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By *ensualfling OP   Man
18 weeks ago

SW

I am intrigued….. and enjoy the fact that so many people are having fun….. but I am surprised by the fact that it’s almost all men looking at my profile, I don’t particularly mind, but most say they are straight. I don’t spend any time looking at male profiles, it’s not what I am into, and apparently it’s not what they are into a lot of the time…… so it surprises me the amount it’s happening

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By *ainyDaySunshineMan
18 weeks ago

Ayrshire

Don't let it bother you. This place is a total sausage fest and I'm not into the salami. Like the Ghostbusters we should never cross the streams!

Seriously though it's the same with myself. Other dudes seem to look at the profile while the ladies don't read or appear to have the capability to respond to a mail even to say they think I look like the penguin out of Batman.

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By (user no longer on site)
18 weeks ago

I took a look at your pics....10 pics in and half contain females so maybe that's what men are looking at

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By *lowupdollTV/TS
18 weeks ago

Herts/Beds/Lomdon


"Don't let it bother you. This place is a total sausage fest and I'm not into the salami. Like the Ghostbusters we should never cross the streams!

Seriously though it's the same with myself. Other dudes seem to look at the profile while the ladies don't read or appear to have the capability to respond to a mail even to say they think I look like the penguin out of Batman.

"

Your status I would suggest

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By *ffervescentMan
18 weeks ago

winfrith


"I am intrigued….. and enjoy the fact that so many people are having fun….. but I am surprised by the fact that it’s almost all men looking at my profile, I don’t particularly mind, but most say they are straight. I don’t spend any time looking at male profiles, it’s not what I am into, and apparently it’s not what they are into a lot of the time…… so it surprises me the amount it’s happening "
maybe the pressed on it by mistake easy done on the phone or in cam room

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By *ffervescentMan
18 weeks ago

winfrith


"I am intrigued….. and enjoy the fact that so many people are having fun….. but I am surprised by the fact that it’s almost all men looking at my profile, I don’t particularly mind, but most say they are straight. I don’t spend any time looking at male profiles, it’s not what I am into, and apparently it’s not what they are into a lot of the time…… so it surprises me the amount it’s happening maybe they pressed on it by mistake easy done on the phone or in cam room "
they

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By *eordieJeansCouple
18 weeks ago

Newcastle upon Tyne

You use the forums so it’s probably just people looking at the man behind the comments. I look at men’s profiles all the time when using the forums. It doesn’t mean I want to suck them off.

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By *lowupdollTV/TS
18 weeks ago

Herts/Beds/Lomdon


"You use the forums so it’s probably just people looking at the man behind the comments. I look at men’s profiles all the time when using the forums. It doesn’t mean I want to suck them off."

This 👆

*though sometimes I do want to suck them off. Maybe.

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By *ulieScrumptiousWoman
18 weeks ago

North West

Most women/couples use ninja mode so they don't show on 'who's looked at me'. It stops the "Like what you see?" messages.

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple
18 weeks ago

Leeds

As Julie said above, we've looked but you wouldn't know.

As you've women in your pics they are probably looking at that.

Mrs

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By *rimson_RoseWoman
18 weeks ago

Tamworth


"Don't let it bother you. This place is a total sausage fest and I'm not into the salami. Like the Ghostbusters we should never cross the streams!

Seriously though it's the same with myself. Other dudes seem to look at the profile while the ladies don't read or appear to have the capability to respond to a mail even to say they think I look like the penguin out of Batman.

"

We don’t know that your messages are worth replying to. But would you enjoy replying to a couple of hundred messages a day saying no thanks? And dealing with the fallout back from many of those?

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By *rimson_RoseWoman
18 weeks ago

Tamworth


"I took a look at your pics....10 pics in and half contain females so maybe that's what men are looking at"

Exactly. Provide them with free porn and they will come.

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By *urry BlokeMan
18 weeks ago

Stalybridge

I look at straight blokes all the time

Never message them though

It's a respect thing

However, I'd say a good 60-70% of messages I get are from blokes listed as straight 🤷

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By *iker JackMan
18 weeks ago

Wolverhampton

The title of this thread is

Intrigue/concern

Why are you so concerned?

What is that concerns you with it?

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple
18 weeks ago

Leeds


"Don't let it bother you. This place is a total sausage fest and I'm not into the salami. Like the Ghostbusters we should never cross the streams!

Seriously though it's the same with myself. Other dudes seem to look at the profile while the ladies don't read or appear to have the capability to respond to a mail even to say they think I look like the penguin out of Batman.

"

Some messages aren't worth the time responding too it doesn't mean they aren't capable nor that they can't read.

If the guys read up on the rules although I'm not sure capability would allow since most can't read a profile you'd see that No reply = no thank you.

Mrs

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By *eroLondonMan
18 weeks ago

Mayfair


"...but I am surprised by the fact that it’s almost all men looking at my profile"

The men outnumber the women on here and therefore there's a higher likelihood of that happening, whatever the reason.

For example, they probably wish to look at your verifications, or glean inspiration on how to refine their profile etc.


"...but most say they are straight. I don’t spend any time looking at male profiles"

Those who aren't straight won't know that you're straight until they look at your profile.

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By *MisschiefxTV/TS
18 weeks ago

London

You've made your profile for the male gaze, not surprising men are looking

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By *hil most chillMan
18 weeks ago

South East & Europe

Just wait until you get a veri displayed on a hot woman's profile, your views go through the roof! Your messages stay at zero though, because it's just more guys looking at you

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By *hil most chillMan
18 weeks ago

South East & Europe


"You've made your profile for the male gaze, not surprising men are looking"

Lol this comment made me look! Yeah a lot of cock and bum, not surprised the boys are all over it

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By *ou only live onceMan
18 weeks ago

London

I've looked. Twice now, in fact. No need to be concerned. People look at profiles. Not much else to it.

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By *uke OzadeMan
18 weeks ago

Ho Chi Minge City

They’re just checking out the vag you’re shoving your wiener into

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By *isurreyguy2019Man
18 weeks ago

surrey

Without looking at someones profile you don't know what they are looking for or if they are bi or straight unless the user name gives a hint.

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