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By *est-of-both OP   Couple
over a year ago

LEEDS

I have never understood why certain people on here constantly seem to put up that they want to meet and they want other certain things but yet never meet? Is it that they want attention of the people who message them? I'm a little confused?? Lmao

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham

how do you know they never meet?

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By *est-of-both OP   Couple
over a year ago

LEEDS

They never have any verifications and they just seem to prolong the chat until it gets 2 late to meet?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"how do you know they never meet?"
Its a good point that many don't advertise who and when they meet.

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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

I'm confused. People use all sorts of tools of the site to arrange meets.

If you mean they are asking for meets with no intention of meeting then I wonder how you know that is their intention?

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham


"They never have any verifications and they just seem to prolong the chat until it gets 2 late to meet? "

maybe they dont want verifications and maybe they dont want to meet you but like chatting

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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound


"They never have any verifications and they just seem to prolong the chat until it gets 2 late to meet? "

Or they have decided to meet someone else and are keeping their options open in case it gets cancelled last minute. I don't ever double book but I know some do.

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By *est-of-both OP   Couple
over a year ago

LEEDS

But it's a constant thing, like everyday

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I am confused.... They chat but don't want to meet? They chat and want to meet, but leave it too late? Everyone is different in how they use the site! And verifications can be hidden, so how do you know they don't meet?

And why should it be any concern of yours anyway?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"They never have any verifications and they just seem to prolong the chat until it gets 2 late to meet? "

I don't show all verifications because its my profile and I can chose to put what I want on there xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"But it's a constant thing, like everyday"

Remember people like to chat and that's all

It's their choice

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By *atisfy janeWoman
over a year ago

Torquay

Maybe they do want to meet....but just don't want to meet you?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Why do people do most of the things they do every day ??

Personal choice

We should stop questioning others motives and live our own lives , after all playing detective with others surely takes away the pleasure of chatting with people who will meet

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I had a free house a few weeks back and posted up for meets on each day . Lot of people contacted me but 99% were not what I was looking for . On 3 rd day I found 2 guys that I liked asked one to come over after swapping pics and chatting on phone . He didn't turn up the next night asked the other and he was the same . So in end I posted 7 meets and ended up meeting nun ! So does that make me an attention seeking !!!!

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By *he_original_poloWoman
over a year ago

a Primark shoebox in Leicester


"They never have any verifications and they just seem to prolong the chat until it gets 2 late to meet? "

Until it gats too late? Do you mean................ the end of the world is coming

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