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"Ey up good folks 😃 The analogous anonymity bestowed upon us via online interaction may often serve to augment/‘boost’ many people’s natural confidence levels. Indeed and by way of verifying this point, how many folks simply walk up to random strangers in the street and immediately enquire if they would like to engage in relations of a carnal nature with them? In relation to the above, a simple question therefore my fine peeps: How confident are you in the ‘real world’ so to speak, as regards approaching and instigating communication with someone who has caught your eye? 🙂" I'm confident. But the thought of walking up to a random stranger in the street and asking if they'd like to fuck? I can imagine the reaction now. There's a major difference between making contact on a swingers website and approaching a complete stranger in a vanilla environment and discussing sex. I'd have assumed that was obvious, but maybe not......🤷♂️🤷♂️ | |||
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"Ey up good folks 😃 The analogous anonymity bestowed upon us via online interaction may often serve to augment/‘boost’ many people’s natural confidence levels. Indeed and by way of verifying this point, how many folks simply walk up to random strangers in the street and immediately enquire if they would like to engage in relations of a carnal nature with them? In relation to the above, a simple question therefore my fine peeps: How confident are you in the ‘real world’ so to speak, as regards approaching and instigating communication with someone who has caught your eye? 🙂 I'm confident. But the thought of walking up to a random stranger in the street and asking if they'd like to fuck? I can imagine the reaction now. There's a major difference between making contact on a swingers website and approaching a complete stranger in a vanilla environment and discussing sex. I'd have assumed that was obvious, but maybe not......🤷♂️🤷♂️" Of course; I imply the social act of simply approaching and subsequently breaking the proverbial ice with strangers as opposed to randomly propositioning them for sexual liaisons (which enters the murky waters of sexual harassment after all - and not something I’d ever advocate) | |||
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"Sadly, if you don't practice chatting with others you eventually loose confidence. Not just in the swingers world but normal vanilla interaction too. In short, you become socially inept. If you don't feel confident try chatting to people who will easily respond. We have just had a weekend away in Wales and we spoke to loads of folks on the beach who had a dog, ask what breed, how old, say how beautiful the dog is and then say have a lovely day with a big smile and a bye. It builds up your confidence in a fool proof arena. Most people we have found who are socially inept are generally sexually inept too. Both very sad. " I don’t appreciate being randomly approached by strangers in public. I know that is one of the pitfalls of dog ownership so I am mindful where I walk so I can enjoy my walk. It’s not that people are socially inept they may choose not to engage. I see many who are always on their phones while out and about it’s just the way society is these days. | |||
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"Sadly, if you don't practice chatting with others you eventually loose confidence. Not just in the swingers world but normal vanilla interaction too. In short, you become socially inept. If you don't feel confident try chatting to people who will easily respond. We have just had a weekend away in Wales and we spoke to loads of folks on the beach who had a dog, ask what breed, how old, say how beautiful the dog is and then say have a lovely day with a big smile and a bye. It builds up your confidence in a fool proof arena. Most people we have found who are socially inept are generally sexually inept too. Both very sad. I don’t appreciate being randomly approached by strangers in public. I know that is one of the pitfalls of dog ownership so I am mindful where I walk so I can enjoy my walk. It’s not that people are socially inept they may choose not to engage. I see many who are always on their phones while out and about it’s just the way society is these days. " If you don't wish to engage that's fine. Just out of curiosity, how would you react if I came up to you and patted your dog and said hello? I do believe people who choose not to have social engagement would eventually become socially inept, we are social animals and need engagement. I agree some need or in my case have to become proficient at engagement due to my job, some like it more than others. But this is a swingers site and I would have thought the majority of folks on here want, eventually, to meet. But we have met a few people who are extremely vocal in the forums but in real life no so much. I love chatting to folks, especially interesting people. Have fun. Liz. | |||
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"Iv said faf to many women most slap me cos they think i called em fat" Wow. You do need a bit more practice. | |||
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"Iv said faf to many women most slap me cos they think i called em fat Wow. You do need a bit more practice. " | |||
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