FabSwingers.com forum: Is fantasy and dirty talk a thing of the past ?

By *rettCool OP Man
9 weeks ago

Dunfermline

Just wondering if it's still a thing

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By *usyBusyGirlWoman
9 weeks ago

Birmingham

Yes absolutely

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By *izzy.miss.lizzyCouple
9 weeks ago

Pembrokeshire

fantasy dead? maybe, not our thing... but dirty talk... now you're talking!

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By *rettCool OP Man
9 weeks ago

Dunfermline

Glad someone is still enjoying it

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By *reyToTheFairiesWoman
9 weeks ago

Carlisle usually

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By *reyToTheFairiesWoman
9 weeks ago

Carlisle usually

I don't care for fantasy. But a little dirty talk with the right people is amazing 💜

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By *r Cheeky cheekyMan
9 weeks ago

essex

With the art of conversation being slowly lost it has affected these magical moments.

I used to write erotic stories just for bi women it was Great.

Along with that lovely dirty phone sex for an hour or more.

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By *r Cheeky cheekyMan
9 weeks ago

essex

"fantasy dead? maybe, not our thing... but dirty talk... now you're talking!"
Brilliant a couple that are in Tune x

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By *aomilatteCouple
9 weeks ago

Midlands

We're partial

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By *r Cheeky cheekyMan
9 weeks ago

essex

"We're partial

Great keep it up

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By *8on33Man
9 weeks ago

winfrith

yes absolutely a thing of the past

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By *ewbootsandpanties99Man
9 weeks ago

Darkest South East Surrey

Absolutely, to both.

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By *ellinever70Woman
9 weeks ago

Ayrshire

I think people grow out of getting off on it with internet strangers

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By *olfandtazCouple
9 weeks ago

Bristol

We still dirty talk between us

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By *rimson_RoseWoman
9 weeks ago

Tamworth

Can safely say, no.

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By *entfootloverMan
9 weeks ago

Sevenoaks

It does seem like it. Vanity and monetisation of sex have taken their place.

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By *ittlebirdWoman
9 weeks ago

The Big Smoke

With my person… yes.

On the bus… no

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By *r Cheeky cheekyMan
9 weeks ago

essex

"We still dirty talk between us "
Brilliant

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By *lderflower_AppleWoman
9 weeks ago

Basingstoke

With someone I've connected with, absolutely! With a total stranger... Nah, that leaves me cold.

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By *herry delightWoman
9 weeks ago

Ilfracombe

Dirty talk seems to be a thing of the past unfortunately.

Come on guys where's your dirty talk?

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By *searchingMan
9 weeks ago

hmmm

"With someone I've connected with, absolutely! With a total stranger... Nah, that leaves me cold."

This is so very true. As you get to know someone it can be a natural evolution. Finding that common ground can be very inspiring

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By (user no longer on site)
9 weeks ago

I love to talk dirty a little, but typically only with people who I've gotten to know.

As for fantasy, sure that's okay if we never plan on meeting. I find the build up often doesn't play out the same in person. Partly due to me, being honest. ADHD doesn't always let me do exactly what I want, even fully in the moment. 😅

But I laugh about it these days. It's quite ridiculous at times lol.

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By *r Cheeky cheekyMan
9 weeks ago

essex

"Dirty talk seems to be a thing of the past unfortunately.

Come on guys where's your dirty talk?

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you've either got it and in tune or haven't I love giving it.

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By (user no longer on site)
9 weeks ago

Think it all depends on the mood and how horny people are

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By * F 2018Couple
9 weeks ago

shropshire

"Just wondering if it's still a thing "

Definitely

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By *hagTakeWellCouple
9 weeks ago

Swindon

I love dirty talk but many have never learned the art. Fantasy everyone has one but do they share it?

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By *r Cheeky cheekyMan
9 weeks ago

essex

"Just wondering if it's still a thing

Definitely

I love it Always have done

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By *r Cheeky cheekyMan
9 weeks ago

essex

"I love dirty talk but many have never learned the art. Fantasy everyone has one but do they share it?"

You are right there is an art to it.

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By *oubleswing2019Man
9 weeks ago

Colchester

Used to when we were younger, but not these days.

I do occasionally with another (f) playmate (fwb), but it's more "scene direction" than steamy pre-scene chat in advance.

I have done some pre-meet steamy chat (from a directed viewpoint) with another (m) playmate, and that was nice for both of us.

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By *arlequin_tearsMan
9 weeks ago

Sheffield

We all gave fantasies

Some folks roleplay.

Dirty talk during as well as phone sex, sexting etc still totally things.

Words can be very powerful magic.

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By *rishlad88Man
9 weeks ago

Co Dublin

"Just wondering if it's still a thing

Definitely

I'm in

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By *AYENCouple
9 weeks ago

Lincolnshire

When you get to know someone in real life chatting about fantasies is great, but chatting with randoms on fab - a total turn off. K.

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By *umfun24Man
9 weeks ago

wilmslow

I like written messages back and too that escalate. Almost like a racket sport, each rally becomes more open, more revealing and more exciting.

But I’m not hugely comfortable with dirty talk. I feel self conscious and insincere, but I have experienced a moment, a single word from a woman who I knew well, and had never known her swear in any way, a rather loud, but semi suppressed “FUCK!!!” As she came, was genuinely wonderful. I suppose, as with most things in life, sincerity is the key.

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By *entfootloverMan
9 weeks ago

Sevenoaks

"I love dirty talk but many have never learned the art. Fantasy everyone has one but do they share it?"

Good point. It is an art. And many on here don't seem to have time for it.

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By *reative-mindMan
9 weeks ago

Exeter

"With my person… yes.

On the bus… no"

Not even if there isn't a seat when you get on said bus?

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By *oiluvfunMan
9 weeks ago

Penrith

"Just wondering if it's still a thing "

Most of the people in Fab are fantasists….

I talk dirty with established friends, it keeps the sexy pot simmering away, and builds anticipation to our next meet…

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By *lowupdollTV/TS
9 weeks ago

Herts

‘This bag comes in 3 colours’

Oh stop it…

‘Inside pocket with a zip y’

Filthy bitc

‘30% off today..’

Sorry I just need to hsve a wank and I’ll be back.

I get it. I sooo get it.

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By *vaRose43Woman
9 weeks ago

Forest of Dean

I can safely say no

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By *r Mrs FuckableCouple
9 weeks ago

Stoke

"I can safely say no

Me too, it's very cheesy! 😏

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By (user no longer on site)
9 weeks ago

Love engaging in dirty talk or talking to others about their fantasy's

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By *reative-mindMan
9 weeks ago

Exeter

"‘This bag comes in 3 colours’

Oh stop it…

‘Inside pocket with a zip y’

Filthy bitc

‘30% off today..’

Sorry I just need to hsve a wank and I’ll be back.

I get it. I sooo get it. "

Fuck sake now I've got a semi....

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By *leaner upMan
9 weeks ago

Drogheda

Love dirty talk and verbal abuse

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By *rPunxMan
9 weeks ago

Hull

Absolutely love it. But I think face to face conversations are being killed off by mobile phones and the Internet. Also this fear of being labelled 'a creep' nowadays is limiting sexy chat whereas all this simping and self entitled princess mentally is taking over.

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By *rPunxMan
9 weeks ago

Hull

Never been anything wrong with harmless flirting. (It's meant to be a fucking compliment) maybe I'm just too old and remember a world where social interaction was OK and how people actually met

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By *urvyGalNorfolkWoman
9 weeks ago

East Norfolk

I love exploring fantasies with others… love learning about what they fantasise about and what I can do to ‘fuel’ them.

I’ve learnt a lot about myself from talking to others about what they’re into, as it may open new kinks, new ideas etc…

Fantasy and dirty talk is most definitely still alive and well in my little corner of the world

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By *he Silver FuxMan
9 weeks ago

Uttoxeter

Certainly not - fucking a delicious sexy woman at the weekend who orgasmed at being called a dirty whore

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By *ou only live onceMan
9 weeks ago

London

"Never been anything wrong with harmless flirting. (It's meant to be a fucking compliment) maybe I'm just too old and remember a world where social interaction was OK and how people actually met"

Maybe I'm too old, but I see quite a big difference between harmless flirting and dirty/fantasy talk.

I also don't think conversation is being killed by mobile phones, but that's maybe a separate thread.

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By *ang average41Man
9 weeks ago

Chatham

Love descriptive fantasy sharing, anyone? Lol! Drop me a message

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By *rPunxMan
9 weeks ago

Hull

"Never been anything wrong with harmless flirting. (It's meant to be a fucking compliment) maybe I'm just too old and remember a world where social interaction was OK and how people actually met

Maybe I'm too old, but I see quite a big difference between harmless flirting and dirty/fantasy talk.

I also don't think conversation is being killed by mobile phones, but that's maybe a separate thread."
well your totally entitled to your opinion. But as a smoker I remember 20 years ago people used to have a smoke on their break and talk and discuss all sorts of topics, now they occasionally look up from their phones to show the person next to a meme or some porn.

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By (user no longer on site)
9 weeks ago

Dirty talk fine but rather turn fantasy into reality that would be much more fun

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By *r Cheeky cheekyMan
9 weeks ago

essex

"I love exploring fantasies with others… love learning about what they fantasise about and what I can do to ‘fuel’ them.

I’ve learnt a lot about myself from talking to others about what they’re into, as it may open new kinks, new ideas etc… Definitely a real woman who's in Tune body and mind x

Fantasy and dirty talk is most definitely still alive and well in my little corner of the world "
Definitely a real woman who in Tune body and mind

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By *iss_Juicy79Woman
9 weeks ago

Edinburgh

It is but I can't do it I just say swear words or I'll ask for harder or ask him to fuck me etc

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By *ohnashtonMan
9 weeks ago

consett

My gf still loves to talk dirty while we play together, love it. X

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By *oupleSeducedCouple
9 weeks ago

Canterbury/Greenwich

Dirty talk indeed

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By *hunky GentMan
9 weeks ago

Maldon and Peterborough

I do like to partake in such exquisite activities with the ladies.

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By *opinovMan
9 weeks ago

Point Nemo, Cumbria

It depends entirely on the person I'm with and what we're doing, and the nature of the talk.

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By *r Cheeky cheekyMan
9 weeks ago

essex

"Dirty talk indeed"
double thumbs up love it love giving it x

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By (user no longer on site)
9 weeks ago

It’ll never die off. As long as us kinky bastards keep it going.

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By *r Cheeky cheekyMan
9 weeks ago

essex

Keep it going keep it coming

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