FabSwingers.com forum: Was I wrong to?

By (user no longer on site) OP
17 weeks ago

So, 2 weeks ago I met a guy which I don’t usually do but he looked cute, was SINGLE and seemed nice when we chatted. Met in a bar, went to hotel and it went downhill from there. He turned into prick, wanted to dominate me, tried to push limits set and was generally mean. I grabbed my stuff and left - I knew there was a reason I don’t meet guys!

Anyway, this weekend I meet a couple, lovely wife who wants to surprise her husband on there anniversary. She turns up with the ‘single’ guy I met a few weeks ago. I didn’t say anything, but when she goes to loo to get changed he begs me to say nothing…..which I agree to, but let him now he shuts up, and agrees to anything I want in the meet……..

Well I peg him so hard he probably can’t sit down now, and gave him water sports to his mouth and face……but have amazing sex with her!

As she leaves she tells me in 3 years marriage she had no idea he was so sub and wanted it

So, should I have told her, and should I have done what I did to him (he def did not enjoy it - the pegging must have hurt bad and ws humiliated)?

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By *bi HaiveMan
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17 weeks ago

Cheeseville, Somerset

Sounds like a great plot for a porn flick. 👌👌

I'd have just left the second I saw him....but 🤷‍♂️🤷‍♂️

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By *heVonMatterhornsCouple
17 weeks ago

Lincoln

Great story. I'd be more inclined to believe any of it if you didn't steal "your" profile pictures from the internet 😉

LvM

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By *apascouseMan
17 weeks ago

Liverpool

"So, 2 weeks ago I met a guy which I don’t usually do but he looked cute, was SINGLE and seemed nice when we chatted. Met in a bar, went to hotel and it went downhill from there. He turned into prick, wanted to dominate me, tried to push limits set and was generally mean. I grabbed my stuff and left - I knew there was a reason I don’t meet guys!

Well I peg him so hard he probably can’t sit down now, and gave him water sports to his mouth and face……but have amazing sex with her!

As she leaves she tells me in 3 years marriage she had no idea he was so sub and wanted it

So, should I have told her, and should I have done what I did to him (he def did not enjoy it - the pegging must have hurt bad and ws humiliated)?"

I personally would have still told her when you left at the end, but im a cruel bastard

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By *orthern BeardMan
17 weeks ago

Preston

This is one hell of a story!!

Personally think he’s the one who was a prick on your first meet. Should have showed you far more respect than that.

Was he well verified?

I’m just round the corner from you if you fancy chatting to someone who won’t treat you like shit :p

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By *reyToTheFairiesWoman
17 weeks ago

Carlisle usually

I mean.

I think that consent gained through coercion and threat is not consent.

And I don't agree with doing anything sexual with people without informed and enthusiastic consent.

I'd have just told her 💜

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By *rsMistyPeaksWoman
17 weeks ago

Essex

Assault is just hilarious isn’t it?

Ffs.

I despair of this place

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By *orthern BeardMan
17 weeks ago

Preston

"Great story. I'd be more inclined to believe any of it if you didn't steal "your" profile pictures from the internet 😉

LvM"

Are we thinking of the same person? She looks similar to a well known fabber but likely a coincidence

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By *eeliciouschaosWoman
17 weeks ago

Wherever

So you agreed to “surprise” the husband without seeing his photo prior? 🤔

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By *ackformore100Man
17 weeks ago

Tin town

Well I peg him so hard he probably can’t sit down now, and gave him water sports to his mouth and face……but have amazing sex with her!

As she leaves she tells me in 3 years marriage she had no idea he was so sub and wanted it

So, should I have told her, and should I have done what I did to him (he def did not enjoy it - the pegging must have hurt bad and ws humiliated)?"

Why do you think you should she hurt him and knowing he didn't want pegging basically r*pe him? Isn't that sexual assault by any other name?

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By *heVonMatterhornsCouple
17 weeks ago

Lincoln

"Great story. I'd be more inclined to believe any of it if you didn't steal "your" profile pictures from the internet 😉

LvM

Are we thinking of the same person? She looks similar to a well known fabber but likely a coincidence "

I doubt it, I just did a reverse image search and found the same pictures in a few other places 😁

LvM

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By *idnightMuseWoman
17 weeks ago

Dreamville

I'll take "things that never happened" for 500, Alex

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By *ellinever70Woman
17 weeks ago

Ayrshire

The most amazing coincidences happen on fab

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By *lik and PaulCouple
17 weeks ago

cahoots

As I don't agree with cheating I would have just told the truth.

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By *iker JackMan
17 weeks ago

Wolverhampton

So to confirm you are telling us that you walked out when he did things to you that you did not want but then basically sexually assault him

And they say men are the predators and the ones in the wrong here

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By *ackformore100Man
17 weeks ago

Tin town

"So to confirm you are telling us that you walked out when he did things to you that you did not want but then basically sexually assault him

And they say men are the predators and the ones in the wrong here "

Yeah but she's got a vagina so it's OK.

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By *bi HaiveMan
Forum Mod
17 weeks ago

Cheeseville, Somerset

OP has left the room so I'm gonna close this now.

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