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By *r Cheeky cheeky OP   Man
14 weeks ago

essex

Conversation

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By (user no longer on site)
14 weeks ago


"Conversation "

I’m a texter over a caller any day of the week 🤷🏽‍♂️ but I enjoy actuall face to face chats/convos 👍🏽

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By *omeFun4u2Man
14 weeks ago

Welshpool

Conversation for me . so much gets lost in translation with text.

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By (user no longer on site)
14 weeks ago

Text

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By *olly MistlehoeWoman
14 weeks ago

Somewhere

Depends on the context really. Texting is very useful a lot of the time.

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By *wiss Army KnifeMan
14 weeks ago

Second star to the right…

I am happy to text but much prefer a conversation.

It so much more free flowing and you get a feel for the person especially if you’re on cam.

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By *olfandtazCouple
14 weeks ago

Bristol

For me it's either or, I'm not fussed about the method of communication

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By *inaTitzTV/TS
14 weeks ago

Titz Towers, North Notts

It depends on what it is.

If I want a reminder of what was agreed, then a text, so I can check the time we're meeting.

If it is someone who can chat for 2 hours and I've only got 20 minutes, then a text.

If it's someone I've got enough time to chat to, then a conversation is lovely

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By *eroLondonMan
14 weeks ago

Mayfair

Both. One can have a proper conversation via text. It's about the quality of the conversation and not the medium/platform.

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By *mf123Man
14 weeks ago

with one foot out the door

Natter for me

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By *hrista BellendWoman
14 weeks ago

Delightful Bliss

Definitely prefer a phone call over a text

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By *erfHerder74Man
14 weeks ago

Inverclyde

Text

Then after chatting for a few weeks phone

Then onto video chat

If still interested then it’s time you come over for a coffee and see if chemistry

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By *andynecklaceWoman
14 weeks ago

Someplace

Text

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By *ong-leggedblondWoman
14 weeks ago

Next Door

Over the years I've spent lots of time on calls at work, so I preferred texting.

Now I love a conversation with people over the phone.

I find that most are still in love with texting

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By *mmaleiaWoman
14 weeks ago

Trowbridge


"Conversation for me . so much gets lost in translation with text. "

This

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By *eeshelleTV/TS
14 weeks ago

Marlow

I find asking for a phone chat sorts out alot of the time wasters

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By *UGGYBEAR2015Man
14 weeks ago

BRIDPORT

I prefer face to face conversations to telephone ones, if it’s a dialogue on the phone it’s usually textual. These are more convenient because the conversation can go on all day at any pace, sometimes quick reply’s or longer breaks if one or other of the participants is tied up with other things

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By *B69Woman
14 weeks ago

Wiltshire

I hate texting, would always prefer a phone call

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By (user no longer on site)
14 weeks ago

Phone call. It’s good to talk

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By (user no longer on site)
14 weeks ago

I worry about picking the right words in text so conversation is much easier for me.

But texting has its place. I like the little check ins x

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By *ellinever70Woman
14 weeks ago

Ayrshire

I think texting is okay for brief exchanges and maybe initially getting a feel for people.

I prefer a phone call with people I know better. There's an end point and then I can get on with stuff

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By (user no longer on site)
14 weeks ago

Like to start with text then if click then if click again social and then hopefully the magic happens lol

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By (user no longer on site)
14 weeks ago


"Conversation

I’m a texter over a caller any day of the week 🤷🏽‍♂️ but I enjoy actuall face to face chats/convos 👍🏽"

This, all the way.

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By *isfits behaving badlyCouple
14 weeks ago

Coventry

We're mainly club/party/chance encounters in the vanilla world swingers rather that the whole online thing. We like to cut out the middle man and just meet people face to face. You just really can't tell until you meet someone in person.

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By *unner6969Man
14 weeks ago

Bicester

I like a face-to-face meet as soon as possible. Exchanging monologues by text, even phone calls, lose all the nuance of face-to-face conversation.

Conversation, laughter and a good giggle are really important to me ahead of, during and after any sexual liaison. The connection, even when NSA/ONS makes the meeting.

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By *IXEN200Woman
14 weeks ago

newcastle upon tyne

I like texting, but nothing beats a face to face conversation you can tell if there's a connection easier, and the eyes are the windows to people's souls, so I think they can say a lot about a person.

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By *ascaIMan
14 weeks ago

Cheshire Liverpool Manchester

My mates know to text me. Can’t be arsed with their yapping.

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By *hat.coupleCouple
14 weeks ago

Dartford

It can be hard to maintain a decent conversation via text, it's hard to express character and charisma sometimes. I prefer meeting in person to get a better idea of who they really are. Some texts can be taken out of context so easily making things awkward and hard to gauge real intent. We have messaged people on here and they've politely declined us, then we happened to meet at clubs and after talking and having a laugh we have ended up playing. Texts and messages aren't the best form of communication when looking for fun we've found. It's a good place to start but it shouldn't be the main focus of making a decision we have learned. But everyone does things their own way, whatever works for you xx

Mrs x

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By *oubleswing2019Man
14 weeks ago

Colchester

Neither, I'm afraid.

I much prefer email (or letter).

Either allow for much deeper discussion.

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
14 weeks ago

Central

Talking. Though I use text still

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By *undee2Man
14 weeks ago

Dundee

To me, text is for the lazy and ignorant. I will take conversation with a human being every time.

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By *inja 636Man
14 weeks ago

Grays

Person interaction whilst it is around still I am not yet a robot

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By *avexxMan
14 weeks ago

cheshire

me i prefer conversation dont get me text comes in handy

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By *ell GwynnWoman
14 weeks ago

North Yorkshire

Face to face conversation is best, but WA/TG is the next best thing if I want to interact with someone I can't physically be with.

I hate talking on the phone.

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