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By *oxerjoshlee OP   Man
over a year ago

Sheffield

Only two days ago I was moaning about how I get no messages and then last night I get two messages from two couples wanting to meet immediately. One couple even said I had two hours from arriving to do the deed and then was to leave.

Call me old fashioned but this just seems so cold and a recipe for disaster. It amazed me that they didn't want to know anything about me other than how big my cock is! Obviously I politely declined.

I appreciate everyone has their own rules for how they do things but just wondered what everyone elses views are? Am I just a bit uptight?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Last sunday morning i had a couple ask to meet me straight away, as i was out the night before i was full of hangover horn, i was at their door within an hour. It was exactly what i needed at the time, just straight in, down to business and away again with a great big smile on my face

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

like clubs..no one just walks in and gets down to sex straight away.

they chat and socialise..build up to having fun etc if they feel have connection with peeps and get on.

I dont feel it should be any different if meet in person at home.

Some on here though seem to think its all about the sex..yet those who are what i call true swingers..socialise and make friends..good aquaintances on the scene, which then leads to good sex.

but mixture of people on here and way they meet varies in so many ways...so we all have look about

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By *reelove1969Couple
over a year ago

bristol

doesn't sound right to me either but each to their own I guess. At least they were straight to the point I guess and you were able to immediately rule them out as 'your type' I guess

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum


"Obviously I politely declined."

Jeez, single men moan if they don't get meet requests, now they moan if they do!

It really does depend on my mood, time of day, what free time I have, but sometimes the 'drop of a hat' meets are the best!

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By *oxerjoshlee OP   Man
over a year ago

Sheffield


"Last sunday morning i had a couple ask to meet me straight away, as i was out the night before i was full of hangover horn, i was at their door within an hour. It was exactly what i needed at the time, just straight in, down to business and away again with a great big smile on my face "

I'm just a wet blanket I guess haha

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By *issHottieBottieWoman
over a year ago

Kent


"Last sunday morning i had a couple ask to meet me straight away, as i was out the night before i was full of hangover horn, i was at their door within an hour. It was exactly what i needed at the time, just straight in, down to business and away again with a great big smile on my face

I'm just a wet blanket I guess haha"

Fair play to you for not just running round there if that isn't your style. I'm the same, meet now type meets aren't for me but I asked a similar question a while back to the forum and it does work well for some. Maybe I'd be more daring if I didn't have to organise sitters etc. x

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By *un_JuiceCouple
over a year ago

Nr Chester

Horses for courses and maybe the direct approach suits all parties. Not our style we'd find no satisfaction being so clinical. We've heard some shocking stories from singles. No wonder so many fems don't meet couples

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By *rtemisiaWoman
over a year ago

Norwich


"Only two days ago I was moaning about how I get no messages and then last night I get two messages from two couples wanting to meet immediately. One couple even said I had two hours from arriving to do the deed and then was to leave.

Call me old fashioned but this just seems so cold and a recipe for disaster. It amazed me that they didn't want to know anything about me other than how big my cock is! Obviously I politely declined.

I appreciate everyone has their own rules for how they do things but just wondered what everyone elses views are? Am I just a bit uptight? "

No, you're not uptight, but I guess your reaction to their invitation has told you a little more about what you need from this site ... No strings doesn't have to mean no heart and no soul, so stick with it until you find what you want.

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By *B9 QueenWoman
over a year ago

Over the rainbow, under the bridge

I hate those drop everything and drop your knickers requests.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Had a few last minute meets, including at least one with no talking at all before playing - loved it.

On the flip side have had some meets where the socialising has gone so well we've felt like old friends and then moving on to play has felt awkward.

I don't think there are hard and fast rules, just what's right at the time and whether everyone feels the same.

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By *oxerjoshlee OP   Man
over a year ago

Sheffield


"I hate those drop everything and drop your knickers requests."
who told you about me wearing knickers? Who you been talking to??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I want to get to know the person or people I am meeting. Call me old fashioned but if no click it won't work.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I hate those drop everything and drop your knickers requests. who told you about me wearing knickers? Who you been talking to?? "

Pmsl

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By *riendly foeWoman
over a year ago

In a crisp poke on the A814

Not being uptight at all....

Why should it be any different for the single guys!

Gotta love the ones that think you sitting here waiting for the pubs to close and the d*unks to mail you saying "meet me now"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Not being uptight at all....

Why should it be any different for the single guys!

Gotta love the ones that think you sitting here waiting for the pubs to close and the d*unks to mail you saying "meet me now" "

at this time in the morning!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We've had a couple of meets like that and they've been fine - it's sometimes good to get something when you're least expecting it

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