably not be having sex woth them wothout a condom. | |||
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"Can't say I noticed any difference either. . The Dr did say to me during the consultation in advance, "You can bring in a CD with some music to help you relax if you like ?" . On the day of the op, I handed him my CD. . 1. Echo & The Bunnymen : The Cutter 2. Bryan Adams : Cuts Like A Knife 3. Sheryl Crow : The First Cut Is the Deepest 4. David Bowie : Changes . He tried to keep a straight face as the music played, but he was struggling." This post will frighten many off having it done. The operation doesn't take anything like that long! | |||
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" ... The biggest surprise to me was the amount of my female friends that were impressed by a man taking taking the responsibility for contraception. The biggest surprise to me is that my statement that I am vasectomised is accepted without question! Is the scar easy to see mine isn't even noticeable at all
That makes it difficult to see if he's telling the truth though, I guess the no sperm certificate, Is the only way to truly know, if it's safe to bareback without risk of pregnancy
No difference between that and someone saying that they’re on the pill…
Well if you are planing on having sex with someone without condoms and you trust them on the sti risk factors, then you should also be able to trust them on the contraception factors. If not then yoi should probably not be having sex woth them wothout a condom. "Which is exactly my point | |||
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" ... The biggest surprise to me was the amount of my female friends that were impressed by a man taking taking the responsibility for contraception. The biggest surprise to me is that my statement that I am vasectomised is accepted without question! Is the scar easy to see mine isn't even noticeable at all
That makes it difficult to see if he's telling the truth though, I guess the no sperm certificate, Is the only way to truly know, if it's safe to bareback without risk of pregnancy "I've never had anyone ask to see my test results but having had the snip isn't something I'd lead with anyway . The way I see it, as a single guy, the vasectomy, first and foremost , protects me. It's redundancy. I don't have to worry if a condom breaks at an inopportune moment and by extension my partner wouldn't need to worry should it be the case she's not using birth control. I would fully expect any partners to be looking after their own contraception and I've yet to meet a woman who doesn't. | |||
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"Does it reduce the amount you can cum?" No. The vast majority of cum is the lubricating fluid, so no perceptible change. Begs the question if it would make it taste different though. | |||
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