FabSwingers.com forum: People you know IRL

By *rock1610 OP Man
9 weeks ago

Birmingham

Is it acceptable to message someone you recognise on here ? Or does it come across as weird?

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By *otThatBigMan
9 weeks ago

Here

If it’s your mum it’s definitely weird

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By *rock1610 OP Man
9 weeks ago

Birmingham

No really? Would never have thunk it

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By *bi HaiveMan
Forum Mod
9 weeks ago

Cheeseville, Somerset

"Is it acceptable to message someone you recognise on here ? Or does it come across as weird?"

I'd rather people didn't.

If I bump into someone at an event or club that's different and I'll cross that bridge there and then.

But online? No. It's called discretion.

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By *oo..Woman
9 weeks ago

Boo's World

Block and move on!

Never message or mention it to them in person either.

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By *eroLondonMan
9 weeks ago

Mayfair

She's ^ right. Block/Ignore and move on.

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By *reyToTheFairiesWoman
9 weeks ago

Carlisle usually

Most of my friends know I'm on here.

If I saw a real world acquaintance, I'd probably block them to save making anyone feel awkward if I knew that wasn't going to be something I wanted to get involved with.

Or I'd leave it alone and if I happened to see them somewhere suitable I'd mention fab in front of them, and if they panicked I'd go block them.

My workmate tried the casually mentioning fab in a conversation with me. He was attractive and not a weird creep about it. So I took him to his first club 💜

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By *usty kayWoman
9 weeks ago

Burnham

I've read these threads a few times and it seems I am in the minority but I'd much rather know if someone recognises me.

But I take precautions with my profile so hopefully it's not obvious who I am.

I used to have face pics visible but then I got a public facing job and I can't think of anything worse than someone in rl knowing my secrets and me having no idea.

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By *atnip make me purrWoman
9 weeks ago

Reading

Weird

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By *midnight-Woman
9 weeks ago

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God no.. Beyond weird

Block, delete, move on

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By *r Simon TemplerMan
9 weeks ago

Blackpool North Shore

Seems I often pass the owners of club play in the area I live, eyes meet as I pass with bag of shopping from the co-op, recognize them from the profile photos.

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